| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Depressed and Confused | 8/7/2008 |
Q: I am not sure where to begin, other than the fact that I am feeling very down. It could be a number ...
A: sorry I didn't answer sooner, I was out sick last week. Thanks for writing to me. You are in a ...
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| Bumping into my ex is self torture | 8/5/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I split up nearly 3 months ago. I caught her texting someone else and she finally ...
A: you are welcome. I think our head usually does know...or maybe it is the gut...but the heart has a ...
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| Bumping into my ex is self torture | 8/1/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I split up nearly 3 months ago. I caught her texting someone else and she finally ...
A: .. thanks for writing to me. Yes, first and foremost, yes, you are being too hard on yourself. ...
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| is my husband gay? | 7/26/2008 |
Q: I don't know what to do about my feeling about my husband being gay..when I confront him about it he ...
A: I'm sorry you are going through this. It sounds like both of you are having a really hard time. I ...
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| Best Way to come out to VERY christian mother. | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I'm a 47 female, leaving a 28 year marriage and moving in with another woman. NOt really leaving ...
A: Yes, you are right, it will be perceived as you leaving the marriage for the other woman. It is the ...
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| i love my wife but she thinks she is gay | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I love my wife with all my heart we have been split up for six months she had a gay affair and left, ...
A: John, I am so sorry for all that you are going through. This has got to be the most excruciating ...
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| Gay Bathhouse | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I'm considering getting a Gay Massage and was wondering if they are legit. If so, what is the best ...
A: I will start off by admitting that I really have no experience or knowledge of gay bathhouses, or ...
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| My brother is gay / bosexual. Any tips? | 7/18/2008 |
Q: Around 24 hours ago my younger brother (22) came out of the closet. My family and i always had some ...
A: Keep in mind that for your brother, your dad crying like a baby IS a traumatic reaction. It might ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/18/2008 |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: Honestly, Renee...ANY TIME. I really hope the opportunity arises for him to spend time with you and ...
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| My brother is gay / bosexual. Any tips? | 7/17/2008 |
Q: Around 24 hours ago my younger brother (22) came out of the closet. My family and i always had some ...
A: Mike, I cannot tell you how much I love getting a letter like yours...to know there are people out ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: I can definitely tell you that you are taking the right approach right now...in terms of sifting ...
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| My Friend's Son Threatened Suicide | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I have a co-worker friend of mine that has an 18 year old son who lives at home with her. A few ...
A: I think of all the questions I have gotten since I started on this site, this may well be the ...
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| Bisexual male in a heterosexual marriage | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I am a 41 year old male currently married to a heterosexual woman...recently my bisexality has come ...
A: I wish I had an easy answer for you, but there really isn't one. No hypnotherapy or anything like ...
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| He made me feel like a bad person | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I really need someone to talk to. I am a 26 year old bisexual woman. I was in a romantic ...
A: I've enjoyed the discussion as well, Melanie, and am delighted to hear your strength coming back so ...
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| He made me feel like a bad person | 7/7/2008 |
Q: I really need someone to talk to. I am a 26 year old bisexual woman. I was in a romantic ...
A: I don't mind a follow up question at all, Melanie, please write as many as you want. You are not ...
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| My girlfriend is not a lesbian | 7/7/2008 |
Q: Michelle. My name's Lisa. I'm not sure where to start, and I apologize in advance if this isn't ...
A: .. I'm not surprised she feels completely alone, she is in a really tough spot. Our strange ...
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| wife | 7/5/2008 |
Q: how do I tell if my wife of 23 years has turned gay we have seperated for 7 years my 17 year old son ...
A: ..it is a pretty broad question to answer without any more information than what I have...but let's ...
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| He made me feel like a bad person | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I really need someone to talk to. I am a 26 year old bisexual woman. I was in a romantic ...
A: Melanie, Melanie, Melanie...where do I even start? I can't reach out and give you a hug, because we ...
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| Bisexual question | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 yr old woman who has been bi since i was 10 (didnt know what bi was at 10). I have always ...
A: I would say that from reading your email you are actually looking for other people who enjoy and ...
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| heyy | 6/26/2008 |
Q: ok this may seem kind of weird.. but i need help REALLY bad! anyways 3 yrs ago i worked with this ...
A: no, it doesn't seem weird at all to me. I think this happens a lot...and I think it probably ...
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| respecting my partner in public | 6/19/2008 |
Q: I have been in my relationship for about 5 years now. My partner and I have had some difficult ...
A: LOL, no, but thank you, I am not a certified counselor...just someone who has "been there." I don't ...
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| respecting my partner in public | 6/18/2008 |
Q: I have been in my relationship for about 5 years now. My partner and I have had some difficult ...
A: welcome to the closet door. Yes, you can go to counseling, and while I am a firm believer in ...
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| i have to stop | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I'm Amanda, and I am 14yrs. old. I am lesbian/bi (i haven't figured that out yet) but i don't want ...
A: That is very normal and natural. Keep in mind that human beings' minds are trainable. We think, ...
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| i have to stop | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I'm Amanda, and I am 14yrs. old. I am lesbian/bi (i haven't figured that out yet) but i don't want ...
A: Let's start with "I don't know if I am lesbian or bisexual." Let's just throw one more into the ...
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| I am a lesbian with a boyfriend. | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 year old female, have been in love with women eversince I remember having my first ...
A: Let's start with "Is it possible?" Yes, absolutely. For one thing, sexuality is more of a ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: Okay, now we are really getting into some funny territory. You would not believe how many times I ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: You and I could be twins separated at birth. I carried my "living bible" to school. Even in ...
