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About Danielle
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Expertise
I can answer questions about coming out to friends, family, others in your life (students at school, other relatives), homophobic people around you, anything to do with one's sexuality, including all the many sexual orientations. I may not be able to give a perfect answer every time, but I'll definitely try my hardest to help.

Experience
I have many friends who are gay or bisexual; I am myself, as well as a closeted family member.

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N/A

Education/Credentials
I'm still in high school, but I don't think that limits how much I can help someone.

   

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I need help11/17/2009
  Q: I'm 13 years old guy and I need help. I know I am a bit too young to be thinking about this yet but ...
  A: I'm glad I could help :) Yea, it does sound like he's trying to know more about your orientation, ...
relationship11/10/2009
  Q: I'm already in college. I’m secret in love with my roommate. The problem is I am still not come out ...
  A: ) Could you write about it? Sometimes just writing down your feelings could be a huge help. Or if ...
Best friend??11/7/2009
  Q: So, I'm only 14 but I have been wondering if I might be bi. I wouldn't be lesbian because I could ...
  A: ) Yea, you definitely could be. Sounds like an emotional attraction. You don't need to be sure if ...
How do I know if he likes me?10/30/2009
  Q: My name is Mitchell, I'm 16 years old, and I am bi sexual. I’m a junior in High school and I ride ...
  A: ) You're right-he could freak out. So making a move would be the thing that would most likely ...
Best Friend10/26/2009
  Q: I've known my best friend since 6th grade. We clicked instantly. In 7th grade when she walked into ...
  A: ) Only she can tell you. Maybe her feelings are confusing to HER, and she's working them out. Who ...
help :/10/25/2009
  Q: im 14 and im bisexaul , my mom is very religious and makes fun of gay people , it hurts me cuz she ...
  A: ) Go to PFLAG's website/ PArents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. They have resources for parents ...
I need help10/21/2009
  Q: I'm 13 years old guy and I need help. I know I am a bit too young to be thinking about this yet but ...
  A: Oh ok, I 100% understand that. Of course it's ok! The one rule, to determine whther something's ok ...
Realtionship Help10/20/2009
  Q: I've been really confused lately about my relationship with a friend and everything concerning it. ...
  A: ) You explained it just fine! Do you want to tell him you have feelings for him? MAybe he already ...
I need help10/17/2009
  Q: I'm 13 years old guy and I need help. I know I am a bit too young to be thinking about this yet but ...
  A: ) You're never too young. What do you mean by "better"? That you're only sexually attracted to ...
hey agin?10/16/2009
  Q: wat you said really helped. but now im tried of being single how can i let myself start to date agin ...
  A: ) Accept what has happened. The good and the bad. That was one part of your life experience, now ...
Coming Out10/15/2009
  Q: my name is Liam I am 12 years old, I live in Boerne Texas, and I am a guy. I am 100% sure that I am ...
  A: I'm really glad :) My god that is HORRIBLE. If your safety is at risk, do what is SAFE. Let people ...
what to do10/13/2009
  Q: hay im a 13yr old boy in the eight grade. I am pretty sure that im bisexual because im sexually ...
  A: ) Some people do need to experiment with both sexes to determine their sexual orientation, and ...
help!!10/12/2009
  Q: I'm Taylor and im 14 years old and curently in 8th grade (junior high) and i know for sure im ...
  A: ) You could mention it casually in conversation. Maybe when others are talking about dating, you ...
Coming Out10/11/2009
  Q: my name is Liam I am 12 years old, I live in Boerne Texas, and I am a guy. I am 100% sure that I am ...
  A: ) Congrats on coming out! Well, it's totally up to you, and whether you're willing to take a ...
Coming out to friends and relationships10/10/2009
  Q: so I thought I'd ask you another question =) Ok so Im a girl and Im 16 and my first question is ...
  A: ) Yes, I remember! You could bring it up randomly, you don't have to make a big lead in for it, ...
meeting girls10/8/2009
  Q: I know i have been bisexual my whole life. however, i have only dated guys, because i'm scared of ...
  A: ) Is there a Gay-Straight Alliance where you are? Or any places near by that cater to GLBTQ young ...
Hot & Cold10/7/2009
  Q: Alright, my bisexual (or bi-curious, who knows) friend, who I have "messed around" with for about ...
  A: ) Maybe that's just how she is-she likes different experiences, being with different people. I ...
what should i do? plz help.!10/6/2009
  Q: i am a 16 year old bisexual. me and my girlfriend just recently broke up after we had been dating ...
  A: ) That's totally up to you. It can be easy to say things we don't mean, and the best you can do is ...
I'm scared to make other gay friends10/5/2009
  Q: ok I'm really scared. My sister is the only one who knows that I'm gay and she's trying to introduce ...
  A: ) Why are you scared? That's the issue. Is it because then other people might find out? Or are you ...
being lesbian10/4/2009
  Q: im 14 and im know that im lesbian. I have come out to my friends and they though that I was a freak. ...
  A: ) I'm so sorry you've been treated this way, it's unacceptable. Go to the PFLAG website, just let ...
confusion with sexuality9/30/2009
  Q: Before you say it, I know: only I can ever decide what to label my sexuality, or if I want to reject ...
  A: ) I'm going to give you a few links to some pretty cool ways of determining orientation, but I just ...
i don't know wat to do anymore!!!9/29/2009
  Q: well i have been for sure bi for about 10 months now. my first actual relation ship with a girl was ...
  A: It's incredibly hard. Does Kimmie know? If not, it's best to be completely honest how you feel, or a ...
Confused9/26/2009
  Q: I need help really badly. Im a 16 year old man and im so confused about my sexuality. I like girls ...
  A: ) Nothing abnormal, not even close. I'm not 100% sure what "shemale" porn is...but I'm guessing ...
Confused about a friend, could use advice.9/25/2009
  Q: I'm 19, female and right now coming to terms with the possibility of being bi but i'm not sure. But ...
  A: You can fall for someone else-not by force, but by letting yourself. That just means don't close off ...
coming out SCARED don't know what to do9/23/2009
  Q: Well, I am 16 and I am a lesbian. I have told my parents and they are wicked supportive. I have also ...
  A: ) Well the best way for people to know-you've done! By telling people, they might mention it, and ...
a mess 6 years in the making9/22/2009
  Q: I decided in like 8th grade that I was bi now I’m a freshmen in college and I still haven’t told ...
  A: ) There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, but it's best for you to first be content being on ...
help!!9/20/2009
  Q: Well im bi and i jus recently broke up with my girlfriend. we started off as friends and ive known ...
  A: ) Have you talked to her about how you feel? That's the best thing to do. But before you start ...
Polyamory among teens?9/18/2009
  Q: ) and would like to know if Polyamory is uncommon among teens? The reason I ask is because Ive been ...
  A: ) Pansexual! I'm so happy to see someone, especially who's young, using that term! I wish more ...
help!9/17/2009
  Q: I have this friend at school, shes straight, which is a problem, well shes straight as far as i ...
  A: ) Do you keep a journal? Writing down how you feel can help-maybe not, maybe a little, maybe a lot. ...
Caught Up9/16/2009
  Q: Ok I'm a 16 year-old bisexual guy, who has fallen for someone i hav onl y seen once at a show & i ...
  A: ) Do what you want, and what you think is best for you. You could try talking to him casually and ...
Confused about a friend, could use advice.9/12/2009
  Q: I'm 19, female and right now coming to terms with the possibility of being bi but i'm not sure. But ...
  A: The only thing 'ridiculous' is if ending the friendship would negatively impact you. This is about ...
Confused about a friend, could use advice.9/9/2009
  Q: I'm 19, female and right now coming to terms with the possibility of being bi but i'm not sure. But ...
  A: ) All your feelings are really expected of a situation like yours-jealously, liking. And trying to ...
Am i bi i do not know.9/8/2009
  Q: How do i truly know if im bi or not?
  A: ) Do you have attractions to both sexes? They don't have to be the same type, or the same strength. ...
Bisexual Teen Girl Coming Out of the Closet9/2/2009
  Q: I haven't even entered high school yet and I know I'm bisexual. I like a lot of girls in our grade ...
  A: ) Before coming out, be prepared. It's amazing you already have a support system-your sister-. Arm ...
how do u give a good blow job to another dude8/31/2009
  Q: well im joey i met this guy he is amazing and i was wondering how do u give a good blow job and his ...
  A: ) You can ask him what he'd like. I'm sure different guys like different aspects of blowjobs, but ...
sexual oreintation8/25/2009
  Q: ok so i have been dating both men and women since i even started dating and i am currently with a ...
  A: ) Only you can answer that. Do you have ANY attraction to him anymore? And if not him, maybe to ...
i can't nessecarily come out8/20/2009
  Q: I just recently realized that i am a bi after i kissed my (ex) best friend!!We talked about it and ...
  A: ) Tell them if you want to. I can't say whether it will help or not, but if you want to, then go ...
Confused8/18/2009
  Q: I dont know if i am gay. i have had thaughts of men and all my friends are girls.. Everyone always ...
  A: ) You don't have to figure it out right away. Have you ever had any romantic or sexual thoughts ...
Friend Crush Alert!!!8/13/2009
  Q: OK, im 11 years old and i have a crush on 3 girls. I am bi but only 1 of the girls are, and she is ...
  A: ) What do you want to do? People making fun of you is never ok, they're just insecure. If you want ...
high school?8/12/2009
  Q: Hey, this question might be a little weird but anyways..im 15 and im going into high school when ...
  A: ) I'm sure every high school speaks for itself, but diversity-ethnically, racially, gender wise, ...
First lesbian relationship8/11/2009
  Q: . this is my first lesbian relationship. My girlfriend has been gay since she was 9. I am just ...
  A: ) She should not be telling you that you're boring, you're not, I assure you. Maybe you both have ...
Telling friends and parents about me being bi8/9/2009
  Q: ..but Im not sure how to tell them and I'm not sure wat there reaction will be...because we r a ...
