| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Coming out | 11/18/2009 |
Q: bi and I'm just coming out of the closet. I am really scared of what people aroud me would think of ...
A: Hey Anabela, I would personally advise that you try your best to move on from this crush. I know it ...
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| Coming Out | 11/17/2009 |
Q: I am a 12 year old male. My name is Liam and I live in central Texas. Almost everyone were I live is ...
A: Hey Liam, Firstly, well done on coming out to people so far. Secondly, if you are coming out but ...
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| Has the meaning of "That's gay." changed? | 11/15/2009 |
Q: I work with teens who have Asperger's in a social group. I have never tolerated negative comments ...
A: Hey Lillian, Technically no. People say it about objects but it can still be seen as an offensive ...
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| Oh man | 10/26/2009 |
Q: .. I'm just having trouble meeting girls that are bi or lesbian or if I do meet sum1 I become ...
A: Hey Vanessa, Don't worry about coming out yet. If you are happy with your sexuality yourself, and ...
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| IM so confused i need advice dont want to talk to my parents you seem like the right person | 10/21/2009 |
Q: .. im a 13 year old boy and dude let me tell you im confused, am i bi or straight.. is it normal ...
A: Hey, I know this is maybe not what you want to hear, but as you are 13 there is still a chance that ...
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| Is it normal for me to get turned on occasionally by girls? | 10/4/2009 |
Q: I'm just curious. I'm 19 and well I watch porn and stuff...but every now and then I'll watch ...
A: Hey Andrew, I get asked the same question, just the other way around, from a lot of straight people ...
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| living a soap opera... | 10/3/2009 |
Q: i dont know if u remember me, but i asked for some advice about a month ago concerning my feelings ...
A: I know it's hard when someone you like goes out with someone else, but as you have said you want him ...
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| I like a possible straight/gay guy | 10/3/2009 |
Q: i am 15 years old, and a sophomore, i like a freshman that i know by playing baseball with him over ...
A: If someone says to you they are not gay or bisexual then you should respect what they say and ...
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| Am I bi or lesbian? | 10/1/2009 |
Q: Matt. First of all I want to thank you so much for listening to my rant and helping me. I really do ...
A: Well firstly, I am not a girl and I haven't been in a same-sex school so I can't totally agree or ...
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| how do i know if im gay? | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Before you say it, I know: only I can ever decide what to label my sexuality, or if I want to reject ...
A: Hey Andrew, If you haven't particularly ruled out the idea totally of being with a girl, and being ...
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| I'm confused ... :( | 9/26/2009 |
Q: hy, i'm 14 and i really need your help, but first, PLEASE don't tell me i'm too young to think about ...
A: Hey, I'm not the person you need to be talking to if you are feeling that you want to kill ...
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| I'm confused ... :( | 9/25/2009 |
Q: hy, i'm 14 and i really need your help, but first, PLEASE don't tell me i'm too young to think about ...
A: Hey Anna, First off, you AREN'T too young and anyone who says that I feel is wrong. Everyone has a ...
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| help!! | 9/20/2009 |
Q: I'm Taylor:) I'm a girl in the 8th grande and I feel im bi sexual. I happen to like my best friend ...
A: Hey, If this girl has ensured you she is 100% straight, then I would take it from that she has no ...
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| Sexuality confusion. | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I am a very confused about my sexuality for over 4 years now. I am now 20 years old. It is driving ...
A: Hey Gemma, It is always harder to find out your sexuality if you don't feel you have sufficient ...
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| my best mate wants to be more? | 9/17/2009 |
Q: my and my mate are really close, weve been mates all our lives (16 years) and two years ago he came ...
A: Hey Christopher, The first thing you need to think about is do you really want a sexual ...
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| I seriously need you guidance....... | 8/28/2009 |
Q: So I was with my girlfriend on the weekend and we started to make out, the kiss deepened and i began ...
A: Hey Stevie, Fantasies are sometimes what your mind feels and thinks and are not necessarily what ...
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| clarification to previous question | 8/23/2009 |
Q: sry, i guess what i meant to say was that what im feeling scares me and i dont know what to do. how ...
A: Hey John, I do actually get where you are coming from and what you mean. It is hard fancying a guy ...
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| Help? | 8/19/2009 |
Q: last night i had a dream about a girl i have never met and we were holding hands and kissing and ...
A: If this was in a dream, I wouldn't worry about it. From what you have said it was a one off so don't ...
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| I have no clue what to do | 8/3/2009 |
Q: So I have been crushing on this guy now for like 6 months and I have no clue if he is ...
A: Hey Andrew, I know how you feel. Crushing over a guy in which you don't know his sexuality ... ...
