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| Telling My Friend I Like Her | 10/11/2008 |
Q: Okay, so I am a lesbian but I think one of my friends is not. This friend happens to be the one I'm ...
A: ) Well there's always that risk by telling your friend. You can try as best you can though. You can ...
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| need help! | 10/9/2008 |
Q: .. well its like this: i met this girl like goin on 3 yrs ago n weve been like best friends ever ...
A: ) The only way to know if she's lesbian is to ask her. You could ask her if she's questioning her ...
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| I don't even know. | 10/7/2008 |
Q: my name is Gabby. I’m nervous about writing here because I don’t usually ask for advice. Here’s my ...
A: ) you could try keeping a journal, and writing out how you feel. It's really helpful to express ...
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| Internet Girlfriend | 10/5/2008 |
Q: I have been talking to this girl online for over a year now and I think she's great, I've felt some ...
A: ) Whether you tell anyone is ENTIRELY up to you! If you'd like to, go for it, and if not, then ...
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| Sexual Attraction | 9/28/2008 |
Q: I have some questions that I thought you may be able to help me navigate through. I have been ...
A: ) There are different types of attraction. Physical, emotional, and sexual. Physical attraction is ...
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| In Love With My Best Friend | 9/27/2008 |
Q: My name is Tyson, I'm 17, and I'm bisexual. I have a BEST friend of mine named Kai who is also 17 ...
A: ) You could try flirting back, and see how he reacts. If nothing comes of that, the only way to ...
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| girl advice | 9/25/2008 |
Q: i was just wondering what your advice would be to show my friend (whos a girl) that i like her in a ...
A: ) Well, you could just say it to her, casually, "I like you." Or write her a letter/note explaining ...
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| what do I do? | 9/24/2008 |
Q: Ok. So I know that im gay and I have accepted that, but as a result of that I have two problems I ...
A: ) If there is any slight chance of something like them cutting you off happening, it would be ...
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| confusion and stuff | 9/22/2008 |
Q: how are you? i would like your adivce and stuff i guess. i should probably start with im pretty sure ...
A: ) Telling her is up to you. You take the risk she'll distance herself, but having her know could ...
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| ex lover | 9/19/2008 |
Q: l need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l ...
A: In my opinion, it really does sound like she has strong feelings for you, or else she wouldn't be ...
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| ex lover | 9/18/2008 |
Q: l need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l ...
A: ) Well, what do YOU want? If you want to be with her, then that's fine. If you want to just have a ...
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| Am I bi? | 9/2/2008 |
Q: I'm 14, and I think I might be bi. I've been attracted to girls before, and I've got a boyfriend. ...
A: ) You can wait until you've been with a girl, but many people identify as bisexual before having ...
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| im confused | 8/24/2008 |
Q: I kind of need your help i have this friend (girl) we've known each other forever and tell each ...
A: ) Whether you identify as bi is up to you. I can tell you that any attraction to either sex would ...
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| I don't know what to do! | 8/21/2008 |
Q: I think I may be a lesbian, but I am not so sure. My friend Susan asked me to play "that game" we ...
A: ) If you want to try and do more sexual activities with her, and she wants to as well-go ahead! ...
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| wat do i do? | 8/17/2008 |
Q: im 15 and i just became a freashman thursday the 14th, and theres this junior girl i happen 2 have ...
A: ) Have conversations with her. Compliment something about her, and then build up a casual ...
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| family genetics | 8/13/2008 |
Q: does genetics have anything to do with being bisexual?
A: There's no definitive answer for that-some think it has ALL to do with genetics, other think none, ...
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| Want to masturbate with friends | 8/11/2008 |
Q: I have been having some bi-sexual thoughts for a while and i have talked to others on this website ...
A: ) Did you mean to send this question to another expert? If not, I'll do my best to answer. Not to ...
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| help! | 8/5/2008 |
Q: hey there. i turned 16 about 2 months ago. and i came out lesbian to my friends about 7 months ago. ...
A: ) You can ask your mother how she thinks he'd react. By telling him, you're also taking a risk. And ...
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| What If? Why? | 8/4/2008 |
Q: ok so im just 13, but what if I said I thought I was bisexual, maybe? I'm the one who has kissed ...
A: ) There are most likely some gay/bi students in your grade, they're just not "out". I may be wrong, ...
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| Family | 8/3/2008 |
Q: Hey there, i am a bi 17 year old girl who is kinda confused i came out to a few of my friend and ...
A: ) Sit down with them, and come right out and say "This is something personal, but I feel is ...
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| Please... :( | 7/31/2008 |
Q: I'm Lyss, I'm 16 years old, and I'm bisexual and I've known I'm bisexual since i was in the seventh ...
A: ) Not having had a relationship with a girl shouldn't impact your sexuality-how you feel is how you ...
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| I think I might be a lesbian | 7/30/2008 |
Q: I am currently 14 years old, but i think I might be gay.Yes, I've had crushes on guys but only in ...
A: ) If you don't have romantic feelings for boys, then your attraction to girls is unlikely a phase. ...
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| Confuzzeled? | 7/21/2008 |
Q: Ok, sooo, im bi.. i have my bestest best friend in the world. where both girls, and my friends bi ...
A: ) Talk with her, and find out if she wants to be in a relationship, or try and start something more ...
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| does she really like me? | 7/18/2008 |
Q: I went out with this one girl that i really like and we went out at one point. Then we broke up ...
A: ) Talk with the girl you went out with, and tell her how you feel, ask if she'd like to go out ...
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| Confused | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I'm going to be 16 in a month and now that I'm getting older it really has hit me about my ...
A: ) It's definitely a topic that many are incredibly uninformed about, so it will take strong will ...
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| Coming out (bi) | 7/13/2008 |
Q: I have thought of a good way but I am a little afraid to do it. I was gonna ask one of my bi friends ...
A: ) I personally like the idea of changing your myspace orientation. If anyone sees it and has ...
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| To go or not to go? | 7/6/2008 |
Q: This parts a little off topic, but I wanted to mention it. I'd asked you a question about a month ...
