| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Incredibly confused about my sexuality | 8/25/2008 |
Q: I'm a 22 year old guy who always assumed he was straight with some homoerotic desires. Now i'm ...
A: Why are you terrified to be gay? We all experienced at some point in our lives and believe it or not ...
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| Dilemma | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I am 19 and 1 and a half years ago I came out to my parents. They weren't supportive at all. In ...
A: Yes, I try to get back to you guys asap. sometimes my schedule is hectic but i love to give advice. ...
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| Dilemma | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I am 19 and 1 and a half years ago I came out to my parents. They weren't supportive at all. In ...
A: Yeah sometimes that happen with parents. They just don't understand or they have the life that they ...
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| I've only been married for 3 months | 8/20/2008 |
Q: I don't understand. We were married 3 months ago and ever since the wedding we have been drifting. ...
A: I wouldn't think that 3 months would take over the 9 years you guys have been togehter. Since there ...
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| As curious as a cat | 8/13/2008 |
Q: I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. I have a boyfriend of three and a half years. He loves me very ...
A: How old are you? If you are under 21, I would say that you are too young. Communication is key in ...
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| She Lied About Being A Man. | 8/13/2008 |
Q: Ok this one is kind of tough to explain. So my ex and I were involved in a long distance ...
A: Since I don't know your age and living status this will be difficult. If I was to answer not ...
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| As curious as a cat | 8/9/2008 |
Q: I'm in a bit of a tight spot here. I have a boyfriend of three and a half years. He loves me very ...
A: Work full time and go to school? Yes, that can be stressful on any relationship. I think you ...
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| In love with a lesbian | 8/5/2008 |
Q: I'm a straight guy, 21, and about a year ago I met a girl at university, 20. One day, we're walking ...
A: No, never give anyone the power of your happiness. You have to think about what you were doing ...
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| In love with a lesbian | 8/4/2008 |
Q: I'm a straight guy, 21, and about a year ago I met a girl at university, 20. One day, we're walking ...
A: It is clear that you really like this girl. I know whatever I tell you probably won't help but at ...
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| My husband likes gay porn | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My husband has always been into porn, which is fine with me and we often watch together. He has put ...
A: I can understand where you are coming from but don't let it have you all emotional. Also, its not ...
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| coming out to my extended family | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I am planning on coming out of the closet to my extended family, but I only see these aunts and ...
A: As I tell everyone, you should only come out when you are ready. You shouldn't be foreced or feel ...
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| am i a lesbian? | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I am a 27 year old female who, as far as I can remember, has always loved boys. Even in Kindergarten ...
A: This is going to be a tough one because I am not psychic. Everything you spoke of is normal but it ...
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| Gay Relationship | 7/18/2008 |
Q: im a 22 year old bisexual male, Im not out yet but considering coming out soon. Im not the kind of ...
A: Well, I don't think its about "getting the whole gay relationship" thing. I think all relationshipas ...
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| Torn | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend but I like this girl and we've clicked a lot lately. My girlfriend and I have ...
A: There is not alot of information here, but depending on how long you been in a relationship with ...
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| trapped | 7/17/2008 |
Q: im 18 years old and have been dating a 21 year old girl for about 9 months, we were friends for ...
A: For starters you need to find out why it is she doesn't trust any longer. Other than that I would ...
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| Questioning my sexuality...and hers... | 7/15/2008 |
Q: So I just had my first year in college, freedom to make mistakes and find myself and all that. With ...
A: What you guys are going through is quite normal. You guys just need to figure out if this is a phase ...
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| 5 Months | 7/13/2008 |
Q: I'm in college and my girlfriend is currently my roommate. We didn't become roommates until a week ...
A: Well either way, its still new. Plus if she is talking to her ex, planning to make plans to go away ...
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| my ex: my friend or enemy | 7/12/2008 |
Q: Here's my story: Three years ago I met a girl at a bar...a completely random event as I was fresh ...
A: I don't know too much about the stereotypes of lesbians, especially the thing about rushing ...
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| 5 Months | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I'm in college and my girlfriend is currently my roommate. We didn't become roommates until a week ...
A: Does that 5 months indicate how long you two been dating? If so, that is NOT a long time. Also I ...
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| Help with sexual orientation confusion! | 7/9/2008 |
Q: my name is laura, I'm a 21 year old student. I am very confused about my sexuality. I'm not the ...
A: you inexperience is really hurting you. I am not saying for you to go out there and give it up to ...
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| Am I a bad person who needs to change? | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I really need someone to talk to. I am a 26 year old bisexual woman. I was in a romantic ...
A: I remember the days when I was talking to someone that was locked up. They always said the right ...
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| WHY IS MY MAN LOOKING AT TRANNY PORN | 6/28/2008 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN WITH MY MAN WHO IS 30 FOR ALMOST A YEAR. RECENTLY I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT HE LOOKS AT ...
A: I really don't have much expertise in Transexuals. However, I do get a lot of email from people in ...
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| I dont know if my husband is bi or not | 6/20/2008 |
Q: I found out because of emails to his hot mail he finally came out and told me that he had gotten ...
A: Well, He has basically told you what he has been doing and it is up to you to decide what you are ...
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| HELP! | 6/18/2008 |
Q: I am married to a great guy, and we have 2 daughters together. BUT, I have had a crush on one of my ...
A: Yeah, its never good to go after someone that is already "spoken for". Be careful about telling your ...
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| Sexual Orientation Confusion | 6/16/2008 |
Q: my name is Sarah. Im a nineteen year old female, and Im very confused of my sexual orientation. I ...
A: I know this is a dumb answer but LIFE is confusing. You will experience things and will never find ...
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| I think I 'm in Love with my best friend...I'm hurting so much ! ! | 6/16/2008 |
Q: So, I'm gay, 19 years old, and I'm from Europe. I live in a pretty homophobic country - Romania, if ...
A: Sorry for taking some time to get back to you. Oh yes, the feeling guilty thing is very normal. We ...
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| Sexual Orientation Confusion | 6/15/2008 |
Q: my name is Sarah. Im a nineteen year old female, and Im very confused of my sexual orientation. I ...
A: Just know that our choices of porn, sometimes has nothing to do with our sexuality. I know people ...
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| confused about my sexuality | 6/12/2008 |
Q: the first time I had sex with a female was 2005 I had never even given being with a female a second ...
A: In situations like this, no one can help you but your self. You first need to decided if being with ...
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| confused | 6/10/2008 |
Q: and I've been thinking that i may be gay for the last 4 years but i am not sure. Sometimes I tell ...
A: You didn't leave enough information here for me to answer your question, the way you would like me ...
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| Confused | 6/8/2008 |
Q: (I'm a 22 year old lesbian/bisexual, and have been in a relationship with my 22 year old partner. ...
A: Hey, well yes we should all live and experience but it should be with things that we want to mingle ...
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| Confused | 6/7/2008 |
Q: (I'm a 22 year old lesbian/bisexual, and have been in a relationship with my 22 year old partner. ...
A: Your situation sound so like how I am. Basically you are having this big fight with how you feel and ...
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| how to tell if someone you work with likes you? | 5/30/2008 |
Q: can anyone tell me some signs? i'm not sure if this person is bi (know she likes guys), or ...
A: Hey Kim. Scenerios like this are always tricky becaus we would never know if the person truly likes ...
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| I Need To Know If My Husband Is Bi Or Gay | 5/28/2008 |
Q: I need to know your thoughts on this. My Husband and I have been together for 9 years now and ...
A: Hey, Oh gosh, After reading what I wrote, I have to apologize again. You know what? I ususally don't ...
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| Im confused about my sexual orientation | 5/27/2008 |
Q: ok im really lost and confused right now im on the borderline between bi and gay im just lost ...
A: Well, I think I know how you feel. When I was dating my boyfriend, I loved him alot. Alot more than ...
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| I Need To Know If My Husband Is Bi Or Gay | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I need to know your thoughts on this. My Husband and I have been together for 9 years now and ...
A: Well, it appears to me that you have your answers. Had you not told me that you read all of these ...
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| Turning gay | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I have a pretty long cock. Its not really wide but thats not the point. I'm somewhat flexible and I ...
A: Well, whether you want to perform oral sex on your self is your choice and personally, I wouldn't ...
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| Curious/ I don't know if i'm gay? | 5/14/2008 |
Q: So I don't know how to navigate this subject. I have read stories about people saying that they ...
A: Well, you have to look more into these feelings that you had for these other people to see if it was ...
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| I don't know what space is? | 5/7/2008 |
Q: .I'm 22 years old and I am a lesbian. I've been with my bisexual G/f for about 8 months now, but we ...
A: Well it seems like your big issue is her being bisexual. In the end she will need to decide if being ...
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| Relationship | 5/2/2008 |
Q: I have been with my partner for 13 years. I love her, but our relationship isn't the same. Our sex ...
