| Subject | Date Asked |
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| How do I Tell my Friend ? | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I've been Gay/Bi for about couple years now and I was wondering In what way should I come out to my ...
A: Tom, The best way is to bring up a conversation about GLBTQ issues. Gay marriage, gay rights, etc. ...
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| Am I bi? | 7/18/2009 |
Q: anyways i need alot of help i cant tell if i am bi curious bi or gay. i really find guys attractive ...
A: Teddy, There are a couple of gay teen chat/dating sites. 321gayteenchat.com is one and ...
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| Am I bi? | 7/16/2009 |
Q: anyways i need alot of help i cant tell if i am bi curious bi or gay. i really find guys attractive ...
A: Teddy, I think you may be bi-curious. Being bisexual is the physical and emotional attraction to ...
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| Gay/Coming out..... | 7/7/2009 |
Q: My name is Tyler and I am 16 years old. Now this is the first time that I have ever talked to ...
A: Tyler, The address didn't come through... if you don't receive this you can email me back at: ...
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| I Need Help | 6/19/2009 |
Q: Not too long ago, I kissed my best friend for the first time. I didn't understand it at first but I ...
A: Stephanie, I think you may be bi-curious. You may want to experiment with girls but not necessarily ...
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| Confused | 6/16/2009 |
Q: Until recently I considered myself straight, and I would have never questioned it, but a few weeks ...
A: Bob, I don't think you're gay. You're just curious because it's something you've never seen before. ...
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| is my best friend interested in me? | 6/12/2009 |
Q: Ive been friends with this kid for a couple years now were both 19. alot of people think he is ...
A: Gabriel, The easiest way to figure that out, is to ask him directly. Next time he's over, simply ...
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| i dont know wat to do | 5/30/2009 |
Q: okay...Im gay and have a boyfriend. my boyfriend has come out to his parents and i want to come out ...
A: Jon, If you want to come out to your parents, the best ways to do this are: 1) start a ...
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| Stuck in a Moment... And I Can't Get Out of It... | 5/28/2009 |
Q: sorry). It really means A LOT, coz I'm already hanging by a thread here. First off, let me start by ...
A: Jay, Well first off, alcohol won't help anything. It sounds to me like you had an infatuation with ...
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| am i bi | 5/24/2009 |
Q: women. I find my self physically mentally and emotionly attracted to women but when it comes to men ...
A: Kristen, Yes, that is a very likely reason. If you haven't already, I would see a professional and ...
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| Should i tell someone? | 5/24/2009 |
Q: Hey Teddy. Thanks for taking time to help me.. I'm a 13 year old bisexual female. And even though ...
A: Nadine, The entire "coming out" process is very difficult. It can relieve pain, but if you are ...
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| am i bi | 5/23/2009 |
Q: women. I find my self physically mentally and emotionly attracted to women but when it comes to men ...
A: Kristen, You could very well be bi. If you have experience with both men and women and like it, ...
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| Confused? | 5/5/2009 |
Q: I'm almost 16 years old female and I've been confused about my sexual orientation. I know that I ...
A: Ashlae, I think you like gay men because you are confused. I can't really tell you why you like ...
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| Gay confusion and Anxiety!!! | 5/5/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 yrs old, and a few months back i had my first gay kiss with a guy who ive seen before but ...
A: Luke, This could be something some people called HOCD (homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder). I ...
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| coming out | 4/30/2009 |
Q: what is a good way to to come out as a lesbian to my best friend? what i mean is whats a good ...
A: Taylor, The best way to do that, is bring up someone you think is cute or something. It may be ...
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| Is he gay? | 4/23/2009 |
Q: Sorry this is so long. I'm a 16 year old gay male and have a situation. I'm a sophomore, and I ...
A: Nigel, It's hard to say. The best way, is to ask him. Wait until you two are alone, and not ...
