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| Subject | Date Asked |
| My brother is gay and wants children | 11/21/2010 |
| Q: I have an older brother that is gay and lives in a loving committed relationship with his life ... A: This as you know is a hot topic. Its good your parents have gone as far towards acceptance as they ... | |
| Shy away from God because I am Bi | 10/13/2010 |
| Q: I am a 20 year old Bi-sexual woman. I have been flirting with christianity for a year or so now and ... A: Sadly Homophobia is prevalent within most sects of Christianity AND it is not just non-biblical it ... | |
| Gay Help | 9/24/2010 |
| Q: I am 20 year old guy, and I have been gay for as long as I can remember. I have also grown up in a ... A: My heart goes to you. Coming to terms with ones natural sexual orientation can be a daunting task. ... | |
| Gay Husband? | 8/31/2010 |
| Q: my husband & i have been married for almost a year now. when we were dating, he told me he was ... A: I'm not in a position to speculate on his sexual orientation. There are various possible reasons for ... | |
| women's beauty vs men | 8/15/2010 |
| Q: Why are naked women viewed as beautiful and naked men viewed as gross? Lesbians are viewed as sexy, ... A: In a word cultural norms and shared paradigms. Many people enjoy viewing nude males. Michael ... | |
| gay pobia | 4/26/2010 |
| Q: i really wish i could stop hating the whole lesbian gay thing maybe it could just disappear. A: I don't really see a question here. There have always been homosexuals. Some cultures like ancient ... | |
| Being gay and God | 3/27/2010 |
| Q: I came out to my family in feb 2006. In July of that same year I found the person I want to spend my ... A: This is sadly a common experience. Thank God your mom is supporting you and your dad is not ... | |
| Sexuality is confusing | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 31 year old straight professional woman (not married but hoping to settle down and raise a ... A: Personally I don't watch porn but like most people living in the West I've seen some. From my ... | |
| whats wrong with me? | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I am a 15 year old girl who has been fantasizing about being a guy flirting with girls in my ... A: You should focus on your school work and leave such thoughts for the future. What is "wrong with ... | |
| my girlfriend was sraight,im an stud,she say she really love me,an wonna be with me,forever.but,, | 1/29/2010 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend have an age ,gap,shes 21 him 33.we now live togher.weve been toghther each an ... A: No one can control the emotions of another person and nothing in life is certain. Having said that, ... | |
| Gay Athlete | 1/27/2010 |
| Q: I will be having my school report regarding Gay Athlete. Can you help me by giving some of your ... A: Not sure who Brandon is, but here are my thoughts: The country you are in will have a major impact ... | |
| Am i Gay, please help | 1/6/2010 |
| Q: i dont know if im gay or not. I'm 15 y.o and turned on by gay porn, but after, it doesnt feel right. ... A: At your age its usually too early to say what your natural sexual orientation is. People usually ... | |
| differcult situation | 12/3/2009 |
| Q: I'm at university doing a teaching training course and I've fallen for my teacher who is 35. he has ... A: My best advise is as stated Liam. If he is having or even appears to be having an affair with a ... | |
| differcult situation | 11/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm at university doing a teaching training course and I've fallen for my teacher who is 35. he has ... A: --- how come he would lose his job and jepodise his career when it isn't against the law? Because ... | |
| differcult situation | 11/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm at university doing a teaching training course and I've fallen for my teacher who is 35. he has ... A: I know how difficult this can be however your teacher is correct. I would strongly advise against a ... | |
| Lesbian / homophobia | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for 5 years, and I still am anxious around certain family members and ... A: Your situation is not unusual, sadly. There is no question that homophobia continues to exist and, ... | |
| My husband set up a date...with a man! Does this mean he is gay? | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: I appreciate any and all help you can give me. Here is my situation. My husband and I have been ... A: My heart and prayers go out to you both. This is longer than my replies usually are but I hope the ... | |
| Advice me on my sexual issue | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: my name is Smith. Can u advise me regarding my sexual issues. i am a gay about 36 yrs of age. had ... A: Your name (Smith) implies you are a Westerner but your location (India) and that your parents would ... | |
| ayuda | 11/1/2009 |
| Q: I wanted to know your opinion: I am a 46 years old man living in Venezuela, married with two ... A: Not knowing her I can't say of course, but my hit is that "she" is probably a man unless she ... | |
| Feelings of Guilt and Fear | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: For over 10 years I've been in love with one woman. She is in love with me as well. We both ... A: --- How realistic is it to be in a celibate relationship with someone you are attracted to sexually? ... | |
