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| my "niece" is bisexual | 7/20/2008 |
Q: I'm sorry if I sound kind of confused but my 15 yr old niece Emily says she is bisexual...she says ...
A: I think it is extemly sweet of you to be so concerned about your niece. I can understand how you ...
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| I have no courage.. | 7/12/2008 |
Q: Basically i have moments where i believe im gay and moments when i think im straight. Im 16 and i ...
A: I am sorry that everything is so confusing for you. Yes it is true that sexuality is confusing and ...
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| help | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Ok hi, I'm 13 and i think i'm bi but idk...i havent came out to my family/frends yet and i really ...
A: I think that if you really want to come out to your family, you should. Especially if you think your ...
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| Am I bi? | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Hi I was wondering how do you know if your bi or not? Can you ever really know or do you have to ...
A: Yes, many people know whether they are bisexual or not even if they have not had sex with a member ...
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| Lesbian relationship | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Okay, so i already know i am gay. this was a recent discovery. Anyway one of my best friends is also ...
A: It is natural to feel jealousness toward a possibly rival in your love affairs, but I don't think ...
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| Am I bi or not? | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Sometimes, I feel as if I am in denial about being bi and right when I'm postivly sure I am, I think ...
A: It is perfectly fine to be confused about your sexuality. I do have a little advice that I tell ...
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| confused, hurt, and just lost a friend | 7/9/2008 |
Q: ok. im 14 years old and last year i was at a new school starting it in 8th grade. i made a few ...
A: I'm sorry about this immense confusion you feel over this problem. It is really hard, especially ...
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| am i bi or just curious? | 7/8/2008 |
Q: OK, i think i started being curious about girls when i met my friend Laura when i was about, say, ...
A: Hey Lizzi, Unfortunately Lizzi, I can't tell you whether you are bi or curious. That is a task that ...
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| please help! Confused? | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I am Kate, I am 13 years old. This is kind of embarrassing, but lately I've been thinking a lot ...
A: It is perfectly fine to be thinking about girls and liking it. Liking girls doesn't necessarily mean ...
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| am i gay/bi? | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I am in love with a girl but i find thinking of her doesent get me sexually exited i look at female ...
A: Hey Tom, Yes, age does play a big factor into sexuality. Although I hate to say it, being so young ...
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| relationship problem or is it just me. | 7/7/2008 |
Q: i have been kinda off and on with this girl at my work named kari and it started off great and cute ...
A: Considering all of your fights and such, I personally think that this relationship is going to be ...
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| I have a crush on my friend. | 7/7/2008 |
Q: I have a crush on my best friend. I've liked her for a very long time...since we first met. Shes ...
A: Considering the fact that your friend is straight, I do think it would be better for your mental ...
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| am i gay/bi? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: I am in love with a girl but i find thinking of her doesent get me sexually exited i look at female ...
A: Hey Tom, Well, some people are just turned on by kinky porn. I think you should try to fantasize ...
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| iM lOST | 7/5/2008 |
Q: I have always wanted to kiss a girl and eat her out or play with her, but does that mean im a ...
A: A lot of people are confused by their sexual attractions. If you feel like you'd rather be with a ...
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| what do I do? | 6/22/2008 |
Q: about a year to two years ago i discovered that i'm bi. i had a major crush on this girl [major ...
A: Crushes on bestfriends most of the time are the most difficult to deal with. Love however, doesn't ...
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| Trying to take the first step, but my foot's stuck in glue... | 6/20/2008 |
Q: My best friend and I are both bisexual and either of us have come out to anyone but eachother. ...
A: Considering the fact that you are best friends with this girl, and you feel like your friendship ...
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| boyfriend issue | 6/20/2008 |
Q: I first realized i was bisexual at the age of 12, When i told my dad he told me he figured that out ...
A: Well, I think you should talk to your boyfriend. Tell him exactly how you feel. No offense, but your ...
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| confused? | 6/20/2008 |
Q: hey lisa :) sorry if this is to long well ok this only has happened in the last few weeks. and i ...
A: If I were you, I would wait until you are indeed friends with her on facebook. That way you can see ...
