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About Vaughn Gardner
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Expertise
I can answer most questions regarding coming out as an older adult, coming out from having been in a het marriage, discrimination in housing, being transgender (I`m a 51yr old, ftm transgender pre-op), keeping a long term relationship alive, having been in a butch-femme dynamic relationship, involvement in the leather community, coming from a Christian background and being gay, now being a pagan/Wiccan. If I don`t have the specific answer as a rule I know where to find it on the Net.

Experience
I've been out for 12yrs (1994-2006) this time (came out when I was 21 and then went screaming back in the closet and the church) and have faced several different kinds of issues. The questions I've mentioned I can answer related to the kinds of experiences I've had since coming out.

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Ministerial credentials with the ULC
PFLAG
APA (American Psychological Association) Undergraduate Student Afiiliate Member
ACA (American Counseling Association) Undergraduate Student Member
   

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Questions Answered By Expert  Vaughn Gardner 
In Category  Gay/Lesbian Issues

SubjectDate Asked

My boyfriend experimented in college7/16/2008
  Q: I am a little confused and not totally sure about something. My boyfriend told me that quite a while ...
  A: Let's take your questions one at a time shall we? I find it's easier for me to give full answers if ...
my supervisor @ work7/11/2008
  Q: I HAVE WORKED FOR THIS CERTAIN SUPERVISOR FOR 2 YRS. THE FIRST TIME SHE SAW ME SHE ...
  A: Chris, As I don't live in her in thoughts and heart I can't say for sure what's up with her. ...
call it quits?6/26/2008
  Q: You have been so helpful and told me to run. I know that was the best advice. I have been in a ...
  A: Hey Don, Okay here tis... Cut Bait. It's like you said, there are times when he is okay but when ...
to breakup or not to breakup6/13/2008
  Q: I have been in a relationship with someone I truly love for over 4 years. He is very depressed and ...
  A: Don, If it were me, hence this is only my opinion and you can do with it as you will, I'd remove ...
to breakup or not to breakup6/12/2008
  Q: I have been in a relationship with someone I truly love for over 4 years. He is very depressed and ...
  A: Son, Run? As a lover and partner, YES! As a friend (no benefits), Maybe No. I'll explain why but ...
A Resource link... I hope Re: Marriage rights6/2/2008
  Q: I live in California and there is some strong debate going on here. Can you answer a question for ...
  A: Kathleen, I get the Gay and Lesbian Leadership SmartBrief and saw this article. I thought perhaps ...
Lesbian friend3/27/2008
  Q: how would I determine if my lesbian friend is hitting on my wife. She is always really close I mean ...
  A: Frank, I think before I form any sort of opinion here, I think we need you clarify what you mean by ...
Is my husband gay?2/23/2008
  Q: I saw a similar question on this website, but the facts were a bit different, although most of them ...
  A: Sofia, You've got a great many valid concerns. I'll try to take them one by one and see if ...
Gay and the army9/10/2006
  Q: Sir, I am an openly gay male age 21. I have no problem showing my openess in public and in ...
  A: Tim, I did a little research and came up with this url: http://www.sldn.org This is the Service ...
is he interested?9/9/2006
  Q: last time you couldn't answer my question. one friend that i used to have i found him strange. he ...
  A: Okay Ramy, here we go. You didn't mention what type of school you go to - high school, college, ...
Is it true that the Gay and...10/22/2004
  Q: Is it true that the Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade kicked NAMBLA out (of participation) many years ...
  A: Cande, I can't speak for other cities but I know that where I lived NAMBLA was not granted the ...
being a gay christian6/15/2004
  Q: i desperately need your help! my boyfriend and i have been together since march (i've known him for ...
  A: Jared, Forgive the shortness of this letter but I just got out of the hospital yesterday after ...
bisexual7/7/2003
  Q: I am a 22 year old bisexual female, and I was wondering how would I find out if another girl is ...
  A: Hey there Melissa, Other than making an obvious pass or see what happens if the moment becomes ...
how to...11/21/2002
  Q: i have never been with a woman before.. i love men due to a recent break up with my boyfriend ive ...
  A: Let me apologize for not getting back to you sooner. I don't know where the hang up was because I ...
looking for a lawyer6/20/2001
  Q: My partner and I are going to inseminate with a known donor. We need a lawyer to do all the ...
  A: Greetings Jacky, Best wishes to you and your partner! And I have a great url for you that should ...

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