A: ) I'm glad! Hope it all went well. Meeting her is definitely worth a try! It may be more ...
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| confused and still in high school | 7/3/2008 |
Q: AND A GIRL, AND SOMETIMES,I GUESS CAN SAY FEEL SOME WHAT ATTRACTIVE TO CERTAIN GIRLS I HANG ...
A: ) Well, this call is really up to you. If you felt an attraction toward her, be it physical (liking ...
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| very stressed about this | 7/2/2008 |
Q: 4 months ago my brother shocked my whole family and told us, he thinks he is bi. Mind you, that ...
A: If you don't find any girls attractive, don't worry about the "what if". If you haven't already, you ...
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| Confusion. | 6/30/2008 |
Q: Im a 17 year old girl from NY. I have had boyfriends in the past and have even fallen in love once. ...
A: ) A physical attraction would mean that you are attracted to the way a person looks. This can also ...
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| coming out/homophobic parents/friends | 6/27/2008 |
Q: I am 16, im a girl and I have recently accepted it to myself that im bi, and i decided to be honest ...
A: ) Congrats on accepting yourself! Biggest step of all. I think the problem is all the ...
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| very confused | 6/26/2008 |
Q: im in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year and 3 months and i know i love her but i ...
A: ) It can mean a couple of things-that homosexual sex turns you on, and you're intrigued by it. Many ...
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| talking to friend | 6/22/2008 |
Q: How do i talk to my friend about whether i think i might bisexual ?
A: ) Tell them that you have been questioning your sexuality, and you think you might be bisexual. You ...
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| my friend | 6/17/2008 |
Q: theres a girl i have know for a while i like her so much but i know she doesnt like me. i think she ...
A: ) Tell her face to face, or by writing her a note. Let her know that you feel it's really important ...
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| Lost n Confused | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I am bi (i think) maybe just gay. Someone once told me that it all boils down to the sex. whether u ...
A: ) It definitely doesn't boil down to the sex. Sexual attraction is part of it, but not all. A ...
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| A couple of concerns about comming out, and homophobic comments. | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 years old and a bisexual female, and I finally admitted my sexuality to myself in the fall of ...
A: ) Sit down with him, or be somewhere in private, where you can let him know just how much you care ...
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| Help Me?! | 5/27/2008 |
Q: Well I'm 14 years old, and I am bi. Iv always had feelings for girls even when i was little. A lot ...
A: ) Speak with each of them, privately or separately, and tell them that their friendship means a lot ...
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| Confusion? | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I am really confused about my sexuality and hope someone can point me in the right direction, so if ...
A: ) It's great that you're dealing with the feelings you have, and that you are open to the idea of ...
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| going back into the closet | 5/14/2008 |
Q: I am so tired of people at my school making sexual references to my sexuality and me playing rugby, ...
A: you're message isn't long! The more info, the better! :) Don't discuss your sexuality anymore. ...
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| Am I Bi? | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I think I might be bi, but I am not sure. I have kissed a women before, but I am also highly ...
A: ) Not a long question at all! And the more info, the better. Bi-curious is more associated with ...
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| Outed | 5/7/2008 |
Q: I have a pretty big group of friends in our high school, and I have come out of most of them as bi. ...
A: ) Talk with your friend, if you haven't already. Find out why she didn't keep it a secret when you ...
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| I want to come out already!!! | 4/28/2008 |
Q: ! uhm, im a guy, 15, gay. i have a boyfriend, let's call him matt, 14. we're both freshmen. and ...
A: :) Sit him down privately, and ask him one more time. Tell him that you'd really like to come out, ...
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| no other gay ppl | 4/24/2008 |
Q: im 15 yrs old and im gay. I don't have a problem with my sexuality but I do have a problem with the ...
A: ) Being in a situation where the majority of people are close minded, it's definitely more ...
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| Telling friends and family | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 going to be 17 in june. I think I'm gay or bisexual because some guys just look so Hot, ...
A: ) Telling your family and friends will mean taking the risk of the not accepting you, or distancing ...
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| Homophobic parent? | 4/15/2008 |
Q: My dad recently found out that I'm bi (well, as far as he's concerned, I'm a lesbian, because he ...
A: ) Congrats on starting a GSA! You should have a talk with your dad. Since he seems to not know the ...
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| IDK wat 2 do | 4/14/2008 |
Q: Well so i have mixed feelings idk if im straight or bi. i noe for a fact that im attracted to both ...
A: ) By coming out, your family finding out is a risk, so do only what you're comfortable with. It's ...
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| depressed lesbian friend just loooves me | 4/12/2008 |
Q: Ever since i get to know her close and been her best friend like a year ago.. she was always ...
A: ) Tell her you even though you don't have the same feelings for her, you truly do love and support ...
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| mix feelings | 4/10/2008 |
Q: ) well theres this girl im trying to date but im in a dilemma...shes not single, shes dating this ...
A: ) The only way to get an honest answer from her is to ask what's going on. You could ask if she ...
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| im bi. but think im a lesbian. | 4/7/2008 |
Q: ok. im 14 and im call my self bisexual. but im not rely attracted to guys anymore ive had it and ...
A: ) It's not tmi, the more info the better. Well, with bisexuality, it's not uncommon for attraction ...
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| Unbelievably confused | 4/5/2008 |
Q: I need some help! I'm very confused about pretty much everything at this point. Here's a little ...
A: ) Nothing's wrong with you, I can definitely assure you. SO many people have the kinds of feelings ...
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| Should I try to become straight? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17-year-old guy in his senior year of high school and even though I've been attracted mainly ...
A: ) I'm sorry about your difficult situation. There isn't a way to change your sexuality. You can ...
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| i have a crush on my | 4/3/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17 y/o closeted gay male who is infatuated with my straight best friend, or at least I think ...
A: Yeah, I'll admit that does REALLY make it seem like he's covering something up, but it's not my ...
