| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| i found gay porn on my boyfriends computer | 7/5/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: i was looking something up on my boyfriends computer and a site poped up with transexuals on it i ...
A: Speaking from experience, most men are horndogs and porn is par for the course. The fact that he's ...
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| Am I a bad person who needs to change? | 7/4/2008 | Kay |
Q: I really need someone to talk to. I am a 26 year old bisexual woman. I was in a romantic ...
A: I remember the days when I was talking to someone that was locked up. They always said the right ...
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| christian parents acceping im a lesbian | 7/2/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I am a lesbian and have been with my partner for two years but my parents and sister are born again ...
A: The inaccurate belief that the Bible condemns same gender relationships, that Sodom and Gomorrah ...
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| makingout with my bff | 6/29/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I have always been very attracted to boys. but when it came to kissing them, i really wanted to but ...
A: Since you have depression and use cutting as a means of release, do you have a counselor or mental ...
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| Bisexual question | 6/29/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a 22 yr old woman who has been bi since i was 10 (didnt know what bi was at 10). I have always ...
A: I would say that from reading your email you are actually looking for other people who enjoy and ...
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| WHY IS MY MAN LOOKING AT TRANNY PORN | 6/28/2008 | Kay |
Q: I HAVE BEEN WITH MY MAN WHO IS 30 FOR ALMOST A YEAR. RECENTLY I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT HE LOOKS AT ...
A: I really don't have much expertise in Transexuals. However, I do get a lot of email from people in ...
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| heyy | 6/26/2008 | Michelle |
Q: ok this may seem kind of weird.. but i need help REALLY bad! anyways 3 yrs ago i worked with this ...
A: no, it doesn't seem weird at all to me. I think this happens a lot...and I think it probably ...
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| call it quits? | 6/26/2008 | Vaughn Gardner |
Q: You have been so helpful and told me to run. I know that was the best advice. I have been in a ...
A: Hey Don, Okay here tis... Cut Bait. It's like you said, there are times when he is okay but when ...
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| I dont know if my husband is bi or not | 6/20/2008 | Kay |
Q: I found out because of emails to his hot mail he finally came out and told me that he had gotten ...
A: Well, He has basically told you what he has been doing and it is up to you to decide what you are ...
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| Ex-Girlfriend problems x 2 | 6/19/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I need to try and sort my life out or i really don't know what i am going to do or where i am going ...
A: The main issue that I see is that your ex ex is not going to affirm anything. She didn't during ...
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| respecting my partner in public | 6/19/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have been in my relationship for about 5 years now. My partner and I have had some difficult ...
A: LOL, no, but thank you, I am not a certified counselor...just someone who has "been there." I don't ...
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| am i gay if i want ot date a ftm | 6/18/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q:
A: It's very hard to answer your question. Orientation goes beyond just attraction and you are at the ...
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| HELP! | 6/18/2008 | Kay |
Q: I am married to a great guy, and we have 2 daughters together. BUT, I have had a crush on one of my ...
A: Yeah, its never good to go after someone that is already "spoken for". Be careful about telling your ...
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| respecting my partner in public | 6/18/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have been in my relationship for about 5 years now. My partner and I have had some difficult ...
A: welcome to the closet door. Yes, you can go to counseling, and while I am a firm believer in ...
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| Sexual Orientation Confusion | 6/16/2008 | Kay |
Q: my name is Sarah. Im a nineteen year old female, and Im very confused of my sexual orientation. I ...
A: I know this is a dumb answer but LIFE is confusing. You will experience things and will never find ...
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| I think I 'm in Love with my best friend...I'm hurting so much ! ! | 6/16/2008 | Kay |
Q: So, I'm gay, 19 years old, and I'm from Europe. I live in a pretty homophobic country - Romania, if ...
A: Sorry for taking some time to get back to you. Oh yes, the feeling guilty thing is very normal. We ...
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| Sexual Orientation Confusion | 6/15/2008 | Kay |
Q: my name is Sarah. Im a nineteen year old female, and Im very confused of my sexual orientation. I ...
A: Just know that our choices of porn, sometimes has nothing to do with our sexuality. I know people ...
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| Gay and Orthodox Christian | 6/13/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: My partner and I have been together 12 years, we are each others first. We are a nice honest ...
A: Sad indeed. I am aware of but have no direct association with this group, but they should be source ...
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| to breakup or not to breakup | 6/13/2008 | Vaughn Gardner |
Q: I have been in a relationship with someone I truly love for over 4 years. He is very depressed and ...
A: Don, If it were me, hence this is only my opinion and you can do with it as you will, I'd remove ...
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| confused about my sexuality | 6/12/2008 | Kay |
Q: the first time I had sex with a female was 2005 I had never even given being with a female a second ...
