| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| RE: Am I wrong? | 11/20/2009 | Kay |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. I love her very much, but I ...
A: Hmm, Well you have to consider how serious you take your relationship. I could be a number of ...
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| my sexuyality | 11/18/2009 | Kay |
Q: is it okay to be attracted to the other sex but not do anything about it
A: Other sex as same sex or opposite? Either way I feel as though if you are interested in a person why ...
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| K-dizzle | 11/13/2009 | Kay |
Q: There is this girl that I really do like. I've known her for over a year now and we've been best ...
A: Well I think you should definitely pull back so that your feelings do not get hurt. You have to ...
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| signs of a gay or bi husband | 11/7/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: My husband and I been married for three years. When we first got together my husband was totally ...
A: The fact that your husband has handsome features that remind you of women, is inclined to ...
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| Lesbian / homophobia | 11/4/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 5 years, and I still am anxious around certain family members and ...
A: Your situation is not unusual, sadly. There is no question that homophobia continues to exist and, ...
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| My husband set up a date...with a man! Does this mean he is gay? | 11/2/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I appreciate any and all help you can give me. Here is my situation. My husband and I have been ...
A: My heart and prayers go out to you both. This is longer than my replies usually are but I hope the ...
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| Advice me on my sexual issue | 11/2/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: my name is Smith. Can u advise me regarding my sexual issues. i am a gay about 36 yrs of age. had ...
A: Your name (Smith) implies you are a Westerner but your location (India) and that your parents would ...
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| Advice me please | 11/2/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: my name is Smith. i have heard that ur concern provides counselling and advise regarding sexual ...
A: I'm sure that there are counseling services available, but it would depend on where you live or ...
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| ayuda | 11/1/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I wanted to know your opinion: I am a 46 years old man living in Venezuela, married with two ...
A: Not knowing her I can't say of course, but my hit is that "she" is probably a man unless she ...
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| ayuda | 11/1/2009 | Brandon |
Q: I wanted to know your opinion: I am a 46 years old man living in Venezuela, married with two ...
A: First, I will answer your questions, and then I will give you my opinion on the issue as a whole. ...
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| Terrified of being gay | 10/27/2009 | Kay |
Q: I don't know if I am discovering a strongly repressed homosexuality or suffering from an obsession, ...
A: I think you would benefit from speaking to a psychologist. Your basically afraid of being gay and ...
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| 2 loyal | 10/27/2009 | Kay |
Q: I have been with my partner for 4 years and when I say that it is hard ever day. I want to be ...
A: I dont have much information here to make a decision. What does the gown in her room has to do with ...
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| Feelings of Guilt and Fear | 10/25/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: For over 10 years I've been in love with one woman. She is in love with me as well. We both ...
A: --- How realistic is it to be in a celibate relationship with someone you are attracted to sexually? ...
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| Feelings of Guilt and Fear | 10/24/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: For over 10 years I've been in love with one woman. She is in love with me as well. We both ...
A: My heart goes out to you both. I have known many people in your situation. I see no easy solutions ...
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| discussing a lesbian relationship with kids | 10/23/2009 | Kay |
Q: My boyfriend and his ex wife have 2 children together. They divorced several years ago and after the ...
A: When you say "if we are asked" you mean if the kids ask you specific or why questions? Well, I am ...
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| Male cousin or girlfriend? | 10/22/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I have always been attracted to guys, thats a fact, I don't know if this has anything to do but i ...
A: There is too much risk on a variety of levels to proceed. As you mentioned, if you happen to be ...
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| My homosexual orientation vs. shyness | 10/18/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I'm a gay guy in my mid-20s and I don't think I would mind being in a gay relationship. The problem ...
A: First, your experience is common among gay men. This is one reason it is so important to combat gay ...
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| Counseling | 10/15/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I have read some of the questions and answers on this website and have found them so helpful. What I ...
A: Therapy can be good for folks. There are several ways to find a qualified LGBT therapist. You might ...
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| Am i really a lesbian?How do i find a partner in Nigeria? | 10/15/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I've had feelings for women since puberty,i'm 27 now.I dream of being with a woman when i'm alone ...
A: Perhaps you just haven't met the right woman or it could be that your attraction is simply a ...
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| I'm confused on what to do | 10/8/2009 | Kay |
Q: Ok, so the thing is I'M not the one questioning my sexuality, make that clear. It's my boyfriend. We ...
A: Oh man...you wrote too for me.... This is something that needs a phone conversation. YOu are so all ...
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| I'm confused on what to do | 10/7/2009 | Kay |
Q: Ok, so the thing is I'M not the one questioning my sexuality, make that clear. It's my boyfriend. We ...