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| i have a crush on my "straight" friend | 4/3/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17 y/o closeted gay male who is infatuated with my straight best friend, or at least I think ...
A: ) It's hard to tell. The only sure way to know is to ask him, but it's probably better for most ...
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| gay friend | 4/2/2008 |
Q: my friend is 18 years old and he has doubts whether he is gay or not. he doesn't like watching ...
A: ) It's not unusual for porn to have absolutely NO indication of one's sexuality. There are many ...
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| pleasee help!!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: well... i´ve never done this before, it's kind of scary because i just accepted to myself i might be ...
A: ) Talking with someone, and admitting your feelings to yourself are great first steps to make, so ...
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| My father... | 3/28/2008 |
Q: My folks are divorced so that will make this easier to follow. My mom knows I'm gay, since i was 18. ...
A: ) The only way is to be confident in who you are, have your mother's support, and even when you're ...
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| confused and easily annoyed | 3/28/2008 |
Q: Ok, so I have a boyfriend, whom I love with all my heart, but I'm still really confused. I've ...
A: ) The best thing I can tell you is to talk with your boyfriend about this. If you're scared about ...
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| Coming out about me being Bi | 3/26/2008 |
Q: i am a 13 yr old girl who is bi and i need help coming out about it 2 of my BFF's found out and they ...
A: ) Tell your mom first, so you can have her support when you tell your dad. Then, sit him down, or ...
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| Out and open | 3/26/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend and I don't know if that makes me a lesbian or if I might be bisexual... but ...
A: ) It doesn't make you anything; having a girlfriend just means you're attracted to and dating ...
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| embarrassed | 3/25/2008 |
Q: i think i'm a lesbian. i don't like boys really and i have crushes on girls. i've been thinking ...
A: ) Even if you're liberal, the anti-homosexual messages that are common in today's society still may ...
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| bisexual | 3/25/2008 |
Q: hi i am 13 years old and i think i am bisexual because i can look at cute guys the same as i can ...
A: ) Some people may be confused about it when you tell them, because bisexuality is incredibly ...
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| Help--- | 3/15/2008 |
Q: I've told my mom, cousin's wife, and some friends that I'm bisexual. But...my aunt found out in the ...
A: ) Confornt her, and let her know that you didn't want her to find out the way she did, but it ...
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| i have my chance...should i jump? | 3/14/2008 |
Q: my name is Denice. i am 15.I live in Albany Oregon,and i am a full blown lesbian. I've read some of ...
A: ) The best way to figure out if this is a good move-talk with Katie! The concerns you shared with ...
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| how? | 3/13/2008 |
Q: How do you tell your parents that your bi if they dont approve
A: ) Only do it if that's what YOU want, and know that they won't do anything drastic, like kick you ...
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| Am I bi or jus confused?? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: Hey, im 15 and i think im bi but im not sure... when i went into high school i was straight until i ...
A: ) At 15, or any age, it's natural to be confused. However, 15 is around the age when many bisexual ...
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| Was the Worst actually not the Worst? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I've written before to allexperts.com, and first of all, thank you to you all. I'm not asking for ...
A: Oh, ok! You're in a difficult position, because of the time limit. Enjoy the friendship as best you ...
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| Was the Worst actually not the Worst? | 3/8/2008 |
Q: I've written before to allexperts.com, and first of all, thank you to you all. I'm not asking for ...
A: ) No no, the more info the better, and your English is great! IF he's still acting the way he did ...
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| i like a girl but im not sure she likes me | 3/6/2008 |
Q: ok so im 14 and im just came out to my bestfriend jackie. Im still really scared to tell other ...
A: ) Well, telling others and your family is a HUGE step. Make sure you're comfortable telling them. ...
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| dealing with bisexualism | 3/6/2008 |
Q: Hey Danielle, Just some background for you first, I am a 19 year old female, but I have been dealing ...
A: ) It's good to confront and talk about your feelings, because it will help SO much and make dealing ...
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| How do i come out to my basketball team and friends? | 3/5/2008 |
Q: So Ive known im gay since i was little i would always put the feelings aside because growing up in a ...
A: ) Talk to your coach first, so you can get their support behind you. I mean, you don't have to, but ...
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| Help. | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Okay, I'm having some trouble here... I have already told a few of my closest friends about being ...
A: ) Yeah, it's difficult to gauge who will react in what way. Telling them in a straightforward ...
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| Does he like me, I like him! | 3/3/2008 |
Q: I am a 16 year old lad from the UK. There is this guy who is in a few of my classes and I think he ...
A: ) Couldn't tell you if he likes you, only he can. it does appear he has an interest in you though. ...
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| I am afraid to tell my mom about my sexuality | 3/2/2008 |
Q: I am a 15 year old girl and I know by now and have know for a year or two that I am at least ...
A: If she has concerns, let her know that there is nothing for her to worry about, and if she does have ...
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| I am afraid to tell my mom about my sexuality | 3/1/2008 |
Q: I am a 15 year old girl and I know by now and have know for a year or two that I am at least ...
A: ) She probably has an image of you as a daughter who will get married to a wonderful guy, settle ...
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| I'm coming out to my parents and i'm not sure if i'm lesbian or bi even though i have a girlfriend. | 2/22/2008 |
Q: Ok so my mom found out that i have been kissing my best friend(my girlfriend).I'm not sure how to ...
A: ) What's important is telling them the truth, no matter who it upsets (as long as your parents ...
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| HELP!! | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I really need help with this problem.Ok so I don't even know myself if I'm bi or not. Anyway I ...
A: ) It's normal to not know or be unsure of your sexuality. You'll know in time. If you haven't ...
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| Comeing Out | 2/15/2008 |
Q: Ever since i was 7 i took notice that i found girls as only a friend and was attracted to this some ...
A: )If you want to tell them one at a time, or all at once, what you should do is sit them down, and ...
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| Totally Depressed | 2/14/2008 |
Q: How can I start? I met this guy who became my best friend almost 6 years ago in high school. We ...
A: ) Take him for what he says. He's offering you friendship, and nothing more. Maybe he's not ...