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| Why can't I find a boyfriend? | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Well i'm 16 years old and live in stamford connecticut. Just recently I came out to my parents and ...
A: Hey, You just need to see people as mates. When you meet new people you need to just expect nothing ...
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| Why can't I find a boyfriend? | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Well i'm 16 years old and live in stamford connecticut. Just recently I came out to my parents and ...
A: Hey Alex, I know exactly how you feel. There are many gay guys who don't get a boyfriend for many ...
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| I have a crush on my worst nightmare | 7/5/2009 |
Q: Uh, hi... To start off with, my name is Charlie and I'm 14 years old. I have NO IDEA whether I'm ...
A: Hey Charlie, You need to get to know this guy personally. It's all good saying he is hot and you ...
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| Confused | 7/3/2009 |
Q: I am 17 and I think i may be bisexual or bi curious. About a year and a half ago, i thought i were ...
A: Hey Rachael, From what you have said to me, you seem to be bicurious, but as I don't know you ...
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| Confused | 7/2/2009 |
Q: I am 17 and I think i may be bisexual or bi curious. About a year and a half ago, i thought i were ...
A: Firstly, you should try and stop falling for very close female friends as it can make things very ...
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| How do i get him???? | 6/15/2009 |
Q: Im a current student in high school, am 17 and gay. this year during my junior year i met a freshmen ...
A: Hey Chris, You really need to try and see the guy out of the school/college situation. Try and ...
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| should i go for it? | 6/14/2009 |
Q: There's this girl that I like and we're friends on facebook. I know she's bi and so am I. The only ...
A: Hey Dani, You should get chatting with her, meet up as mates, and if there is anything between you ...
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| Does he like me? | 5/24/2009 |
Q: Well, to get things started, I recently consider myself 99% straight, 1% gay. Ever since ninth ...
A: Hey Karito (I love your name), For someone to be constantly staring at you for so long is ...
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| Coming out | 5/24/2009 |
Q: So I'm bisexual. I came out to my father about two years ago, and he was okay with it (to say the ...
A: Hey Cassandra, Even though your mother hates the idea of homosexuality and the fact your cousin is ...
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| bisexuality | 5/20/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend/bestfriend has always been extremely homophobic. Recently, when discussing past sexual ...
A: I think he was seen to be extremely homophobic to hide the fact he had gay feelings towards other ...
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| a friend | 5/17/2009 |
Q: well first of all I am the one who just asked you the question about coming out to ppl and I would ...
A: Hey Levi, Erm, there is a chance he could like you, or it could be accidental - but how many ...
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| coming out to ppl | 5/17/2009 |
Q: well this is going to be a multiple part question and I don't mind if it takes you long to answer as ...
A: Hey Levi, I will answer this question in the sections which you asked, to try and make it easier: ...
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| Kissing | 5/2/2009 |
Q: I have the deepest desire to kiss a boy. I really need cause it is driving me insane of not know ...
A: Hey Ben, When you find a guy you like, and one that likes you, you will know when you're meant to ...
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| Kissing | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I have the deepest desire to kiss a boy. I really need cause it is driving me insane of not know ...
A: Hey Ben, I know exactly how you feel, and I have contemplated the whole kissing a girl thing to ...
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| coming out | 4/27/2009 |
Q: what is a good way to to come out as a lesbian to my best friend? what i mean is whats a good ...
A: Hey Janet, The best way to do it, in my experience and opinion is one of two ways: A) Just come ...
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| What do i say ? | 4/26/2009 |
Q: My name is Meghan and my friend just told me he thinks he is a bisexual he hasn't told anyone but me ...
A: Hey Meghan, Sorry for my delayed response, I have been revising for my exams. Firstly, you haven't ...
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| does he like me? | 4/24/2009 |
Q: we are like best friends, and we hang out all the time. hes the first, and only person i have told ...
A: Hey Jonathan, From what you have said, I am not so sure that this guy likes you in any other way ...
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| What should I do about him? | 4/24/2009 |
Q: Sorry this is so long. I'm a 16 year old gay male and have a situation. I'm a sophomore, and I ...
A: Hey Nigel, From what you have told me it is not very easy to tell whether this guy is gay or not, ...
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| My friend | 4/16/2009 |
Q: so i am a 15 year old gay teen. So i have a close friend who i have been friends with for like four ...
A: Hey Benny, I would come out to him before you tell him you have feelings for him. If he reacts ...
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| School | 4/1/2009 |
Q: I'm 14 and I'm certain that I'm bi but I haven't come out to anyone; I'm not so worried about my ...
A: Hey Ashleigh, Firstly, your family should be supportive, but the way you say they are supportive of ...
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| And i'm going out with a girl aswell | 3/24/2009 |
Q: you may have read that story i sent earlier but here is something i didnt put in it: -I'm going out ...