  A: ) Have some PFLAG info for them. Let me know if you want links to their site, it's amazing ...
how do I tell my mom8/8/2009
  Q: Ok...im a 14 year old female and I want to tell my mom that I like girls. The problem is that she's ...
  A: ) Do you want to tell her? IF you do, then could you talk to your sister and get support? If you ...
Don't know8/2/2009
  Q: I want to thank you for the advice. But I'm still a little confused. My thoughts are too much, every ...
  A: ) Do what YOU want. If you want to ask or tell her, you just need to be prepared for rejection ...
could she like me?8/1/2009
  Q: So first off, I'm 13 and I'm bi. Now on the factor of one day explaining this to my parents, I ...
  A: ) I wouldn't think being related to someone who is gay would have an effect. Maybe if there's a ...
Confused7/31/2009
  Q: I am begining to like girls in a different way but I still like boys. It's kind of wierd for me ...
  A: ) You don't have to have it all figured out. Sexuality is too confusing to be able to do that. If ...
confused7/27/2009
  Q: I am a 13yr old male and I don't know if I'm gay or not. I was never attracted to boys until I saw ...
  A: Trying to not think about them will probably just cause you to think about them even more. Let ...
confused7/26/2009
  Q: I am a 13yr old male and I don't know if I'm gay or not. I was never attracted to boys until I saw ...
  A: ) Getting turned on by porn doesn't necessarily say anything about sexual orientation. It's not ...
Personal Advice..I'm confused.7/24/2009
  Q: I'm an 19 girl studying at a tertiary instituition.when I was 10-11,I had felt somewhat emotinally ...
  A: ) Nothing's wrong with you!!!! There's many, many different types of attraction. And as much as I ...
being bi in the military with a husband....7/22/2009
  Q: ..the only thing is that my husband doesnt take me serious when i tell him that i am attracted to ...
  A: ) Of course it's ok! He should know that females are as much of a threat to the marriage as other ...
am i lesbian7/20/2009
  Q: hi there im wondering am i a lesbian i like to dream about gurls mostly sexually i mostly date gurls ...
  A: ) Labels suck, because it can make sexuality even more confusing than necessary. Liking a certain ...
Comming out to my best friend7/18/2009
  Q: Okay, I am about to turn 15 and I am gay. I haven't came out to anyone accept my ex boyfriend. My ...
  A: ) You can bring up your ex, and by talking about him, I think he would know. And maybe if you keep ...
coming out, oh joy.7/11/2009
  Q: ok, I'm 13, and i'm 99% sure i'm lesbian. i know there will be people who won't be suppotive, but i ...
  A: It's really, really hard, but if you have support around you-even one person, that will make it ...
Confused.7/10/2009
  Q: Hey Danielle, Right now I'm feeling very confused about my sexuality, and was hoping you could ...
  A: ) Definitely confusing, but totally explainable. For bisexual people, they have attractions to both ...
How do you know?7/9/2009
  Q: I'm 17 and I'm in love with my best friend and I'm not sure if she likes me or if I should tell her ...
  A: ) Maybe she does, but the whole being with someone of the same sex makes her uncomfortable-it's ...
coming out, oh joy.7/8/2009
  Q: ok, I'm 13, and i'm 99% sure i'm lesbian. i know there will be people who won't be suppotive, but i ...
  A: ) It can be hard to tell-they might be supportive right off the bat. It wouldn't be unusual if they ...
The girl I like & my best friend7/6/2009
  Q: Ok I'm joanna I'm 13 & gay so I really like this girl Ashley like head over heles. I talk to all ...
  A: ) Could yo talk with the friend that might hurt Ashley, and tell her how you're feeling? That might ...
i dont know what to do7/5/2009
  Q: ok this might be kinda long sorry..first of all im in a running team and i love it because my team ...
  A: ) Totally depends on YOU. Yeah, you do have to take that chance that she'll react negatively and ...
Does she like me?6/27/2009
  Q: I'm 17 years old. Recently ive been getting alot closer to this girl Paige i use to be best friends ...
  A: ) Not all girls who don't have a father figure hook up alot, and even if they do, it's not ...
Bi6/22/2009
  Q: Hey I know this letter is really short but I know that I'm bi and I don't know what to do. I keep ...
  A: ) Do what YOU want. You're not obligated to tell anyone if you don't want to. If you feel like ...
confusion and idk....6/17/2009
  Q: ok so u can call me skittles. :) this is going to be kinda hard to explain right but i cant figure ...
  A: Hold strong! You're doing amazing. When I was dating and my now ex told me they "almost cheated on ...
Confuised6/13/2009
  Q: I'm 17 and im a boy very sexualy attracted to my dad everytyme he look's at me i just feel blood ...
  A: Being attached to older men-that's fine. And with your dad-if it's HIM specifically, ask yourself ...
Confuised6/12/2009
  Q: I'm 17 and im a boy very sexualy attracted to my dad everytyme he look's at me i just feel blood ...
  A: ) If you get aroused by both sexes-that could mean bisexual. For a lot of people, feelings towards ...
Coming out6/10/2009
  Q: Well I'm bisexual (I currently like a guy now) and I never really felt like I was in the closet. My ...
  A: ) It's hard to tell with people-maybe he'll react really negatively and want out of the friendship, ...
bi confused6/8/2009
  Q: I'm Christina. so lately I've really been wanting to tell my parents that I'm bi. I'm really scared ...
  A: ) You don't HAVE to tell them-it's only something do to if you wish to do so. Check out PFLAG's ...
Why would she act this way?6/7/2009
  Q: I have a very touchy, close friend. She is one of the most outgoing/wild people I know, but she ...
  A: ) It could be several things-it's just near impossible to be certain. It could be what you ...
I Am Beyond Lost5/31/2009
  Q: Okay Well I Know For A Fact That I Am Bi. However I Don't Want To Be. It Just Doesn't Seem Like ...
  A: ) You can't make them go away. There's is NOTHING to be ashamed about! It's who you are! People ...
my family isn't going to understand5/30/2009
  Q: Ok I'm a 15 yearold bi girl but I don't know how to tell my family. To make things bad tho I am ...
  A: ) Don't risk your wellbeing. You see a lot of how coming out is the best for everyone, but each ...
helppp5/29/2009
  Q: i get alot of bj's but i never seem 2 blow do i hav a problem???? i was with a girl new years and ...
  A: ) No, you don't. Does it feel good, are you getting pleasure from it? If you're not comfortable and ...
coming out...AGAIN!5/27/2009
  Q: Okay so last year my mom noticed me talking to a friend everyday on the phone. A girl to be ...
  A: ) What your parents did is abusive, disgusting, and unacceptable. I hope you're all right. Here's a ...
is it wrong?5/23/2009
  Q: ok look.....im 16 ofcourse im to young to think i love a person but theres this 12 grader nd me nd ...
  A: ) It's not. Your pastor has misinformation that is widely disseminated. Yes, the Bible does say ...
Am I bi or a lesbian?5/14/2009
  Q: Okay, so ever since i was in KINDERGARTEN, I have been attracted to girls. I did have a girlfriend ...
  A: -Hi Kaitlin :) Sounds like the most appropriate label would be bisexual. An attraction to both ...
stuck5/9/2009
  Q: Since near the end of my sophomore year (its nearing the end of junior year now) I have been ...
  A: ) You can try keeping a jornal, and writing down your feelings. You could tell your friend, if ...
I don't know how to act around my friend who I like.5/5/2009
  Q: I know I've been bi for a while, but it's always been physical attractions until recently. I have a ...
  A: ) Weigh the pros and cons. By telling her, you do risk the friendship, but as you pointed out, can ...
Please help me!?!5/3/2009
  Q: hey there, i am 18, i met a slightly older woman by 5 years about a year ago at work, we got on ...
  A: ) You can tell her how you feel about her relationship(s) with mean, and see what she says. It ...
what to do4/28/2009
  Q: i am a 12 yrs old and gay for my friend but i dont think he is gay and other ppl say wait and see if ...
  A: ) First off-NEVER touch anyone without their explicit permission. Unless there's a sober "yes, I ...
♥ashley♥ & my friends4/27/2009
  Q: i'm (gay) joanna,& 13.i'm out to one friend dee, she is my bffl.i meet ashley through dee.ash is ...
  A: ) Do YOU want to tell her? That's the big part. You can also try making a pros/cons list of telling ...
I came out but she doesn't believe me4/22/2009
  Q: I am 13 and recently came out to my mom as bi She is for gay rights and I know shed support me if I ...
  A: ) Congrats for coming out! Explain to her that sexuality doesn't depend on whether you've dated or ...
am i gay4/16/2009
  Q: it is simple question to some but i do not know the answer please help i am 13-15 years old am not ...
  A: ) Sexuality definitely isn't simple-many people are going to have questions at some point. You're a ...
am i straight/bi/gay?4/13/2009
  Q: I'm 20 years old and i have always been with girls i have not had a serious loving relationship with ...
  A: ) Just because you think a guy is attractive or have a fantasy doesn't necessarily mean you aren't ...
Boy help4/5/2009
  Q: Im 15, male and gay. I haven't come out to the general public, only to close friends. So I am ...
  A: ) You can do it however you feel comfortable. Whether it's face to face, im, etc. If you're out to ...
I think i have a crush on my friend who is straight3/28/2009
  Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and i think i have a crush on my friend. Everytime I see her my heart fills ...
  A: ) You don't' have to figure out that orientation you are right away. Those names are just labels. ...
mom3/26/2009
  Q: hey, i am 13 years-old and i have came out, my mom neglects' the fact that i an gay...
  A: ) Am I understanding correctly, in that she ignores that you're gay, and pretends otherwise? Or ...
im i bi or gay3/23/2009
  Q: well i have kissed hundreads of girlz evern gave 1 a lick out but i have been verry drunk everytime ...