A: Do you think they lack of sex/attraction has anything to do with the age differnce? YOu mentioned ...
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| How Should I.....???? | 4/28/2008 |
Q: I'm a 18 yr old girl and I have wanted to have sex with this girl I'm really attracted to but I ...
A: Well, I never recommend coming out and telling folks that you like them because you may not be ...
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| Is my Finace' Gay? | 4/25/2008 |
Q: My name is Shana. I am a 21 year old mother of one who WAS engaged to be married on Aug. 8th. ...
A: So, did he ever meet any of these men tha he talked to online? Well, either way, I don't know the ...
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| Is my Fiance either bi or gay | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I need some advice. Please help me i will try to make everything accurate. Me and my fiance have ...
A: I am really sorry and really do feel your pain and hope that you understand that this is not a ...
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| My wife just told me she's gay | 4/18/2008 |
Q: My wife of 3 years just told me she's gay. She was talking to a friend of hers for some time. I ...
A: Gee, I am truly sorry. I know that there is no fixing her but you still deserve some answers. This ...
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| Is my boyfriend gay? | 4/17/2008 |
Q: I'm 22 and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 half years now.. but for about a year or maybe more ...
A: Hey, They always say, a person tells the truth when they are drunk. Yes, sometimes rebound sex is ...
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| Gay? | 4/13/2008 |
Q: My name is Jaco and i am 20 years old. I have never had a grilfriend, although i would like to be in ...
A: Hey jaco, being a lesbian, I also had that issue. Its something that you are going to have to deal ...
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| Am I gay or Bi? | 4/9/2008 |
Q: I was just reading your page where a man,36, thought he may be Bi. I have very similar feelings. I ...
A: Hey Goeff, Gee, you have alot going on. Honestly, I don't know where to begin. Do you plan on ...
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| Relationship Snag | 4/8/2008 |
Q: . I'm Adam, 24, living on the East Coast. Pretty much I'm looking for an outside perspective on an ...
A: Oh woah, Well, that would be having affair and would not be a good thing. Its one thing to do it ...
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| Transsexual fetish | 4/3/2008 |
Q: I am very attracted to transexuals, well on the adult sites on the net anyway. I think that one day ...
A: First off, I don't have much expertise in transexuals but I will try to help you. No, I don't think ...
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| gay friend | 4/2/2008 |
Q: my friend is 18 years old and he has doubts whether he is gay or not. he doesn't like watching ...
A: Well his choice of porn doesn't really mean anything. We all watch porn for enjoyment and some ...
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| I want to tell her SO bad | 3/31/2008 |
Q: Hey There, So my story is that I am a 21 year old female, who has recently realized that I am a ...
A: I just answered a question like this. Maybe this can help you too. It sounds like to me that your ...
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| lesbian/bi/straight??? | 3/12/2008 |
Q: To be fully honest.. I'm confused. I'm 19 and still a virgin and its not because I don't want to but ...
A: Yes, you are right. It could very well be a stage. There is not much info here for me to go off by ...
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| smart or jelous | 3/9/2008 |
Q: I have this girl i am deeply in love with. Ive known her for 2 years..we dated for a lil bit but ...
A: Well, all I have to go by is what you are telling me. So, all we have if her word. Sometimes we can ...
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| Relationship Doubts | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 and around November I came out as being bi to my best friend - knowing that doing so would ...
A: Lol, Well, I think the only problem is that he or you both are not ready for an open relationship. ...
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| Am so confused | 2/27/2008 |
Q: i really need help.Am 24 years old and i fall in love with this beautiful girl for the first time.I ...
A: AHHH craigslist...lol. Well unfortunately like any one night stand, they don't last. You two ...
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| Relationship Difficulty | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with John for 3 1/2 years. Since the beginning there has been an ...
A: I am so sorry for all of this trouble but at the same time, I can't say that I truly say that I ...
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| Is my wife gay? | 2/18/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 30 years and have two children; I just turned 60 and she is 58 ...
A: sorry I took so long getting back to you. Well, for starters, I am sorry that you guys haven't ...
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| New Relationship...but I have old baggage that will always be attached. | 2/13/2008 |
Q: I have been seeing this wonderful woman for the last 3 months....she has showed me a new outlook on ...
A: Well for starters, there is nothing wrong with re-connecting with your husband for the sake of your ...
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| Ex In Pursuit | 2/11/2008 |
Q: I have been dating a woman for the last three months. We both are in our 40's and came from two ...
A: It seems like your ex's EX, has had many of chances to get her self together. Well, I think anyone ...
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| sexual orientation and OCD | 2/7/2008 |
Q: Alright, so i've always liked boys. But recently after i watched an Oprah show on lesbians, i've ...
A: Hey, this is what happens when we put too much thought into something. I think you are just worried ...
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| discrimination | 1/28/2008 |
Q: Students were aloud to make 8th grade webpages to be posted on the school's website. I wan't aloud ...
A: First off, I am sorry that you are experiencing this. Just know the world we live in can not be such ...
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| What should I do?. . | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I love her and I want to marry her, but for the longest time I have been interested in men. I know I ...
A: Well, If thats how you feel, you can't marry her until you deal with your desires. You want to make ...
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| homophobia | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I grew up in a republican town full of jocks. Even though I'm out of high school, I still wonder ...
A: I am not sure I understand where you are going with this but know that its not you. What happened is ...
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| So Confused... | 1/21/2008 |
Q: I'm so confused about my sexuality. I'm only 18, so I don't know if it's just a phase, but I don't ...
A: Unfortunatly I can't help you with this because you haven't had enough experience. I feel like you ...
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| only lesbian for her? | 1/20/2008 |
Q: i've been wanting to share this with someone. i am 28 years old, a straight woman, ive never been ...
A: It happens all the time to straight women and no it doesn't make you a lesbian because you like her. ...
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| what is right? | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I am 23 years old. I'm also a woman who is married to a man. We have a child together. My husband ...
A: Know that you are not alone. Alot of people go through this. Of course I am not saying that its ...
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| is my partner gay | 1/9/2008 |
Q: ive lived with my partner now for thirteen years.we have two kids and as i thought a brilliant ...
A: I am sorry to hear about your new findings. Some men enjoy watching gay porn but there are some that ...
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| Moving On | 1/5/2008 |
Q: I am a 26 year old closeted gay man (only out to one person). For the past five years, I have been ...
A: Hey, Well either way, I feel like he knows that you sort of like him or that you are gay. I also ...
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| Moving On | 1/5/2008 |
Q: I am a 26 year old closeted gay man (only out to one person). For the past five years, I have been ...
A: Hey, you're lucky I decided to check this thing again. I usually check it like every 3 days, with my ...
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| Moving On | 1/4/2008 |
Q: I am a 26 year old closeted gay man (only out to one person). For the past five years, I have been ...
A: Ok, so no running and no cutting off mutual friends. You can't run forever... I am truly sorry that ...
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| Lesbian Relationship | 12/29/2007 |
Q: I am a 23 year old mother and I date a 26 year old woman. After my husband and I split apart I ...
A: So what a change in relationships...However its something that goes on alot. For starters, lets try ...
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| Transsexual Question | 12/16/2007 |
Q: I have been married to a man for 15 years, and I just found out that he is attracted to ...
A: I really don't have expertise in this area. I just know that some men, have some form of sexual ...
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| my g/f is gay....maybe? | 12/11/2007 |
Q: I read one of your other posts and it kind of rang a bit to me. I've been dating the same girl ...
A: I am sorry that this turned out to be a disaster. This is a very common situation that unfortunatly ...
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| Crush on Best Friend | 12/2/2007 |
Q: Hey. I'm bisexual but tend to have a stronger preference towards guys. One of my best friends is one ...
A: Well, this will be hard because I don't know your HOT friend's sexual orientation. If he is not ...
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| Am I Bi or Gay, or am I overanalyzing? | 11/29/2007 |
Q: I have a girlfriend, and I love her. But whenever I watch porn, it's always gay porn, and on more ...
A: what you mean the same with your girlfriend? What you are not liking her as much anymore or are you ...
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| Am I Bi or Gay, or am I overanalyzing? | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I have a girlfriend, and I love her. But whenever I watch porn, it's always gay porn, and on more ...
A: Ok, do you know what makes you start to think about them? Are you saying that you can see any random ...
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| Am I Bi or Gay, or am I overanalyzing? | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I have a girlfriend, and I love her. But whenever I watch porn, it's always gay porn, and on more ...
A: Well, its very normal to watch gay porn and to get turned on. Porn is designed to get you aroused it ...
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| married/single lesbians | 11/17/2007 |
Q: Is it okay for a single woman (lesbian) to ask a straight (maybe not so straight) woman if she is ...