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| family | 6/18/2008 |
Q: So, I'm gay and my mom and grandma and friends know it and they are completely ok with it! But my ...
A: Well, a good time to tell anyone that you are gay is when you have them alone, sitting down in a ...
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| confused | 6/14/2008 |
Q: i am a girl and have always been attracted to guys. i still am. but a little bit of last year and a ...
A: Even if your friend is homophobic, that doesn't mean that you can't be bisexual (if you are even ...
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| Relationships | 6/12/2008 |
Q: My name is Roxanne, I'm 18, a lesbian, and am in love. I came out 3 years ago but have been gay for ...
A: Some people, even if they respect your decision to be lesbian, will not ever find girls attractive. ...
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| How do i come out to my Dad | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I'm only 13 years old and know one at my school is gay or lesbian so i have no one to ask,My dad is ...
A: Considering the fact that your father has threatened to beat you and kick you out of the house, I ...
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| i want it to stop...but i dont | 6/9/2008 |
Q: im amanda and im 14 and i'm lesbian/bi (i haven't figured that out yet) but i dont want to be. ...
A: I am also a Christian, but I think that if you feel something in your heart and mind that it can't ...
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| confusion. | 6/9/2008 |
Q: im a good believer in chrsit and i want to stay absinent till marrige but my friend and i want to go ...
A: I am also Christian, but I don't think that just because you are a believer in God that means you ...
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| Coming Out | 6/8/2008 |
Q: My name is Skyler and i am having a hard time with coming out. I am getting the feeling where i want ...
A: Coming out is tough for everyone. Being outed at school by someone who doesn't like you is even ...
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| ??? | 6/8/2008 |
Q: I'm pretty sure I'm gay (I'm only attracted to girls and can picture myself only in a lesbian ...
A: I don't think you have to be in a relationship before you know your sexuality. How many tons of ...
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| Being matched up with another girl by friends | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm a 15 year old bisexual freshman and I've never dated anyone, and one of my friends offered to ...
A: Well, I don't think inviting this girl over and having her meet your parents on the first date would ...
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| Being matched up with another girl by friends | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm a 15 year old bisexual freshman and I've never dated anyone, and one of my friends offered to ...
A: Dating, no matter who it is with, is stressful. Going to a movie is always a good first date. The ...
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| Gay or not? | 6/5/2008 |
Q: Theres this guy at my school who i really like but dont know if he is gay or not. Theres another ...
A: Since this kid is popular and well known throughout your school, he could possibly be gay and hiding ...
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| I'm Confused. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: So I have been with the same girl for more than a year and eight months. In high school land, that ...
A: I don't know what else to say but to try and explain it to your girlfriend. Breaking up, even for a ...
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| am i bi or lesbian? | 6/5/2008 |
Q: is sexuality determined by who you love, who you are physically attracted to, or who you would have ...
A: In my personal opinion, sexuality is determined on who you like. I decided my own sexuality based on ...
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| am i | 6/4/2008 |
Q: i dont know what to do am i a lesbain and should i tell her my feelings
A: No matter how older or how young your teacher is, I highly recommend not pursuing your interest in ...
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| I'm Confused. | 6/3/2008 |
Q: So I have been with the same girl for more than a year and eight months. In high school land, that ...
A: I'm glad you love this girl, and if she loves you back then she should understand your situation. I ...
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| HELP PLZ | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I am 16 years old and i am a bisexual and I am not sure how to come out and tell my family. I need ...
A: Coming out is really hard. If you think that your parents will be accepting towards you and treat ...
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| .. | 5/31/2008 |
Q: the other night i saw my friend naked so i went en kissed her she was fine then pulled her pants ...
A: Well, I think that if you're mother is homophobic or would be disturbed by your news of having a ...
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| i think i'm in love with my best friend | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I have had a best friend for about 4 years. We are connected at the hip and are basically sisters. ...
A: Just because you like (maybe even love) your friend, it doesn't mean you are lesbian. You could be, ...
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| My first girl crush, but unsure of how to go about this. | 5/28/2008 |
Q: Ok, I'm a girl, and I've got a crush on my friend. We're pretty close friends but she's friends ...