  A: ) Is there ANY attraction to guys at all? If so, you could identify as bi. Sexual, emotional, ...
Ask a guy out3/22/2009
  Q: Its me again. The guy I told you about, we've been signaling each other for over 3 months now. At ...
  A: ) However you want! You could ask if he wants to hang out with you one night, tog et a feel for ...
What do I do?3/20/2009
  Q: Hey Danielle, I have a crush on this girl at my college and I really don't know what I ...
  A: ) What you do depends only on one thing-what you want to do about her. If you want to let her know, ...
Confused with a guy3/19/2009
  Q: I'm 17 years old and having some trouble with the gay/straight area. I haven't come out yet because ...
  A: ) I would think, especially by the pat on your butt, he's interested in you. (And if you don't feel ...
What do I do?3/14/2009
  Q: Hey Danielle, I have a crush on this girl at my college and I really don't know what I ...
  A: Hey :) If you feel it's worth pursuing, then go for it! There's no harm in trying. Don't worry ...
how do i come out?3/9/2009
  Q: About 3 years ago i became involved with a girl[I'm also a girl].. but things didn't work out. But i ...
  A: ) You could try sitting down with them, or writing them a letter explaining. You can let them know ...
Name Calling3/8/2009
  Q: Ok. So I really dont like dressing girly and I kinda dress like a boy. I'm an athlete and I'm really ...
  A: ) It depends how you feel about it. If you didn't like what she said, let her know, just by saying ...
I need help3/3/2009
  Q: I have a crush on another boy at my school..I've never had a crush on any girls and I'm 13. What ...
  A: You can tell them face to face, by letter, anything that you're comfortable with. Explain why you're ...
Am I Bi or?2/28/2009
  Q: I'm 15 this year. I am very confused by my sexuality. I think i'm physically attracted to guys (like ...
  A: ) It doesn't have to do with your diagnosis. It's just that sexuality can be really confusing. Well ...
Wat do i do2/27/2009
  Q: Ok hi i figured out i was bisexual a long time ago but at first i told my best friend. well we got ...
  A: ) Ask yourself why you don't feel comfortable saying yes. Is it because you're not ready to be out ...
straight girl crush, where to meet other les/bi teens?2/20/2009
  Q: i have this straight girl crush that will NOT go away..... shes all i think about and its driving ...
  A: ) Telling her does mean the risk of losing a friend. But even if she were to have a negative ...
Bisexual2/19/2009
  Q: Rather I'm bi or not has really been bothering me, for about six to eight months now. There are ...
  A: When it comes telling people, there's no "it's best to do it this way." It mostly depends on what ...
Bisexual2/18/2009
  Q: Rather I'm bi or not has really been bothering me, for about six to eight months now. There are ...
  A: ) Yes, it's possible to know about your sexuality without doing anything physical with someone. ...
i have little atraction 4 guys2/17/2009
  Q: hey danielle...my name is katie im 13 (14 in march) and i told ppl im bi but im in love with girls ...
  A: ) Being bi doesn't mean you have to like both sexes in equal amounts, or even in the same ways. ...
i might be more then bi2/16/2009
  Q: okay well i know i like girls but idk about boys anymore....also im 13 and im 99percent sure i like ...
  A: ) Is there absolutely NO attraction to boys? Sexuality can ebb and flow, so the feelings towards ...
Should I come out to my crush?2/7/2009
  Q: I am a gay male teen. I have a HUGE crush on a guy that comes in every so often at my job. I have ...
  A: ) It's all up to you! You could try asking if he's gotten your messages on myspace. If you're going ...
confusion and coming out to friends1/28/2009
  Q: for many years now i have realised i have a strong sexual attraction to men, previosly i had been ...
  A: ) Well telling your friend is more about whether YOU want to or not. There's different types of ...
sexual confusion1/18/2009
  Q: well when i was little i used to be fat and all the girls i ever liked never liked me so i grew up ...
  A: ) Really, that's for you to decide. I wouldn't say gay, because you have a definite attraction to ...
help me pleaseee, im confuseddd.1/17/2009
  Q: heeey, can you help me? im confused whether i like my best friend or not. im a girl, and so is my ...
  A: ) I can't tell you either of those answers! Whether or not she likes you, you'd have to hear it ...
Absolutely confuzzzled !1/16/2009
  Q: ) So, I'm very, very confused about this gay, bi, bi-curious stuff. I know what the words mean, but ...
  A: ) For some people, bi means being able to have a relationship with both sexes. But from what I ...
i try.1/14/2009
  Q: to start off. my name is Amber and I'm 15, about to be 16 in less than a month. i have a girlfriend ...
  A: ) I'm so sorry about your situation, I can barely imagine having to live with someone who is so ...
I fell in love with my best friend1/12/2009
  Q: Because I felt so insecure about it and horrified at myself, I gradually ended our friendship by ...
  A: ) The most important thing is accepting yourself. But maybe by sharing how you feel with someone, ...
how to come out to my best friend1/9/2009
  Q: ok well im 14 and im a bi male.and i really wanna come out to my best friend but i dont no how to do ...
  A: ) You can do it whichever way you're most comfortable with. Face to face, letter, something else. ...
coming out1/4/2009
  Q: I have just recently discovered that I am Bi and it is still very scary for me. I feel like I need ...
  A: ) Just so you know, there's nothing wrong with not telling anyone. It's very personal, and straight ...
coming out and excepting1/2/2009
  Q: danielle i'm 16 years old and in my last year at school.i've known i've been gay for about 9 ...
  A: ) First come out to your mom and sister so you have support for when you come out to the rest of ...
Comming out to a homophobic best friend..12/28/2008
  Q: my names Alex (im a boy), i guess ill give you my story to help a little with understanding, when I ...
  A: ) Telling him poses the risk of him isolating himself from you or cutting off the friendship. If ...
Discovery12/23/2008
  Q: Hey Danielle thanks for the last reply I aprreciate it..well i thought about it and i tried to stay ...
  A: It must be hard! You're taking the option of not being hurt by her again in the future, and I bet in ...
closet12/21/2008
  Q: i have ben going out with a girl named amber she asked me out and i couldnt tell her i was gay so i ...
  A: ) You could break it off, saying it's not the right time for you. You could come out to her, if you ...
How to stop the love12/19/2008
  Q: Alright I'm 16, bi and in a huge problem Over the past 4 years, I've fell deeply in love with my ...
  A: ) Did you talk with him specifically about how bad you're feeling? Maybe if he knew, he'd be ...
I need closure12/18/2008
  Q: Hey Danielle..I've been reading some of your response for sometimes and you seem like someone who ...
  A: I remember! :D Yeah, and it's really not fair for you to not be able to get closure, but then again ...
Telling my parents12/14/2008
  Q: my name is Nina and I'm 13. I don't know how to tell my parents that I am bisexual. I'm afraid of ...
  A: ) Well you NEVER have to tell anyone about your sexuality. Only do it if it's what you want to do. ...
please help me !!!12/12/2008
  Q: i need ure help ...im 16 yrs old ...im not sure if im gay ...i have a girlfriend of 6 mnths ...i ...
  A: ) I can't tell you what your sexuality is; that's solely up to YOU. However, thinking about guys ...
Rude/Cruel Remarks, Friends, Lovers and Confusion :[[12/10/2008
  Q: My names Brandon ;]] I'm a pretty out going person, very mature for my age (I'm 15). Well, This is ...
  A: ) You have every single right to NOT be treated that way. Insulting remarks are never acceptable. ...
TREEAT12/7/2008
  Q: OKAY...SO I AM GOIN OUT WITH THIS GURL..NEVER HAD A GURLFRIEND BEFORE..I BELIEVE I IMPRESS HER ...
  A: ) Whatever you want! You could surprise her with a special lunch, or taking her out, or maybe a ...
Some confusion11/25/2008
  Q: Me and my girlfriend Kristen have been dating for all most 2 years now and we are litteraly in love ...
  A: ) It's only too much if it starts to interfere with your health and well being. If both of you are ...
phase?11/24/2008
  Q: what does that mean? and how does one feel during thoe 'phases'?
  A: ) Well only your friend can tell you how SHE truly feels. I don't know about phases, it might just ...
in love with my best friend who doesnt love me and im afraid its ruining our friendship!11/22/2008
  Q: Ok so I have never done this before and this will probably be very long so im so sorry and im sorry ...
  A: ) Thanks for giving me all the information! If you haven't told her what you've just told, I'd ...
am i bi ???11/21/2008
  Q: My name is Jennifer and i don't know how to put it but i really don't know if I'm bi or straight. i ...
  A: ) You don't have to figure it out right away. Sexuality is incredibly complex, and is on more of a ...
i feel alone sometimes11/17/2008
  Q: i'm 14 and a junior in high school (skipped two grades). i know i'm bi (closeted) but i'm not ...
  A: ) The bi and lesbian girls you're seeing are the ones who are loud and out there. There are many, ...
coming out!!11/13/2008
  Q: well i'm a bisexual boy who is out a few close friends but it seems it is slowly staring to escape ...
  A: ) You can sit down with them, let them know that you want them to hear this from you first, and ...
is this possible?11/12/2008
  Q: Im 18 year old female. Could someone's sexuality be altered by events in their life? I had a ...
  A: Hey :) You could try and phrase it in a way that won't hurt, but still conveys how you feel. Of ...
Confused.... Am I bi?11/10/2008
  Q: Hey there. I am thanking you in advance for your advice. Okay in order to understand what is going ...
  A: ) a) Completely up to you! If it'd help, and you're comfortable with doing so, then go ahead. If ...
How to tell11/9/2008
  Q: My question is, is how do you know if she likes you. I like this girl, and we've been the closest ...
  A: ) Well the only 100% way to know is to hear it from her. It sounds like she does like you, but ...
is this possible?11/7/2008
  Q: Im 18 year old female. Could someone's sexuality be altered by events in their life? I had a ...