A: Hey, The best thing to do is to be honest with people. If you are fully gay then you should end ...
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| Helppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I am a 12 year old gay male but I have feelings for a girl in my grade. Does that make me Bisexual? ...
A: Hey Jonathan, You could well be bisexual if you are having feelings mainly for guys, but the odd ...
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| Coming Out to Family? | 3/16/2009 |
Q: I'm 14 and bi. I came out to my friends & school via Facebook about a month ago. I used Facebook ...
A: Hey Tyler, I'm not too sure that there is a really subtle way of telling them to be honest. You ...
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| very confused | 3/15/2009 |
Q: hey, my name is Carly, and i am a 16 year old female. I classify myself as lesbian, yet i am not ...
A: Hey Carly, Your mum could have a point, I mean that because you have not had a relationship with ...
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| is my best friend a lesbian | 3/14/2009 |
Q: hey I'm 14 and i have a best friend who i think may be bisexual or even a lesbian she comes up to ...
A: Hey Becky, Well, this is quite a hard question and I wont be able to give a definite answer. She ...
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| My boyfriend | 2/21/2009 |
Q: Well I'm straight and I'm 14, i just found out that in the past my boyfriend has kissed and had a ...
A: Hey Alex, If I was you,I'd do nothing. As long as he is being faithful to you and not doing ...
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| finding a girlfriend | 2/19/2009 |
Q: I'm in 6 th grade, and bi. I'm a punk/skater chick, and I dress slightly butch-y (tight tee ...
A: Hey Jen, You will probably not find many "out" girls of your age at the moment as only very few ...
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| straight girl crush, where to meet other lesbian teens? | 2/17/2009 |
Q: Okay, i have this straight girl crush that will NOT go away..... shes all i think about and its ...
A: Hey Jackie, It is always the hardest thing when it is a best friend. What I usually say in these ...
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| My sexuality | 2/14/2009 |
Q: I am 19 years old guy and in college. I have never had a crush on a guy ever in my life, I never had ...
A: Hey Jason, From what you have said I doubt that you are gay. But you also need to remember what ...
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| coming out | 2/6/2009 |
Q: Im pretty sure (or at least Id like to think) that Id be much more willing to come out if I was sure ...
A: Hey Sean, From what you have said it seems that you are bisexual, but as I don't know you, it is ...
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| How do I tell my mum? | 2/6/2009 |
Q: I'm a 15 year old female and being very mature for my age, 3 years ago i started experimenting with ...
A: Hey Georgia, If you are finding it hard to tell your parents then what I suggest, and what I did ...
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| How do I know if I'm str8, gay, or bi | 1/31/2009 |
Q: off and on with for about a year and a half...well I love her but I find myself attracted to ...
A: Hey Anthony, Most guys experiment during their teens so this does not necessarily mean you are gay ...
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| teen sexual preferences | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I have a 16 year old daughter who I recently found out(she lied about everything) she thinks she's ...
A: Hey Angie, You do make some really good points here. Firstly, if she was with a guy and dating him ...
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| reaction | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I am a 13 yr old boy and i recently told my sister that i am gay. She took it well, but now i feel ...
A: Hey Sam, If you are 110% sure you are gay, and in no doubt of any kind that you are, then you did ...
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| Confused... | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I'm a 16 year old male and I am just so confused about my sexuality. I've had many crushes on girls, ...
A: Hey Taylor, This can be quite hard for you, as I can understand, and maybe the best way to find out ...
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| Experimenting with a friend? | 1/23/2009 |
Q: I am a 16 year old boy and i think i might be bi but thats not really what im asking about. I know ...
A: Hey Connor, I think you have worked this one out yourself really. That is probably the best way to ...
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| teen sexual preferences | 1/21/2009 |
Q: I have a 16 year old daughter who I recently found out(she lied about everything) she thinks she's ...
A: Hey Angie, If she wants to experiment, I would personally say let her. If you point blank refuse ...
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| i am bi | 1/19/2009 |
Q: Ok So..... I'm bi and i don't know how to tell my parents at all! HELP! Give Me an idea!!!! I Am Bi, ...
A: Hey Alyssa, Firstly, you say you are positive you are bi, yet you think you are a lesbian? That ...
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| This is just complicated & nerve-wracking. | 1/19/2009 |
Q: Matt. I am very young, but I am having MANY doubts about my sexuality. I berly started having this ...
A: Hey Diana, Theres not much I can say, but to see if she likes you try holding eye contact with her ...
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| Perverted or Just Normal? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: im 17, a junior and im gay. now that im older, i have begun to realize that my sexual attractions ...
A: Hey Brice, It is only natural to look at people who you find attractive, it is human nature. ...