A: Well, there is nothing wrong with asking a question. Of course one may want to know WHY you asked ...
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| does my ex girlfriend love me? | 11/10/2007 |
Q: I met this girl about 5 months ago, and she had a boyfriend, she would always come to me and tell me ...
A: Well, you make her take responsibility for her actions by not letting her come back to you when she ...
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| does my ex girlfriend love me? | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I met this girl about 5 months ago, and she had a boyfriend, she would always come to me and tell me ...
A: Oh yeah this is classic. I say run like hell. Apparently she is confused and just looking to have ...
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| My Fiancee has feelings for her girlfriend | 11/7/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I have been living together for @ 5 yrs. now and about 6 months ago she admitted to me ...
A: Sorry for the wait. I usually answer back in the same day but now I am working two jobs.... Ok, so ...
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| Should I tell her how I feel? | 11/6/2007 |
Q: My ex and I have had our fair share of ups and downs.Break ups.And Absolute disasters.Now we are ...
A: Sorry for the wait. I usually answer back in the same day but now I am working two jobs.... Yeah, we ...
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| a little confused | 11/6/2007 |
Q: i am incredibly attracted to men, emotionally and physically. i don't have any interested in being ...
A: Sorry for the wait. I usually answer back in the same day but now I am working two jobs.... Well, I ...
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| confused | 10/19/2007 |
Q: Im a 23 year old male that has always been straight, i have a girlfriend of 8 years now and girl ...
A: Well you can't base this on porn. Just because you get turned on by porn, doesn't mean anything. ...
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| Molested family member is now gay | 10/18/2007 |
Q: I have a 25 year old cousin who has recently come out as gay. Which is fine, but he is going down a ...
A: ITs very difficult to say whether his behavior has anything to do with him being molest as a child. ...
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| Wondering if I'm bisexual | 10/16/2007 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old male who is extremely confused about his sexuality. When I was first entering ...
A: Most times the answer lies within. I can't tell you who you are but I will do my best in trying to ...
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| Need your opinion! | 10/16/2007 |
Q: I'm 26 y/o female and I asked you a question about someone I like back in April, and you were really ...
A: No, Its not a silly question, because I get alot of mail from people in your position and they were ...
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| Need your opinion! | 10/15/2007 |
Q: I'm 26 y/o female and I asked you a question about someone I like back in April, and you were really ...
A: Glad to have been of assistance. Based on what you wrote, there is nothing in there that would lead ...
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| Should I tell her? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I am 40 years old. I have gotten very close with my female coworker. We go out and have a good time ...
A: Hey, Yeah, alot of us don't share for different reason but for me the biggest is that I wouldn't ...
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| is my girlfriend a lesbian/bi? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: My girl friend is a senior in highschool. I love her very much and we have been together for one ...
A: Aww CJ, I never had a question like this and you most really love your girl, to be feeling bad. ...
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| Confused | 10/6/2007 |
Q: I am a 22 year old male and I am extremely confused about whether I am gay or straight. I have had ...
A: often times we can receive it but can't perform because its something new to us and you probably ...
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| Friend might not be straight | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I am a 26 year old gay man and live with my 22 year old best friend. We are really close and he is ...
A: It appears that you have a very good friend but I do understand your concerns. It could either be ...
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| Friendship with a gay man? (from straight woman) | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I don't know if you can offer any advice, but I didn't know who to ask. This question probably ...
A: Well yes of course. Gay men actually get along with alot of woman. No him being gay should not deter ...
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| Losing a friend | 10/2/2007 |
Q: I have been fairly good friends with a guy from my university residence for a few months now. Last ...
A: Hey Joe, I am truly sorry that this happened to you. So, what made you touch it, if you have never ...
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| A same sex dream(please try to help me) | 9/30/2007 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old female and i dreamt that i was talking to my ex female friend and i was tilling ...
A: Sorry but there is not much information that I can offer because it was a dream. Dreams usually come ...
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| Massage | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if it was against the law to receive an erotic massage by trained and licensed men. ...
A: Sorry I am not to familiar with that. I am sure it is legal as long as it is not anything sexual. I ...
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| am i gay? | 9/24/2007 |
Q: recently i have came out to my family and friends that im a lesbian because i am attracted to girls ...
A: Well, The first step is to relax and not question everything. If you like girls and is content, ...
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| breaking up | 9/23/2007 |
Q: I am 37 and 2 years ago I met a woman I worked with who is gay. She was 28 at the time. I have never ...
A: Your story sounds like the classic...story. I had something like this going on very similiar. ...
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| What can i do when my girlfriend loses her drive to have sex? | 9/20/2007 |
Q: I'm always in the mood. I (April) love having sex with her. But we haven't had sex or even any deep ...
A: Well, have you tried other things besides having sex with her? If not try a hug or a conversation. ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/15/2007 |
Q: I only recently finally admitted to myself how I feel about women who catch my eye. It really felt ...
A: In the dark is good for you huh? I hear you. I've known that I liked women ever since I was a kid, ...
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| How do I handle her? | 9/13/2007 |
Q: I am a 22 year old student and know that I for sure have feelings for women. I meet a girl a few ...
A: Based on the information that you are telling me, I wouldn't try to make this go too far because you ...
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| Contacting a past lover | 9/2/2007 |
Q: I was in a lesbian relationship for 6 months with what I thought would be soul mate (not really sure ...
A: I completely understand where you are coming from. Leaving a relationship is the most hardest thing ...
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| How do i stop wanting someone who's using me? | 8/29/2007 |
Q: My friend and i have went through a lot of things, but i have struggled with my sexuality for a ...
A: Wait, You guys are having sex? I thought you were just liking her and wanting to be with her. ...
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| Wife may be Bi-curious and possibly cheating | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 3 years now and it's been your normal up and down relationship, but ...
A: Wow, I'm sorry. While, I don't see a problem with her having female friends that are lesbians, her ...
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| Is my partner gay ? | 8/16/2007 |
Q: ive been doing as much research as i can , it first started in the first year i learned that talkin ...
A: They went camping? Sounds like the move "Broke Back Mountain". Well, It is very clear that your man ...
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| Confused | 8/15/2007 |
Q: Im a 22 year old female and feel very confused. I am in a relationship with a very caring man who I ...
A: So, you threw me off because you wrote "I was always attracted to males as i grew up and never ...
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| confusion | 8/14/2007 |
Q: i am a 25 year old female. i havent had many serious relationships in my life, and i am concerned ...
A: Well of course this made sense to me because alot of people are in your position. THe first part in ...
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| How do if he is bisexual or really a homosexual man? | 8/11/2007 |
Q: I'm a 26 yr old female....he is a 32 yr old male. We met online like so many couples have these ...
A: Well, surprisingly, alot of men like for woman to put their hand up their anus. Different strokes ...
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| how can i make her see? | 8/11/2007 |
Q: i am 19 and last year while i was 18 i slept with two different guys(once and thrice accordingly.the ...
A: Yeah, we all get those spouts of wanting to be "normal". Does it make sense to want to hurt your ...
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| Not a lesbian, but asked out by one | 8/9/2007 |
Q: I am 34 years old, female, and educated (finishing my doctorate in computer science). Recently, a ...
A: Congrats on the PHD. I didn't even know they had that for computer science.... Wow, she just came ...
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| Friendship conflict of interest | 8/9/2007 |
Q: I (Doug, 33) have been struggling with same sex attraction all my life and have been looking for ...
A: Oh so now that you have moved on, you are now going to hell but it wasn't a problem when he was ...
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| My boyfriend is an alcoholic | 8/4/2007 |
Q: We both live together as I have moved in with him in December. These past months have been pretty ...
A: Ruiz, Well, I sure can't be the one to tell you what to do, however he shouldn't be verbally ...
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| am I gay? | 7/31/2007 |
Q: I am 22 yrs old, straight male. Lately something has been bothering me. First of all for the ...
A: He Arthur, ALL men admire other men to an certain extent. It could be there fathers or a tv star. ...
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| gay thoughts | 7/27/2007 |
Q: ive been stressed out over a problem that makes no sence to me ... it all started when i was ...
A: H Jhon, Well if this is bothering you, how about try to figure out why you are having these ...
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| i really need help | 7/26/2007 |
Q: .and im confident that im totally straight. just that there was this situation one day..me and my ...
A: Well, Lets not think so negative. I am sure he feels the same way you do, which is why he probally ...
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| i really need help | 7/25/2007 |
Q: .and im confident that im totally straight. just that there was this situation one day..me and my ...
A: Well stuff like this happen all the time when we have drugs/alchohol in our system. Most of the time ...
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| Worried... | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I have been dating this wonderful boy for over 2 years now. We started dating when I was 17 years ...
A: Well alot of guys enjoy spending time with "the boys", so I there is nothing strange about that. ...