  A: ) It's more likely another dimension to your sexuality was revealed. Of course it's possible that ...
does she?11/4/2008
  Q: I hope that you respond to this soon    . Ok so where can I start I am in love with my best friend I ...
  A: ) If the kiss wasn't something she'd experienced before, like with another girl, then it could have ...
my boyfriend and me11/3/2008
  Q: ok!! im in a relationship with this guy right. We've been going out for about 4 months but there ...
  A: ) Tell your boyfriend how you feel-that you're attracted to another guy, but you'd still like to ...
coming out and school11/2/2008
  Q: i guess I've always known I'm gay, but never really thought any different until i went into ...
  A: ) People are acting like such jerks because they're uncomfortable and ignorant. Ignorant of ...
how to come out11/1/2008
  Q: ok so im bi and my friends dont know yet. and i would like for one to know at first because i kinda ...
  A: ) Be with her, just you two together, some place where you're both comfortable. What you told me is ...
i don't know10/30/2008
  Q: I am unsure if I am a lesbian or not. I am 21 years old. My first sexual experience was with an ...
  A: ) That's completely up to you. If you want to, you have every right to after discussing it with ...
I always fall for straight girls,10/28/2008
  Q: I am currently 14 years old, almost 15 and I'm a freshman at a middle school that holds 8th and 9th ...
  A: ) Deciding to stop having feelings for someone is extremely difficult, if not almost impossible. ...
I'm In Love With My Best Friend But Parents Don't Accept10/27/2008
  Q: Ok to the point, i have a girlfriend (im bi) i liked her for ages and i told her this but she didnt ...
  A: ) Only you can answer that! If you feel happy in this relationship, and that you're benefiting from ...
shes driving me crazy!10/26/2008
  Q: ok so im a junior in highschool, bi, possibly lesbian, still figuring it out. Anyway there's this ...
  A: ) You could try making a move if you're comfortable. You could tell her that when she first asked ...
hmm....10/25/2008
  Q: hey whats up! alright so i messaged teddy awhile back and he gave me some great advice on my ...
  A: ) Don't worry, there's plenty of gay men exactly how you described! The more "feminine" gay man is ...
help! :(10/22/2008
  Q: okay here is the story, there is a guy, that i like, and he keeps hugging on me, hes just joking ...
  A: ) You can tell him any way you want! Of course he may distance himself at first, but with time and ...
hi again.10/21/2008
  Q: heyy sorry, i know ive asked alot of questions. But i just need help with my situation. So there's ...
  A: Feel free to ask all the questions you like! That's what I'm here for :) The best you can do is ...
I love my best friend.10/20/2008
  Q: I have read afew posts simular to this. Having feelings for a close friend. But I wanted to share my ...
  A: ) You can sit down with her and share exactly how you feel. Just be completely honest with her and ...
im in love with my best friend10/18/2008
  Q: hey i think i've talk to you about this before. but before i alked about just thinking i liked my ...
  A: ) You do take a bit of a risk in telling a friend you have feelings for them, but that doesn't mean ...
more problems...10/16/2008
  Q: she took her ex back. now its this whole mess of problems... because she "fell for me" but she took ...
  A: The best you could have done was telling her how you feel. Do you mean you told her that it upset ...
problems..10/15/2008
  Q: here are my problems, i AM bisexual possibly lesbian, not quit sure and right now i could care less ...
  A: ) You could try a trial run with a relationship-if it seems it's just not going to work out, or ...
bi.10/13/2008
  Q: Im 15. and in the 9th grade. i found out i was bi wen i was in the 6th grade. i never came out to my ...
  A: ) You can do it several different ways. Each way is just as good, but it all depends on what you're ...
Telling My Friend I Like Her10/11/2008
  Q: Okay, so I am a lesbian but I think one of my friends is not. This friend happens to be the one I'm ...
  A: ) Well there's always that risk by telling your friend. You can try as best you can though. You can ...
need help!10/9/2008
  Q: .. well its like this: i met this girl like goin on 3 yrs ago n weve been like best friends ever ...
  A: ) The only way to know if she's lesbian is to ask her. You could ask her if she's questioning her ...
I don't even know.10/7/2008
  Q: my name is Gabby. I’m nervous about writing here because I don’t usually ask for advice. Here’s my ...
  A: ) you could try keeping a journal, and writing out how you feel. It's really helpful to express ...
Internet Girlfriend10/5/2008
  Q: I have been talking to this girl online for over a year now and I think she's great, I've felt some ...
  A: ) Whether you tell anyone is ENTIRELY up to you! If you'd like to, go for it, and if not, then ...
Sexual Attraction9/28/2008
  Q: I have some questions that I thought you may be able to help me navigate through. I have been ...
  A: ) There are different types of attraction. Physical, emotional, and sexual. Physical attraction is ...
In Love With My Best Friend9/27/2008
  Q: My name is Tyson, I'm 17, and I'm bisexual. I have a BEST friend of mine named Kai who is also 17 ...
  A: ) You could try flirting back, and see how he reacts. If nothing comes of that, the only way to ...
girl advice9/25/2008
  Q: i was just wondering what your advice would be to show my friend (whos a girl) that i like her in a ...
  A: ) Well, you could just say it to her, casually, "I like you." Or write her a letter/note explaining ...
what do I do?9/24/2008
  Q: Ok. So I know that im gay and I have accepted that, but as a result of that I have two problems I ...
  A: ) If there is any slight chance of something like them cutting you off happening, it would be ...
confusion and stuff9/22/2008
  Q: how are you? i would like your adivce and stuff i guess. i should probably start with im pretty sure ...
  A: ) Telling her is up to you. You take the risk she'll distance herself, but having her know could ...
ex lover9/19/2008
  Q: l need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l ...
  A: In my opinion, it really does sound like she has strong feelings for you, or else she wouldn't be ...
ex lover9/18/2008
  Q: l need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l ...
  A: ) Well, what do YOU want? If you want to be with her, then that's fine. If you want to just have a ...
Am I bi?9/2/2008
  Q: I'm 14, and I think I might be bi. I've been attracted to girls before, and I've got a boyfriend. ...
  A: ) You can wait until you've been with a girl, but many people identify as bisexual before having ...
im confused8/24/2008
  Q: I kind of need your help i have this friend (girl) we've known each other forever and tell each ...
  A: ) Whether you identify as bi is up to you. I can tell you that any attraction to either sex would ...
I don't know what to do!8/21/2008
  Q: I think I may be a lesbian, but I am not so sure. My friend Susan asked me to play "that game" we ...
  A: ) If you want to try and do more sexual activities with her, and she wants to as well-go ahead! ...
wat do i do?8/17/2008
  Q: im 15 and i just became a freashman thursday the 14th, and theres this junior girl i happen 2 have ...
  A: ) Have conversations with her. Compliment something about her, and then build up a casual ...
family genetics8/13/2008
  Q: does genetics have anything to do with being bisexual?
  A: There's no definitive answer for that-some think it has ALL to do with genetics, other think none, ...
Want to masturbate with friends8/11/2008
  Q: I have been having some bi-sexual thoughts for a while and i have talked to others on this website ...
  A: ) Did you mean to send this question to another expert? If not, I'll do my best to answer. Not to ...
help!8/5/2008
  Q: hey there. i turned 16 about 2 months ago. and i came out lesbian to my friends about 7 months ago. ...
  A: ) You can ask your mother how she thinks he'd react. By telling him, you're also taking a risk. And ...
What If? Why?8/4/2008
  Q: ok so im just 13, but what if I said I thought I was bisexual, maybe? I'm the one who has kissed ...
  A: ) There are most likely some gay/bi students in your grade, they're just not "out". I may be wrong, ...
Family8/3/2008
  Q: Hey there, i am a bi 17 year old girl who is kinda confused i came out to a few of my friend and ...
  A: ) Sit down with them, and come right out and say "This is something personal, but I feel is ...
Please... :(7/31/2008
  Q: I'm Lyss, I'm 16 years old, and I'm bisexual and I've known I'm bisexual since i was in the seventh ...
  A: ) Not having had a relationship with a girl shouldn't impact your sexuality-how you feel is how you ...
I think I might be a lesbian7/30/2008
  Q: I am currently 14 years old, but i think I might be gay.Yes, I've had crushes on guys but only in ...
  A: ) If you don't have romantic feelings for boys, then your attraction to girls is unlikely a phase. ...
Confuzzeled?7/21/2008
  Q: Ok, sooo, im bi.. i have my bestest best friend in the world. where both girls, and my friends bi ...
  A: ) Talk with her, and find out if she wants to be in a relationship, or try and start something more ...
does she really like me?7/18/2008
  Q: I went out with this one girl that i really like and we went out at one point. Then we broke up ...
  A: ) Talk with the girl you went out with, and tell her how you feel, ask if she'd like to go out ...
Confused7/14/2008
  Q: I'm going to be 16 in a month and now that I'm getting older it really has hit me about my ...
  A: ) It's definitely a topic that many are incredibly uninformed about, so it will take strong will ...
Coming out (bi)7/13/2008
  Q: I have thought of a good way but I am a little afraid to do it. I was gonna ask one of my bi friends ...
  A: ) I personally like the idea of changing your myspace orientation. If anyone sees it and has ...
To go or not to go?7/6/2008
  Q: This parts a little off topic, but I wanted to mention it. I'd asked you a question about a month ...
  A: ) I'm glad! Hope it all went well. Meeting her is definitely worth a try! It may be more ...
confused and still in high school7/3/2008
  Q: AND A GIRL, AND SOMETIMES,I GUESS CAN SAY FEEL SOME WHAT ATTRACTIVE TO CERTAIN GIRLS I HANG ...
  A: ) Well, this call is really up to you. If you felt an attraction toward her, be it physical (liking ...
very stressed about this7/2/2008
  Q: 4 months ago my brother shocked my whole family and told us, he thinks he is bi. Mind you, that ...
  A: If you don't find any girls attractive, don't worry about the "what if". If you haven't already, you ...