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| This is just complicated & nerve-wracking. | 1/17/2009 |
Q: Matt. I am very young, but I am having MANY doubts about my sexuality. I berly started having this ...
A: Hey Diana, Firstly, you say you are very young, but don't say how old which makes this harder to ...
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| im really curious about girls what do I do? | 1/17/2009 |
Q: hola my names letta I have a boyfriend but im really curious about girls. I have told two of my ...
A: Hey Letta, Firstly, don't tell people you are bi,or that you think you are, until you know for ...
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| don't know | 1/16/2009 |
Q: I was wondering how to know if I'm bi or straight. I wouldn't have a problem with either ...
A: Hey Kasie, Generally, to be classed as bisexual you would need to have both sexual and emotional ...
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| please help | 1/16/2009 |
Q: i just wanted to know, what is it exactly to be bi, because I am pretty sure i am but i just need a ...
A: Hey Phoebe, Being bi can mean one of two things: Bisexual - Where you have emotional AND sexual ...
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| lesbian comign out | 1/16/2009 |
Q: Here's my question... How do I tell my dad that his daddy's girl is gay? I am now 17, my mom ...
A: Hey Lexie, Maybe not what you wanted to hear, but it's usually one of the hardest things you are ...
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| Bi or just Bi-curious?? | 1/14/2009 |
Q: Ok so I'm 16(Girl) and lately I've been thinking alot about whether I'm bi or maybe just bi-curious. ...
A: Hey Sicily, The thing I usually say to people in this kinda situation is that if you can see ...
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| bi/gay/straight/ SO CONFUSED!!!! | 1/12/2009 |
Q: ok so i know im kinda old for this but i read some stuff on here and really could use some advice. ...
A: Hey Joey, Usually for someone to say they are gay or bi, they have emotional and sexual feelings ...
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| In love with a best friend. | 1/11/2009 |
Q: Ive been in love with my one of my best friends for about a year now. Ive never loved anyone as much ...
A: Hey Jess, It really depends on how you think she will take it. Some people can't handle being told ...
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| Confused! | 12/11/2008 |
Q: Okay well lately I have been really confused. I am 15 years old and am in high school. Okay well I ...
A: Hey Alberto, You may be bisexual, you may not. There is often many straight people who have a crush ...
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| My Best Friend And His "Benefriend" | 11/27/2008 |
Q: :) I have a question for you about my friend who just recently came out and declared himself bi. He ...
A: Hey Gina, If they are your mates, then their sexuality shouldn't really bother you and maybe you ...
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| What should i do | 11/17/2008 |
Q: I told my mom that I'm bisexual last night, i found it really hard, i was nervous. Her reaction ...
A: Hey Adam, Firstly, well done on coming out, especially to your mum. I think you have done the ...
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| im lesbian and i want to come out to my homophibic mother | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I've accepted myself as lesbian for about a year now. but i have known since i was really little. ...
A: Hey Ashley, If you are under the age where you can financially support yourself and live by ...
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| confused | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I'm kind of in a difficult spot at the moment. I have a boyfriend of over a year but i'm not sure if ...
A: Hey Amy, From what you have said, I don't think you are bi as it seems to be, generally, a one off ...
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| am i bi? | 11/10/2008 |
Q: im mary and im 15.I'm really confused on how i feel,most of my life i thought i just liked guys but ...
A: Hey Mary, As this is generally your first crush it could be a phase or a stage you are going ...
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| how can i come out? | 11/9/2008 |
Q: I know I am gay and I want to come out to my parents but I know my mom is homophobic because ...
A: Hey Alex, This question would be easier if I knew how old you were. If you are old enough to ...
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| My Sexuality | 11/8/2008 |
Q: I am a 15 year old male and i am so confused about my sexuality. I don't know if im straight, ...
A: Hey Stewart, I wish I could help you, but you have said everything I would have said in your ...
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| my friend | 11/6/2008 |
Q: Hey there, before i start my question, can i just ask u that after the question, i won't get any ...
A: Hey Honey, About junk mail ... I don't know. It will be in the Terms & Conditions type bit of the ...
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| Coming out.... | 11/4/2008 |
Q: Ok I've know I was into both girls and guys for about 5 years now, I've just come-out to the bf I ...
A: Hey, Firstly, if coming out a homophobic father is the only option at home, and as you are only 14, ...
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| I think i'm bi | 10/19/2008 |
Q: for the past year, my friend cameron and i have been experimenting with eachother. we masturbate ...
A: Hey Andy, You could well be bisexual, especially if you can see yourself in an emotionally attached ...
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| wrestling | 10/16/2008 |
Q: We have just started learning wrestling in school.The problem is that everytime we do it I get very ...