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| my wife is a lesbian | 7/24/2007 |
Q: my wife was doing time in prison. and 2 months ago she told me that she has become a lesbian. how ...
A: Sorry Robert but this is a too personal and involved problem for my input, at this point. I don't ...
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| I have a couple of questions for a paper I am writting | 7/22/2007 |
Q: 1. Do you think that Homosexual marriages last longer than heterosexual marriages? 2. What are ...
A: Takiyah, 1. I think marriage in general could be a good thing or bad thing for all sexual ...
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| What now? | 7/18/2007 |
Q: I just accepted that I am a lesbian and came out to a very close male friend with whom I have had a ...
A: Well you are not the only one that struggle. Its a common thing to be shy about something that we ...
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| Private Life | 7/10/2007 |
Q: how do you do? i practice trance, astral projection and some other spiritual methods since i can ...
A: Wow, I would love to meet someone like you that do such cool things that you mentioned. Sorry that ...
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| Could my wife be gay | 7/10/2007 |
Q: I have been reluctant to ask this or except the possibility of this question. (Is my wife Gay). My ...
A: Sorry about the marital problems. So why did your friend put that thought your head about another ...
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| is my husband has relationship with his gay bestfriend? | 7/8/2007 |
Q: I have been living with this man for almost 7 years. He has a gay best friend, sending him messages ...
A: Well in situations like this you can only depend on instinct and trust. Its hard to trust someone ...
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| I can't decide | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I've been thinkin i'm a lesbian for a few years. Mainly because I have such a hard time being with ...
A: Well being shy is normal however it is something that you will have to break out your self. I find ...
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| Confused with my sexual identity | 6/29/2007 |
Q: Since i was about 21 i started to think i was a lesbian but then i had no desire to have sex or have ...
A: Its very normal to think girls are pretty or sexy. It doesn't make you a lesbian. i think you are ...
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| is my wife gay | 6/28/2007 |
Q: My wife has been having an affair with another woman. She hooked up with her boss when we were ...
A: Well I hate to say this but you didn't paint the best picture of her so I would have to say that you ...
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| Gay marrying a Lesbian | 6/20/2007 |
Q: Deep inside me, I have gay tendencies but I want to be married to a female and have kids. The ...
A: I understand your concerns but you will be creating more problems than ever because you just can't ...
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| not sure if i'm gay... | 6/18/2007 |
Q: I'm having a hard time right now deciding on if i'm gay or not. I get turned on by gay and straight ...
A: Well you dont want to judge your sexuality by gay or straight porn. Just know that all porn is ...
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| Sexuallt confused and scared... | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 7 years now. I have never been with a woman but I am pretty sure I am bi ...
A: First thing first, Get your self together. Besides this current issue you need to make sure that you ...
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| is my boyfriend gay? | 6/15/2007 |
Q: i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years,he is very loving,kind,respectful and romantic.but he ...
A: Yeah i know all of his hints are confusing but its not best that we make judgements because his ...
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| Fiance says she's in love with another woman | 6/12/2007 |
Q: My fiance told me a few weeks ago that she has strong feelings for another woman. As we talked ...
A: Hmm, yes you are right in every word. She has to want to make things right and she needs to make the ...
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| Fiance says she's in love with another woman | 6/11/2007 |
Q: My fiance told me a few weeks ago that she has strong feelings for another woman. As we talked ...
A: Hey, I feel like I am speaking to a different person. I am glad you figure these things out for your ...
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| im so confused | 6/10/2007 |
Q: im in love with my best friend she is a straight women. does this mean im gay, i am attracted to ...
A: Don't worry alot of people are confused especially when we have choices. Ithink you should just ...
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| Fiance says she's in love with another woman | 6/8/2007 |
Q: My fiance told me a few weeks ago that she has strong feelings for another woman. As we talked ...
A: Sorry to hear this about your wife. I don't think its right that its hard to get info from her ...
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| is he gay? | 6/6/2007 |
Q: Having known Gary for 41/2 years we were best friends, but not in a relationship as he didn,t want ...
A: Based upon what you are telling me it appears that your friend may very well be gay and maybe ...
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| Special Lady Friend | 6/4/2007 |
Q: I'm a 29 y/o lesbian female, I got out a of 5 year relationship over a year ago. I have just ...
A: ITs hard to tell if she has alot of friends, has friends with benefits, or if you are simply ...
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| tons of confusion | 5/24/2007 |
Q: I've regreted all the sexual confusion I've experienced, and wish I could put it well behind me. I ...
A: Sanders, It appears that you are all over the place with your feelings. And i would have left that ...
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| i am lonesome | 5/11/2007 |
Q: my name is laura. i am 18 years old and have known that i am gay since i was very young. i am in ...
A: Yeah this is a hard one. There is no map of book on finding out if someone is gay. I tell people all ...
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| curious, or gay? | 5/7/2007 |
Q: okay. hello kay, iam trey who is 10 years old and is strangly starting to experience weird stuff. i ...
A: unfortunately you are WAY TOO YOUNG for me to give adivce...please understand that. But her is ...
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| what am i? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: I am so confused and have been for years now. And I always know whats going on and know myself, the ...
A: What you are going through is quie normal. We all had thoser first timers at a young age that we ...
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| Sexually confused | 5/3/2007 |
Q: So I have crushes on male tv characters, but I don't have very much interest in the guys I meet in ...
A: This is going to be hard because I don't know your age. But if you have never dated either, you ...
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| Wondering if my husband is gay | 5/2/2007 |
Q: I am not sure you can help, but I do not know who else to ask. This is a question about my husband. ...
A: Yes you are correct when you say its a personal choice not to be with someone that is gay...who ...
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| Unsupportive parents | 5/1/2007 |
Q: my name is Laura and I came out to my parents about five or six years ago. I am 25 now and would ...
A: Sometimes its really hard for parents to accept their children's lifestyle. Some can but others just ...
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| am i gay | 4/30/2007 |
Q: how do i know if i am gay? all my life i have never been very attracted to women but recently i have ...
A: Have you also checked out straight porn? In any case there is no true way of knowing if you are ...
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| love from at first sight ..(part2) | 4/28/2007 |
Q: It's me again, Riko. u see I decide the next time I see the girl that I like, I will gathered all my ...
A: I'm sorry since i don't see your previous questions its really hard to remember what your situation ...
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| struggle | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I am 21 years old and can not figure myself out. I can not tell if I am gay or bi or what? I have ...
A: Aww don't feel bad. At 21 we all struggle to find our selves. Its a process. After reading what you ...
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| love from at first sight! | 4/22/2007 |
Q: I'm 25 y/o female, I have question for you, but hear my story first…. My cousin graduated from ...
A: YES! That always happens. I can't count how many times i stumpled upon a very attractive girl and ...
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| Extension of first question | 4/18/2007 |
Q: Hey Kay, Thanks for getting back to me so quickly. To answer your ?, I am bothered by not being ...
A: So, this is basically about your gf not telling you whats going on...as it alm ost being a smack in ...
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| My Partner's mother... | 4/17/2007 |
Q: I cant believe that after looking for almost an hr I can't find anything on this topic. Long story ...
A: Well, I wouldn't say you were wrong but insensitive. Don't get me wrong you have every right to feel ...
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| Is he gay? | 4/16/2007 |
Q: I got with my boyfriend about a year ago, threw out our relationship i have been getting signs that ...
A: Hmm, I wonder what types of stuff he did with this other guy... Oh so he wants all of the pleasures ...
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| Bi or not? | 4/11/2007 |
Q: I don't know if I am bisexual or not. I'm 13 and I am attracted to girls and boys, but I was ...
A: Since you are young there is not much I can tell you. I had that issue too and just had to live ...
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| wifes sexuallity | 3/30/2007 |
Q: my wife left me 6 months ago for no apparent reason. we had no problems and a great sex life. she ...
A: Well you are right alot of females do watch porn or even had ideas of sleeping with other women so I ...
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| wifes sexuallity | 3/30/2007 |
Q: my wife left me 6 months ago for no apparent reason. we had no problems and a great sex life. she ...
A: Well, Yes because there are 5 instances with these women. You mentioned something of intimacy so did ...
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| very confused about sexuality stuff | 3/29/2007 |
Q: I am a 25 year old male that has been in relationship for about 6 1/2 years. I am currently engaged ...
A: You are welcome. Maybe the questioning came up because gay is such an hot topic these days. Almost ...
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| very confused about sexuality stuff | 3/28/2007 |
Q: I am a 25 year old male that has been in relationship for about 6 1/2 years. I am currently engaged ...
A: Ok, what are you questioning about your sexuality? Its best to try to figure what these feelings are ...
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| What am I? | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and recently I've started to have feelings for both guys and girls. I've had crushes on guys ...
A: Well i see that you are 17 and this is very common. Its hard sometimes finding out what works for ...