Confusion.6/30/2008
  Q: Im a 17 year old girl from NY. I have had boyfriends in the past and have even fallen in love once. ...
  A: ) A physical attraction would mean that you are attracted to the way a person looks. This can also ...
coming out/homophobic parents/friends6/27/2008
  Q: I am 16, im a girl and I have recently accepted it to myself that im bi, and i decided to be honest ...
  A: ) Congrats on accepting yourself! Biggest step of all. I think the problem is all the ...
very confused6/26/2008
  Q: im in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year and 3 months and i know i love her but i ...
  A: ) It can mean a couple of things-that homosexual sex turns you on, and you're intrigued by it. Many ...
talking to friend6/22/2008
  Q: How do i talk to my friend about whether i think i might bisexual ?
  A: ) Tell them that you have been questioning your sexuality, and you think you might be bisexual. You ...
my friend6/17/2008
  Q: theres a girl i have know for a while i like her so much but i know she doesnt like me. i think she ...
  A: ) Tell her face to face, or by writing her a note. Let her know that you feel it's really important ...
Lost n Confused6/1/2008
  Q: I am bi (i think) maybe just gay. Someone once told me that it all boils down to the sex. whether u ...
  A: ) It definitely doesn't boil down to the sex. Sexual attraction is part of it, but not all. A ...
A couple of concerns about comming out, and homophobic comments.5/29/2008
  Q: I'm 15 years old and a bisexual female, and I finally admitted my sexuality to myself in the fall of ...
  A: ) Sit down with him, or be somewhere in private, where you can let him know just how much you care ...
Help Me?!5/27/2008
  Q: Well I'm 14 years old, and I am bi. Iv always had feelings for girls even when i was little. A lot ...
  A: ) Speak with each of them, privately or separately, and tell them that their friendship means a lot ...
Confusion?5/21/2008
  Q: I am really confused about my sexuality and hope someone can point me in the right direction, so if ...
  A: ) It's great that you're dealing with the feelings you have, and that you are open to the idea of ...
going back into the closet5/14/2008
  Q: I am so tired of people at my school making sexual references to my sexuality and me playing rugby, ...
  A: you're message isn't long! The more info, the better! :) Don't discuss your sexuality anymore. ...
Am I Bi?5/13/2008
  Q: I think I might be bi, but I am not sure. I have kissed a women before, but I am also highly ...
  A: ) Not a long question at all! And the more info, the better. Bi-curious is more associated with ...
Outed5/7/2008
  Q: I have a pretty big group of friends in our high school, and I have come out of most of them as bi. ...
  A: ) Talk with your friend, if you haven't already. Find out why she didn't keep it a secret when you ...
I want to come out already!!!4/28/2008
  Q: ! uhm, im a guy, 15, gay. i have a boyfriend, let's call him matt, 14. we're both freshmen. and ...
  A: :) Sit him down privately, and ask him one more time. Tell him that you'd really like to come out, ...
no other gay ppl4/24/2008
  Q: im 15 yrs old and im gay. I don't have a problem with my sexuality but I do have a problem with the ...
  A: ) Being in a situation where the majority of people are close minded, it's definitely more ...
Telling friends and family4/16/2008
  Q: I'm 16 going to be 17 in june. I think I'm gay or bisexual because some guys just look so Hot, ...
  A: ) Telling your family and friends will mean taking the risk of the not accepting you, or distancing ...
Homophobic parent?4/15/2008
  Q: My dad recently found out that I'm bi (well, as far as he's concerned, I'm a lesbian, because he ...
  A: ) Congrats on starting a GSA! You should have a talk with your dad. Since he seems to not know the ...
IDK wat 2 do4/14/2008
  Q: Well so i have mixed feelings idk if im straight or bi. i noe for a fact that im attracted to both ...
  A: ) By coming out, your family finding out is a risk, so do only what you're comfortable with. It's ...
depressed lesbian friend just loooves me4/12/2008
  Q: Ever since i get to know her close and been her best friend like a year ago.. she was always ...
  A: ) Tell her you even though you don't have the same feelings for her, you truly do love and support ...
mix feelings4/10/2008
  Q: ) well theres this girl im trying to date but im in a dilemma...shes not single, shes dating this ...
  A: ) The only way to get an honest answer from her is to ask what's going on. You could ask if she ...
im bi. but think im a lesbian.4/7/2008
  Q: ok. im 14 and im call my self bisexual. but im not rely attracted to guys anymore ive had it and ...
  A: ) It's not tmi, the more info the better. Well, with bisexuality, it's not uncommon for attraction ...
Unbelievably confused4/5/2008
  Q: I need some help! I'm very confused about pretty much everything at this point. Here's a little ...
  A: ) Nothing's wrong with you, I can definitely assure you. SO many people have the kinds of feelings ...
Should I try to become straight?4/5/2008
  Q: I'm a 17-year-old guy in his senior year of high school and even though I've been attracted mainly ...
  A: ) I'm sorry about your difficult situation. There isn't a way to change your sexuality. You can ...
i have a crush on my4/3/2008
  Q: I'm a 17 y/o closeted gay male who is infatuated with my straight best friend, or at least I think ...
  A: Yeah, I'll admit that does REALLY make it seem like he's covering something up, but it's not my ...
i have a crush on my "straight" friend4/3/2008
  Q: I'm a 17 y/o closeted gay male who is infatuated with my straight best friend, or at least I think ...
  A: ) It's hard to tell. The only sure way to know is to ask him, but it's probably better for most ...
gay friend4/2/2008
  Q: my friend is 18 years old and he has doubts whether he is gay or not. he doesn't like watching ...
  A: ) It's not unusual for porn to have absolutely NO indication of one's sexuality. There are many ...
pleasee help!!!!4/1/2008
  Q: well... i´ve never done this before, it's kind of scary because i just accepted to myself i might be ...
  A: ) Talking with someone, and admitting your feelings to yourself are great first steps to make, so ...
My father...3/28/2008
  Q: My folks are divorced so that will make this easier to follow. My mom knows I'm gay, since i was 18. ...
  A: ) The only way is to be confident in who you are, have your mother's support, and even when you're ...
confused and easily annoyed3/28/2008
  Q: Ok, so I have a boyfriend, whom I love with all my heart, but I'm still really confused. I've ...
  A: ) The best thing I can tell you is to talk with your boyfriend about this. If you're scared about ...
Coming out about me being Bi3/26/2008
  Q: i am a 13 yr old girl who is bi and i need help coming out about it 2 of my BFF's found out and they ...
  A: ) Tell your mom first, so you can have her support when you tell your dad. Then, sit him down, or ...
Out and open3/26/2008
  Q: I have a girlfriend and I don't know if that makes me a lesbian or if I might be bisexual... but ...
  A: ) It doesn't make you anything; having a girlfriend just means you're attracted to and dating ...
embarrassed3/25/2008
  Q: i think i'm a lesbian. i don't like boys really and i have crushes on girls. i've been thinking ...
  A: ) Even if you're liberal, the anti-homosexual messages that are common in today's society still may ...
bisexual3/25/2008
  Q: hi i am 13 years old and i think i am bisexual because i can look at cute guys the same as i can ...
  A: ) Some people may be confused about it when you tell them, because bisexuality is incredibly ...
Help---3/15/2008
  Q: I've told my mom, cousin's wife, and some friends that I'm bisexual. But...my aunt found out in the ...
  A: ) Confornt her, and let her know that you didn't want her to find out the way she did, but it ...
i have my chance...should i jump?3/14/2008
  Q: my name is Denice. i am 15.I live in Albany Oregon,and i am a full blown lesbian. I've read some of ...
  A: ) The best way to figure out if this is a good move-talk with Katie! The concerns you shared with ...
how?3/13/2008
  Q: How do you tell your parents that your bi if they dont approve
  A: ) Only do it if that's what YOU want, and know that they won't do anything drastic, like kick you ...
Am I bi or jus confused??3/10/2008
  Q: Hey, im 15 and i think im bi but im not sure... when i went into high school i was straight until i ...
  A: ) At 15, or any age, it's natural to be confused. However, 15 is around the age when many bisexual ...
Was the Worst actually not the Worst?3/10/2008
  Q: I've written before to allexperts.com, and first of all, thank you to you all. I'm not asking for ...
  A: Oh, ok! You're in a difficult position, because of the time limit. Enjoy the friendship as best you ...
Was the Worst actually not the Worst?3/8/2008
  Q: I've written before to allexperts.com, and first of all, thank you to you all. I'm not asking for ...
  A: ) No no, the more info the better, and your English is great! IF he's still acting the way he did ...
i like a girl but im not sure she likes me3/6/2008
  Q: ok so im 14 and im just came out to my bestfriend jackie. Im still really scared to tell other ...
  A: ) Well, telling others and your family is a HUGE step. Make sure you're comfortable telling them. ...
dealing with bisexualism3/6/2008
  Q: Hey Danielle, Just some background for you first, I am a 19 year old female, but I have been dealing ...
  A: ) It's good to confront and talk about your feelings, because it will help SO much and make dealing ...
How do i come out to my basketball team and friends?3/5/2008
  Q: So Ive known im gay since i was little i would always put the feelings aside because growing up in a ...
  A: ) Talk to your coach first, so you can get their support behind you. I mean, you don't have to, but ...
Help.3/4/2008
  Q: Okay, I'm having some trouble here... I have already told a few of my closest friends about being ...
  A: ) Yeah, it's difficult to gauge who will react in what way. Telling them in a straightforward ...
Does he like me, I like him!3/3/2008
  Q: I am a 16 year old lad from the UK. There is this guy who is in a few of my classes and I think he ...
  A: ) Couldn't tell you if he likes you, only he can. it does appear he has an interest in you though. ...
I am afraid to tell my mom about my sexuality3/2/2008
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl and I know by now and have know for a year or two that I am at least ...
  A: If she has concerns, let her know that there is nothing for her to worry about, and if she does have ...