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| help!! | 4/17/2009 |
Q: my name is Jake. I am an 18 year old male from Stamford, CT. I have lived 18 years as a 100% ...
A: Jake, Sorry for the delay in response. I think what you have is just simply curiosity. Don't ...
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| I really want a boyfriend. | 4/5/2009 |
Q: Im 15, male and gay and I really want a boyfriend. There is this guy who is a friend of a friend ...
A: Ben, The first step is finding out if he is gay/bi. If he isn't, you're outta luck. The answer to ...
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| um? | 4/4/2009 |
Q: Hey Teddy, I'm a fifteen year old bisexual male. My question revolves around this boy in my class. ...
A: Sam, The only way to know for sure is asking. Acting effeminate doesn't necessarily mean you're ...
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| first time | 3/21/2009 |
Q: .. this is my first time doing this but i really need some advice...well im 15 and bisexual and not ...
A: Javier, When you mean "break the ice", what exactly would you like help with? The best advice I can ...
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| is he bi ? does he like me ? | 3/17/2009 |
Q: My name is Lavon, I'm a sophomore in high school and I'm gay (I came out to everyone when I was in ...
A: Lavon, The only sure way to tell is ask him. But do not do it in front of friends, do it alone, or ...
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| AHHHHHHHHHH WTF!! | 3/9/2009 |
Q: i am a 16 year old gay boy. i have a friend about my age (younger by 3-4 months) who i always talk ...
A: Tobi, It actually could be either. My guess is actually a sort of combination. Men's post-orgasm ...
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| tellin mi parents | 2/17/2009 |
Q: uhhh hi...im not really comfertable talkin to a guy about this but ill give it a shot.... my name is ...
A: Katie, First, I would like to apologize for the long-wait on the answer. I actually was out of the ...
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| Coming out to my friends | 2/13/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm 16 years old and in the UK. At the moment I go out with a boy called Jack, but honestly I ...
A: Hollie, First, I would like to apologize for the long-wait on the answer. I actually was out of the ...
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| My Bisexuality | 2/12/2009 |
Q: I have two questions for you so I'll go ahead and get right to it. 1. Okay, I have a large circle ...
A: Kyel, First, I would like to apologize for the long-wait on the answer. I actually was out of the ...
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| how do yuo know if u r gay | 2/12/2009 |
Q: How do you know if you are gay?I have have dreams about this girl in my school all the time & i ...
A: Joanne, Being gay is simply being romantically and physically attracted to the same sex. If you can ...
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| Gay Rights/Gay Marriage | 2/11/2009 |
Q: Hey there. I'm a student from the Philippines conducting a research paper on Gay Marriage. Gay ...
A: Tricia, 1. I believe that gay marriage should be legal. In my opinion, it is a born-right. If we ...
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| Gay-Teenage Struggles | 2/4/2009 |
Q: Hey, thanks for the third time, you are sooo fast! I can't ask a follow-up question, so I just start ...
A: Florian, I know that it may be difficult, and it all came at a really bad time... but, it will be ...
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| Gay-Teenage Struggles | 2/3/2009 |
Q: Hey, thanks for the third time, you are sooo fast! I can't ask a follow-up question, so I just start ...
A: Florian, Although waiting may suck, it can be worth it. Wait to tell your friend anything. He could ...
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| Gay-Teenage struggles | 2/1/2009 |
Q: Hey Teddy Kesting-Handly, I have to say that I picked you, because you can answer in English and ...
A: Florian, Believe it or not, having the best friend appearance while having a relationship is really ...
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| Sexually Confused | 1/31/2009 |
Q: I am in high school and have had a very bad crush on this girl for about two years now. I know she's ...
A: C, I can't tell you if you are bisexual, lesbian, or curious. I can however help you sort through ...
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| 'rentals dont believe me | 1/28/2009 |
Q: i told my dad that i am lesbian. he doesn't think that a 13 yr. old should be able to decide if ...