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| My boyfriend is bi-sexual, and wants to have a three-some | 3/26/2007 |
Q: I have always known that my boyfriend was bi-sexual and I have accepted him for who he is. However, ...
A: Sorry to hear about this but I can't really offer you any advice because i never did this. If you ...
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| girl crush on my best friends sister | 3/23/2007 |
Q: heres the scenario. I'm a 22 year girl who has just come to terms with the fact that I am gay/bi. ...
A: well this is difficult because this is your bestfriend's sister you are talking about here...and I ...
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| Can you help me out | 3/22/2007 |
Q: I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We recently moved out, like 3 months ago, ...
A: I was so like your gf. When i was in school I was so familiar with not working i made every excuse ...
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| am i or not | 3/21/2007 |
Q: hey well as you know my name is Ashlynn and i really need to know if i am straight lesbian or ...
A: No one will ever have a straight answer in telling you if you are a lesbian or bisexual because it ...
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| is my husband gay? | 3/20/2007 |
Q: Can my husband be in gay denial? He claims he's not gay, but I have always had doubts. He is an ...
A: Well there are lot of feminine guys out there that are not gay...so this is not going to be easy ...
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| please help | 3/19/2007 |
Q: I wanted to ask someone's professional oppinion on an issue I have been having.... I know I am a ...
A: Uh oooo, See, I always tell people to be careful when they want to tell the friend that they like ...
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| Gay or Bi? | 2/27/2007 |
Q: I am just after some advice and opinions from people who know a bit more than me! lol. I know ...
A: I think you answered your own question about your sexuality. Based on the information that is given, ...
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| Is my BF gay or bi? | 2/24/2007 |
Q: I have noticed that my BF has stopped off at a few gay porn sites and it has me really concerned. ...
A: Hi, well unfortunately there is not enough info here for me to make that prediction. Furthermore, ...
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| i need some anserws | 2/19/2007 |
Q: ok me and my g/f been together for 1 year now. we live together with her parents, she works 3rd ...
A: Allison For starters you should not have to go around asking a person to ask how your day is. That ...
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| Tough living situation | 2/19/2007 |
Q: I've been friends with this girl for about a year and 4 months now and we have always been really ...
A: Hey I am sorry for your problems with your friend and it must be hard living with her and trying to ...
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| Abnormal Relationship... | 1/10/2007 |
Q: Im Jawe, 20, a bisexual. And my problem is... Im falling to a close friend. And it was so happen ...
A: So I take it that you are a guy? You didn't leave much details. So you are asking me if it is ...
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| Is my brother gay? | 1/4/2007 |
Q: Tahnks so much for your response. I was asking, especially because I found many people on the web ...
A: Hey Dont get me wrong, there are many stereotypes out there and even I can subscribe to them at ...
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| is my boyfriend gay? | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I am 16 and my boyfriend stays at his friends house a lot, and he sells a lot of things to him. They ...
A: Him staying the night over a friends house sounds very typical of a 16 year old. I don't know what ...
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| Is my brother gay? | 1/2/2007 |
Q: My little brother is 17, almost 18. He has had quite a few behavioural problems in the past, mainly ...
A: Finding those pictures can make you go both ways with this but there is nothing that indicates that ...
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| My Love | 12/22/2006 |
Q: I really dont know where the confusion comes into play either, having never been in that situation. ...
A: Actually, I dont think she is bi but just going to a phase or confused. Sometimes people like to ...
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| Proving Points to my Girlfriend | 12/8/2006 |
Q: This next question is kinf of off topic but I really need to know. When having sex with my ...
A: LOL, well we all climax differently...you may not be a squitter...and nothing is wrong with that. ...
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| Where do I fit? | 12/8/2006 |
Q: I have known since I was 11 or 12 that I am bisexual. I had always had relationships with guys and ...
A: Without making my answer all long and drawn out, I am beginning to think that a person can change ...
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| Proving Points to my Girlfriend | 12/7/2006 |
Q: I have one child and she has three but thats the least of our problem. We both love each others kids ...
A: Long distance relationships can work if they were meant to work. From reading your email, It appears ...
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| this girl | 12/7/2006 |
Q: ok hi how are you. ok well i came to you for help there is this girl in my second hour lets call her ...
A: I am fine thanks. Well, you have one of the classics...This is going to be hard because I can tell ...
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| family and holidays | 12/7/2006 |
Q: I was searching for an advice forum that would be objective and sensitive. To start off with, I am ...
A: Sorry to hear about your parents. Gee, this is so screwed up. You guys were ok until he knew you ...
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| is my girlfriend gay or bisexual | 11/27/2006 |
Q: I have been dating a girl for 10 months(Feb 2006) and I don't know if she is is gay or bisexual. In ...
A: Hey tammy, Gay or bisexual? It's really tough. Because once you think the person is gay, they end up ...
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| Is my husband Gay | 11/25/2006 |
Q: I've been married for 7 years now with 2 kids. I saw where my husband was looking at several gay ...
A: So you think that's what he really wants? Because we all have these kinky fetishes. Sometimes we ...
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| my relationship! | 11/24/2006 |
Q: Well... I have been dating my girlfriend Haley for about 2years now. Well, when We first began the ...
A: Wait how did you get a chance to date the same the same girl your gf dated? Well, it is apparent ...
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| I think that he is gay! | 11/21/2006 |
Q: Ok i'm a junior at my high school. i'm dating a freshman his name is tyler. when he was in the ...
A: Well thats how it goes at his age anything can happen. Sometimes people are just confused or simply ...
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| Me and this Girl | 11/8/2006 |
Q: Ok well me and this girl has almost a one year history going on. We were talking until they decided ...
A: I am a little confused. I cant tell if you are a guy named Angel or a female named angel. So your ...
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| what am i? | 11/5/2006 |
Q: I am a 32 years old woman. I have never been with any men intimately but I find myself attracted to ...
A: How come you have never been with men? Not trying to say that you should have at your age but you ...
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| confusion..as usual! | 11/2/2006 |
Q: well 2 things firstly from what you're sayin i gather that people who are gay just know it that they ...
A: Well my view on who is gay or not is an opionion and isn't written in stone (like anything else). ...
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| kids in a relationship | 11/1/2006 |
Q: I am a 41yr old Lesbian and my wife of nealry 3 years is 45 she has a 19yr old son that lives with ...
A: Cynthia, Wait i am confused. YOu mention how you this gf thats 45 and her son live with you ...
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| 2 year crush - girl best friend | 10/31/2006 |
Q: I am 17-year-old girl from Michigan and I'm bisexual. My best friend Sarah was the 2nd person I came ...
A: So do you think telling her will make it go away? I have been in similiar situations and had to ...
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| Lesbian... but... my boyfriend doesn't get it... | 10/25/2006 |
Q: I've recently reallized that I am lesbian and I tried to tell my bf (I'm his first gf) that we ...
A: In cases like this there is nothing you really can do. If you know you are a lesbian and don't wish ...
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| Is my boyfriend gay or bi | 10/25/2006 |
Q: I feel like I already know the answer to my question and I have heard that if you have to ask advice ...
A: So the tendacy is there...him having a experience with another man is def. a door opener. See you ...
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| Confused (Part 12) | 10/24/2006 |
Q: Sure. I said: "On the subject of my 2 friends, they haven't changed their behavior since the other ...
A: they couldnt have been that serious if they havent brought it up again hey do private click next ...
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| Is my wife gay..here's the evidence | 10/23/2006 |
Q: I think my wife is a lesbian. We haven't really kissed since our wedding just over four years ago. ...
A: No kisses in 4 yrs..thats a bit extreme. As much as I would like to say she is lesbian her pattern ...
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| Confused (Part 11) | 10/23/2006 |
Q: Hmmm...see I'm kind of aprehensive about that. If I joined a site like that, I would want the ...
A: Hey you can join the website and make it private (only those that you want to view it) or keep it ...
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| Confused (Part 10) | 10/22/2006 |
Q: Hmmm, I thought I already sent this. Guess not? I don't like using stereotypes either, and I'm not ...
A: No chris you dont have to wait until you are older to hook up with a boy...do your self a favor a ...
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| Confused (Part 9) | 10/20/2006 |
Q: Sorry I sounded so dejected in my last question, I had just come back from a long, hard day of ...
A: I wish i could see you so that i can push you right up to him and moderate this whole thing. This is ...
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| Confused (Part 8) | 10/18/2006 |
Q: I don't really know whether or not I want to be his friend now that I know that nothing could ever ...
A: How do you know nothing will ever happen. YOU ARE SO NEGATIVE I guess i can understand you not ...
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| Confused About Sexuality | 10/17/2006 |
Q: I'm just curious. In your experience, do men who label themselves as "straight" ever have desires to ...
