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| how do i? | 11/2/2009 |
Q: I have recently come out as bi to 3 friends. 2 girls 1 guy. I have a friend and lets say her name is ...
A: ) Well the best way is to be forthright and just be honest with them. Just tell them that your bi, ...
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| Why does it have to be confusing? | 10/31/2009 |
Q: Hi, I'm Khristine, and I'm 19. I've had attractions towards girls since the end of fifth grade, but ...
A: ) Now this is a theory I have and I don't know if its completely true but I think unless you have ...
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| gender identity disorder | 10/30/2009 |
Q: hey,i want to know. how can i get diagnosed with gender identity disorder.i know something is wrong. ...
A: ) Well the best thing to do to get diagnosed is to go see your family doctor. They can refer you to ...
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| Problems with mom. | 10/28/2009 |
Q: Ok so I need some advice on how to deal with my mom. At the begining of this summer she found out I ...
A: ) Thats hard because a lot of people just don't understand. Just tell her how you feel, that you ...
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| Best Friend | 10/26/2009 |
Q: I've known my best friend since 6th grade. We clicked instantly. In 7th grade when she walked ...
A: ) If you love and have loved her for five years then you should tell her you do. It sounds like she ...
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| I love my bi best friend. | 10/25/2009 |
Q: I have been for a while. One of my best friends is too. I really like her. And I think she likes me ...
A: ) Well you do know her the best but from what I can tell it seems that she likes you. Though the ...
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| Help!!! | 10/22/2009 |
Q: hey...i've been bi for some time now but never really acted on it and i like this girl and i really ...
A: ) Well you should say what you feel, what comes from the heart. Though that can be kind of awkward ...
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| Girlfriend may be a lesbian. | 10/22/2009 |
Q: I am a heterosexual male and am 18 years old. I had been in a relationship with a girl for about 1 ...
A: ) I'll try to answer your question as best as I can but if you aren't satisfied with my answer you ...
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| help | 10/21/2009 |
Q: i am a 17 year old girl and i have recently fell in what i think is love with my best friend the ...
A: ) Well if you don't want to have a intimate relationship with her then try to move on. Its not ...
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| Confused... | 10/20/2009 |
Q: .. I'm really starting to get confused. I'm seventeen and I've always kinda wondered about other ...
A: ) There's not real way of finding out if your bi or not, there's not a test or anything. I mean I ...
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| Help!!! | 10/20/2009 |
Q: hey...i've been bi for some time now but never really acted on it and i like this girl and i really ...
A: ) Well a good way to know a girls into you is if she touches you a lot, like hugs you, holds hands, ...
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| What can I do?? | 10/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 14 years old and have been bisexal for some time now, most people know about me at school and ...
A: ) Well a good way is to ignore it. You could listen to music in the halls ( if your school allows ...
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| i dont want 2... | 10/19/2009 |
Q: anyways i cant come out to my parents. basicaly my whole school knows and yea pretty much not all ...
A: ) Well if you don't think writing a letter will do then your best option is to sit them down and ...
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| i dont want 2... | 10/18/2009 |
Q: anyways i cant come out to my parents. basicaly my whole school knows and yea pretty much not all ...
A: ) Well you don't have to tell you parents now, you might find it better to tell them later. Though ...
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| I'm confused and need help | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I'm 13 years old( I know I'm young, but I can't get the topic out of my head no matter how hard I ...
A: ) Well that can be difficult without experimenting with your sexuality, I find thats the best way ...
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| teen needs help | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I am 48 years old, live in the USA, and play a game online with a team that plays in a league. Our ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about your team leader. There's not much to say or do in this situation if she ...
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| Her parents... | 10/15/2009 |
Q: I am going to be 16 soon and I am currently dating a girl who is a year younger than me. She and I ...
A: ) Well thats hard and theres not much you can do if you have controlling parents like that. My ...
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| My mother , My decision . | 10/14/2009 |
Q: I finally told my mom i was a lesbian. Well actually she assumed i was, asked me, And i gave her the ...
A: :) Well it would all depend on how close I was to that friend. But I would probably wait a bit to ...
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| young and confused. | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I am a 14 year old girl and confused about my sexuality. I know I am young but I'm pretty mature for ...
A: ) Well to me you sound quite mature, actually you remind me a little of me when I was your age. To ...
