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i think my boyfriend of 5 years is gay. We only have sex once maybe every week to two weeks. And when we do he only wants head or to have anal sex or he wants me to lick and finger his anal area. He never wants to have missionary sex anymore please help me.
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Hi holly
gee, i am sorry to hear that. Based upon what you are saying, i would say YES he is gay. But we dont want to do that...being judgemental. Is this all of the sudden, him not wanting to have missionary sex and the fingering of the anal?
I will say that there are some guys out there that like that (i dont know any) but i heard of them.
Did you ask him?
its one thing for him to want his dick sucked and may an occsional of you touching his anal area but him wanting anal sex and everything you mentioned is a little gay for me and i guess you too.
Once again, you dont want to assume. So, just ask. what can you loose? if he is gay you would want to know. You asking him may offend him but maybe you can do it another way. First tell him that you enjoy missionary position and would like if would do it once in a while. Wait, if you dont see an improvement, just tell him everything. Tell him how you feel and tell him that you just want to know. It would also help to say that you would not be mad.
Someone knowing that you will accept them makes it easier for them to open up to you.
There is defanitely something going on. There is no doubt about that.
Kamilah
hi and thank you very much. But to answer your questions we have been having anal sex for about a year. Which i enjoy but change would be good. He will only cum on my face and then he wants me to leave it on until i get mine. I just find it weird. And the fingering of his anal area he would push my hand down there he just started about 3 days ago then he pushed my hand down there and kept putting it closer until i did it he enjoyed it alot which makes me think it is not the first time it had been done. I know it hurts the first time but he came in seconds do u think he has tried it before.
Answer Gee a year! IS this without anything else? Ok. so you enjoy anal sex. IC. Cum on your face. Wow, you are a bedroom freak (dont take that the wrong way) Can ask you a question?
The fingering thing. How does this whole thing happen. Does he just put your hand there or is he bent over. Bascally i am just trying to figure out at what point does he want you to do. Is it at the point where you are giving him head or foreplay?
Not for nothing but i cant remember where i heard this from but they say that there are guys that liked to be touch at...its called the perinium (probally spelled wrong). It feels good and if it is being touch while they are getting head they cum instantly. But this area is not inside the anas. On another note, i also heard that some guys like to be fingered too. To me its kind of wierd. But too each its own. Also there is an area inside that if you put your fingers in (up to your knuckles) they will also cum instantly.
So, i guess the info i am giving you is a no win situation because there are guys out there that do like that but they are not gay.
You will have to look at other tendacies with him. Like if he is looking at guys. Does he hang out alot? How is his personality. I know some of these things can lead to sterotypes but its a start. You can also ask him.
kamilah