| Feelings of Guilt and Fear | 10/24/2009 |
| Q: For over 10 years I've been in love with one woman. She is in love with me as well. We both ... A: My heart goes out to you both. I have known many people in your situation. I see no easy solutions ... | |
| My homosexual orientation vs. shyness | 10/18/2009 |
| Q: I'm a gay guy in my mid-20s and I don't think I would mind being in a gay relationship. The problem ... A: First, your experience is common among gay men. This is one reason it is so important to combat gay ... | |
| Counseling | 10/15/2009 |
| Q: I have read some of the questions and answers on this website and have found them so helpful. What I ... A: Therapy can be good for folks. There are several ways to find a qualified LGBT therapist. You might ... | |
| man | 10/4/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend likes anal alot and i only see him 2s a week is the a sign that he maybe gay thanks A: Not necessarily. He enjoys pleasuring you with annal sex and he is still with a female. The anus is ... | |
| I like how things are going. | 9/29/2009 |
| Q: Im 17, girl. Holds good reputation in school and church. Back in feb, i started to have feelings ... A: God created somewhere around 10-15% of every species with a homosexual orientation. If you are ... | |
| Torn Apart | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm was a 21 year old, straight girl. I grow up in a very strict, religious and well-respected ... A: Sounds like a difficult situation. Basically its your life. Finding a person to love and who loves ... | |
| am i bi or gay? | 9/27/2009 |
| Q: the other night i was staying the night at one of my friends house.we were up late and we were bored ... A: At 16 its probably too early to commit yourself to any sexual categories (gay, straight, bi etc). ... | |
| help! | 8/31/2009 |
| Q: Last night i wrote her an e-mail teling her the way i felt, that i was in love with her. she has not ... A: There are several different points here. First, God is not against committed same gender ... | |
| she doesn't want to feel this way! | 8/28/2009 |
| Q: Well, I've known this girl and we act like girlfriends, but we have neve kiss. she's 19 and im 20. ... A: Whether one is gay, bi or straight dating and finding a partner can be difficult. As the saying ... | |
| Sexual freedom in the United States. | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: I saw a question that you answered on 3/5/2009 and you told the person about how we've lost most of ... A: This is a topic that could get pretty heavy. I'll try and keep it light (you can always post ... | |
| Gay gene? | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: Is it true that there's been a discovery of a gene that determines when a person is born whether the ... A: Human biology isn't my field but I'll be happy to share my views. According to Web MD there is ... | |
| gay husband | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: My husband always took of with either rent money or just money out of my purse.He has got hookers he ... A: Not knowing either of you there's nothing I could really say about this with any certainty. Based ... | |
| Was this the way I was born or not, was it how god intended me to be? | 7/11/2009 |
| Q: (I wasn't sure who to address this question to since it didn't seem like the topic was listed under ... A: --- ...but since nobody can ever be sure until we die, I become so scared at the possibility that ... | |
| How to meet GLBT Christians | 6/30/2009 |
| Q: So over the last few months I've become comfortable with the fact that I can be Christian and ... A: There are many GLBT Christian ministries where you can connect. There are groups like the Universal ... | |
| Confused about my sexuality | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: Firstly I want to thank you for doing such a good work and helping so many people with the most ... A: Namaskar Samit, Thanks for your kind words. Your situation isn't as unusual as it probably seems ... | |
| older men | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: hey, i'm 19 and new to the gay scene. When i go out clubbing i'm looking for boys my own age but ... A: My answers usually focus more on spiritual issues as my profile says, but the answer is obvious. ... | |
| I'm only 14 | 5/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm only 14 years old Im 15 in 3 months and 4 days. The other month me and my best mate who is 16 ... A: First, in my opinion, you are entirely too young to be sexually active. My advise is to stop having ... | |
| Gay? | 5/28/2009 |
| Q: Ok, I have always liked girls, and had relationships with them. I have, however, for the last 7-10 ... A: No worries and no offenses taken. I just found the wording... interesting. You: I just think that ... | |
| Gay? | 5/27/2009 |
| Q: Ok, I have always liked girls, and had relationships with them. I have, however, for the last 7-10 ... A: How can a person "not believe in bisexuality?" As a bisexual I find this a most interesting comment. ... | |
| Really confused | 5/21/2009 |
| Q: Let me just get my situation out there...I have always had giant crushes on boys, like you said as ... A: There is a biblical truism that goes: As a person thinks so is she/he. People can be and are ... | |