A: Hey Marv, Just because you get excited when wrestling does not mean you are gay. You don't say how ...
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| Does he like me? | 10/13/2008 |
Q: well the deal is that he is supposedly str8 and has a gf. but everytime I say something good about ...
A: Have you already come out? Does he know you are gay/bi? If not then you could maybe come out to him, ...
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| Asking a bi friend out | 10/10/2008 |
Q: I am a bi 17 year old male and have had a huge crush on another male one grade below me for the ...
A: Hey Bobby, This situation can be hard, and he might not even be bi. If he hasn't told you himself ...
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| How do I know? | 9/21/2008 |
Q: Okay, so, I'm a 15 year old girl and I think I'm bisexual. When I was about 10, I realised I fancied ...
A: Hey Elli, I do usually say to people that before coming out that you should experiment, but you ...
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| how to talk to attractive girls | 9/21/2008 |
Q: i am a freshman in college. i am 17 years old. im not out but ive known that i was gay since ...
A: Hey Bianca, I know how hard it is to talk to new people, I often feel the same way myself. It is ...
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| Older guy. | 9/20/2008 |
Q: I'm facing some difficulties at the moment. I live in a small town in Oklahoma (It's not like SUPER ...
A: Hey Michael, You didn't tell me how old you are yourself ... firstly should you think about if what ...
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| asking a friend | 9/18/2008 |
Q: I have a friend who's not my best friend. She is adorable, awesome, funny, and basically everything ...
A: Hey Liz, The best way to do this would be to casually ask at the right times if she has ever ...
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| help | 9/15/2008 |
Q: I'm sorry, but I don't understand the question.. Your Question was: im a 13 year old male and i ...
A: Hey Cole, If you are still unsure of your sexuality and are not even sure yourself if you are ...
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| My best friend & I | 9/15/2008 |
Q: This is sort of a question and a cry for advice. So I am 15 years old and I am gay. This is my ...
A: Hey Brandon, That is quite a confusing situation actually ... chances are he may be bi as he said ...
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| boy troubles.... | 9/14/2008 |
Q: Alright so I'm a junior in high school currently and still in the closet. I'm from an upper middle ...
A: Hey J, I can't tell if there is anything between you from what you have said at all, I am sorry. I ...
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| im bi | 9/6/2008 |
Q: I'm a 13 year old male that is afraid that my friends want be my friends no more if I tell them that ...
A: Hey Keyeon, Firstly, if they are your true friends then they shouldn't mind whether you are gay, ...
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| doctors | 9/5/2008 |
Q: i have to go to get a physical on September 24 and i want to tell my doctor im bi im 17 do u think ...
A: Why do you want to tell your doctor? They shouldn't tell you're parents as everything you tell them ...
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| Confused | 9/3/2008 |
Q: So, im 16 and i thought i was gay. Ive come out to my friends and they all except me. But today i ...
A: Hey Luke, I am a little confused about your question, but maybe if you re-send me something in more ...
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| Hi, a couple of questions.. | 9/1/2008 |
Q: Hey, well I´m Mike and I´m 15, and I just got into a new school, and the thing is, since I sorta ...
A: Hey Mike, There isn't really an age where people realise their sexuality as such. Some guys say ...
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| im scared to come out to family. | 8/28/2008 |
Q: hey matt, my name is frank and im gay. i came out to all of my friends and i am openly gay in public ...
A: Hey Frank, What I often suggest, especially to people who are unsure of the reactions or find it ...
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| Bad Reaction from Mother | 8/25/2008 |
Q: I am a 17 year old high school senior, and I recently came out to my mother that I am bisexual. I ...
A: This is quite a hard question to answer, but I will give it my best try. I would try and go to the ...
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| HELP ME!!! | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I am 13 years old and I KNOW I am BI-sexual.. I havent had a Boyfriend yet but I am Attracted to ...
A: If you feel ready, then you need to tell someone that you can trust. Maybe a good friend or someone ...
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| How do I do this? | 8/18/2008 |
Q: Ok I hope you read this cause I really need help i'm young an bisexual I have a boyfriend an a ...
A: Hey Samantha, You said leave it 'til you are older - how old are you? Do you still live at home? ...
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| Can U Help Me?!? | 8/18/2008 |
Q: Ok, I'm a bi boy and have a friend who i am VERY attracted to. I Am Not Sure If He's Str8 bi or gay. ...
A: At 12 he might not know his sexuality yet, or just be discovering about it. It is quite a tough area ...
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| The fact that i am Bi | 8/17/2008 |
Q: There are a few girls I like, but the one I seem to find most interest in is my best friend. I've ...
A: I know and understand that you really like this girl, but if her parents are strict and wouldn't ...