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| Beyond confusion | 2/13/2008 |
Q: Hey Danielle. You might not even begin to know how to help me with this, which is fine. I'll thank ...
A: I'll definitely try my best :) If you're comfortable, talking about this with your boyfriend is a ...
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| im in love with one of my friends | 2/12/2008 |
Q: I met this girl named Mariena, we have so much in common we became close friends quickly, but I've ...
A: ) Down be so hard on yourself! I bet you're beautiful too. Feeling all these emotions is difficult, ...
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| telling someone you like them. | 2/9/2008 |
Q: I'm afraid my question's a bit complicated. I'm in something called the Air Training Corps (a kind ...
A: ) It's a difficult situation. When you tell someone you have feelings for them, you do have to be ...
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| Does wearing certain shoes mean your bi or gay? | 2/9/2008 |
Q: Im in a hurry, study hall. Im 14 and my friend is from Europe. He wears these clogs that are called ...
A: It's great things have worked out so well! Maybe you have feelings for this friend,and that ...
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| sister in love with herself | 2/8/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm really worried about my sister. I think she is turning into a slut. She has really big ...
A: ) Start by not using the word slut. Toward her, or in general. It's a word with no meaning, and ...
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| I dont know if im bi nd and if i am, how do i tell my boyfriend. | 2/7/2008 |
Q: ok well theres a problem.. my bf asked me awhile ago bout if i was bi nd i said no im not..then ...
A: ) It could be either way. Alot of people have that curiosity about something they've never ...
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| hey | 2/3/2008 |
Q: so im in love with this girl, but my friends and family dont know that im bi. I dont know what to do ...
A: ) It's your decision. It all comes down to what you're comfortable with. If you'd like to share ...
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| Should I Date Her? | 2/3/2008 |
Q: Hmmm well I think this is more of an advice thing then a question im not sure. They say "people who ...
A: ) Think about your situation first. If you're going to graduate then move away, if that's what you ...
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| she | 2/1/2008 |
Q: ok am bi but i wanna no how can i prove to a gurl i like her
A: ) There really isn't any way to "prove" you like her. Being committed, open, friendly; that's what ...
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| I know, But im scared. | 2/1/2008 |
Q: I am Nanami i am 13. I know i like girls, But i don't want to tell anyone beacuse im afraid i will ...
A: ) It's fine to be afraid; many people are in your same situation. If you're hanging around with a ...
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| what am i ? | 1/29/2008 |
Q: just turned 17,all my life iv been like attracted to only girls and still are,iv been out with lots ...
A: What I meant by the last part was that, since you mentioned that you don't feel any other ...
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| what am i ? | 1/28/2008 |
Q: just turned 17,all my life iv been like attracted to only girls and still are,iv been out with lots ...
A: ) What you are is completely up to you. However, being turned on and liking homosexual porn doesn't ...
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| confused! | 1/28/2008 |
Q: ...i'm 15 and have a boyfriend who i have been seeing for 4 months now...he makes me happy and i ...
A: ) There's only one way to find out for sure: Ask! She may not be comfortable telling you, since ...
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| I'm pansexual, I've got a boyfriend, and this girl keeps hitting on me. | 1/28/2008 |
Q: I'm 13 years old, female, and I'm pansexual. I recently became my best guy friend's girlfriend. ...
A: ) Shes' being completely violating. If she's touching you, and you don't want her to, she should ...
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| Coming Out | 1/27/2008 |
Q: Well, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been pretty sure something was different about me for years. ...
A: ) Congrats on finally accepting yourself! That's great, and the most important thing. It just comes ...
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| The Kinsey scale | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I know the Kinsey scale is a scale to measure one's sexual orientation from 0 to 6, but I have heard ...
A: ) Yes, people definitely can move around on it; that's what Kinsey expected throughout one's ...
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| wats rong with me?? | 1/27/2008 |
Q: hey danielle, uhm, I'm 15 and im gay (or bi, but i think gay, i definitely like dudes tho). anyway, ...
A: ) You never know if he's bisexual or not straight; so there's always a chance. But yeah, just treat ...
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| what do i do | 12/17/2007 |
Q: I'm a junior in high school and I've been confused about my sexuality since last year, but thats not ...
A: ) Being confused is normal and expected. Since she's straight, there's probably nothing you can do ...
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| am i bi?! what should i do? | 12/16/2007 |
Q: I'm only 13. -_- yes i know I'm to young to be thinking about this but i just can't help it. i took ...
A: You're not too young. If you think the quiz might indicate something, ok, but it's just a an ...
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| Confused about this dream... | 12/16/2007 |
Q: I'm a girl and I just recently turned 14. This is so weird. Last night I had a dream ok I'll just ...
A: ) It means one of two things, and it is really quite simple when you look at it. If we go in the ...
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| just in love | 12/15/2007 |
Q: I'm 15 nearly 16 and i have the strongest feeling ever for another girl.For around years i have ...
A: ) It'll be hard for her to not be so scared about being with a girl, and what people would think of ...
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| "girl crush"? | 12/14/2007 |
Q: well theres this girl at my job who's a shift leader and I'm like obsessed with her, i go to see her ...
A: ) Your sexulaity is fluid, so right now you're attractions are leaning more towards girls. This can ...
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| girlfriend has lesbian feelings | 12/10/2007 |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend for a few years now shes 17 im 20 and recently we've stopped having sex, ...
A: ) You need to confront her about it. Ask her if she has feelings for women, and if she denies it, ...
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| religion and bisexuality | 12/10/2007 |
Q: Well to start off, I think im bi not positive but pretty sure and at church today there was a big ...
A: ) It's who you are, like you said. I personally do not beleive you will go to hell for being who ...
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| lesbian non sexual dream | 12/9/2007 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old female and i dreamt that I was hanging around with a female and we walked to a ...
A: ) It could mean one of two things; You have feelings for her way deep down, or it could mean ...
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| Straight or Bisexual | 12/8/2007 |
Q: Okay so, I'm 14 years old and I'm having a difficult time figuring out whether or not I like boys, ...