A: In situations like this, no one can help you but your self. You first need to decided if being with ...
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| Gay and Orthodox Christian | 6/12/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: My partner and I have been together 12 years, we are each others first. We are a nice honest ...
A: Unfortunately the Orthodox Christian denominations (Greek, Russian, etc.) are not inclusive of GLBT ...
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| to breakup or not to breakup | 6/12/2008 | Vaughn Gardner |
Q: I have been in a relationship with someone I truly love for over 4 years. He is very depressed and ...
A: Son, Run? As a lover and partner, YES! As a friend (no benefits), Maybe No. I'll explain why but ...
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| i have to stop | 6/10/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I'm Amanda, and I am 14yrs. old. I am lesbian/bi (i haven't figured that out yet) but i don't want ...
A: That is very normal and natural. Keep in mind that human beings' minds are trainable. We think, ...
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| confused | 6/10/2008 | Kay |
Q: and I've been thinking that i may be gay for the last 4 years but i am not sure. Sometimes I tell ...
A: You didn't leave enough information here for me to answer your question, the way you would like me ...
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| i have to stop | 6/10/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I'm Amanda, and I am 14yrs. old. I am lesbian/bi (i haven't figured that out yet) but i don't want ...
A: Let's start with "I don't know if I am lesbian or bisexual." Let's just throw one more into the ...
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| Confused | 6/8/2008 | Kay |
Q: (I'm a 22 year old lesbian/bisexual, and have been in a relationship with my 22 year old partner. ...
A: Hey, well yes we should all live and experience but it should be with things that we want to mingle ...
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| Confused | 6/7/2008 | Kay |
Q: (I'm a 22 year old lesbian/bisexual, and have been in a relationship with my 22 year old partner. ...
A: Your situation sound so like how I am. Basically you are having this big fight with how you feel and ...
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| I am a lesbian with a boyfriend. | 6/6/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a 22 year old female, have been in love with women eversince I remember having my first ...
A: Let's start with "Is it possible?" Yes, absolutely. For one thing, sexuality is more of a ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/5/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: Okay, now we are really getting into some funny territory. You would not believe how many times I ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/4/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: You and I could be twins separated at birth. I carried my "living bible" to school. Even in ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/3/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: I did see the feedback you left with your response to the first letter I sent you so I know that you ...
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| A Resource link... I hope Re: Marriage rights | 6/2/2008 | Vaughn Gardner |
Q: I live in California and there is some strong debate going on here. Can you answer a question for ...
A: Kathleen, I get the Gay and Lesbian Leadership SmartBrief and saw this article. I thought perhaps ...
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| just....thinking... | 6/2/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I think I may just be analyzing my actions too much, but I can't stop thinking about stuff. Ever ...
A: It sounds to me like you are a warm and loving and generous person. I think it is good that you are ...
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| how to tell if someone you work with likes you? | 5/30/2008 | Kay |
Q: can anyone tell me some signs? i'm not sure if this person is bi (know she likes guys), or ...
A: Hey Kim. Scenerios like this are always tricky becaus we would never know if the person truly likes ...
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| I Need To Know If My Husband Is Bi Or Gay | 5/28/2008 | Kay |
Q: I need to know your thoughts on this. My Husband and I have been together for 9 years now and ...
A: Hey, Oh gosh, After reading what I wrote, I have to apologize again. You know what? I ususally don't ...
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| Im confused about my sexual orientation | 5/27/2008 | Kay |
Q: ok im really lost and confused right now im on the borderline between bi and gay im just lost ...
A: Well, I think I know how you feel. When I was dating my boyfriend, I loved him alot. Alot more than ...
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| am i gay? | 5/26/2008 | Michelle |
Q: once i had a sleepover at my freinds and we had to share the same bed my freind asked if he culd ...
A: ..first, let me say this and I hope you can hear me on it. You are not a "sicko"...the most normal ...
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| I Need To Know If My Husband Is Bi Or Gay | 5/25/2008 | Kay |
Q: I need to know your thoughts on this. My Husband and I have been together for 9 years now and ...
A: Well, it appears to me that you have your answers. Had you not told me that you read all of these ...
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| Turning gay | 5/22/2008 | Kay |
Q: I have a pretty long cock. Its not really wide but thats not the point. I'm somewhat flexible and I ...
A: Well, whether you want to perform oral sex on your self is your choice and personally, I wouldn't ...
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| Curious/ I don't know if i'm gay? | 5/14/2008 | Kay |
Q: So I don't know how to navigate this subject. I have read stories about people saying that they ...
A: Well, you have to look more into these feelings that you had for these other people to see if it was ...
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