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| I need | 8/13/2008 |
Q: Ok My friend lets call him Que acts gay sometimes. When we play wrestle he always puts his butt near ...
A: Hey Matthew, I can't tell you if he is gay or not as I don't know him and haven't seen what has ...
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| telling mom | 7/30/2008 |
Q: I have know i have been bisexual of about 3 years now and everyone at my school knows and most of ...
A: Hey Noella, You have said about waiting 'til you move out ... how long will that be? If it is a ...
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| i need help! | 7/28/2008 |
Q: my best friend is a girl. i love her so much she loves me back but in a bff kind of way.after ...
A: Hey Kyle, There is one thing I don't understand here ... you can't tell this guy you are bi because ...
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| I have issues | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I really need someone to listen right now. It's even hard for me to type these words, but I am a ...
A: Hey Jack, I am not that sure what to say to you as you don't seem to have asked a specific ...
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| Help me please!! | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I'm bisexual and I came out to all my friends and everybody at school... So there's this guy I ...
A: Hey Orian, Well it's great you have come out which is the biggest step and it can only get easier ...
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| My First Gay Crush...Help!! | 7/17/2008 |
Q: **This is long, I know, I'm sorry** I'm a 20 year old bisexual?/gay male, and I have just developed ...
A: Firstly, wow!! Well done on coming out to him, nice one! Ask him if he wants to go for a drink or ...
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| Several Subjects | 7/15/2008 |
Q: I don't know if this is against the rules or something but I have a few different questions. I'm a ...
A: 1st Qu: You should really think about coming out generally then it will be a hell of a lot easier ...
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| Out but not recognized? | 7/15/2008 |
Q: So ive been out of the closet as a bisexual for like two years now. But I find a lot of people ...
A: Hey Annie, This can sometimes happen, but try not to let it bother you. You have come out and been ...
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| My First Gay Crush...Help!! | 7/15/2008 |
Q: **This is long, I know, I'm sorry** I'm a 20 year old bisexual?/gay male, and I have just developed ...
A: Hey Guy, This is going to be a hard situation whatever if he is afraid of coming out at work ...
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| Several Subjects | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I don't know if this is against the rules or something but I have a few different questions. I'm a ...
A: I will answer your questions in the order you asked them to make this easier. Qu. 1: If people ...
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| My bi-curious friend asked me for help. | 7/13/2008 |
Q: I have a friend and I'm the only one who know's that he is Bi curious. He asked me If I could help ...
A: Usually when a bi-curious guy asks a guy "for help" it means they want to experiment sexually with ...
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| Should I tell him? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I am 14 years old, in an all-boy grammar school and am pretty sure that I am gay. Since deciding ...
A: Since you are both now drifting away from each other and not as friendly as you used to be then I ...
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| Hey | 7/12/2008 |
Q: Hey Matt,Im bi and 15 well here´s the thing,I´ve been goin to summer camp for two weeks now, and ...
A: Hey Mike, If this is a guy you aren't going to see again now camp is over you could simply ask him ...
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| please help | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I'm 14. I think that im bi, but im not too sure, because i like girls but lately im starting to get ...
A: I think you are generally bi-curious and will not know if you are truly bisexual until you have ...
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| I'm gay and need help | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I don't really have enough time to explain my whole situation to you, but I'm gonna try to give you ...
A: About the guy at work - get to know him better, talk to him more and you could then (once you know ...
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| please help | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I'm 14. I think that im bi, but im not too sure, because i like girls but lately im starting to get ...
A: Hey Jordan, [I often think my answers are loads longer than they appear when typing, it's odd!! :D] ...
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| I'm gay and need help | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I don't really have enough time to explain my whole situation to you, but I'm gonna try to give you ...
A: Hey again Bradley, Firstly I think it is great for you to not want to have sex with someone who you ...
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| please help | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I'm 14. I think that im bi, but im not too sure, because i like girls but lately im starting to get ...
A: Firstly, this wasn't long at all! Now, you have been gay before? Was it just a phase or did that ...
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| I'm gay and need help | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I don't really have enough time to explain my whole situation to you, but I'm gonna try to give ...
A: I don't really know what to say. The fact of having no boyfriend can be stressful but there are many ...
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| is my friend gay/bi? | 7/7/2008 |
Q: i think my friend is gay/bi! he keeps like calling me fit and jokes around by asking me to bum him ...
A: I can't tell you if your friend is gay or bi from that small sentence you have sent me, but he could ...
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| Dating first time | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I am 18 and a male, there is this guy, he is older but not by much, we just met, but i cant tell if ...
A: I really can't tell you whether someone likes you or not, but he may do. It is possible because he ...