A: ) At your age, or any age really, that's completely normal and almost expected. At your age, being ...
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| plz help | 11/19/2007 |
Q: i am lesbian or bi , is that a not normal? sometimes i think that i am worthless good for nothing ...
A: I'm sorry you weren't happy with my response. I shared with you as much knowledge as I had. Deal ...
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| hellpppp | 11/17/2007 |
Q: So im a 16 year old girl and im having some problems. The thing is is that since the summer i have ...
A: Hey Sarah :) Tell your boyfriend how you feel, and what's going on. It'd be best not to keep this ...
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| ????? | 11/16/2007 |
Q: i am soo in love with my boyfriend its not funny but i am afraid that he is gay bc he asked 1 of my ...
A: ) He may be bisexual, and just wants to experiment with the other sex. The one way to find out is ...
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| I know I'm a lesbian, but... | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I have been absolutely sure I am a lesbian since I was quite small , say about 8 (I'm 13 now). I ...
A: Hey Carolyn :) There's nothing wrong! That's just how you are. The only thing I can think of that ...
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| I need some help?? | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm having trouble telling my family and ma freinds that i'm Bi is there anyway you could help me ...
A: ) If you want to tell them face to face, sit them down and come right out and say it. Don't ...
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| help me please | 11/12/2007 |
Q: its very serious between us we even bought our own house, but iv got a problem, when we first got ...
A: ) To know the most accurate answer, you'll have to ask him about this. Maybe his attraction to men ...
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| being gay | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I guess you can call me bi since i like guys and girls. i am a boy. buy I don't call my self ...
A: Soulforce anti-glbt? It's all pro-glbt/religion. ...
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| There's this guy... | 11/8/2007 |
Q: So I've known I'm gay since, well, 4th Grade. Confirmed in about 6th. Right now I'm in 8th Grade, ...
A: Just come right out and tell him. There is ALWAYS a risk that he'll pull away from you or feel ...
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| Coming out. | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I'm 15 years old and I have recently discovered that I am bisexual. My best friend has also recently ...
A: Just tell your friends straight out, don't dance around the subject. Tell them separately, or ...
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| being gay | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I guess you can call me bi since i like guys and girls. i am a boy. buy I don't call my self ...
A: Telling your friend will mean the slight chance of her sharing the information with others. Talk to ...
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| She makes me hurt. | 11/5/2007 |
Q: Back information to make this easier: I'm 16. I'm in high school. I'm pretty much Bi. I go to a ...
A: Hey Megan I know exactly what you mean. It's so hard with girls, because so many naturally flirt ...
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| What can I do? | 11/1/2007 |
Q: 17, Junior in HS. I have an incredible g/f. I really love her. Heres my problem. For like the past ...
A: No, it doesn't mean anything. It's a fantasy, and for many people it stays that way. Nothing to ...
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| Does wearing certain shoes mean your bi or gay? | 10/29/2007 |
Q: Im in a hurry, study hall. Im 14 and my friend is from Europe. He wears these clogs that are called ...
A: If you tell either of them your fantasy you are taking the risk of losing their friendship. I'm not ...
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| coming out to my mom | 10/12/2007 |
Q: My name is Angel and I'm 15, ill be 16 in April, and I'm bisexual. I've told all my friends and they ...
A: ) Well, it's best for them to find out from you then from someone else. Or else tension ...
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| help.......... | 10/11/2007 |
Q: Ok so a couple of weeks ago I told some of my friends at school that I was gay. One of them I ...
A: Well, it was a good idea on your part. If you want to, go ahead and make one. Maybe it'll be a ...
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| help.......... | 10/10/2007 |
Q: Ok so a couple of weeks ago I told some of my friends at school that I was gay. One of them I ...
A: ) If you're going to tell him you like him, you HAVE to be prepared for a negative response from ...
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| i'm not sure | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I'm not sure if I'm bi or not. I've always liked boys and I'm definitely attracted to them. ...
A: ) What you are is up to you. Having any sort of attraction to either sex constitutes bisexuality. ...
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| how does it feel to be gay? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: ive hear that a lot of gay men have known their gay all their life?or at least realised at an early ...
A: Yeah, that happens. It could mean it's just fantasies. Fantasies, not always meaning something ...
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| how does it feel to be gay? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: ive hear that a lot of gay men have known their gay all their life?or at least realised at an early ...
A: Yeah, a lot of gay people do realize they're "different' at an early age. But bisexual people ...
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| am i gay? | 10/3/2007 |
Q: ok for the last 2 years ive masturbated to women i was crazy about tits women in porn etc. then ive ...
A: No, it doesn't make you gay. And don't worry about "turning" gay, you can't. You just happened to ...
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| Problem with possible homophobe with BF love | 10/3/2007 |
Q: I'm Brett, 15 years old, and Bi For 3 years, I have had a huge love attraction to a friend of mine, ...
A: I'm glad I could be of help :) Great. It's an excellent first step. Wherever you'd feel most ...
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| what should i do...? | 10/2/2007 |
Q: ok. so i'm bi. but i havent come out yet except for to one of my friends that is also bi. i've ...
A: The best thing to do right now would probably be to wait until you're very comfortable around her ...
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| what should i do...? | 9/30/2007 |
Q: ok. so i'm bi. but i havent come out yet except for to one of my friends that is also bi. i've ...
A: ) You can come out to her, and see how she reacts. Tell her it's something you want to share with ...
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| my friend behaves really weirdly | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Heya I am 17 and my name is Jacky =] OK i am not saying i think my friend IS a lesbian or anything ...
A: Hey Jacky :) Maybe the guys aren't hot or good looking to her. Some girls don't like to share which ...
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| what should i do | 9/28/2007 |
Q: i was friends with this girl for 2 yrs and then we dated for a while. she started going back and ...
A: ) If you want to be friends with her, and only friends, then stick with that. It really can't hurt. ...