A: Lynn, That happens a lot. Tell your father, being gay isn't only about sex! Being gay is simply ...
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| Gay-Teenage struggles | 1/28/2009 |
Q: Hey Teddy Kesting-Handly, I have to say that I picked you, because you can answer in English and ...
A: Florian, I will answer in English since it will be easier for people to understand but, if you want ...
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| coming out | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I really want to tell my mom I am bi. I just recently told her about my friend and when I did she ...
A: Rachel, If she said that to you, I would believe it. I know how nerve-wracking it can be to come ...
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| Does she? | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I would normally ask a girl what to do in this situation, but considering that I can't really talk ...
A: DV, The one thing I can say, is maybe ask her out online. Don't make it too obvious, but say ...
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| In the midst of coming out... | 1/20/2009 |
Q: I've just recently turned 18, I'm gay, and I'm not really sure what i should do now.. over this past ...
A: Paul, The one thing I can tell you from experience, is that the people that REALLY do matter, will ...
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| Mother | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I have come to a breaking point with my mom. Everytime i go out with my friends she assumes i am ...
A: Alex, When she says things like that to you, simply say "look, I'm your son, you should know me ...
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| coming out cures loneliness? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: So, I am male and 17 and a senior in highschool and the other day one of my friends, one of the 10 ...
A: Alex, In your situation, it may be best to not come out. Boys, especially around your age, are not ...
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| just friends | 1/18/2009 |
Q: First off, i'm a guy, and I'm bi. There's this guy in one of my classes who is EXTREMELY hot. I used ...
A: Ryan, The best way to even start being friends with someone is saying "hi" in the hallways or ...
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| Coming out/Crush, Obsession?/Rejection/Jealousy? | 1/17/2009 |
Q: Hey, i am a junior in high school and i have pretty much known for a long time that i am gay and it ...
A: Brice, It is totally normal that you are jealous. There is absolutely nothing wrong there. I still ...
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| Confusion. Could it be? | 1/16/2009 |
Q: I have a very close guy best friend is gay. I'm a straight woman. Last night we were chatting and my ...
A: Molly, To be honest, you may be over thinking this. He may just be curious that you will be taken ...
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| gay/straight/bi/bi-curious/ i have no idea! | 1/14/2009 |
Q: ok so i know im kinda old for this but i read some stuff on here and really could use some advice. ...
A: Joey, I first have to say, thank you! I have never gotten such a well-stated question. You really ...
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| Freedom | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I have a problem, I am living in Europe with my partner. The problem is, I have promised my mother ...
A: Linsch, You must make a decision. You can either 1) Defy your mother, be open, and live a happy ...
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| my 18 year old son is confused about his sexuality and is losing a lot of sleep over it | 1/12/2009 |
Q: my son is 18 and last night he came up to me and talked to me for a while he said he is getting ...
A: Randy, I am very sorry about the delay, my computer has been broken and I just got it fixed. What ...
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| I just recently came out but now people are terating me different why? | 1/10/2009 |
Q: I am a 14 year/Old boy and i came out that I'm gay since for the past 4 years i was confused but now ...
A: Jose, I had the exact same problem as you. I actually came out 3 years ago when I was 13. I still ...
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| i dunno wheather he´s straight or not | 1/9/2009 |
Q: i had a friend, we used to do everything together and i started liking him, but the were some ...
A: Tom, My best advice to you is this: rebuild your relationship with him. If you do that, then you ...
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| i dunno wheather he´s straight or not | 1/8/2009 |
Q: i had a friend, we used to do everything together and i started liking him, but the were some ...
A: Tom, Well, first, I have to point out one thing. Most gay guys actually do not hang out with girls. ...
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| I'm kind of sure about myself, but not my friend | 12/26/2008 |
Q: For the past year or so I consider myself straight, but I like 1 guy. I don't know why I like him ...
A: Matt, The signals there are not as mixed as you think. He may just like you as a friend. There is ...