| Lesbian | 5/10/2009 |
| Q: I am always thinking about being with a women.Am I a lesbian or not,If so how do I tell my love ... A: You didn't share your age here. My reply would vary a little bit based on that. Into the early to ... | |
| Question | 5/10/2009 |
| Q: the Lord's peace be with you! I have a couple of questions...first thanks for sharing your thoughts ... A: You asked: My question...why do you think God would create people do be so attracted to same sex and ... | |
| What do these feelings mean? | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: I am a 19 year old girl who is in college. I have a boyfriend who i have been involved with for 4+ ... A: It means that you have allowed yourself to ask the question, nothing more. ANYONE can have feelings. ... | |
| Stuck in the middle | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: I need some advice with my family and my partner. I came out to my family in high school, and was ... A: The central issue here is that you, as an adult, have entered into marriage relationship with her. ... | |
| Stuck in the middle | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: I need some advice with my family and my partner. I came out to my family in high school, and was ... A: These are tough decisions that only you can decide. Personally I think you have to make a choice. I ... | |
| Caring and considerate = overemotional and demanding | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: I've been together with my boyfriend for a year now. To lay it all out, he's twice my age and we ... A: I know this will sound trite, but the truth is, you (both) must simply decide what you (both) want ... | |
| in love with friend/gut feelings | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: I am a 20 year old female. I have always considered myself straight but I started to fall in love ... A: You: ...I've always felt that God is ok with it, because He knows we can't control our feelings. ... | |
| question | 4/20/2009 |
| Q: I'm a (straight) female, I'm 31 years old, and I used to model part time. I have a lot of gay male ... A: "Gay" and "Straight" are not as clearly defined as most people imagine. It sounds to me like you ... | |
| reaction | 4/12/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 27 year old straight woman. I am attracted to men emotionally and sexually and physically and ... A: We as a society have created many false dualities. The truth is more people are naturally bisexual ... | |
| gay marriage | 4/4/2009 |
| Q: I would like to know what the difference is between gay marriage and civil union in terms of the ... A: I answer questions as a service. I always do my best so I disabled the ratings option. I appreciate ... | |
| gay marriage | 4/4/2009 |
| Q: I would like to know what the difference is between gay marriage and civil union in terms of the ... A: It varies by the state and country. Before a tiny majority of California voters passed Prop 8 we ... | |
| bf | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and my bf is 16. I've been with him for a month now and he has said hes ready for sex. I told ... A: Ah OK James... We've lost most of our freedoms here in the US and must be careful to avoid prison. ... | |
| My moms against me being a lesbian | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: I have been bi sexual for the last 3 years with out my mother knowing. I recently moved in with her ... A: I demonstrate on my website that none of the verses in the King James Version or its source ... | |
| sexless marriage | 2/22/2009 |
| Q: HOW DO I BECOME MORE SEXUAL ATTRACTED TO MY STUD?WE JUST DONT HAVE SEX ANYMORE AND I AM NOT ... A: First understand that its common for passion to subside with the passage of time. It CAN be a sign ... | |
| my friend | 1/26/2009 |
| Q: My friend Matthew who is 21 was going out with his bf, Mike, who is 42 for a couple of months. They ... A: Well, unprotected sex is potentially fatal no matter what ones partners says. He is "lucky" it was ... | |
| work | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: My husband's new chairperson at work is a lesbian and quite vocal about her feminism and ... A: Such things are not right but they do occur on all sides. Probably the best he can do is avoid ... | |
| Coming Out To My Sister | 12/24/2008 |
| Q: I want to come out to my sister Cristina, but I'm afraid of what her reaction will be. I know she ... A: The best way to come out of the closet varies in every case. At 13 I would not be in too much of a ... | |
| am i gay | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: i always thought i was straight until i started to masturbate about my male friend. one night when i ... A: Being gay is about more than a little oral sex. A large percentage of guys, especially between ... | |
| Im in love with a lesbian | 11/21/2008 |
| Q: Im 24, im male, and straight and i fell in love with a lesbian. I met her like a year ago by some ... A: That's a tough one. All you can do is talk with her when she is open to it. If you move before she ... | |
| lesbian life | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: My girl friend gave been going out for 8 months I was 17 when we started to go out but now I'm 18 ... A: I'm not a lawyer but I would think that if you are both 18 or over you are not breaking any laws. ... | |
