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| did god give up on me? | 8/30/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I am seventeen and I never really suspected myself gay, until 6 months back. I started wondering ...
A: First, God has absolutely NOT abandoned you. He is your Father and your eternal well wisher. The ...
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| Girlfriend wanting to be out. | 8/26/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have been in a relationship for around 18 months with another woman, and recently she has been ...
A: ..this is a one of those tough situation where I tell people that both people are "right" and no one ...
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| Incredibly confused about my sexuality | 8/25/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm a 22 year old guy who always assumed he was straight with some homoerotic desires. Now i'm ...
A: Why are you terrified to be gay? We all experienced at some point in our lives and believe it or not ...
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| Dilemma | 8/23/2008 | Kay |
Q: I am 19 and 1 and a half years ago I came out to my parents. They weren't supportive at all. In ...
A: Yes, I try to get back to you guys asap. sometimes my schedule is hectic but i love to give advice. ...
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| Dilemma | 8/23/2008 | Kay |
Q: I am 19 and 1 and a half years ago I came out to my parents. They weren't supportive at all. In ...
A: Yeah sometimes that happen with parents. They just don't understand or they have the life that they ...
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| I've only been married for 3 months | 8/20/2008 | Kay |
Q: I don't understand. We were married 3 months ago and ever since the wedding we have been drifting. ...
A: I wouldn't think that 3 months would take over the 9 years you guys have been togehter. Since there ...
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| As curious as a cat | 8/13/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. I have a boyfriend of three and a half years. He loves me very ...
A: How old are you? If you are under 21, I would say that you are too young. Communication is key in ...
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| She Lied About Being A Man. | 8/13/2008 | Kay |
Q: Ok this one is kind of tough to explain. So my ex and I were involved in a long distance ...
A: Since I don't know your age and living status this will be difficult. If I was to answer not ...
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| Christian, Gay/Bi, Confused, Sin? | 8/10/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: I'm a young 15 year old girl and I would like to have some help apart from prayer. I'm a Christian ...
A: First, my advise is to focus on your studies and don't worry about sexuality until you are older. ...
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| As curious as a cat | 8/9/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. I have a boyfriend of three and a half years. He loves me very ...
A: Work full time and go to school? Yes, that can be stressful on any relationship. I think you ...
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| Depressed and Confused | 8/7/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am not sure where to begin, other than the fact that I am feeling very down. It could be a number ...
A: sorry I didn't answer sooner, I was out sick last week. Thanks for writing to me. You are in a ...
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| Bumping into my ex is self torture | 8/5/2008 | Michelle |
Q: My girlfriend and I split up nearly 3 months ago. I caught her texting someone else and she finally ...
A: you are welcome. I think our head usually does know...or maybe it is the gut...but the heart has a ...
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| In love with a lesbian | 8/5/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm a straight guy, 21, and about a year ago I met a girl at university, 20. One day, we're walking ...
A: No, never give anyone the power of your happiness. You have to think about what you were doing ...
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| In love with a lesbian | 8/4/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm a straight guy, 21, and about a year ago I met a girl at university, 20. One day, we're walking ...
A: It is clear that you really like this girl. I know whatever I tell you probably won't help but at ...
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| Bumping into my ex is self torture | 8/1/2008 | Michelle |
Q: My girlfriend and I split up nearly 3 months ago. I caught her texting someone else and she finally ...
A: .. thanks for writing to me. Yes, first and foremost, yes, you are being too hard on yourself. ...
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| Is my boyfriend gay? | 7/31/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I am 51 years old and my boyfriend is 50. He has been single for the last 20 years except for a ...
A: I apologize for the delay in getting back to you. Work has had me at my wits end and I wanted to be ...
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| children issue with gay partners | 7/30/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: i'm writing on behalf of my fiance with whom is having issue with his 3 children calling his ex's ...
A: This is a sad situation. Sadly in divorce it is usually the kids who are harmed. Both parents and ...
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| Help | 7/26/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: In my club alot of the cadets knew i was gay but some how it got out and my cadet leader took me ...
A: There is a broad range of expression regarding being gay, just as there is a broad range of ...
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| is my husband gay? | 7/26/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I don't know what to do about my feeling about my husband being gay..when I confront him about it he ...
A: I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like both of you are having a really hard time. I ...
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| rejection and denial | 7/25/2008 | Michael Hernandez |
Q: I have had an emotional affair for 4 yrs with a good friend. She has flirted and stared at me from ...