A: Jon, Oh yes, i believe alot of straight men have those desires to be with other men especially in ...
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| Confused (Part 7) | 10/17/2006 |
Q: I don't know... Today, I saw a girl hanging all over him in the morning. They weren't kissing or ...
A: well you can't force your self to do something that you really don't want to do. I really don't know ...
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| Confused About Sexuality | 10/16/2006 |
Q: I am a 25 year old male and have been in a monogamous heterosexual relationship with my girlfriend ...
A: Hey Jon, This is very normal. alot of people go through this. I defanitly think you need to figure ...
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| Confused (part 6) | 10/16/2006 |
Q: "Well since you two are into computers maybe you can talk to him about that...either way you do this ...
A: LOL..you are too much. You just gotta do it. Case closed. I dont know much about computers to tell ...
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| Confused (part 3) | 10/15/2006 |
Q: "Hey dont take my harsh words serious...i just trying to get amp you up to do it. But seriously, you ...
A: Gee what made them ask you that? Well since you two are into computers maybe you can talk to him ...
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| I have a crush on my best friend | 10/15/2006 |
Q: I've been best friends with this girl Heather for 7 years. We've been through a lot together, and ...
A: You are afraid to ask her how she feels about you? Isn't her saying how she wonder what it be like ...
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| Confused (part 3) | 10/15/2006 |
Q: "Hi, stop giving me that sob story. It is 2006, get some balls and go talk to him...I dont know ...
A: Hey dont take my harsh words serious...i just trying to get amp you up to do it. But seriously, you ...
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| Confused (part 3) | 10/14/2006 |
Q: " Hey, There you go..get your friend to introduce you too... I really cant think of another way... ...
A: stop giving me that sob story. It is 2006, get some balls and go talk to him...I dont know enough ...
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| Confused (part 2) | 10/12/2006 |
Q: "What is hacky sack?" Oh, sorry, it's just the game is very common here. Some people know them as ...
A: Hey, There you go..get your friend to introduce you too... I really cant think of another way... Or ...
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| Is My Husband Gay? Should I confront him? | 10/12/2006 |
Q: So… I hope that I’ve come to the right place to ask a this question... Anyhow, last night I was ...
A: Well I dont think he is gay...from the listings it appears that he is bicurious and thats normal for ...
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| Confused | 10/11/2006 |
Q: I am very attracted to a guy, but I don't know much about him. I've never talked to him, mostly ...
A: what is hacky sac? Stop worrying about your looks. Just because you think you are ugly doesn't mean ...
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| gay or bi?? | 10/11/2006 |
Q: Followup Hello Kay, thanks again for the response. I won't beat a dead horse to the ground. If I ...
A: Hey, I completly understand where you are coming from but I feel like you are being too hard on your ...
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| gay or bi?? | 10/9/2006 |
Q: your right, but something tells me I will never have a loving relationship with a women. I consider ...
A: Did you read what you wrote? you said that you will never have a lasting relationship with a women. ...
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| gay or bi?? | 10/9/2006 |
Q: my name is John. I'm 45, single and consider my self bi but in the closet. I met a really nice gal ...
A: Well you can have strong attraction to women but if you are sleeping with men it is not consistent. ...
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| gay or bi?? | 10/8/2006 |
Q: my name is John. I'm 45, single and consider my self bi but in the closet. I met a really nice gal ...
A: So how many times have you slepted with men? It appears to me that you are gay and trying to live a ...
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| kids in a gay marriage | 10/4/2006 |
Q: yeah, i'm pretty much surrounded by idiots-i mean people- :) that think you have no life unless ...
A: Oh gosh, tell them fools that you have a big family or you simply have a life. See if you come at ...
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| kids in a gay marriage | 10/4/2006 |
Q: what do you mean by putting myself " out there" to get over this.....just by being more open? ...
A: Hey, Yeah people will talk but you dont have to be fucking married with kids to be a human. People ...
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| Dating my best friends ex | 10/1/2006 |
Q: Is it wrong to date your best friends ex? They split up entierly on their own and we get along ...
A: Well, i am not the one to judge so you have to ask your self your own question. How would you feel ...
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| Telling best-friend I am gay | 10/1/2006 |
Q: I am having trouble figuring out how to tell my good friend that I am gay. We met eachother at work ...
A: So, do you know for sure that he will not want to be around you in fear of being labled gay or is ...
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| am i gay because i was abused | 9/22/2006 |
Q: im in a relationship now with my lass i always knew i was gay but i got sexually abused from the age ...
A: Well you will get different answers from different people regarding whether or not a person is gay ...
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| Confused | 9/21/2006 |
Q: I am 23 now. When I was 13, in an all girls boarding school, I messed around with this one girl ...
A: At 13 people are very curious. Especially when the love is coming from one source. We find refuge ...
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| Best Friend Love | 9/19/2006 |
Q: I'm James, 17, and I've currently grown very much attached to my best friend. Not only that I'm also ...
A: Well this is a quite different situation. You really didn't ask me anythign so i don't know what to ...
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| What is wrong with me? | 9/19/2006 |
Q: I can't really discribe it other than I have always felt like I was different even to the point that ...
A: if you love your boyfriend, what is the problem? Whats wrong with having some feelings for other ...
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| What is wrong with me? | 9/19/2006 |
Q: So yo think this could be all in my head? I am confused and do not know what to do. How could these ...
A: Well you dont just put them out of your mind. That would be like sweeping them under the rug...they ...
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| What is wrong with me? | 9/18/2006 |
Q: I am a female in my early 30s. I am in a long term relationship with a male, but lately, I have been ...
A: Whats up C, No one just pops up gay and you wouldn't even be that until you actually did the due ...
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| Is my husband gay or bi? | 9/17/2006 |
Q: Married for 4 years my husband and I have been having some intimacy issues. About 2 years ago a ...
A: Well its not selfish of you to keep asking for something that you deserve as his wife and you have ...
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| Dating a bisexual friend | 9/14/2006 |
Q: My name's Sally and I've been dating a friend for some months now. He is very special to me, and ...
A: Yeah dont build up any horror movies in your head cause it can really mess with you. Ok, for ...
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| Gay/Lesbian | 9/2/2006 |
Q: Do you feel that there are as many gay women as there are gay men? I think that gay men have a much ...
A: hmmm, to be honest I thought i knew alot of things but I turned out to be wrong. I would say about ...
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| My boyfriend might be bi...what do I do? | 8/2/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are in our early 20's, we started dating during our senior year of college, and ...
A: I didnt even entiely read your note to know where this is going. Your boyfriend defanitly bi or gay. ...
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| Am I bisexual? | 7/27/2006 |
Q: Ok...Im new here....I have never been with a woman before. I am in a committed relationship with a ...
A: Welcome Ms. New here.... Actually this is VERY normal for two women to have the mutual feelings for ...
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| Me again! | 7/26/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - Hello, You are going to get real sick of me, you realize that. (laugh) I ...
A: I know you are not testing me...been tested too many times to know when i am. Yes, but i never offer ...
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| parents | 7/26/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - Ive been goin with this girl for almost six months and there have been ...
A: Gee, that sucks. I really don't know what to say. Well i do but everyone is different and i dont ...
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| parents | 7/25/2006 |
Q: Ive been goin with this girl for almost six months and there have been rumors about us and this ...
A: Yeah, to most of us 17 is too old to be grounded but alot of parents still do that...unfortunately. ...
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| It's Kath again... One question if I may | 7/24/2006 |
Q: Kay, -Thanks so much for opportunity to write you again. (laugh) This is my third time talking ...
A: awww, you are the nicest person ever. hopefully you will leave me a nice ratings.....:) but ...
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| Female attraction | 7/23/2006 |
Q: I am assuming that you are a lesbian yourself? I am 25 and male and was wondering what women find ...
A: Yes james i am. You want to know what we find attractive about other women besides everything? What ...
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| sexuality | 7/22/2006 |
Q: ive been feeling atracted to men for many years now but have not been able to fully accept these ...
A: I will do my best to help. Don't worry most people are confused about being gay. Its not something ...
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| definiton | 7/19/2006 |
Q: 1)Is there a difference between being bi-curious and being straight with bisexual tendencies? ...
A: that was totally confusing. If i got you correctly, being bi curious when you are straight is just ...
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| very risque question.... going out on a limb here. | 7/14/2006 |
Q: Let me re-phrase myself. Im ok with the fact that he may like the same sex. Im ok with that, but if ...
A: Hey, Autumn, there is a problem here because I dont have the other emails that we first started ...
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| Hey i found your email: second part of 1st answer | 7/14/2006 |
Q: I wasnt really sure if this was the right place to go to ask my question... but here it goes.... I ...
A: i found your email. I knew it was you because of your name. so you are the bisexual. I wrote you ...