A: (I didnt want to forget this. Can you tell me how you found out. I mean did you find ...
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| Too mixed out to be straight about it, and Mom found out. | 10/6/2009 | Kay |
Q: Kay, Throughout high school I had many many different experiences, as you do, but I have a problem ...
A: I bet you wished you didn't tell friends that in highschool lol. We all regret but the only thing ...
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| age gap problem or is it. | 10/6/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: heya, well basically im 16 years old, and im a lesbian. ive known since a very young age. However, i ...
A: A two year difference is nothing to worry about. My partner is 9 years older than I am. I know a ...
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| gay or been gay? | 10/6/2009 | Brandon |
Q: Ok, here it is. My boyfriend does his hair more than I do. He straightenes his hair sometimes and ...
A: No, some men, depending on the kind of culture or subculture that they were raised in, will use ...
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| I'm confused on what to do | 10/6/2009 | Kay |
Q: Ok, so the thing is I'M not the one questioning my sexuality, make that clear. It's my boyfriend. We ...
A: I am sorry that he cheated on you and he pretty much ruined your trust level with you and it shows ...
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| How long should I wait to tell my best friend that I am in love with her? | 10/5/2009 | Brandon |
Q: I am a 41 year old female who has 2 grown children and was married once but now divorced and my best ...
A: This is always a tough one. Maybe the first thing is to just ask her a personal"Are you gay?" That ...
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| man | 10/4/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: my boyfriend likes anal alot and i only see him 2s a week is the a sign that he maybe gay thanks
A: Not necessarily. He enjoys pleasuring you with annal sex and he is still with a female. The anus is ...
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| Sexually confused | 10/2/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: lately I have had a bunch of gay guys hit on me. I have always dated women and never even looked or ...
A: Sorry to hear about the confusion. Here's my take on it. Fantasy and reality are two completely ...
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| Help me please!!!!?? | 10/1/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: this is gonna be long but honest so please dont mind, i use to be the type of kid when i was 16 to ...
A: The statement that you "tried the whole sober thing" leads me to believe that you aren't presently ...
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| Working out my sexuality | 10/1/2009 | Brandon |
Q: Before you say it, I know: only I can ever decide what to label my sexuality, or if I want to reject ...
A: I don't mind answering this question, but be prepared for quite a long answer! In reality, it was a ...
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| Help me please!!!!?? | 9/30/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: this is gonna be long but honest so please dont mind, i use to be the type of kid when i was 16 to ...
A: Hey Thomas: You aren't gay because you had a little trouble getting an erection once. Yes, I say ...
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| I like how things are going. | 9/29/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: Im 17, girl. Holds good reputation in school and church. Back in feb, i started to have feelings ...
A: God created somewhere around 10-15% of every species with a homosexual orientation. If you are ...
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| crisis gender pull | 9/29/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I'm a confused about why I've a cosmic pull otwards other women. I've always felt some women are hot ...
A: Seems that you have a bit of a predicament. What I remember the most about transitioning from ...
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| Working out my sexuality | 9/28/2009 | Brandon |
Q: Before you say it, I know: only I can ever decide what to label my sexuality, or if I want to reject ...
A: Although in this day and age, many kids realize their sexuality during puberty, for many of us, it ...
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| Torn | 9/28/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I'm was a 21 year old, straight girl. I grow up in a very strict, religious and well-respected ...
A: Given the history that you have provided regarding prior relationships, I would strongly encourage ...
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| Torn Apart | 9/28/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I'm was a 21 year old, straight girl. I grow up in a very strict, religious and well-respected ...
A: Sounds like a difficult situation. Basically its your life. Finding a person to love and who loves ...
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| I'm broken. | 9/28/2009 | Brandon |
Q: I'm was a 21 year old, straight girl. I grow up in a very strict, religious and well-respected ...
A: Any breakup is a very emotional time, especially if you truly loved that person. However, in this ...
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| am i bi or gay? | 9/27/2009 | John of AllFaith |
Q: the other night i was staying the night at one of my friends house.we were up late and we were bored ...
A: At 16 its probably too early to commit yourself to any sexual categories (gay, straight, bi etc). ...
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| So confused. | 9/23/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: Well I'm an 17 year old lesbian...and im going through an awkward stage. I cant figure out how to ...
A: I have no clue what a stud type lesbian is. You also managed to pick the wrong person for dress or ...
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| Fantasy or a real life want | 9/21/2009 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I am a female (straight who enjoys sex with men) but I watch male on male gay porn and am greatly ...
A: I know a number of women who think that male on male porn is hot, hot, hot. It seems that you do ...
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