| Am I really gay? | 11/19/2008 |
| Q: Whether I press the send button to this message may be another thing, but at least if I type it ... A: First, congratulations on writing and sending this. I know how difficult it can be. There is no ... | |
| Boyfriend gay porn- so many questions on what to do! | 11/18/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and we were good friends for a few years before ... A: Lots of people enjoy gay porn. Not all are gay but it's certainly an indication that he may be at ... | |
| innate or inherited | 11/7/2008 |
| Q: 1. Where do you stand on the debate over whether homosexuality is innate or inherited? Why? 2. Also, ... A: Question 1: In my opinion it varies with the individual. Some people (about 10-15% according to ... | |
| What do I do? | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: I am not really sure where to start or exactly what my question is but here goes. My fiance is a big ... A: You: You seem like an intellectual and compassionate guy; I want to thank you for taking your time ... | |
| What do I do? | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: I am not really sure where to start or exactly what my question is but here goes. My fiance is a big ... A: People can be very stubborn and SOME men, if wrongly accused of something, will do the thing they ... | |
| my son | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: My son, Jamie is 21 and I am very accepting of his sexuality. He's never had a proper boyfriend, ... A: First, its good to hear that you are accepting of Jamie's sexual orientation. He sounds lucky to ... | |
| What do I do? | 10/25/2008 |
| Q: I am not really sure where to start or exactly what my question is but here goes. My fiance is a big ... A: Our society enjoys dualism, we think everyone must be either gay or straight. The truth is, most ... | |
| Sexual Frustration | 10/25/2008 |
| Q: Am 31. have erectile dysfunction for almost 10 years. 2 years back over alcohol, i ventured in ... A: While I am not a psychologist my inclination is that your difficulties may be psychological in ... | |
| Am I a lesbian or am I not? | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I just turned 13 in the middle of September.I live in the east.I'm in the 8th ... A: Frankly Corrina, You are too young to concern yourself with this topic. Focus on school and your ... | |
| am i gay | 10/12/2008 |
| Q: lately i have been looking at gay porn and fantasising about having sex and kissing boys am i gay? A: Not necessarily. Its perfectly natural to be curious and to check out this sort of thing, especially ... | |
| confused | 10/10/2008 |
| Q: ok so I'm 16 and since ever i had always had that feeling around girls. When i made this new friend ... A: Your feelings sound perfectly normal and don't really say anything about your sexual orientation. ... | |
| i am so confused | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: hey john umm i have this problem where i love women but its weird whenever i am horny or just ... A: Sounds to me like you are coming into your own. The best I can tell you is that this too will pass. ... | |
| My love left me because she thinks shes a lesbian... | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: Here is the story: I met my girlfriend about 3 years ago in high school. She was very into me and ... A: Often these things happen because people assume one is either gay or straight. A large percentage of ... | |
| is my husband gay | 10/5/2008 |
| Q: my husband likes baseketball and rap and likes me to dress in mens clothes I was slim when we met ... A: From what you've posted here I see no reason to assume he is. People prefer various fashions and ... | |
| Am I gay? | 9/12/2008 |
| Q: "Ok, lets get this started. I'm 20 years old, and i've been depressed for a long time, i secluded ... A: First, there are a lot of inaccurate stereotypes of guys getting hard at the slightest provocation. ... | |
| did god give up on me? | 8/30/2008 |
| Q: I am seventeen and I never really suspected myself gay, until 6 months back. I started wondering ... A: First, God has absolutely NOT abandoned you. He is your Father and your eternal well wisher. The ... | |
| Christian, Gay/Bi, Confused, Sin? | 8/10/2008 |
| Q: I'm a young 15 year old girl and I would like to have some help apart from prayer. I'm a Christian ... A: First, my advise is to focus on your studies and don't worry about sexuality until you are older. ... | |
| children issue with gay partners | 7/30/2008 |
| Q: i'm writing on behalf of my fiance with whom is having issue with his 3 children calling his ex's ... A: This is a sad situation. Sadly in divorce it is usually the kids who are harmed. Both parents and ... | |
| my boyfriend told me he may be gay | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: So my boyfriend and i were talking tonight and he said he had to tell me something but wasnt sure ... A: First the question about being gay today and straight yesterday. There is a lot of controversy ... | |
| christian parents acceping im a lesbian | 7/2/2008 |
| Q: I am a lesbian and have been with my partner for two years but my parents and sister are born again ... A: The inaccurate belief that the Bible condemns same gender relationships, that Sodom and Gomorrah ... | |
| Gay and Orthodox Christian | 6/13/2008 |