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| Stressed out over nothing but can't help dwelling.. | 7/11/2006 |
Q: Hey! Thank you so much for that answer, you pretty much summed it all up into words that I couldn't ...
A: YOu are so welcomed. Well i think these thoughts come because its something that you don't wish to ...
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| Am I bi or les? | 7/9/2006 |
Q: .. I am bi ( I think), but wonder if I could be a lesbian... I find myself attracted mainly to ...
A: As the old saying goes if you are attracted to both sexes equally you are bisexual. Well there is ...
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| bi x boyfriend | 7/9/2006 |
Q: I dated him for 3 years. We had some issues, substance abuse related. Big Fights, problem is he is ...
A: Ouch, sorry for your troubles. Unfortunatly once people are done their usually done and there is ...
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| I guess I am BI - but not sure | 7/6/2006 |
Q: I tried to ask a follow up and i do not think it went through so I will try again. First off that ...
A: Hey, Simply you are bisexual. the fact that you enjoy sex with both sexes and dont have a problem ...
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| I guess I am BI - but not sure | 7/5/2006 |
Q: I am 37 and have always enjoyed being with women. I am always aware of them and feel attracted to a ...
A: Hey tyler YOu have friends that are gay that are prejudice against gay people? Please explain that ...
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| My sexuality | 7/4/2006 |
Q: I have never written before. The reason the stint with the girl I was really into was secret was to ...
A: You may just be gay. The only concern is that you are really into it when you are drunk. It is ...
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| My sexuality | 7/3/2006 |
Q: Well its something I've bottled up for a while and am finally coming to terms with but could use a ...
A: Why was the relay with the girl a secret? Maybe things dont work out with you and other girls is ...
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| am I bi? | 6/28/2006 |
Q: I dont know what to do I think that im bi becuse I have an intrest in guys and girls but I am still ...
A: Yep this is going to be hard because you are young.Well if you have friends that are bisexual, it ...
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| bisexual single parenting | 6/27/2006 |
Q: I don't recall where we left off... But thought I would send word; an update on 'where I've ...
A: damn, welcome back, yes you dont want to open worm prematurely...gotcha See that's what I have been ...
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| My boyfriend is Bi, and I am also | 6/25/2006 |
Q: Im a girl, and I just recently found out I was bi. And I finally got a boyfriend..but he told me he ...
A: Well, your boyfriend has the common "I dont know what to do", so i will have my cake and eat it too. ...
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| Friend | 6/21/2006 |
Q: I have a friend who I just moved in with. I think that he may be gay and possibly even attracted to ...
A: Yes, sorry my answer wasn't that good...its very difficult to judge because I dont want to say Yep ...
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| bisexual single parenting | 6/15/2006 |
Q: kamilah re: make a decision. If I left to my own devices, I would wait things out.. I would do ...
A: Ok, understand you on the first part...I really think (basked upon everything) until he gets ...
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| bisexual single parenting | 6/14/2006 |
Q: Gee whiz. I'm so sorry (the father-figure-not)... i hope that guy enjoyed/s a small room with ...
A: YEah it ok...he still walks around as if nothing happened. Thing was when i told my mother she ...
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| bisexual single parenting | 6/13/2006 |
Q: Yes, I am finding your responses helpful. And I can (entirely) imagine it's not especially easy to ...
A: Gee your're too intelligent for your own good. Your vocabulary is impeccable. I am totally there ...
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| bisexual single parent, dating | 6/12/2006 |
Q: Thanx for the insight, I guess I feel the same way about "whose business it is".. In answer to your ...
A: So you like characters rather gender. I totally understand. You seem to go with the flow of things. ...
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| DO I HAV EA CHANCE | 6/11/2006 |
Q: WHATS THE PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN WHO ALREADY BEEN IN LONG TERM LESBIAN RELATOINSHIPS, GOING BACK ...
A: Gee, i don't know (not too much of a statician. But if you want to further answer your question, ...
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| bisexual single parent, dating | 6/9/2006 |
Q: I am a 'bisexual' woman whom chose to endeavor parenting alone, my son is about to turn ten years ...
A: I totally understand your position and i respect that because that is something that I know I would ...
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| Just not able to accept the fact !! | 6/9/2006 |
Q: Iam paul, 24 years old student in adelaide, australia. Sinse childhood had feeling for guys and been ...
A: I think you need to be real with your self and come out. ANd that will take some time. It doesn't ...
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| Who loves me | 6/7/2006 |
Q: Yeah I've never done this as I am very discret about my sexual orientation which is Bi. So bare with ...
A: wow, 6yrs is along time for a bisexual. I got confused along the way but im ok. You gotta slow ...
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| I am sooo very curious | 6/7/2006 |
Q: Followup To well i guess if i am going to ask your help maybe you should have the entire story about ...
A: Well if its more that you are trying to write, maybe you should try again because believe me when i ...
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| I am sooo very curious | 6/7/2006 |
Q: ------------------------- I read your answer it was kinda helpful. Yes its the military's dont ask ...
A: It was kind of helpful...ouch. Reading my bio....to see...? am i or was i qualified to answer your ...
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| I am sooo very curious | 6/6/2006 |
Q: Since I was about 15 I have always looked at women. No one has ever noticed family wise that I have. ...
A: Marissa Woah, sounds like my biography...i also went through the same thing, atlest hating sex with ...
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| sexuality | 6/4/2006 |
Q: recently my fiance and I have discovered allot of sexuality experiences from both of our pasts. I ...
A: so are you asking me if you should just come out and ask her if you could have a guy on the side? ...
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| really confused: think I'm gay but not sure | 6/1/2006 |
Q: I'm a guy, 28, and since my early teens I've thought of myself as straight, but disinterested - but ...
A: Hey Mark Well it appear that you answered your own questions. I think all you need to do now is to ...
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| can gays be brought back | 5/25/2006 |
Q: i have a friend who is very close to me we both like each other very much.but to our fate we ...
A: For starters, there is nothing wrong with being gay. Please understand that. I dont know what ...
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| Lesbian relationship, will it last? | 5/22/2006 |
Q: I've been in a relationship with another women (Alexis) for 4 months now. Our relationship started ...
A: Hey Tiffany, I hate hearing monster mom stories. I mother did the same to me...it suks for a lack of ...
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| Gay/Bi | 5/8/2006 |
Q: Ok I am a highschool student and I know that I like guys(I am a boy). But my real problem is that i ...
A: With a name like Mark, you better be a boy (just messing). Your name came with your question. So, I ...
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| How can i tell if my husband is gay | 5/3/2006 |
Q: We met on the internet and got married after being around one another for almost a month yes pretty ...
A: this may sound bad but there is no good way to tell if your husband is gay, unless of course you ...
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| Can a lesbian be brought back??? | 4/18/2006 |
Q: Okay, so I'm a 25 yr old straight guy and I've totally fallen in love with a lesbian. And she loves ...
A: Hey never gives up hey what a perfect hook up. You can do your thing and so can she...Priceless. ...
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| I think my boyfriend is bi | 4/18/2006 |
Q: Ok. So where to start. I suppose that i should start out by saying that my boyfriend and I have been ...
A: It appears that your boyfriend is still "curious" if has been in the last 3 months. When a person is ...
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| Bi boyfriend | 4/1/2006 |
Q: I'm seriously confused... My boyfriend and i have talked to about kids and marriage but then ...
A: Sorry allexperts was down on sunday Hi Amanda it happens all the time for both men and women. For ...
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| My Fiance told me She might be a lesbian? | 3/30/2006 |
Q: Recently my Fiance of about a 1 year told me that she had feelings for another girl. Me and her have ...
A: I am very sorry to hear that you are going through this with your fiance. this is ...
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| Possible lesbian wife | 2/10/2006 |
Q: MMy wife recently "came out". We have been married for 6 yrs but been together 10. She beleives she ...
A: Well for starters you haven't mentioned anything about her stubborness or her unwilling to NOT seek ...
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| Possible lesbian wife | 2/10/2006 |
Q: MMy wife recently "came out". We have been married for 6 yrs but been together 10. She beleives she ...
A: SO sorry that this is how it went for you. It appears that your wife IS NOT a lesbian. She hasn't ...
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| bisexuality | 2/5/2006 |
Q: I've noticed for a long time that I have seemed different from other guys. I've never actually had ...
A: Right now the only thing i can label you as if bi curious...nothing more since the act wasn't ...
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| am i gay or bi? or just not normal | 12/27/2005 |
Q: ------------------------- Followup To thank you for getting back to me, i have to say i am scared ...
A: alot of people in your situaiton stress how they wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a man. ...
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| am i gay or bi? or just not normal | 12/22/2005 |
Q: i am very convused. i am a very happy married man with 3 wonderfull kids, i love my wife dearly and ...
A: Believe it or not, this is very normal and it happens alot. You can either be hiding behind your ...