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| Am i bisexual or bicurious? | 10/11/2009 |
Q: Hi i'm a 14 year old male who thinks about sucking penis and then going in my own butt but i don't ...
A: ) Well if you want to have sex with a guy, and would enjoy it then yeah i'd say your bi-curious but ...
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| My mother , My decision . | 10/10/2009 |
Q: I finally told my mom i was a lesbian. Well actually she assumed i was, asked me, And i gave her the ...
A: Well thats hard because I'm from Canada and at sixteen teens are legally allowed to leave home if ...
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| confused | 10/9/2009 |
Q: so theres this girl that im really starting to like..alot! but shes straight, but i sorta thinks she ...
A: ) Well it all depends really. If you think she likes you then go for it but if your not sure I'd ...
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| In love with my (probably) straight friend...etc. | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I'm bisexual and I prefer girls, I've always been relatively secure about my sexuality. I've known ...
A: ) Well its hard to say if its love, sounds like it. If you like her for this long, then yes you ...
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| Questioning Sexuality | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old and have been questioning my sexuality for around two years now. I have been in a ...
A: ) Well its hard because it looks like your attracted to both. Now this might sound weird but when ...
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| ....SO CONFUSED | 10/5/2009 |
Q: I have a pretty interesting situation on my hands. I am a female, and I am stright...I have a ...
A: ) Hm this is really an interesting situation and I'm not sure if I can totally help, but I try to ...
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| Confused? | 10/4/2009 |
Q: I'm a 16 year old female and I've been confused about my sexuality. I guess I like guys but the only ...
A: ) Well if you say you've had bad experiences with straight men, maybe you turn to gay guys because ...
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| Wrong body? | 10/3/2009 |
Q: I'm Dale (I know it is a stupid name) Sorry if this sounds like a dumb stupid question that I don't ...
A: ) ( I like your name, its not stupid) Well I really don't know much about this, but I'll share to ...
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| coming out | 10/3/2009 |
Q: I've come out to my friends and they were not ok with it and now they pretend that im not even ...
A: ) I really sorry to hear about your friends, sometimes I wish their was more tolerance for people ...
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| Am I lesbian? | 10/2/2009 |
Q: I'm 18 and I have known for a number of years now that I am gay on some level. I have never had any ...
A: ) (love your name by the way) Well no I don't think so. If you like the guy then there must be some ...
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| What do I do now ? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: I'm joanna & I'm 18 & in 12th grade. I have a girlfriend we havne been going out for 4 years now. ...
A: ) Well its all up to you. If shes physically abusive, I'd definitely say leave, and fast. It ...
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| WHAT?! now | 9/12/2009 |
Q: Hey Im rachel and im currently 16. Im currently in grade 10. In America So there's this girl. She's ...
A: ) Well if you love her, then its best to tell her. It seems to me she either likes to be really ...
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| confused | 9/10/2009 |
Q: and im not completly sure im bi cause i think guys are cute and all but i dont think anyone in my ...
A: Well I can't say your too young because I knew I was bi in the fourth grade, it happens we just are ...
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| Slight crisis | 9/9/2009 |
Q: I have two really important questions. I'll just start with the simplest one to explain. Both of my ...
A: ) Well I know what your going through and trust me it never gets easier, thats the problem. The ...
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| Keeping it a secret | 9/8/2009 |
Q: :) About half a year ago I came out to my best friend as bisexual. She was wonderful with it, as ...
A: ) Well just be there for her through it all. If she tells her parents, she'll need all the support ...
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| help!! l like my best friend | 9/7/2009 |
Q: First of all sorry if my english is bad, im still learning XP I´m a straight girl, yeah im sure ...
A: ) Well if you get the chance to kiss her then do it, its always nice to fulfill an urge. Alright ...
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| coming out | 9/3/2009 |
Q: this is gunna be a short question ive told my best friend im gay and hes fine but i really wanna ...
A: ) Well there are many ways to come out. For you parents its best to sit them down and discuss it ...
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| Crush and Confusion | 9/2/2009 |
Q: Well I'm 16 and I have this big crush with my best friend since well, the first time we actually ...
A: ) Well by the sounds of it she could love you back but some girls are really friendly toward each ...
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| My mom gave me an ultimatum | 9/2/2009 |
Q: Hey Cynthia, I'm 18 and out of high school. I got a call from my mom in Texas (I'm in California ...