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| help pwezzzzzzz | 12/25/2008 |
Q: "Ok so heres the short version, I have a friend who im kinda close to and she is bisexual. I was ...
A: Breanna, I can't tell you what happened, but I can say this: keep her in your mind as a friend. I ...
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| Reaction of a Phase.. | 12/24/2008 |
Q: Ok.. I don't know if this even the right category but whatever. I am "bisexual" but I hate using ...
A: Angela, Well, let me first say, that Bisexuality doesn't necessarily mean you like both sexes ...
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| A Long & Confusing Crush/Love | 12/22/2008 |
Q: So here it is as it lies. I'm 16, a bisexual?/gay male and I've had a crush on an old friend of ...
A: Steve, What I can recommend to you is this: distract yourself from him. Since you have admitted to ...
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| Confused and dont know what to do | 12/20/2008 |
Q: Well lets see where do i begin ok here we go im 13 in the eight grade. When i was younger i only had ...
A: Paul, The simple answer to this is DON'T TELL THEM. You can avoid making yourself feel very ...
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| HELP!!! | 12/20/2008 |
Q: OK, well first off me and my best friend have admitted that we like each other. We also have said ...
A: Daniel, Be very careful about saying you are Bi. It could just be that you two are really close ...
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| How to stop loving | 12/19/2008 |
Q: Alright I'm 16, bi and in a huge problem Over the past 4 years, I've fell deeply in love with my ...
A: Brett, This is going to be the weirdest answer you have ever heard. Just fair warning. My advice to ...
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| I'm not quite sure if this qualifies me as bi. | 12/17/2008 |
Q: I'm a sophomore girl. About a year ago I was dared-ish to make out with my friend and since then I ...
A: Rosie, Well, if you do not like girls usually on an emotional level, you are probably straight. You ...
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| confused and stuck in a cycle | 12/16/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17 yrs old and I have recently begun to consider that I may be a lesbian (though bi-sexual is ...
A: Ashley, Well, that is an interesting cycle. Here is how to break it. You can find out. Simply ask ...
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| confused | 12/15/2008 |
Q: yeah i get what u mean. do u think its possible to go from thinking u r straight to thinking u r ...
A: Zoe, Well, you may not be a lesbian, but you may be bisexual. Although, to directly answer your ...
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| about my question.. | 12/13/2008 |
Q: mmm... first at all.. thanks you so much for the time you take to read this.. i answered abut how do ...
A: Kat, Well, if you really think you are Bisexual, and you don't feel comfortable with telling your ...
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| Help with everything ! | 12/13/2008 |
Q: Hey. My name is Ray. I am 14 years old and in the eigth grade. Wow, I don't really no where to ...
A: Ray, Well, let me start by telling you a bit about sexuality. You don't get to pick it, it is ...
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| confused about my friend! | 12/13/2008 |
Q: my name is Nicole im 17 years old and a lesbian. im not out yet simply because im not ready for it. ...
A: Nicole, The best way to find out, is simply ask her. Normally that will work. Just make sure you ...
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| in love with my best friend?? | 12/13/2008 |
Q: ok well iThink that I'm in love with my best friend that I've known for like a year and a half but ...
A: Alektra, To be honest with you, I think you may be in love with her in a friend way. That kind of ...
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| tell them? | 12/12/2008 |
Q: I am in great need… a little over a year ago I began a journey of self discovery that was inspired ...
A: Charlotte, Well the best starting sentence would probably be "we were talking today in school about ...
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| Im bi and i like my straight mate from my school, A LOT! nothing can happen, how can i get over him? | 12/11/2008 |
Q: i really need some advice. I started my A levels last September and this lad i didn't like very much ...
A: Aaron, I get a lot of questions like this each day. What I am going to recommend for you, is ...
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| tell them? | 12/8/2008 |
Q: I am in great need… a little over a year ago I began a journey of self discovery that was inspired ...
