Expert: Kay Date: 6/20/2008 Subject: I dont know if my husband is bi or not
Question hello I just found out that my husband of almost 2 years got a blow job from 2 men at two different times and both he met online while I was away, I found out because of emails to his hot mail he finally came out and told me that he had gotten blow jobs from men before we were even together I just found this all out 3 weeks ago but it happened with the two guys 6 months ago I don't know what to do he swears he will never do it again he says he was getting back at me because I had cheated on him before but I'm not sure because this to me is not being curious since he had done this before me. I believe he is bi but like I said he swears he's not and to top it off I am now 9 months pregnant with his first son please help me I really don't know what to do I don't want to leave because I love him but I cant stay if he is into men Please help
Answer Hi Janine,
Well, He has basically told you what he has been doing and it is up to you to decide what you are going to do.
A relationship built on "tick for tat", will never work. Yes you were wrong for cheating but it doesn't help if he is going to use that against you. If so, still he needs to explain why it was with a man and not a woman.
See, its one thing to cheat and whole another thing to cheat do it with the opposite sex. Cause now he has to explain whether or not he is gay.
Follow your heart. YOu guys are bring a child into the world.