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| Bisexual? | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
A: Well, congrats on the acceptance and coming out. That's great! Don't worry about the image at all. ...
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| Problem with possible homophobe with BF love | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I'm Brett, 15 years old, and Bi For 3 years, I have had a huge love attraction to a friend of mine, ...
A: ) I agree with the idea that you should tell him. It's not good for you to keep it all locked up. ...
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| i love her | 9/27/2007 |
Q: Im 15 and I think im bisexual or lesbian. well since about year 7 i started having emotional ...
A: ) Only being attracted to guys sexually doesn't necessarily mean you're lesbian. If you want to ...
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| Questioning my sexual orientation | 9/22/2007 |
Q: I'm going to try to make this as brief as I possibly can. Here is my situation. I am a 17 year old ...
A: There's really no way to tell her that's better than any other. It's more about the way in which you ...
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| my friend | 9/21/2007 |
Q: I'm Sheyanne I am 18 years old and i believe i have a problem. My best friend Lauren is,I believe, ...
A: ) The jealousy is normal and expected. Forgetting her all together will be extremely difficult, ...
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| interested | 9/20/2007 |
Q: ok im 18 and im bi i only been wit one gurl and in relationships im usually am the one gettin my ...
A: Ok, then that's great you're talking to her. Keep doing just that. Gain her trust as a friend, and ...
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| How do I tell my grandmother about my sexuality? | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I'm Jenny, I'm 15 and I live with my grandmother. I've been bi since about 6th grade, and as my ...
A: You're welcome :) Sounds like it went ok. She probably never got to fully learn or understand about ...
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| How do I tell my grandmother about my sexuality? | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I'm Jenny, I'm 15 and I live with my grandmother. I've been bi since about 6th grade, and as my ...
A: ) If you want to tell her in person, sit down with her, in your spare time or over dinner, and say ...
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| bisexuality | 9/17/2007 |
Q: ok baseically all of my friends know that i'm bi...but how do i tell my mom and my family? i ...
A: ) If you don't want to, no. Most families like to know, and might feel hurt if they find out from ...
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| urgg | 9/15/2007 |
Q: i supose this isnt a question, but i needed to write it, and just have somebody write back to me! ...
A: Hey Sian :) Well, sounds like everything went fairly well, except not having talked to her since. I ...
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| I want to come out... | 9/12/2007 |
Q: Basically Im bi! No questions asked! Im pretty sure im ready to come out... Every morning I wake up ...
A: One way is to just go through without before you can stop yourself. Get up and go right away to her ...
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| im going crazy | 9/9/2007 |
Q: I think im in love with my bff sammy.....btw im a girl..and so is she...im bi...but im not sure if ...
A: ) From just that, I can't tell you if she likes you or not. You would actually know better than I ...
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| younger siblings | 9/7/2007 |
Q: i am a 17 year old girl who recently came out to her family. my parents say they are fine with it ...
A: ) Yeah, that sounds like what they're doing. Kind of like a "what they don't know can't hurt them" ...
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| i like someone who dosnt like me back | 9/4/2007 |
Q: i just recently came out to my mum and dad and one of my friends wo is bi-sexual. but then i moved ...
A: ) The only way you can make sure she doesn't tell anyone else is to go talk to her, or tell your ...
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| My Parents | 9/4/2007 |
Q: They may not be homophobes and are generally supportive in anything I do, but it's kind ...
A: ) You can tell them just about anywhere. At the dinner table, while watching tv, sitting them down. ...
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| losing my mind | 9/4/2007 |
Q: I am a 21 year old male. My whole life I thought I was straight. I liked women. I was never ...
A: This is what I think about your situation - you don't have to agree w/ any of it. You don't have to ...
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| Does this mean something? | 8/31/2007 |
Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
A: ) Feeling like this is totally normal and bound to happen when you like someone. One day they're ...
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| my mom | 8/31/2007 |
Q: hey its me again. now i never told my mom yet but shes making me feel weird. now shes showing me gay ...
A: ) She really shouldn't do that. I mean, 15? It's kind of like by showing you these places she's ...
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| Im Really Confused | 8/28/2007 |
Q: i'm 13 years old right now. I have never liked a girl. I have ALWAYS liked guys. I do not want to ...
A: ) It's perfectly normal to be a straight girl who likes breasts and gets turned on by lesbian ...
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| Does this mean something? | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
A: Hey :) I'm so glad you know there's a difference between love and infatuation. Too many people ...
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| masturbating | 8/26/2007 |
Q: im not sure if ur a boy or a girl cuz i've met both boys and girls who had that name, and i think ...
A: it seems that the expert to whom you asked this question is not available. I know you wanted a guy ...
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| telling my family | 8/25/2007 |
Q: ok well i just turned 15 in July and i think I'm bi or lesbian. i had a girlfriend when i was 14 and ...
A: ) Maybe she didn't forget you'd told her you we're bi, and she thinks putting down lesbians is ok. ...
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| Whay about my parents? | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm Bi. I want to tell my parents but I'm afraid they'll kick me ...
A: ) If there's a serious risk of them kicking you out, then it's probably best not to tell them, as ...
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| comin out | 8/24/2007 |
Q: ok, first off i want to apologize for the length of this...thing. ok, i'm a 14 boy and im bisexual. ...
A: Yeah, you're right. Do whatever you think is best, but if you don't want to do it in person you ...
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| Bi | 8/24/2007 |
Q: okay i am 13 and i am bisexual, i only came out to my boyfriend after i foundout he as bi. my 2 best ...
A: ) It might be better for your dad to know now then find out later. That way, if you were to have a ...
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| comin out | 8/24/2007 |
Q: ok, first off i want to apologize for the length of this...thing. ok, i'm a 14 boy and im bisexual. ...
A: ) You're right, it's really the longer the better. It's not necessarily better to do it in person. ...
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| Does this mean something? | 8/22/2007 |
Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
A: ) She sounds really shy then. If that's true, then it is difficult to establish eye contact for ...
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| I may be Bi... | 8/21/2007 |
Q: im a 17 year old male and let me start off by saying I've never had a real girlfriend/boyfriend, I'm ...