A: ) This is tough. All i can tell you is try to reason with your family. Try to talk to them, tell ...
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| awkward | 8/31/2009 |
Q: im on the process of coming out right now just 1 of my closest friens knows and he accepted me he's ...
A: ) It is very common for people to be a little awkward at first. To some its strange but usually ...
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| Confusedd.. | 8/31/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm 17 and came out that i'm bi cause i thought i was, but now i'm starting to question that ...
A: ) Well it could be a variety of things. First, you might just be scared to have sex with a girl. ...
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| Why her? | 8/28/2009 |
Q: I check out girls, and compare, and acknowledge but only some girls which isn't many catch my eye ...
A: ) Well Natasha you might just miss being around her. I'm not sure about your friendship but maybe ...
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| Denial. Fear. Angst. And the worst of the lot.... | 8/27/2009 |
Q: Well my story is long so I'll be sure to make it short. I was obsessed with a guy once. I never ...
A: ) Thats tough, well I know this is going to sound kind of corny but follow your heart in this ...
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| What should I do? | 8/25/2009 |
Q: I'm stuck in a classic scenario...i like or even might love my same sex best friend. We have a ...
A: ) Well if shes making those comments about you two being together it could mean shes trying to give ...
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| How do I tell my dad | 8/23/2009 |
Q: All right I'm a 15 year old female and my mom and dad broke up when I was little beacaus my mom had ...
A: ) Well it can be really hard to tell someone whose homophobic but if you really love him then tell ...
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| I'm worried | 8/23/2009 |
Q: i'll be kicked out of my church and my friends from church won't like me what do I do?I don't want ...
A: ) Well theres many options,one you could just not tell them. Its not the greatest but it saves you ...
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| Unrequited Love | 8/22/2009 |
Q: I am bisexual and I have been crazy in love with this one particular straight guy friend. The thing ...
A: If theres anything I do know about is its unrequited love. Its hard to love someone that you can't ...
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| What should i do? | 8/21/2009 |
Q: This is one of those i like my same sex friend. We're both girls and last year she told me she liked ...
A: ) Well if you have strong feelings for her then you should tell her. She could still have the same ...
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| Besite! | 8/11/2009 |
Q: Well ya see, i have a friend(thats a girl) that i really really like!like more than jus friends,she ...
A: ) Well if you think your best friend likes you back then you should go and tell her you like her. ...
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| Confused | 8/9/2009 |
Q: Hey Cynthia,i've been in love with my best friend for 3 years now and i'm not sure what to do ...
A: ) Well she could be if shes afraid her parents would be disappointed with two daughters being ...
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| Confused | 8/8/2009 |
Q: Hey Cynthia,i've been in love with my best friend for 3 years now and i'm not sure what to do ...
A: ) Well first off you should see if she acts like this towards her other friends because if its just ...
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| Bisexual | 8/5/2009 |
Q: How can I tell if I'm bisexual or even a lesbian? I've only really had one relationship when I was ...
A: ) Well theres signs, like when you start fantasying about other girls. Sometimes it'll be about one ...
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| confused | 8/2/2009 |
Q: My best guy friend and I have been best friends since we were 11. We recently have grown very ...
A: ) Well maybe try talking and spending more time with the girl and see if your feelings become ...
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| confused | 8/2/2009 |
Q: My best guy friend and I have been best friends since we were 11. We recently have grown very ...
A: ) Well you could really miss him and be projecting your feelings for him toward her and don't ...
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| Mixed signals | 8/2/2009 |
Q: My best friend and i have always been the type to flirt just beause, but now, i'm trying to send ...
A: ) Well it can be the simple hooking arms with each other while you walk to, maybe asking if you can ...
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| Mixed signals | 8/1/2009 |
Q: My best friend and i have always been the type to flirt just beause, but now, i'm trying to send ...
A: ) Well its hard to say because she probably thinks that your just being her friend, and doesn't see ...
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| My Sexuality... | 7/31/2009 |
Q: I was wondering what sexuality I am because I am 'Slightly' attracted to girls but I feel more ...
A: ) Well I can't say for sure but if you find that your only attracted to boys and not girls then ...
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| Catholic and Bi | 7/31/2009 |
Q: Pretty much explains itself. So, to the point, shall we? I started to crush hard on this girl in my ...
A: ) Well thats pretty hard especially with it being someone inside of your church. Well if you want ...