A: Your message was not long at all! The more information, the easier it is to answer. Judging by the ...
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| parents disagree about being gay | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I have always been raised to be myself and I could be anything that I want to be, but I had just ...
A: Unfortunately, no matter how open minded you have been raised, a lot of parents are not as open ...
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| should i come out? | 5/26/2008 |
Q: my name is Aleicia i am 16 years old and a lesbian. my life is beyond weird i have tried to kill ...
A: I don't really think that mental institutions work all that well for teenagers dealing with ...
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| How can I tell my parents I'm bi? | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I've had sexual feelings for girls since the fifth grade, and I'm about to go into the ninth grade. ...
A: Personally, from the way you put it in your question, I don't think that now would be an opportune ...
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| Now what...? | 5/23/2008 |
Q: For over a year, I had an online relationship with a girl from another country. It was truly amazing ...
A: Everyone's sexual orientation is for them to decide. No one, not even your mother, can tell you if ...
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| shy lesbian? | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if there was anyway to tell if a shy tomboyish lesbian likes you? I dunno if this is ...
A: Hey Channig, I defiantly think that this girl is interested in you. Whether or not that interest is ...
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| Does She Like Me? | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 14 years old and I'm lesbian. I came out of the closet last year to a friend who totally ...
A: Hey Emmy, I think your friend, even if she is bi or lesbian, doesn't accept it for herself. Even if ...
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| shy lesbian? | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if there was anyway to tell if a shy tomboyish lesbian likes you? I dunno if this is ...
A: Hey Channig, Well, good signs to look for when you think someone likes you (whether they be a shy ...
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| i+dont+know+what+to+do.. | 5/16/2008 |
Q: +well+i+have+came+out+to+my++mom+that+i'm+bi++on+tuesday+she+was+upset+she+started+to+yell+and+she+s ...
A: Hey Teresa, Coming out seems to be one of the biggest problems for teens especially. It takes ...
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| So, I'm not exactly sure what I'm supposed to do now.... | 5/12/2008 |
Q: Well, I'm 14. I have be aware of my sexuality for about 2 years. Um, I have been growing up in a ...
A: Hey Sarah, It seems like your parents are a little (a lot actually) homophobic. I think it's going ...
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| alittle help | 5/9/2008 |
Q: okay since i was little i was attracted to girls but i only done stuff with guys even today but now ...
A: Hey Janie, Well I don't really know what your asking here. Are you wondering what to do with these ...
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| Oral | 5/9/2008 |
Q: Im an 18 yr old girl. I like to receive oral sex alot. When I was wih my ex I wanted it atleast once ...
A: Hey Madie, It sounds like your looking for someone who is willing to have sex daily. Once a day can ...
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| do i have a chance? | 5/7/2008 |
Q: there's this real cute grl who im working on a project wit... how do i make a move and let her know ...
A: Hey Michelle, Well, I can't really answer your question with so little information on this girl. Is ...
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| School friend | 5/6/2008 |
Q: hey lisa! I'm sixteen and I think I'm bi, but haven't came out to anyone. I've only had boyfriends ...
A: Hey Alison, I was reading up on http://lesbianlife.about.com/ and I found a page that might help ...
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| idk if im bi | 5/6/2008 |
Q: My names Marie Well how do i start i dont know yet if im bi im pretty sure but i..... dont know i ...
A: Is it really a problem if people don't believe your bi? You shouldn't have to prove yourself to ...
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| School friend | 5/5/2008 |
Q: hey lisa! I'm sixteen and I think I'm bi, but haven't came out to anyone. I've only had boyfriends ...
A: Ah, the inevitable straight girl crush. I feel for you my friend, it is something that we all go ...
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| lesbian? | 5/4/2008 |
Q: How do I know if I'm a lesbian? I mean, I masturbate, and I've never had a boyfriend. Am I a ...
A: Hey Becca, Being lesbian is when you exclusively like girls. Do you only like girls? I know plenty ...
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| plese help | 4/30/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old guy, good looking fit etc. Well the problem is I have always liked the most ...
A: Hey, Sexuality is a funny thing. A lot of people suggest that it is fluid and changes over time. My ...
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