| Q: My partner and I have been together 12 years, we are each others first. We are a nice honest ... A: Sad indeed. I am aware of but have no direct association with this group, but they should be source ... | |
| Gay and Orthodox Christian | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: My partner and I have been together 12 years, we are each others first. We are a nice honest ... A: Unfortunately the Orthodox Christian denominations (Greek, Russian, etc.) are not inclusive of GLBT ... | |
| Gay/lesbian issues | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: Why do some people say that god does not want gays to marry? Why is gay marriage such a problem in ... A: In ancient times it was very important that people reproduce. Children, especially males, were ... | |
| Is my husband gay? | 4/22/2008 |
| Q: I recently went on my husband's e-mail & found out he was talking to gay men on the internet. I ... A: I can't tell you if your husband is gay or not. I have no way of knowing. I can tell you however ... | |
| is my fiance bi or lesbian | 4/20/2008 |
| Q: I need some advice. Please help me i will try to make everything accurate. Me and my fiance have ... A: I know this can be very difficult/painful for all parties concerned. The fundamental problem is our ... | |
| Crush On my best friend | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: Hey My names sarah, Im 22 Years old. I have a huge crush on one of my really good friends and since ... A: We must honor one another's life choices. Remember the old saying: "If you love something let it go ... | |
| Age Gap, Gay relationship | 3/12/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are completely in love and have been for two years. I am ready to move forward ... A: "Wrong" is generally in the eyes of the beholder of course, this isn't my concern here. There are ... | |
| "Ask any question" website question... | 1/27/2008 |
| Q: John: A few years ago, there was a website where you could go and ask any question about any ... A: Sounds like WhoQuestion.com. They let answerers win shirts, mousepads etc? I still have a lot of ... | |
| What should i do? | 1/26/2008 |
| Q: I love her and I want to marry her, but for the longest time I have been interested in men. I know I ... A: First, it is my experience that most people are innately bisexual, not gay or straight (although ... | |
| gay thinking | 12/27/2007 |
| Q: . for the past more than 6 months ive been questioning myself about my sexuality ... am i gay ... A: Questioning one's sexual orientation is perfectly natural, especially during the teen age years. ... | |
| caught gf cheating | 12/16/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with my current gf for almost 4 years now. Friday was her birthday ... A: This is something you must decide for yourself. Couples (GLBT or straight) usually do best when ... | |
| my sexual orientation | 10/18/2007 |
| Q: i have been struggling with men attractions for a while now. it first started out as gay porn, i was ... A: I think you are focusing too much on labels. It doesn't really matter what you call yourself does ... | |
| Massage | 9/28/2007 |
| Q: I was wondering if it was against the law to receive an erotic massage by trained and licensed men. ... A: I'm afraid I don't know the laws so well and each state is different. I mainly focus on the ... | |
| God | 8/19/2007 |
| Q: I am a lesbian and a very strong christian. However i do not think that all aspects of the bible are ... A: The Good News is that homosexuality is not a sin. The biblical teaching on this is exactly as it is ... | |
| My Girlfriend Has A Boyfriend | 8/15/2007 |
| Q: My Girlfriend and I have been in a realationship for 6 mths now. When we got together, she was a ... A: Relationships are always complicated, especially in the early phases. Generally speaking ... | |
| hi im gay | 8/4/2007 |
| Q: hi im gay and i was wondering if you know how big my penis should be im 12 years old thanks plus do ... A: Your penis should be exactly the size it is right now. Your body is growing and developing. Don't ... | |
| thoughts | 8/1/2007 |
| Q: and honestly im very stressed out for the past month or more my mind has been taken over by gay ... A: It is my belief that the most accurate way to consider sexual orientation is as a scale rather than ... | |
| could x husband be gay | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: I was married for 15 years and have two teenagers. My x had several flings and left us six times. ... A: My heart goes out to you, your ex and your kids. Unfortunately there is no way I can determine the ... | |
| Is my husband bi or gay | 7/13/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for ten years. Recently I found a big toy in his car and was shocked. I ... A: My heart goes out to you. First, what is "normal" depends very much on one's culture and beliefs. ... | |
| Is my husband bi or gay | 7/12/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for ten years. Recently I found a big toy in his car and was shocked. I ... A: It doesn't sound like you have any real evidence to me. The toy is not clear evidence. Perhaps he ... | |
| extra advise | 4/2/2007 |
| Q: I had previously wrote kay about being a confused 25 year male person wondering about my sexuality, ... A: Each of the "Experts" here are individuals, so I'm not privy to your previous conversations with ... | |