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| Confusion | 7/3/2008 |
Q: How do I know for sure? When I was 13 I got my first computer and started looking at porn, but then ...
A: People like to classify themselves and it is very normal. Everyone likes to belong in a certain ...
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| Confusion | 7/2/2008 |
Q: How do I know for sure? When I was 13 I got my first computer and started looking at porn, but then ...
A: To be perfectly honest, I sometimes wonder the same question myself - about the internet. Who knows, ...
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| Is He gay or Bi? | 7/2/2008 |
Q: There is this guy that I have a huge crush on, and I am sure he is gay or at least Bi. I never knew ...
A: He could be bi, but then again so could anybody. He could be in love with her, then again he might ...
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| I'm in love... And I don't know what to do... | 6/30/2008 |
Q: "I'm pretty much 100% openly gay at my highschool. I'm so girly that people have known, and grown to ...
A: I don't think he hates the fact you love him, he hates what you have done or should I say said about ...
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| so confused... | 6/30/2008 |
Q: okay so i've been infatuated with this girl for over a year now. and i've been on this roller ...
A: This is a bit of a confusing situation and I'm not totally sure what to say. I mean she might like ...
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| liking a guy | 6/30/2008 |
Q: Ok. Hi. Im 16 and know that I'm gay , and recently fell for this guy during second semester ...
A: I don't think it is the best idea, not just yet anyway. I think you should try and get to know him ...
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| ?'s | 6/29/2008 |
Q: ok heres the deal i am a 18 year old male and right now in a relationship with another male....i ...
A: You either are gay, bi or straight - you can't "tell yourself" that you are a certain sexuality. If ...
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| perfect romance... right? | 6/27/2008 |
Q: hey matt! I'm in love with a friend of mine, so i asked him out, he said yes. He was in love with ...
A: Firstly I would like to say how lucky you are to have found someone you feel that way about, nice ...
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| comeing out | 6/26/2008 |
Q: Um im a 17 yr old male and i found out i was gay when i was 15. I just moved in with my sister is 22 ...
A: As your sister has already asked you if you are gay, she probably still thinks you are even though ...
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| I need help, and soon | 6/23/2008 |
Q: I'm a 13 almost 14 year old gay guy and am nearly at the end of my rope. I am so depressed at times ...
A: Coming out is hard for many, many people but it is something you are going to have to do one day if ...
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| Does he like me? | 6/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 and I recently confirmed I was gay. I had been denying it for about 6 months but finally ...
A: As I previously said, the only way to know for definate is to ask, which I know is hard and probably ...
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| confused | 6/21/2008 |
Q: im a 22 yr old mother of 2, im currently married with a wonderful men. but, for a long time, even ...
A: This is really a hard question. As you have kids and a wonderful guy to be with (presuming you are ...
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| confusion | 6/21/2008 |
Q: he taught me last year but doesnt now, we talk and everytime i see him my heart skips a beat i ...
A: This is a no-go area, for sure. For starters, you are 15, too young to have a relationship with ...
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| Does he like me? | 6/21/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 and I recently confirmed I was gay. I had been denying it for about 6 months but finally ...
A: From what you have told me, there is no definate answer. I mean he could be gay/bi but then again he ...
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| Help please | 6/18/2008 |
Q: Hey Matt, thanks for reading my question, well I finally decided that the guy I liked wasn´t worth ...
A: The only way to stop falling for the wrong guys is to purposley go for gay guys, like at a gay bar ...
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| How to ask out a guy? | 6/16/2008 |
Q: I have now been gay for over a year and in between that time i have gotten really close to a friend ...
A: You say you have both got feelings for each other? I presume you mean that you know for definate ...
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| How do you know? | 6/16/2008 |
Q: i am 20 years old and always dated girls but always had the thought of guys in the back of my head. ...
A: If you can't have sex with a girl as you find it horrible then I suggest you do try and experiment ...
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| Hey, how do I tell the guy I like(that´s extremely popular and a GOD that I´m bi and I like him)? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Hey, I read you description and I thought you could help me, well, there´s this guy in school, his ...
A: Sorry for taking a while to answer you. Do you know he is gay/bi? If you know he isn't then I don't ...
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| Are They? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: If a guy lets you finger their booty, are they gay? Or what could that mean, does it mean anything?
A: Well, not necessarily. They could be experimenting to see if they are gay or not or they could just ...
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| Sexuality, Depression, familiy problems (not accepting me) | 6/5/2008 |
Q: It feels like my mum wont accept im bisexual *im nearly 17*, and she said "you can't be bisxual, ...
A: Personally, I would stop trying to tell her. She doesn't want to accept it and whatever you say, she ...
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| bisexualism | 6/4/2008 |
Q: ok heres myIm 17 years old and athletic. I have always had a problem with bisexualism. when I was ...