I am afraid to tell my mom about my sexuality3/1/2008
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl and I know by now and have know for a year or two that I am at least ...
  A: ) She probably has an image of you as a daughter who will get married to a wonderful guy, settle ...
I'm coming out to my parents and i'm not sure if i'm lesbian or bi even though i have a girlfriend.2/22/2008
  Q: Ok so my mom found out that i have been kissing my best friend(my girlfriend).I'm not sure how to ...
  A: ) What's important is telling them the truth, no matter who it upsets (as long as your parents ...
HELP!!2/19/2008
  Q: I really need help with this problem.Ok so I don't even know myself if I'm bi or not. Anyway I ...
  A: ) It's normal to not know or be unsure of your sexuality. You'll know in time. If you haven't ...
Comeing Out2/15/2008
  Q: Ever since i was 7 i took notice that i found girls as only a friend and was attracted to this some ...
  A: )If you want to tell them one at a time, or all at once, what you should do is sit them down, and ...
Totally Depressed2/14/2008
  Q: How can I start? I met this guy who became my best friend almost 6 years ago in high school. We ...
  A: ) Take him for what he says. He's offering you friendship, and nothing more. Maybe he's not ...
Beyond confusion2/13/2008
  Q: Hey Danielle. You might not even begin to know how to help me with this, which is fine. I'll thank ...
  A: I'll definitely try my best :) If you're comfortable, talking about this with your boyfriend is a ...
im in love with one of my friends2/12/2008
  Q: I met this girl named Mariena, we have so much in common we became close friends quickly, but I've ...
  A: ) Down be so hard on yourself! I bet you're beautiful too. Feeling all these emotions is difficult, ...
telling someone you like them.2/9/2008
  Q: I'm afraid my question's a bit complicated. I'm in something called the Air Training Corps (a kind ...
  A: ) It's a difficult situation. When you tell someone you have feelings for them, you do have to be ...
Does wearing certain shoes mean your bi or gay?2/9/2008
  Q: Im in a hurry, study hall. Im 14 and my friend is from Europe. He wears these clogs that are called ...
  A: It's great things have worked out so well! Maybe you have feelings for this friend,and that ...
sister in love with herself2/8/2008
  Q: Hey, I'm really worried about my sister. I think she is turning into a slut. She has really big ...
  A: ) Start by not using the word slut. Toward her, or in general. It's a word with no meaning, and ...
I dont know if im bi nd and if i am, how do i tell my boyfriend.2/7/2008
  Q: ok well theres a problem.. my bf asked me awhile ago bout if i was bi nd i said no im not..then ...
  A: ) It could be either way. Alot of people have that curiosity about something they've never ...
hey2/3/2008
  Q: so im in love with this girl, but my friends and family dont know that im bi. I dont know what to do ...
  A: ) It's your decision. It all comes down to what you're comfortable with. If you'd like to share ...
Should I Date Her?2/3/2008
  Q: Hmmm well I think this is more of an advice thing then a question im not sure. They say "people who ...
  A: ) Think about your situation first. If you're going to graduate then move away, if that's what you ...
she2/1/2008
  Q: ok am bi but i wanna no how can i prove to a gurl i like her
  A: ) There really isn't any way to "prove" you like her. Being committed, open, friendly; that's what ...
I know, But im scared.2/1/2008
  Q: I am Nanami i am 13. I know i like girls, But i don't want to tell anyone beacuse im afraid i will ...
  A: ) It's fine to be afraid; many people are in your same situation. If you're hanging around with a ...
what am i ?1/29/2008
  Q: just turned 17,all my life iv been like attracted to only girls and still are,iv been out with lots ...
  A: What I meant by the last part was that, since you mentioned that you don't feel any other ...
what am i ?1/28/2008
  Q: just turned 17,all my life iv been like attracted to only girls and still are,iv been out with lots ...
  A: ) What you are is completely up to you. However, being turned on and liking homosexual porn doesn't ...
confused!1/28/2008
  Q: ...i'm 15 and have a boyfriend who i have been seeing for 4 months now...he makes me happy and i ...
  A: ) There's only one way to find out for sure: Ask! She may not be comfortable telling you, since ...
I'm pansexual, I've got a boyfriend, and this girl keeps hitting on me.1/28/2008
  Q: I'm 13 years old, female, and I'm pansexual. I recently became my best guy friend's girlfriend. ...
  A: ) Shes' being completely violating. If she's touching you, and you don't want her to, she should ...
Coming Out1/27/2008
  Q: Well, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been pretty sure something was different about me for years. ...
  A: ) Congrats on finally accepting yourself! That's great, and the most important thing. It just comes ...
The Kinsey scale1/27/2008
  Q: I know the Kinsey scale is a scale to measure one's sexual orientation from 0 to 6, but I have heard ...
  A: ) Yes, people definitely can move around on it; that's what Kinsey expected throughout one's ...
wats rong with me??1/27/2008
  Q: hey danielle, uhm, I'm 15 and im gay (or bi, but i think gay, i definitely like dudes tho). anyway, ...
  A: ) You never know if he's bisexual or not straight; so there's always a chance. But yeah, just treat ...
what do i do12/17/2007
  Q: I'm a junior in high school and I've been confused about my sexuality since last year, but thats not ...
  A: ) Being confused is normal and expected. Since she's straight, there's probably nothing you can do ...
am i bi?! what should i do?12/16/2007
  Q: I'm only 13. -_- yes i know I'm to young to be thinking about this but i just can't help it. i took ...
  A: You're not too young. If you think the quiz might indicate something, ok, but it's just a an ...
Confused about this dream...12/16/2007
  Q: I'm a girl and I just recently turned 14. This is so weird. Last night I had a dream ok I'll just ...
  A: ) It means one of two things, and it is really quite simple when you look at it. If we go in the ...
just in love12/15/2007
  Q: I'm 15 nearly 16 and i have the strongest feeling ever for another girl.For around years i have ...
  A: ) It'll be hard for her to not be so scared about being with a girl, and what people would think of ...
"girl crush"?12/14/2007
  Q: well theres this girl at my job who's a shift leader and I'm like obsessed with her, i go to see her ...
  A: ) Your sexulaity is fluid, so right now you're attractions are leaning more towards girls. This can ...
girlfriend has lesbian feelings12/10/2007
  Q: ive been with my girlfriend for a few years now shes 17 im 20 and recently we've stopped having sex, ...
  A: ) You need to confront her about it. Ask her if she has feelings for women, and if she denies it, ...
religion and bisexuality12/10/2007
  Q: Well to start off, I think im bi not positive but pretty sure and at church today there was a big ...
  A: ) It's who you are, like you said. I personally do not beleive you will go to hell for being who ...
lesbian non sexual dream12/9/2007
  Q: I'm a 19 year old female and i dreamt that I was hanging around with a female and we walked to a ...
  A: ) It could mean one of two things; You have feelings for her way deep down, or it could mean ...
Straight or Bisexual12/8/2007
  Q: Okay so, I'm 14 years old and I'm having a difficult time figuring out whether or not I like boys, ...
  A: ) At your age, or any age really, that's completely normal and almost expected. At your age, being ...
plz help11/19/2007
  Q: i am lesbian or bi , is that a not normal? sometimes i think that i am worthless good for nothing ...
  A: I'm sorry you weren't happy with my response. I shared with you as much knowledge as I had. Deal ...
hellpppp11/17/2007
  Q: So im a 16 year old girl and im having some problems. The thing is is that since the summer i have ...
  A: Hey Sarah :) Tell your boyfriend how you feel, and what's going on. It'd be best not to keep this ...
?????11/16/2007
  Q: i am soo in love with my boyfriend its not funny but i am afraid that he is gay bc he asked 1 of my ...
  A: ) He may be bisexual, and just wants to experiment with the other sex. The one way to find out is ...
I know I'm a lesbian, but...11/13/2007
  Q: I have been absolutely sure I am a lesbian since I was quite small , say about 8 (I'm 13 now). I ...
  A: Hey Carolyn :) There's nothing wrong! That's just how you are. The only thing I can think of that ...
I need some help??11/13/2007
  Q: I'm having trouble telling my family and ma freinds that i'm Bi is there anyway you could help me ...
  A: ) If you want to tell them face to face, sit them down and come right out and say it. Don't ...
help me please11/12/2007
  Q: its very serious between us we even bought our own house, but iv got a problem, when we first got ...
  A: ) To know the most accurate answer, you'll have to ask him about this. Maybe his attraction to men ...
being gay11/9/2007
  Q: I guess you can call me bi since i like guys and girls. i am a boy. buy I don't call my self ...
  A: Soulforce anti-glbt? It's all pro-glbt/religion. ...
There's this guy...11/8/2007
  Q: So I've known I'm gay since, well, 4th Grade. Confirmed in about 6th. Right now I'm in 8th Grade, ...
  A: Just come right out and tell him. There is ALWAYS a risk that he'll pull away from you or feel ...
Coming out.11/7/2007
  Q: I'm 15 years old and I have recently discovered that I am bisexual. My best friend has also recently ...
  A: Just tell your friends straight out, don't dance around the subject. Tell them separately, or ...
being gay11/7/2007
  Q: I guess you can call me bi since i like guys and girls. i am a boy. buy I don't call my self ...
  A: Telling your friend will mean the slight chance of her sharing the information with others. Talk to ...
She makes me hurt.11/5/2007
  Q: Back information to make this easier: I'm 16. I'm in high school. I'm pretty much Bi. I go to a ...
  A: Hey Megan I know exactly what you mean. It's so hard with girls, because so many naturally flirt ...
What can I do?11/1/2007
  Q: 17, Junior in HS. I have an incredible g/f. I really love her. Heres my problem. For like the past ...
  A: No, it doesn't mean anything. It's a fantasy, and for many people it stays that way. Nothing to ...
Does wearing certain shoes mean your bi or gay?10/29/2007
  Q: Im in a hurry, study hall. Im 14 and my friend is from Europe. He wears these clogs that are called ...