A: I'm very sorry to hear that this has happened to you. How strange after all that has gone on. ...
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| My husband likes gay porn | 7/25/2008 | Kay |
Q: My husband has always been into porn, which is fine with me and we often watch together. He has put ...
A: I can understand where you are coming from but don't let it have you all emotional. Also, its not ...
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| Best Way to come out to VERY christian mother. | 7/24/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I'm a 47 female, leaving a 28 year marriage and moving in with another woman. NOt really leaving ...
A: Yes, you are right, it will be perceived as you leaving the marriage for the other woman. It is the ...
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| i love my wife but she thinks she is gay | 7/24/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I love my wife with all my heart we have been split up for six months she had a gay affair and left, ...
A: John, I am so sorry for all that you are going through. This has got to be the most excruciating ...
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| coming out to my extended family | 7/24/2008 | Kay |
Q: I am planning on coming out of the closet to my extended family, but I only see these aunts and ...
A: As I tell everyone, you should only come out when you are ready. You shouldn't be foreced or feel ...
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| my boyfriend told me he may be gay | 7/24/2008 | John of AllFaith |
Q: So my boyfriend and i were talking tonight and he said he had to tell me something but wasnt sure ...
A: First the question about being gay today and straight yesterday. There is a lot of controversy ...
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| am i a lesbian? | 7/22/2008 | Kay |
Q: I am a 27 year old female who, as far as I can remember, has always loved boys. Even in Kindergarten ...
A: This is going to be a tough one because I am not psychic. Everything you spoke of is normal but it ...
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| Gay Bathhouse | 7/21/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I'm considering getting a Gay Massage and was wondering if they are legit. If so, what is the best ...
A: I will start off by admitting that I really have no experience or knowledge of gay bathhouses, or ...
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| Gay Relationship | 7/18/2008 | Kay |
Q: im a 22 year old bisexual male, Im not out yet but considering coming out soon. Im not the kind of ...
A: Well, I don't think its about "getting the whole gay relationship" thing. I think all relationshipas ...
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| My brother is gay / bosexual. Any tips? | 7/18/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Around 24 hours ago my younger brother (22) came out of the closet. My family and i always had some ...
A: Keep in mind that for your brother, your dad crying like a baby IS a traumatic reaction. It might ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/18/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: Honestly, Renee...ANY TIME. I really hope the opportunity arises for him to spend time with you and ...
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| My brother is gay / bosexual. Any tips? | 7/17/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Around 24 hours ago my younger brother (22) came out of the closet. My family and i always had some ...
A: Mike, I cannot tell you how much I love getting a letter like yours...to know there are people out ...
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| Torn | 7/17/2008 | Kay |
Q: I have a girlfriend but I like this girl and we've clicked a lot lately. My girlfriend and I have ...
A: There is not alot of information here, but depending on how long you been in a relationship with ...
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| trapped | 7/17/2008 | Kay |
Q: im 18 years old and have been dating a 21 year old girl for about 9 months, we were friends for ...
A: For starters you need to find out why it is she doesn't trust any longer. Other than that I would ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/17/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: I can definitely tell you that you are taking the right approach right now...in terms of sifting ...
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| My boyfriend experimented in college | 7/16/2008 | Vaughn Gardner |
Q: I am a little confused and not totally sure about something. My boyfriend told me that quite a while ...
A: Let's take your questions one at a time shall we? I find it's easier for me to give full answers if ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/16/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: I think of all the questions I have gotten since I started on this site, this may well be the ...
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| Questioning my sexuality...and hers... | 7/15/2008 | Kay |
Q: So I just had my first year in college, freedom to make mistakes and find myself and all that. With ...
A: What you guys are going through is quite normal. You guys just need to figure out if this is a phase ...
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| Bisexual male in a heterosexual marriage | 7/14/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a 41 year old male currently married to a heterosexual woman...recently my bisexality has come ...
A: I wish I had an easy answer for you, but there really isn't one. No hypnotherapy or anything like ...
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| 5 Months | 7/13/2008 | Kay |
Q: I'm in college and my girlfriend is currently my roommate. We didn't become roommates until a week ...
A: Well either way, its still new. Plus if she is talking to her ex, planning to make plans to go away ...
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| my ex: my friend or enemy | 7/12/2008 | Kay |
Q: Here's my story: Three years ago I met a girl at a bar...a completely random event as I was fresh ...
A: I don't know too much about the stereotypes of lesbians, especially the thing about rushing ...
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