Expert: Kay - 10/27/2009

Question
I have been with my partner for 4 years and when I say that it is hard ever day. I want to be married and live together again but I really don't see that happening ever. She has a kid and I have 4 kids one is grown.I think she has had sex with someone else I found a gown in her room. Should I just give up on use or should I keep trying

Answer
Hi,

I dont have much information here to make a decision. What does the gown in her room has to do with anything?

I say if you love her work it out. If you dont trust her you need to communicate and then find ways where you can trust her because you cant have a relationship without trust.

Hope this helps