Expert: Hallie - 5/3/2004

Question
im 20 and im not sure if i like grls, im always looking at them sexually, and my friend happen to leave the bathroom door open once and i looked and watched her shower and i really like what i saw, is this the first stage

Answer
i dont really know if you are a lesbian or not, you could be bi. If you feel something inside you when you see girls then it is possible you are a lesbian but if you just like looking at them then it isnt anything serious. Being a lesbian means you want to have a relationship with a girl, like you would with a guy so if you feel that then you may be bi. if you dont feel that way then you probably arent gay. You just need to wait and see as this could just be a phase or if it gets worse. Whatever happens you dont need to worry because it doesnt really matter.
i hope i have helped. write back if you want to talk more.
luv ya. xxx