  A: If you tell either of them your fantasy you are taking the risk of losing their friendship. I'm not ...
coming out to my mom10/12/2007
  Q: My name is Angel and I'm 15, ill be 16 in April, and I'm bisexual. I've told all my friends and they ...
  A: ) Well, it's best for them to find out from you then from someone else. Or else tension ...
help..........10/11/2007
  Q: Ok so a couple of weeks ago I told some of my friends at school that I was gay. One of them I ...
  A: Well, it was a good idea on your part. If you want to, go ahead and make one. Maybe it'll be a ...
help..........10/10/2007
  Q: Ok so a couple of weeks ago I told some of my friends at school that I was gay. One of them I ...
  A: ) If you're going to tell him you like him, you HAVE to be prepared for a negative response from ...
i'm not sure10/9/2007
  Q: I'm not sure if I'm bi or not. I've always liked boys and I'm definitely attracted to them. ...
  A: ) What you are is up to you. Having any sort of attraction to either sex constitutes bisexuality. ...
how does it feel to be gay?10/8/2007
  Q: ive hear that a lot of gay men have known their gay all their life?or at least realised at an early ...
  A: Yeah, that happens. It could mean it's just fantasies. Fantasies, not always meaning something ...
how does it feel to be gay?10/7/2007
  Q: ive hear that a lot of gay men have known their gay all their life?or at least realised at an early ...
  A: Yeah, a lot of gay people do realize they're "different' at an early age. But bisexual people ...
am i gay?10/3/2007
  Q: ok for the last 2 years ive masturbated to women i was crazy about tits women in porn etc. then ive ...
  A: No, it doesn't make you gay. And don't worry about "turning" gay, you can't. You just happened to ...
Problem with possible homophobe with BF love10/3/2007
  Q: I'm Brett, 15 years old, and Bi For 3 years, I have had a huge love attraction to a friend of mine, ...
  A: I'm glad I could be of help :) Great. It's an excellent first step. Wherever you'd feel most ...
what should i do...?10/2/2007
  Q: ok. so i'm bi. but i havent come out yet except for to one of my friends that is also bi. i've ...
  A: The best thing to do right now would probably be to wait until you're very comfortable around her ...
what should i do...?9/30/2007
  Q: ok. so i'm bi. but i havent come out yet except for to one of my friends that is also bi. i've ...
  A: ) You can come out to her, and see how she reacts. Tell her it's something you want to share with ...
my friend behaves really weirdly9/29/2007
  Q: Heya I am 17 and my name is Jacky =] OK i am not saying i think my friend IS a lesbian or anything ...
  A: Hey Jacky :) Maybe the guys aren't hot or good looking to her. Some girls don't like to share which ...
what should i do9/28/2007
  Q: i was friends with this girl for 2 yrs and then we dated for a while. she started going back and ...
  A: ) If you want to be friends with her, and only friends, then stick with that. It really can't hurt. ...
Bisexual?9/28/2007
  Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
  A: Well, congrats on the acceptance and coming out. That's great! Don't worry about the image at all. ...
Problem with possible homophobe with BF love9/28/2007
  Q: I'm Brett, 15 years old, and Bi For 3 years, I have had a huge love attraction to a friend of mine, ...
  A: ) I agree with the idea that you should tell him. It's not good for you to keep it all locked up. ...
i love her9/27/2007
  Q: Im 15 and I think im bisexual or lesbian. well since about year 7 i started having emotional ...
  A: ) Only being attracted to guys sexually doesn't necessarily mean you're lesbian. If you want to ...
Questioning my sexual orientation9/22/2007
  Q: I'm going to try to make this as brief as I possibly can. Here is my situation. I am a 17 year old ...
  A: There's really no way to tell her that's better than any other. It's more about the way in which you ...
my friend9/21/2007
  Q: I'm Sheyanne I am 18 years old and i believe i have a problem. My best friend Lauren is,I believe, ...
  A: ) The jealousy is normal and expected. Forgetting her all together will be extremely difficult, ...
interested9/20/2007
  Q: ok im 18 and im bi i only been wit one gurl and in relationships im usually am the one gettin my ...
  A: Ok, then that's great you're talking to her. Keep doing just that. Gain her trust as a friend, and ...
How do I tell my grandmother about my sexuality?9/19/2007
  Q: I'm Jenny, I'm 15 and I live with my grandmother. I've been bi since about 6th grade, and as my ...
  A: You're welcome :) Sounds like it went ok. She probably never got to fully learn or understand about ...
How do I tell my grandmother about my sexuality?9/19/2007
  Q: I'm Jenny, I'm 15 and I live with my grandmother. I've been bi since about 6th grade, and as my ...
  A: ) If you want to tell her in person, sit down with her, in your spare time or over dinner, and say ...
bisexuality9/17/2007
  Q: ok baseically all of my friends know that i'm bi...but how do i tell my mom and my family? i ...
  A: ) If you don't want to, no. Most families like to know, and might feel hurt if they find out from ...
urgg9/15/2007
  Q: i supose this isnt a question, but i needed to write it, and just have somebody write back to me! ...
  A: Hey Sian :) Well, sounds like everything went fairly well, except not having talked to her since. I ...
I want to come out...9/12/2007
  Q: Basically Im bi! No questions asked! Im pretty sure im ready to come out... Every morning I wake up ...
  A: One way is to just go through without before you can stop yourself. Get up and go right away to her ...
im going crazy9/9/2007
  Q: I think im in love with my bff sammy.....btw im a girl..and so is she...im bi...but im not sure if ...
  A: ) From just that, I can't tell you if she likes you or not. You would actually know better than I ...
younger siblings9/7/2007
  Q: i am a 17 year old girl who recently came out to her family. my parents say they are fine with it ...
  A: ) Yeah, that sounds like what they're doing. Kind of like a "what they don't know can't hurt them" ...
i like someone who dosnt like me back9/4/2007
  Q: i just recently came out to my mum and dad and one of my friends wo is bi-sexual. but then i moved ...
  A: ) The only way you can make sure she doesn't tell anyone else is to go talk to her, or tell your ...
My Parents9/4/2007
  Q: They may not be homophobes and are generally supportive in anything I do, but it's kind ...
  A: ) You can tell them just about anywhere. At the dinner table, while watching tv, sitting them down. ...
losing my mind9/4/2007
  Q: I am a 21 year old male. My whole life I thought I was straight. I liked women. I was never ...
  A: This is what I think about your situation - you don't have to agree w/ any of it. You don't have to ...
Does this mean something?8/31/2007
  Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
  A: ) Feeling like this is totally normal and bound to happen when you like someone. One day they're ...
my mom8/31/2007
  Q: hey its me again. now i never told my mom yet but shes making me feel weird. now shes showing me gay ...
  A: ) She really shouldn't do that. I mean, 15? It's kind of like by showing you these places she's ...
Im Really Confused8/28/2007
  Q: i'm 13 years old right now. I have never liked a girl. I have ALWAYS liked guys. I do not want to ...
  A: ) It's perfectly normal to be a straight girl who likes breasts and gets turned on by lesbian ...
Does this mean something?8/26/2007
  Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
  A: Hey :) I'm so glad you know there's a difference between love and infatuation. Too many people ...
masturbating8/26/2007
  Q: im not sure if ur a boy or a girl cuz i've met both boys and girls who had that name, and i think ...
  A: it seems that the expert to whom you asked this question is not available. I know you wanted a guy ...
telling my family8/25/2007
  Q: ok well i just turned 15 in July and i think I'm bi or lesbian. i had a girlfriend when i was 14 and ...
  A: ) Maybe she didn't forget you'd told her you we're bi, and she thinks putting down lesbians is ok. ...
Whay about my parents?8/25/2007
  Q: I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm Bi. I want to tell my parents but I'm afraid they'll kick me ...
  A: ) If there's a serious risk of them kicking you out, then it's probably best not to tell them, as ...
comin out8/24/2007
  Q: ok, first off i want to apologize for the length of this...thing. ok, i'm a 14 boy and im bisexual. ...
  A: Yeah, you're right. Do whatever you think is best, but if you don't want to do it in person you ...
Bi8/24/2007
  Q: okay i am 13 and i am bisexual, i only came out to my boyfriend after i foundout he as bi. my 2 best ...
  A: ) It might be better for your dad to know now then find out later. That way, if you were to have a ...
comin out8/24/2007
  Q: ok, first off i want to apologize for the length of this...thing. ok, i'm a 14 boy and im bisexual. ...
  A: ) You're right, it's really the longer the better. It's not necessarily better to do it in person. ...
Does this mean something?8/22/2007
  Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
  A: ) She sounds really shy then. If that's true, then it is difficult to establish eye contact for ...
I may be Bi...8/21/2007
  Q: im a 17 year old male and let me start off by saying I've never had a real girlfriend/boyfriend, I'm ...
  A: ) If you want to classify your sexual orientation, you're not too young- although some people who ...
Does this mean something?8/17/2007
  Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
  A: ) Hm. Seems like she's interested, and/or thinks you're pretty. She definitely had to do some work ...
need some help..again?8/16/2007
  Q: Im still thankful for your help on that well now im kind of over her. Maybe alil to fast but see ...
  A: Greta, great plan. And sure, why not? She seems liked she'd be willing to. Don't worry about it, a ...
Wuduw I do8/16/2007
  Q: Even though it was hard, I have totally excepted my sexuality. I know I'm gay and I can honestly say ...
  A: ) What you're doing is really, really brave, and good for you. You shouldn't have to hide who you ...
should i???8/16/2007
  Q: my name is brandon and i look at myself as a 100% gay male, but iam a little interested in trying ...
  A: ) Well, you can most certainly be gay and still be interested like that. I mean, if you choose to ...
is it really so weird?8/16/2007
  Q: Ok...Um, I recently figured out that I'm bi, and now I've been thinking seriously about being in a ...