A: Charlotte, What I would do, is start casual conversation about GLBTQ issues. If they react well, ...
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| wondering if she might like me and is scared to tell me. | 12/6/2008 |
Q: I'm 14. theres this girl that I knew since 3 yrs ago and we aren't the tightest of friends, but ...
A: Angela, It sounds to me as if TE does like you. You can't be sure until you ask, why don't you see ...
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| want to meet my online bf | 12/3/2008 |
Q: and im 13 and hes 16 and hes moveing to Oregon soon so plz help me
A: Dalton, Well, the first thing is, where does he live and where do you live? If you live far away, ...
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| issues with an ex | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I am writing to you because I’m in a weird situation. I’m sorry for the length of it! I’m 16 and in ...
A: Elizabeth, This is not what you want to here but, with what you've told me, this is probably the ...
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| Friend and parent problems | 11/27/2008 |
Q: recently I asked a question to one of the people on this site, The question and answer was the ...
A: Chris, Never be afraid to express yourself. Right now, it is a good idea to pretend you are ...
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| Friend and parent problems | 11/24/2008 |
Q: recently I asked a question to one of the people on this site, The question and answer was the ...
A: Chris, I read your problem and I have two concerns. The first thing is you said that your parents ...
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| am I gay? bi? or just confused? | 11/23/2008 |
Q: . Well I have had this question for quite a while now. The thing is that I'm not sure if I'm ...
A: Juan, Sexual Orientation isn't something you change. It isn't really your decision. If you can't ...
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| Liking straight women | 11/20/2008 |
Q: Well for starters, I've been a lesbian for over 7 years now. I'm 23 and I've had several ...
A: Shai, My advice to you is nothing. She is married and that could cause serious problems. If she ...
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| confused | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I have been watching films like But i'm a cheerleader and Imagine me and you, and find my self ...
A: Jade, No, that is not bad. You are just curious. You saw something, didn't really know what it was ...
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| Is she playing games with me? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I'm 14 and currently in the 9th grade. I am bi-curious and fully aware of it and mostly attracted to ...
A: Jessica, The alarm bell went off right when you said that the topic of Homosexuality makes her ...
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| confused | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I have been watching films like But i'm a cheerleader and Imagine me and you, and find my self ...
A: Jade, Probably not. To me, it sounds like you are almost jealous. This emotion expresses itself in ...
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| confused about sexuality? | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old female and need avice .Every since i was 18 i have questioned my sexuality and ...
A: Tina, I'm going to start by answering the second part first, just to mix it up a little. I have ...
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| confused teen | 11/15/2008 |
Q: My daughter is 15 and just recently told me she might be bisexual. She had no tendicies for this and ...
A: Karlee, Well, just because you think it may be a phase doesn't mean it is. If she is actually ...
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| am i gay? bi? | 11/14/2008 |
Q: My name is Alex. I'm 12 and, yes, I know I'm young to think about it, but please don't say ...
A: Alex, You may indeed be Gay or Bi. The thing is, it could also just be curiosity. If you are ...
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| ??? | 11/12/2008 |
Q: Hey Teddy, Ok well let me start out by saying im 16 and im bi. Latley i havent had the luck with ...
A: Jonathan, I apologize for the long wait. So, I wouldn't immediately come out and say "would you be ...
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| Just Friends Or Something else? | 11/11/2008 |
Q: Okay so iam a female and iam 17 years old. A senior in high school. etc. So i like my friend ...
A: Natalie, Sorry for the delayed response. In all honesty, this sounds A LOT like friendly stuff. ...
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| coming out | 11/10/2008 |
Q: the main problem is my parents don't like homosexuals and my friends act all homophobic. I've tried ...
A: Sam, The best thing at this point, is to not come out. If your friends and parents are openly ...