A: ) If you want to classify your sexual orientation, you're not too young- although some people who ...
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| Does this mean something? | 8/17/2007 |
Q: I just wanted to ask, because of this girl that I recently started to notice and observe her ...
A: ) Hm. Seems like she's interested, and/or thinks you're pretty. She definitely had to do some work ...
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| need some help..again? | 8/16/2007 |
Q: Im still thankful for your help on that well now im kind of over her. Maybe alil to fast but see ...
A: Greta, great plan. And sure, why not? She seems liked she'd be willing to. Don't worry about it, a ...
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| Wuduw I do | 8/16/2007 |
Q: Even though it was hard, I have totally excepted my sexuality. I know I'm gay and I can honestly say ...
A: ) What you're doing is really, really brave, and good for you. You shouldn't have to hide who you ...
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| should i??? | 8/16/2007 |
Q: my name is brandon and i look at myself as a 100% gay male, but iam a little interested in trying ...
A: ) Well, you can most certainly be gay and still be interested like that. I mean, if you choose to ...
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| is it really so weird? | 8/16/2007 |
Q: Ok...Um, I recently figured out that I'm bi, and now I've been thinking seriously about being in a ...
A: ) No, it's not weird at all. More people do this then you may know. It takes a lot of hard work, ...
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| Stress and living a lie are making me suicidal | 8/15/2007 |
Q: For the past few months I've had a huge problem with my sexuality, I think thats what started this ...
A: ) I am so, so sorry to hear you are feeling this way. You were dealt a horrible card, but good ...
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| I think im bi...help!!! | 8/15/2007 |
Q: Lately I've noticed that when my friends point out guys who they think are hot, I'm not really that ...
A: ) For a lot of bisexual people, this is common. Your sexuality can flow, so attraction to each sex ...
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| i could use some help... | 8/14/2007 |
Q: ok so my mother is really judgmental about gay people... come to think of it my whole family is... ...
A: You can say that you find what she says offensive because it's demeaning to other people (and you ...
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| i could use some help... | 8/14/2007 |
Q: ok so my mother is really judgmental about gay people... come to think of it my whole family is... ...
A: ) If you're not comfortable telling them , you don't have to. If people are very judgmental, and ...
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| Bisexual? | 8/13/2007 |
Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
A: Only tell someone if you're comfortable with it. It's no one's business, and you don't have to come ...
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| confused. | 8/12/2007 |
Q: i dont know is im straight or bi or curious. i hate these freaking labels.. i've dated guys but ...
A: ) You can just throw labels out the window if you really want, there's no need to have one. But it ...
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| Bisexual? | 8/12/2007 |
Q: I'm a female, 18 (almost 19), soon to be college freshman and I have a few questions regarding my ...
A: You're very welcome. lol, I'm a sucker for corny jokes :P That's true. Things can go wrong with ...
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| IN DESPERATE NEED OF HELP! | 8/11/2007 |
Q: "Okay, so here's the story. It was April when I met her. Her name was Ariel. I mean, I've seen her ...
A: ) It seems like she really, really cared for you. But maybe a same sex relationship wasn't right ...
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| How do i come out? | 8/9/2007 |
Q: Hey! Im 16 and im having a 2 prombles. 1st promble: I dont know if i sould tell my Mother im bi or ...
A: ) If you'd feel more comfortable being out, then do so. If you do say something like that, say it ...
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| confused???? | 8/9/2007 |
Q: I am 15 years old and am a lesbian. I have accepted who I am and am happy with it. However my ...
A: ) If you think that they'd go to the extreme of kicking you out or something, don't come out as ...
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| I am confused about what is going on with my best friend.. | 8/7/2007 |
Q: heya Danielle, my name is Roxy and I am in a bit of a dilemma. i will give you a few bullet points ...
A: ) Yea, it certainly sounds as if she has feelings for you. Maybe, if you haven't seen her in a ...
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| how do i know if im a lesbian or bi? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: ok, so my name is Devin and i have recently been questioning my sexuality.I've dated a boy who i ...
A: ) Some people do go through phases, since sexuality can flow and change a bit over the course of ...
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| i think im bi | 8/4/2007 |
Q: well i have a problem im almost 100% sure im bi but still kinda confused overall i like girls more ...
A: If you really want to then yes, keep talking to her about it. If she believes it's a sin, then she ...
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| i think im bi | 8/4/2007 |
Q: well i have a problem im almost 100% sure im bi but still kinda confused overall i like girls more ...
A: ) If your feelings for them are genuine, like any other guy you may or may not have had feelings ...
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| coming out to friends at school | 8/3/2007 |
Q: I'm bi and want to start coming out to some friends at school. I keep finding some problems. How can ...
A: ) Choose the person you trust the most, and tell them you don't want them to tell anyone else. And, ...
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| ashamed??? | 8/2/2007 |
Q: Hey im a 16 year old girl and just recently came out to a couple of my friends that im gay. Well my ...
A: ) No, it's not silly, it's just hard when your parents have already put expectations on you like ...
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| girlfriend is bi | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I started dating this girl. I"m really into her and she's really into me. We had this talk recently ...
A: ) The situation you're talking about is called polyamory-having more than one intimate ...
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| help!! | 7/31/2007 |
Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
A: Ok, so the mouth. See, with your hands- you can move those anywhere you want, rub her, do w/e. But ...
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| help!! | 7/31/2007 |
Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
A: Not at all. I doubt anything could get too weird for me :p Ok, starting from where we left off, ...
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| help!! | 7/30/2007 |
Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
A: Ah no problem, it's nothing to be embarrassed about Ok, once you're kissing her, and she's kissing ...
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| telling freinds | 7/30/2007 |
Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
A: Did he see what your fiance was doing? Make sure he sees, and then try and slowly reach your hand ...
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| help!! | 7/30/2007 |
Q: Up until this point in my life i have always been a straight girl with many boyfriends and never ...