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| Could I Be gay/bi | 7/30/2009 |
Q: I'm a sixteen year old girl and i am finding myself more and more attracted to females, but I've ...
A: ) Well its hard to say but if your more attracted to females but still have an attraction then you ...
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| Lesbian and a guy | 7/29/2009 |
Q: Well im not gay so you may disregard this message,but i am a 17 year old male.I once dated this girl ...
A: ) Well its hard to say because some girls do become lesbians and never go back to dating men ...
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| How do I tell my crush I am gay and like him? | 7/28/2009 |
Q: I am a 17 year old guy, and have a big crush on a friend. I have only recently come to accept that I ...
A: ) Its never to late to tell someone you like them. I'd say to drop hints but I guess that isn't ...
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| Unrequitted Love | 7/28/2009 |
Q: I am 17. For about 3 or 4 four years now I have, for lack of a better word, loved this boy who is a ...
A: ) Getting over someone is never easy but once you do it makes you feel a lot better. I can give you ...
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| my confused girlfriend | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I am currently dating this girl who I adore but am skeptical about her past and if she will cheat on ...
A: ) Well she could really like it, but she might not. This going to sound weird but its something ...
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| confused | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I just graduated high school. Up until this point I've always been attracted to and gone out with ...
A: Hm thats tough. Well if you just want to be friends with her then maybe try to do more group ...
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| my confused girlfriend | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I am currently dating this girl who I adore but am skeptical about her past and if she will cheat on ...
A: ) Well she might like girls and maybe if she tells you that, you'll dump her because of her past. ...
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| confused | 7/25/2009 |
Q: I just graduated high school. Up until this point I've always been attracted to and gone out with ...
A: ) Well if you've never had a crush on a girl, or thought of one sexually then it could just mean ...
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| bi curiousity | 7/24/2009 |
Q: WHATS UP CYNTHINA!!! so its a long story and gets kinda graphic i(i hope thats not a problem cuz i ...
A: ) Yeah your right its a bit graphic but it doesn't bother me. Well if you enjoyed having sex with ...
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| How Do I Know? | 7/22/2009 |
Q: I have an amazing fiance, who i think I'm in love with but lately everything he does is turning me ...
A: ) Sounds like your in a tough situation. Well if you feel this strongly then I'd say you might be a ...
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| How Do I Tell My Mother/Family/Friends Im Bi? | 7/22/2009 |
Q: i've been trying to come up with a way to do this fpr quite some time now. i think my mother and 1 ...
A: ) Well theres many ways to tell people you are bisexual. The ones that I believe to the are best ...
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| Am i bi?? | 7/20/2009 |
Q: I've always been a little confused about me, who I am. I've always liked other girls, and sometimes ...
A: ) Well its hard to say if you are bi or not. Right now you could be bi-curious and maybe you'll ...
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| Advice over possible straight crush | 7/19/2009 |
Q: Sorry I've sent this twice, please disreguard my first email, it had a few inconsistaceys. For the ...
A: ) Its hard to say if hes bi-curious or not. If he turns down all those girls down it could tell you ...
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| Advice over possible straight crush | 7/19/2009 |
Q: For the past 17 months I’ve been suffering from a complex problem of unrequited love. I fell in love ...
A: ) Its hard to say if hes bi-curious or not. If he turns down all those girls down it could tell you ...
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| me | 7/19/2009 |
Q: how will my parents react to me if i tell them if i was bi
A: ). Its hard to say because I don't know your parents. From what I know whoever there are many ways ...
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| Am I bi? | 7/16/2009 |
Q: I know I'm definitely attracted to guys, and I could see myself in relationships with them, being my ...
A: ) Its hard to say if you are indeed bisexual or not. Sometimes you can find people of the same ...
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| Confused | 7/14/2009 |
Q: So I like this girl, who also happens to be a good friend of mine. We spend a lot of time together, ...
A: ). Well if you like her then I say you should tell her how you feel. Maybe ask her how she feels ...
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| please help/.. | 7/13/2009 |
Q: sorry the question be for was on my phone okay im bisexual and i like one of my friends and i like ...
A: ). If you like her then you should ask, it doesn't hurt to at least see if theres anything between ...
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| Fall or move on? | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Alright so, i have this friend. She is straight. But there is something different about her, ...
A: If you can tell her anything and she doesn't judge you then I think you should continue talking to ...
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