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| Just Friends Or Something else? | 11/9/2008 |
Q: Okay so iam a female and iam 17 years old. A senior in high school. etc. So i like my friend ...
A: Natalie, The thing right now is, she is in a relationship. Make sure you keep that in mind. If you ...
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| My Sexuality | 11/8/2008 |
Q: I am a 15 year old male and i am so confused about my sexuality. I don't know if im straight, ...
A: Stewart, The problem with porn is that it is arousing to just about anyone. It is designed in a way ...
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| How do I meet someone | 11/6/2008 |
Q: K so my question is how do I meet someone who is gay? I honestly dont know of any guys at my school ...
A: Steve, If you are under 13 these aren't going to work for you. www.espinthebottle.com (This is ...
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| idk whether I'm bi or straight | 11/2/2008 |
Q: okay, so i found some porn with some lesbians that were doing it on my brother's computer... at ...
A: Jane, What that sounds like to me, is curiosity. You saw something you didn't know about, and now ...
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| confused | 11/2/2008 |
Q: Hey teddy, Well i 'm a 18 year old male and have always been attracted to girls. But about a week ...
A: Sean, Well, you may or may not be Bi. If you are, you probably would've known by now. Not ...
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| Confused.. | 11/2/2008 |
Q: im 16 years old and really confused about my sexuality. ive had boyfriends in the past but im not ...
A: Keisha, Being Bisexual isn't just about sex. Gay/Lesbian people are also attracted romantically. ...
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| My friend? | 11/2/2008 |
Q: Well i think I'm pretty much straight but have had some feelings for a couple girls. I stopped it ...
A: Jade, I don't know if your friend is Gay or Bi. I think the second example, with the pulling up of ...
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| Does my best friend like me? | 11/2/2008 |
Q: "Im a 14 year old girl and im pretty certian that im bi. I've always been attracted to my best ...
A: Kayla, I can't really say. The best thing you can do is ask her. The thing with being really close ...
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| Need Help ASAP! | 10/30/2008 |
Q: i like this one guy named Vincent who is 19 a lot. well he likes me back he said but the he don't ...
A: Henry, Well, it depends on where you live for this to work. If he is worried about the entire ...
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| OK, what can i do | 10/25/2008 |
Q: well i am a boy 16-17 year old boy and am currently coming to term with the fact that i am 50-50 bi, ...
A: Tobi, Well, first, I wouldn't suggest gay pornography as that doesn't seem to help anyone... ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 10/25/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I know that you guys won't respond to anyone under 18 or 19 but I really need ...
A: Corrina, The thing is, Sexual Orientation is not a choice. If you aren't really sure you are, then ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 10/24/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I know that you guys won't respond to anyone under 18 or 19 but I really need ...
A: Corrina, First off all, please do not submit the same question multiple times. It just clogs my ...
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| Gay son? | 10/23/2008 |
Q: I have a 15 year old son that does great in school has very nice friends and does nothing but bring ...
A: Aaron, Do not tell your son what you heard. It will end poorly. A lot of kids around his age ...
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| help... | 10/22/2008 |
Q: hey! ok so...i think im starting to come to terms with the fact that i'm really interested in both ...
A: Eli, Well, the first thing is, don't rush it. Sexual relationships are not all that amazing, with ...
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| help... | 10/22/2008 |
Q: hey! ok so...i think im starting to come to terms with the fact that i'm really interested in both ...
A: Eli, The first thing is, try not to loose to much sleep over it. The second thing, how close of ...
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| Pleeeease help! | 10/21/2008 |
Q: Ok so I know this is really cliche and all, but I have a huge crush on a straight girl. First of ...
A: Natalie, How do you know she is straight? Sometimes, you may be pleasantly surprised. My advice for ...
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| coming out | 10/12/2008 |
Q: I am 16 and i have known i was different since i was about 14. I finally realized what was different ...
A: Tori, The best way to start a conversation is to ask what her opinion on these matters are. Ask her ...
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