  A: ) No, it's not weird at all. More people do this then you may know. It takes a lot of hard work, ...
Stress and living a lie are making me suicidal8/15/2007
  Q: For the past few months I've had a huge problem with my sexuality, I think thats what started this ...
  A: ) I am so, so sorry to hear you are feeling this way. You were dealt a horrible card, but good ...
I think im bi...help!!!8/15/2007
  Q: Lately I've noticed that when my friends point out guys who they think are hot, I'm not really that ...
  A: ) For a lot of bisexual people, this is common. Your sexuality can flow, so attraction to each sex ...
i could use some help...8/14/2007
  Q: ok so my mother is really judgmental about gay people... come to think of it my whole family is... ...
  A: You can say that you find what she says offensive because it's demeaning to other people (and you ...
i could use some help...8/14/2007
  Q: ok so my mother is really judgmental about gay people... come to think of it my whole family is... ...
  A: ) If you're not comfortable telling them , you don't have to. If people are very judgmental, and ...
Bisexual?8/13/2007
  Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
  A: Only tell someone if you're comfortable with it. It's no one's business, and you don't have to come ...
confused.8/12/2007
  Q: i dont know is im straight or bi or curious. i hate these freaking labels.. i've dated guys but ...
  A: ) You can just throw labels out the window if you really want, there's no need to have one. But it ...
Bisexual?8/12/2007
  Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
  A: You're very welcome. lol, I'm a sucker for corny jokes :P That's true. Things can go wrong with ...
IN DESPERATE NEED OF HELP!8/11/2007
  Q: "Okay, so here's the story. It was April when I met her. Her name was Ariel. I mean, I've seen her ...
  A: ) It seems like she really, really cared for you. But maybe a same sex relationship wasn't right ...
How do i come out?8/9/2007
  Q: Hey! Im 16 and im having a 2 prombles. 1st promble: I dont know if i sould tell my Mother im bi or ...
  A: ) If you'd feel more comfortable being out, then do so. If you do say something like that, say it ...
confused????8/9/2007
  Q: I am 15 years old and am a lesbian. I have accepted who I am and am happy with it. However my ...
  A: ) If you think that they'd go to the extreme of kicking you out or something, don't come out as ...
I am confused about what is going on with my best friend..8/7/2007
  Q: heya Danielle, my name is Roxy and I am in a bit of a dilemma. i will give you a few bullet points ...
  A: ) Yea, it certainly sounds as if she has feelings for you. Maybe, if you haven't seen her in a ...
how do i know if im a lesbian or bi?8/6/2007
  Q: ok, so my name is Devin and i have recently been questioning my sexuality.I've dated a boy who i ...
  A: ) Some people do go through phases, since sexuality can flow and change a bit over the course of ...
i think im bi8/4/2007
  Q: well i have a problem im almost 100% sure im bi but still kinda confused overall i like girls more ...
  A: If you really want to then yes, keep talking to her about it. If she believes it's a sin, then she ...
i think im bi8/4/2007
  Q: well i have a problem im almost 100% sure im bi but still kinda confused overall i like girls more ...
  A: ) If your feelings for them are genuine, like any other guy you may or may not have had feelings ...
coming out to friends at school8/3/2007
  Q: I'm bi and want to start coming out to some friends at school. I keep finding some problems. How can ...
  A: ) Choose the person you trust the most, and tell them you don't want them to tell anyone else. And, ...
ashamed???8/2/2007
  Q: Hey im a 16 year old girl and just recently came out to a couple of my friends that im gay. Well my ...
  A: ) No, it's not silly, it's just hard when your parents have already put expectations on you like ...
girlfriend is bi8/1/2007
  Q: I started dating this girl. I"m really into her and she's really into me. We had this talk recently ...
  A: ) The situation you're talking about is called polyamory-having more than one intimate ...
help!!7/31/2007
  Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
  A: Ok, so the mouth. See, with your hands- you can move those anywhere you want, rub her, do w/e. But ...
help!!7/31/2007
  Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
  A: Not at all. I doubt anything could get too weird for me :p Ok, starting from where we left off, ...
help!!7/30/2007
  Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
  A: Ah no problem, it's nothing to be embarrassed about Ok, once you're kissing her, and she's kissing ...
telling freinds7/30/2007
  Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
  A: Did he see what your fiance was doing? Make sure he sees, and then try and slowly reach your hand ...
help!!7/30/2007
  Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
  A: ) Well, if she ever grabs you again or kisses your cheek- do it back. If you're ever alone ...
Homophobic friend7/30/2007
  Q: My Best Friend is a complete homophobic, and I am gay. I first thought that he may have issues with ...
  A: ) I don't know if he was raised with ideas in his head of how "sick" gay people are, but it seems ...
telling freinds7/25/2007
  Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
  A: No problem. And ask all you want, because all I have to do all day is take care of my dog and read, ...
telling freinds7/25/2007
  Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
  A: You know, there was actually a study done once on women and their sexual arousal response to male ...
Just confused7/25/2007
  Q: I'm bi (not out)in highschool. I started liking this girl my junior year. She would always be behind ...
  A: That's good then. I doubt she'd suddenly snap. Ok yeah, she likes you. It's just way too hard to ...
telling freinds7/24/2007
  Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
  A: ) To answer your first question, no. I don't see any reason for it to, as long as you both enjoy ...
how do i know if im bi?7/24/2007
  Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
  A: Telling a friend was a great step :) That's a hard situation. But there are many people that share ...
how do i know if im bi?7/24/2007
  Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
  A: I am so sorry to hear that :( I have so much respect for you, having to deal with that. If you were ...
i think im BI7/23/2007
  Q: so im 14. and im into guuys and girls i mean like i have no problem thinking other girls are hott ...
  A: ) & yea, that's fine :) Well, you could still identify as bisexual if you want to, because it ...
im not sur and how to tell my parents?7/20/2007
  Q: cuz i mean i like guys but i like girls to but sum of the time its only guys i like. and how do i ...
  A: ) Before you come out, it helps to be pretty sure of your sexuality, and it sounds like you are. ...
how do i know if im bi?7/12/2007
  Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
  A: ) There really isn't a concrete way to know. I mean, try looking at sexuality as NOT just gay, ...
Does she like me?7/11/2007
  Q: I am in love this girl name Tina. and she is my 2nd cousin. I don't care if she is my cousin. Ok, ...
  A: I think it would be a great thing to do, but sometimes when people find out you have feelings for ...
Does she like me?7/11/2007
  Q: I am in love this girl name Tina. and she is my 2nd cousin. I don't care if she is my cousin. Ok, ...
  A: ) From what you described, it does seem that she has an attraction to you, but I don't know if ...
im in love with a straight boy7/9/2007
  Q: hey, i have a few problems, i am a 17 boy that is gay and not open about it to anyone.there is this ...
  A: ) Unfortunately, there's no quick fix for your feelings about him. Most likely, your feelings for ...
I am Questioning.6/29/2007
  Q: Okay. So Im going to make this brief. I have many problems here. 1: I have Borderline Personality ...
  A: ) Yes, you can be bi with a tendency toward men and be in love with a woman. That's really all ...
stupid question6/22/2007
  Q: I just have a pretty stupid question, well see cuz I really want to read some books about ...
  A: ) Not stupid at all!! Just a frustrating situation, I know. Buying a book is actually not so bad. ...
Bisexual6/19/2007
  Q: Well I'm going out with a girl.but she acts like if were not even going out which i totally hate ...
  A: ) Have you told her that you don't like how she acts? Telling her might help, unless you already ...
sexuality6/17/2007
  Q: Wow this is a pretty big step for me to say this instead of just thinking.Im 18 and I just ...
  A: ), Well, first off, it definitely is a BIG step, so congrats! You can find out about your local ...
girl masturbate6/11/2007
  Q: i have a question on masturbating for girls. like what is the proper way for girls to do it, b/c i ...
  A: You're welcome :) It depends on the person. For some it does; for others it adds nothing. You can ...
girl masturbate6/11/2007
  Q: i have a question on masturbating for girls. like what is the proper way for girls to do it, b/c i ...
  A: ) There isn't really a "proper" or a "right" way to do it, but there are different ways that feel ...
asking out my mate6/6/2007
  Q: I am a 14 year old gay guy in the UK. I have only started coming out. I have only told 4 people so ...
  A: ) It sounds like you really want to, so ask him out! Maybe for him, telling people is something ...
Masterbation&Fingering6/3/2007
  Q: Ok, i'm 14, a boy, and recentley found out that i am bisexcual, more interested in guys. Lately I ...
  A: Can you do it in a bathroom? Any place private is perfect. If there's a lock on the door, definitely ...
Girl5/28/2007
  Q: There is this girl im most of my classes and she knows i am bi but she doesnt know that i like her ...
  A: You probably should ask her if you want a definite answer. If you think it will offend her, then you ...
sexuality5/25/2007
  Q: is it possible that its the skinny womens shap of body being sexual beautifull matching with the ...
  A: Hey Tammy, Yea, it could be the aesthetic appeal of the clothes that turns you on. For some people, ...
confused about a situaion that happend twice5/16/2007
  Q: Ok,I'm a 19 year old female and along time ago I felt something towards a women but I was drink. The ...
  A: Yea, if she wants to consider herself straight, she can. People do things when drunk, so I guess ...
Love.5/7/2007
  Q: Hey. I am a girl, I am Christian, and Bisexual. I have a girlfriend named Audrey, and she is my ...
  A: First of all, definitely not every Christian thinks and feel that way. God would not have made you ...
is she attracted to me?5/2/2007
  Q: heya, i know this must be hard to tel. i really need to know if this girl likes me as im getting ...
  A: Oh, I know what you mean. That's EXACTLY how my feelings were toward another girl at one point. But, ...
Me and My Girlfriend5/2/2007
  Q: I am thirteen and my girlfriend is seventeen. I’ve been dating her for three years. We live with two ...
  A: Maybe there are closeted gay students at your school? You never know, you probably are NOT alone. It ...

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