A: ) Well, if she ever grabs you again or kisses your cheek- do it back. If you're ever alone ...
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| Homophobic friend | 7/30/2007 |
Q: My Best Friend is a complete homophobic, and I am gay. I first thought that he may have issues with ...
A: ) I don't know if he was raised with ideas in his head of how "sick" gay people are, but it seems ...
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| telling freinds | 7/25/2007 |
Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
A: No problem. And ask all you want, because all I have to do all day is take care of my dog and read, ...
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| telling freinds | 7/25/2007 |
Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
A: You know, there was actually a study done once on women and their sexual arousal response to male ...
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| Just confused | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I'm bi (not out)in highschool. I started liking this girl my junior year. She would always be behind ...
A: That's good then. I doubt she'd suddenly snap. Ok yeah, she likes you. It's just way too hard to ...
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| telling freinds | 7/24/2007 |
Q: .. Two years ago i started to experiment with anal toys. At first i watched male female movies and ...
A: ) To answer your first question, no. I don't see any reason for it to, as long as you both enjoy ...
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| how do i know if im bi? | 7/24/2007 |
Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
A: Telling a friend was a great step :) That's a hard situation. But there are many people that share ...
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| how do i know if im bi? | 7/24/2007 |
Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
A: I am so sorry to hear that :( I have so much respect for you, having to deal with that. If you were ...
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| i think im BI | 7/23/2007 |
Q: so im 14. and im into guuys and girls i mean like i have no problem thinking other girls are hott ...
A: ) & yea, that's fine :) Well, you could still identify as bisexual if you want to, because it ...
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| im not sur and how to tell my parents? | 7/20/2007 |
Q: cuz i mean i like guys but i like girls to but sum of the time its only guys i like. and how do i ...
A: ) Before you come out, it helps to be pretty sure of your sexuality, and it sounds like you are. ...
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| how do i know if im bi? | 7/12/2007 |
Q: ok im my name is shelby. i really dont know if im bi or straight. i catch myself looking at girls ...
A: ) There really isn't a concrete way to know. I mean, try looking at sexuality as NOT just gay, ...
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| Does she like me? | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I am in love this girl name Tina. and she is my 2nd cousin. I don't care if she is my cousin. Ok, ...
A: I think it would be a great thing to do, but sometimes when people find out you have feelings for ...
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| Does she like me? | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I am in love this girl name Tina. and she is my 2nd cousin. I don't care if she is my cousin. Ok, ...
A: ) From what you described, it does seem that she has an attraction to you, but I don't know if ...
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| im in love with a straight boy | 7/9/2007 |
Q: hey, i have a few problems, i am a 17 boy that is gay and not open about it to anyone.there is this ...
A: ) Unfortunately, there's no quick fix for your feelings about him. Most likely, your feelings for ...
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| I am Questioning. | 6/29/2007 |
Q: Okay. So Im going to make this brief. I have many problems here. 1: I have Borderline Personality ...
A: ) Yes, you can be bi with a tendency toward men and be in love with a woman. That's really all ...
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| stupid question | 6/22/2007 |
Q: I just have a pretty stupid question, well see cuz I really want to read some books about ...
A: ) Not stupid at all!! Just a frustrating situation, I know. Buying a book is actually not so bad. ...
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| Bisexual | 6/19/2007 |
Q: Well I'm going out with a girl.but she acts like if were not even going out which i totally hate ...
A: ) Have you told her that you don't like how she acts? Telling her might help, unless you already ...
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| sexuality | 6/17/2007 |
Q: Wow this is a pretty big step for me to say this instead of just thinking.Im 18 and I just ...
A: ), Well, first off, it definitely is a BIG step, so congrats! You can find out about your local ...
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| girl masturbate | 6/11/2007 |
Q: i have a question on masturbating for girls. like what is the proper way for girls to do it, b/c i ...
A: You're welcome :) It depends on the person. For some it does; for others it adds nothing. You can ...
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| girl masturbate | 6/11/2007 |
Q: i have a question on masturbating for girls. like what is the proper way for girls to do it, b/c i ...
A: ) There isn't really a "proper" or a "right" way to do it, but there are different ways that feel ...
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| asking out my mate | 6/6/2007 |
Q: I am a 14 year old gay guy in the UK. I have only started coming out. I have only told 4 people so ...
A: ) It sounds like you really want to, so ask him out! Maybe for him, telling people is something ...
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| Masterbation&Fingering | 6/3/2007 |
Q: Ok, i'm 14, a boy, and recentley found out that i am bisexcual, more interested in guys. Lately I ...
A: Can you do it in a bathroom? Any place private is perfect. If there's a lock on the door, definitely ...
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| Girl | 5/28/2007 |
Q: There is this girl im most of my classes and she knows i am bi but she doesnt know that i like her ...
A: You probably should ask her if you want a definite answer. If you think it will offend her, then you ...
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| sexuality | 5/25/2007 |
Q: is it possible that its the skinny womens shap of body being sexual beautifull matching with the ...
A: Hey Tammy, Yea, it could be the aesthetic appeal of the clothes that turns you on. For some people, ...
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| confused about a situaion that happend twice | 5/16/2007 |
Q: Ok,I'm a 19 year old female and along time ago I felt something towards a women but I was drink. The ...
A: Yea, if she wants to consider herself straight, she can. People do things when drunk, so I guess ...
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| Love. | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Hey. I am a girl, I am Christian, and Bisexual. I have a girlfriend named Audrey, and she is my ...
A: First of all, definitely not every Christian thinks and feel that way. God would not have made you ...
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| is she attracted to me? | 5/2/2007 |
Q: heya, i know this must be hard to tel. i really need to know if this girl likes me as im getting ...
A: Oh, I know what you mean. That's EXACTLY how my feelings were toward another girl at one point. But, ...
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| Me and My Girlfriend | 5/2/2007 |
Q: I am thirteen and my girlfriend is seventeen. I’ve been dating her for three years. We live with two ...
A: Maybe there are closeted gay students at your school? You never know, you probably are NOT alone. It ...
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