A: Hey Julian, There are a number of guys that prefer to watch gay porn, and are totally straight. If ...
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| I'm so confused now about my orientation!! | 6/4/2008 |
Q: i am 23 years old, all of my life i thought i was straight i had diferent relationships with guys, ...
A: Hey Aleka, Firstly, even if you are thinking about going with someone else, never mind their ...
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| Please help me.. I'm so confused | 6/4/2008 |
Q: Ok... Well, I think I might be bi, but I'm not really sure.. I mean I like guys, and there are just ...
A: You have not said how old you are, but I think you may be bi-curious. You find yourself still ...
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| Gay and confused about sexuality | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I have been out for a while now. My friend started dating this girl and we spent a large amount of ...
A: It will always be harder to come out once, then change your mind and come out again as something ...
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| wanting to know | 5/29/2008 |
Q: maybe its just a fantasy but i ger more horny when i see two gir having sex.. i actually look at ...
A: Hey Lissette, Firstly I don't know how old you are which would have helped me answer this question, ...
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| I have a friends that I think are bi-curious | 5/28/2008 |
Q: Ok I have friends at school and they know that I am bi! They know that have a crush on them because ...
A: Hey Travis, I am not sure about this guy. He knows you have a crush on him and he knows your ...
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| confused :S | 5/28/2008 |
Q: hey matt, i need some advice on what to do, namely; For the last few years of high school ive had ...
A: Hey Dan, Sorry I took so long to reply. I think it is good that you have realised your sexuality ...
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| My parents hate me cuz im gay.. | 5/28/2008 |
Q: Here's the problem. I am a girl, and i have an amazing girlfriend who makes me so happy and i am ...
A: Your parents don't agree with homosexuality or even bisexuality and I don't think this is going to ...
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| How to come out to family? | 5/28/2008 |
Q: I'm a 14 year old gay guy and I want to come out to my family. I have come out to some of my really, ...
A: This is always the hardest part about being a gay teen - coming out. At your age do you think it is ...
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| .... | 5/27/2008 |
Q: First off im 15, and im currently out and proud about being gay, one thing that i find hard to ...
A: I think you must be gay then - as that is even what you have come out as yourself and if the idea of ...
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| Am I Bi-sexual? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I have always found women attractive, but have also been, at times, aroused by the thought of ...
A: As long as you find the idea of having a sexual and emotional relationship with a girl then I think ...
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| .... | 5/27/2008 |
Q: First off im 15, and im currently out and proud about being gay, one thing that i find hard to ...
A: My first question to you is if you are gay then why are you thinking about going out with a girl? ...
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| Am I Bi-sexual? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I have always found women attractive, but have also been, at times, aroused by the thought of ...
A: I would think you are at a stage where you could be confused or bi-curious, just a stage. Gay porn ...
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| lesbian dreams | 5/26/2008 |
Q: i am a 19 year old boy and i keep having lesbian dreams can u help
A: It is completely normal for a teenage boy to be having dreams like that and is not a problem at all. ...
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| Best friend love | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm Brett, 16, and bisexual. I'd formally like to apologize for the longevity of this question ...
A: These questions are always the hardest, no matter what people tell you, you still don't know how the ...
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| Friend-help | 5/25/2008 |
Q: im bi male 15 and in year 10. i really like one of my friends but the problem is ...he's straight. i ...
A: If you know he is straight then I personally don't see the point in telling him. He is okay with you ...
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| I don't know if this guy I like is gay | 5/23/2008 |
Q: The very first day of class this guy came and sat next to me and we started to talk. I suspected ...
A: I don't want to squash your hopes or anything but being able to tell "by the way he walks" is not a ...
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| Coming out at school | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I go to a very liberal private highschool school, there is never any violence or acts of hate. But ...
A: This is a great question and what a lot of straight people don't understand, just because you are ...
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| I THINK IM FALLIN FOR MY BEST GUY FRIEND | 5/19/2008 |
Q: WELL, ME AND MY BEST FRIEND HAS BEEN TALKIN ALOT LLATELY SINCE HIM AND HIS GRLFREND BROKE UP... I ...
A: This is a bit of a confusing question really - are you gay? Have you already come out? Do you like ...
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| tell if hes gay | 5/19/2008 |
Q: Im gay and I have a friend I really like and he gives off similar vibes but I cant be sure. I know ...
A: The basic answer is no. Although if he generally looks at guys more than girls, or stares as a guy ...
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| I don't know what to do | 5/16/2008 |
Q: Okay, i've never felt like this before first off im 15 freshman and never has had any feelings about ...
A: Firstly the fact you have never had any feelings about females before does make this question ...
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