| am i gay | 3/31/2007 |
| Q: i like watching men's belly buttons. i get erections on seeing them! doe that mean i am gay? A: What it means to be "gay" is debated. Most people are not 100% gay or straight. Most people can be ... | |
| about gays, | 3/30/2007 |
| Q: i have erections and massive feelings when i look at men's belly buttons. i just cant help it!!! i ... A: What it means to be "gay" is debated. Most people are not 100% gay or straight. Most people can be ... | |
| Hated for who I am. | 3/29/2007 |
| Q: I'm a girl and I'm currently dating another girl, I like her alot and from what I can tell, she ... A: Part 3 of 3 ============================== Correctly Understanding Leviticus 20:13 and 18:22 A ... | |
| please read | 3/26/2007 |
| Q: I am not trying to condemn you in your actions but what you are teaching is a misrepresentation of ... A: The purpose of this service however is for experts in given fields to answer questions. Your ... | |
| my husband might be homosexual | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: My husband and I are having a lot of problems and we have a roommate who lives with us and has been ... A: There isn't really anything more I can say to this I don't think. Please don't be offended, it is ... | |
| my husband might be homosexual | 3/20/2007 |
| Q: My husband and I are having a lot of problems and we have a roommate who lives with us and has been ... A: I can't really speak to whether or not your husband is gay as I obviously don't know him. For ... | |
| coming out to best (religious) friend | 3/3/2007 |
| Q: I am a bisexual young woman. I'm really not out. Only my parents and one friend know. I'm ... A: The good news is that God loves us all. If you are interested, I have a website dealing with the ... | |
| my church, me and my sexuality | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: Im in church I've given my life to Christ but I've been struggling for my sexuality since i was 13 ... A: My heart goes out to you, I know how very difficult it can be to come to terms with this issue. ... | |
| is my husband gay? | 12/31/2006 |
| Q: at the minute, im so hurt and confused i dont know what to do. i have been with my husband 5 years ... A: My heart goes to you. This must be hard to understand. In this reply I don't intend to justify ... | |
| Is my boyfriend gay | 11/28/2006 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year,and some small things he does makes me wonder if he ... A: First, I applaud your desire to help him determine his sexual orientation. This is often a difficult ... | |
| gay adoption and the catholic church | 11/22/2006 |
| Q: do you think that gay adoption is going against the holy bible? wouldn't god rather have liked us to ... A: For something to be against the Bible it must either violate the Scriptures or violate the ... | |
| Heartbroken | 8/29/2006 |
| Q: here it goes, My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and she saw her ex boyfriend at the ... A: Relationships can certainly be very difficult and confusing at times. My thought is that it would be ... | |
| It is not a lie--homosexuality is wrong. | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: By biblical standards, wouldn't the word you defined "morally weak" include homosexual acts? And ... A: You asked: "By biblical standards, wouldn't the word you defined "morally weak" include homosexual ... | |
| It is not a lie--homosexuality is wrong. | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: If you know so much about the bible, then you would know that 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 says ,"What! Do ... A: Your post would shoot me down if it was biblically correct. Here's the facts of the matter however: ... | |
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Have you been told that God rejects you because of your sexual orientation? Its a lie! God loves you just as you are. I'll be happy to share the truth with you and to answer your biblical questions. Neither the Bible nor God condemns committed same gender relationships and marriages. I can also share information on most other biblical topics as well. Be sure to visit my Grace Inclusive website for many of my biblical studies on this topic.
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I prefer questions of a spiritual/religious nature. If you are seeking dating advise and similar topics you would do better to ask someone else.
Experience
I hold an MA in Religious Studies from John F Kennedy University, three Christian ordinations and a degree in Interfaith counseling. I am the owner and author of AllFaith.com. I have studied these and related topics for over 40 years and am happy to share with you.
I also host two Yahoo e-groups on this topic, visit Grace Inclusive for more details. NOWHERE does the Bible condemn people based on their sexual orientation. "Whosoever" means "Whosoever"!
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Grace Inclusive
Education/Credentials
Education/Credentials
Three Christian ordinations (Baptist, Calvary Chapel and from an independent Christian Church), an MA in Religious Studies, an ordination in Ministry and Spiritual Counseling from the Interfaith Seminaries, 41 plus years of sincere seeking and 13 years answering questions and posting studies online.
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