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| Lost and confused | 12/4/2005 |
Q: I am and 18 year old male from Ashland, Oregon and I really need your help. I'm lost. completely ...
A: sorry to hear about your troubles and how did you guys end up staying together at such an early age? ...
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| ethics | 11/25/2005 |
Q: Do rule and act utilitarians differ in their analysis of this issue? (Gays and lesbians in the ...
A: honestly I have no idea of what you are talking about. I took philosophy in collge but that was over ...
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| in search of | 11/20/2005 |
Q: firstly i greatly appreciate you for giving your precious time to this volunteer's job. I just want ...
A: I am using Imesh 5.o No they do not charge for downloading music, however they are not liable if you ...
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| A complicated knot... | 11/12/2005 |
Q: I recently came out (I'm bi) to a select group of close friends. They were all okay with it, they ...
A: I am a little confused. So you came out to your friends and now you finding your self attracted to ...
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| help me please | 11/9/2005 |
Q: okay i fell in love with my best friend, and shes a girl.....well its been over a year of me feeling ...
A: Sounds like a dream come true...until you switched gears. Well this is a very bad situation. I dont ...
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| I need help right now. I may... | 10/29/2005 |
Q: I need help right now. I may be asking the wrong expert on this site, but you can help me. I am 14 ...
A: Well I don't think there is much anyone on this website can do for you. Most of us will be reluctant ...
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| confused child... | 10/14/2005 |
Q: I am doing a research paper on a closed-case that deals with a 5th grade girl. The child's mother is ...
A: This really bad. That child shouldhave known that you have choices. I really hope someone talks to ...
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| -------------------------
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Q: So, I've always liked guys, like ive always been obssessed with guys pretty much. I liked getting ...
A: The fact that you were hurt by a guy could be a reason why you are going through these changes. I ...
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| Uh.. I guess I'm new to this... | 9/23/2005 |
Q: Well, I'm Leah and I'm 14 years old. I found realized a year ago that I was attracted to girls in ...
A: Leah Unfortunately because of your age my advice can only go so far. I dont wnat you to take what i ...
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| My boyfriend is Bi sexual... | 9/20/2005 |
Q: theres not really anyone that is an expert on Bisexuals.. and you said your open to all questions so ...
A: I think its hard to give advice on bisexuals because they are never predictable because they like ...
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| My wife thinks I'm gay-part 2 | 9/14/2005 |
Q: Ouch, your wife thinks you are gay? Isn't that great? Ok, guess what you messed up. WHy? because ...
A: it took me a minute to follow the trend of your writing...but i got it. Not that i want this to ...
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| My wife thinks I'm gay | 9/12/2005 |
Q: I asked this same question of another Expert, I'd like your opinion as well. Thank you, To make a ...
A: Ouch, your wife thinks you are gay? Isn't that great? Ok, guess what you messed up. WHy? because you ...
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| So, I've always liked guys,... | 9/10/2005 |
Q: So, I've always liked guys, like ive always been obssessed with guys pretty much. I liked getting ...
A: Are you maturing? I dont know your age or situation so i cant answer that. ALl i can say that in ...
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| Coming out to the parents | 7/14/2005 |
Q: Hey Kamilah, Im a 24 year old gay guy who is having doubts about coming out to my parents, ...
A: HOw are you This is going to hard so whatever decision you make just be ready for whatever. The good ...
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| Should I be his wife | 7/14/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: I dont know if this is the same person but i have an email similiar to this. If you are that same ...
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| Wife Lesbian? | 6/13/2005 |
Q: My wife and I been married 12 years, have 2 kids. Last 7-8 months we were watching adult movies for ...
A: Hey How are you It is completely normal for women to watch girl on girl action. Infact alot of ...
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| Don't Understand | 5/22/2005 |
Q: For a while now I knew I was a lesbain even though I'm 15. It's like sort of grew on me from when I ...
A: I know your struggle. I myself went through the same thing. I hated guys. Always knew since i was ...
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| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 5/6/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: How are you? YOU go from talking to this woman, to her husband asking you to come to Washington to ...
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| My crush turned out to be gay... | 4/28/2005 |
Q: I see him at least once a week at church, he's actually very active, sings in the choir and stuff. I ...
A: You are kind of confusing me. At one point you are saying that you dont care if he is gay and the ...
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| i think i may be lesbian,... | 3/28/2005 |
Q: i think i may be lesbian, my family would be so ashamed of me if they knew, what do i do, i cant be ...
A: You are right. YOu cant be in the closet forever. However, it is up to you to make the decision. You ...
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| Confusing Crush | 3/19/2005 |
Q: ok im a bisexual chick with a crush on another chick who im sure is straight i even went up to her ...
A: Well you did ask her and she said that she was not bi. Well did you ask her if she was a lesbian? ...
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| is my boyfriend gay? | 3/5/2005 |
Q: i think my boyfriend of 5 years is gay. We only have sex once maybe every week to two weeks. And ...
A: Gee a year! IS this without anything else? Ok. so you enjoy anal sex. IC. Cum on your face. Wow, you ...
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| is my boyfriend gay? | 3/4/2005 |
Q: i think my boyfriend of 5 years is gay. We only have sex once maybe every week to two weeks. And ...
A: gee, i am sorry to hear that. Based upon what you are saying, i would say YES he is gay. But we ...
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| what am i | 2/23/2005 |
Q: i need your help. i would like to find out if im gay/bi/stright. im 13 male. what kind of personatly ...
A: Well I would not say that you are gay. You could have been experimenting. And this is normal, ...
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| dating/gay/out | 2/21/2005 |
Q: I have recently started dating this guy and we both really enjoy being with each other. After a few ...
A: well for starters, if the relay is so new and you guys are only dating...dont expect much. Also ...
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| My g/f | 2/18/2005 |
Q: i need your help if at all possible... my girlfriend has been having some lesbian or bi urges and ...
A: This situation sounds like my cousin. She and her boyfriend are very open...except its not her first ...
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| discrimination against gays | 2/17/2005 |
Q: How do you feel about gays in the millitary? How do you feel about gays being able to adopt ...
A: Gays in the military? Well havent had much thought on that. Maybe because it doesnt personally ...
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| unsure | 1/29/2005 |
Q: Followup To Question - I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and ...
A: Now if you are confused...that is something else tha tyou have to fix because i am not in your head ...
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| unsure | 1/27/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ...
A: So this is about accepting yourself? You didnt mention that before. The first thing for you to do is ...
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| unsure | 1/27/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ...
A: first you have to figure out why you feel that way. Make a list. Pros and cons of being with a man ...
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| Friend | 12/6/2004 |
Q: My name is Reema and I have known my best guy friend for a year and a half. Everytime someone meets ...
A: By long shot...this email is not long. It get some mail that are like pages and pages long. This is ...
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| Really confused | 11/24/2004 |
Q: As to what you said, I agree with the fact that I need to actually try being with a female in order ...
A: I know that it is hard because i went through the same thing. Only difference is that I kept ...
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| Really confused | 11/23/2004 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old female and I moved out my parents house about 4 months ago. Ever since I was ...
A: I understand what you are going through. I used to mess with guys not understanding why. They did ...
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| Sex question | 10/23/2004 |
Q: Does self-sucking makes me get AID? Last night I accidentally decide to eat my cum a lot just for ...
A: you did not specify waht sex you are. No matter what you cannot get aids from injesting your own ...
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| is my boyfriend gay?? | 10/3/2004 |
Q: i have been with my childrens father for 6 years and recently we never have sex anymore but i always ...
A: How are you. You are welcome. Thanks for choosing me to answer your questions. Ok so let me get this ...
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| My reply to......confusion | 8/21/2004 |
Q: Hey you! The whole issue with the girl I was talking about is my supervisor. There is only one ...
A: Yes i knew all along who the girl was that you were talking about. I dont understand, how you guys ...
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| Confusion | 8/20/2004 |
Q: Hey there! I am a lesbian of 6 years. I have only had three girlfriends and I have been single for ...
A: Wow this is interesting. First let me ask you this. Why do you guys want someone to be around you ...
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| Gay/Lesbian | 7/16/2004 |
Q: I read in books that being gay or lesbian is perfectly normal. So why are they treated differently ...
A: Wow that is the question of the day. Its like any other thing in life some people are going to like ...
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| gay marriage | 7/14/2004 |
Q: Do u support gay marraige? why or why not
A: Well yes i do. I cant say this is because i am gay myself but i am pretty much "to each its own" ...
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| sexual preference confusion | 5/22/2004 |
Q: I have been attracted to, and with men, most of my life. I am 43 years old, married to a wonderful ...
A: Wait i just recieved an email from you only mentioning that you had a desire but now you are writing ...
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| Is my brother gay? | 5/15/2004 |
| Q: For the past while I have been wondering |