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| Choose God or Life? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I actually wrote yesterday but I've since spent the entire day reading your previous answers. In ...
A: I did see the feedback you left with your response to the first letter I sent you so I know that you ...
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| just....thinking... | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I think I may just be analyzing my actions too much, but I can't stop thinking about stuff. Ever ...
A: It sounds to me like you are a warm and loving and generous person. I think it is good that you are ...
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| am i gay? | 5/26/2008 |
Q: once i had a sleepover at my freinds and we had to share the same bed my freind asked if he culd ...
A: ..first, let me say this and I hope you can hear me on it. You are not a "sicko"...the most normal ...
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| Really confused??? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: hey, I'm 15 and i have alot on my mind. A couple of weeks ago i finally confessed to this girl that ...
A: ..I think that both things are very possible...that she really may have liked you or that she was ...
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| How do I tell people I'm gay? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: and now I want to know how to tell my brothers and sister. I think they might know I'm gay already ...
A: Coming out is rarely a one time thing, so you kind of resign yourself to coming out again and again ...
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| Is my brother gay? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: For a few years now me and my other two brothers have been wondering if our other brother is gay, ...
A: I'll start off by saying that you are already doing one of the biggest and best things to help him ...
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| Mom won't talk | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I'm a 19 year old junior college student in Kansas. I'm still living at home with my parents and ...
A: I think that if she is going to come around, it is going to take some time. Unfortunately Frank, in ...
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| My boyfriends bisexual | 4/12/2008 |
Q: I recently found your website after googling 'my boyfriend is bisexual' in the search engine. I feel ...
A: ..I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Here is the good news. You are smart and aware ...
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| i am bi | 4/10/2008 |
Q: hey well yea am bi an tryin to ask diz chicc out how do i do this oh an how do i tell my mom wit out ...
A: On mom...unfortunately, Daniela, there ARE parents out there who have kicked out their kids for ...
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| horniness | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well i kinda have a lot to say. But ok so I am a very horny person well i think i am. I dont like to ...
A: let's start with the why...pretty normal, and yes, the thoughts and attractions and responses are ...
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| i am bi | 4/7/2008 |
Q: hey well yea am bi an tryin to ask diz chicc out how do i do this oh an how do i tell my mom wit out ...
A: ..kinda long-winded, aren't ya? LOL Okay, well, with little information to go on I can only give ...
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| Boyfriend caught on gay chat site. | 3/27/2008 |
Q: This is still a fresh wound for me, but here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We ...
A: ..I have to start off by saying I am so sorry you are going through this. You have a lot more ...
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| Gay love | 3/16/2008 |
Q: I’m a 23-year-old guy and I’m writing about my situation – I’m gay, but not out to anybody, except ...
A: ..so many questions, so little time. Let's start with the "sell-date" question. The answer is ...
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| Self Acceptance Of Coming Out Lesbian | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I recently came out fully to my family. I have considered myself bisexual for many years, they ...
A: Actually, believe it or not, you don't sound all that confused to me...you sound like someone who is ...
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| social work | 3/10/2008 |
Q: what would charcterize societal response to your sexual orientation as a gay lesbian person
A: I couldn't characterize it one certain way for all of society...our society is divided on how it ...
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| My boyfriend cheated on me with a man | 3/7/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of three years cheated on me with a man. We were celebrating a lesbian couples ...
A: I will start Tamara, with saying that you obviously have an amazing heart AND head. You seem to be ...
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| MY GF Is In Denial | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I was in lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years with someone who said they were not comfortable with ...
A: You can do more one last things, it's okay...I promise! :) I think the thing to try to keep in ...
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| MY GF Is In Denial | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I was in lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years with someone who said they were not comfortable with ...
A: I think your gut is leading you pretty clearly on this, and that isn't where your heart really wants ...
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| MY GF Is In Denial | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I was in lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years with someone who said they were not comfortable with ...
A: I think it is a lot more than her not being out, but I do think that had something to do with a lot ...
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| MY GF Is In Denial | 3/4/2008 |
Q: I was in lesbian relationship for 2 1/2 years with someone who said they were not comfortable with ...
A: Oh AMG, I wish I could say that it doesn't happen often, but it does. There are so many people out ...
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| Interview | 3/1/2008 |
Q: It said I had too many follow up questions, so I had to start another. I suppose I only have a few ...
A: I'm back! Yes, A. Michelle is fine. Okay...Should DADT ban be modified, removed, etc. ABsolutely! ...
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| GLBT | 2/22/2008 |
Q: My question is rather odd for you I'm sure. I'm actually doing a paper for my college class about ...
A: I figured that... :) I think that if marriages are legally recognized (with full faith and credit ...
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| How do you know | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I am not sure how to define myself. If I look at a Playboy type picture of a naked woman, I can ...
A: Well, :) um, confused...I find myself confused a little bit myself. You identify yourself as ...
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| GLBT | 2/18/2008 |
Q: My question is rather odd for you I'm sure. I'm actually doing a paper for my college class about ...
A: You are most welcome. I believe that the right to marry is for everyone. Under our laws and our ...
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| Going to visit my girlfriend | 2/18/2008 |
Q: I asked a question about a month ago, maybe a bit further back. I don't remember who it was that I ...
A: yep, that was me...I remember the letter you wrote to me. Wow...tough questions. If I remember ...
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| My best friend says he loves me | 2/12/2008 |
Q: An old friend of mine I have known for years has just told me he is gay and he loves me. He says he ...
A: I would start by saying he isn't acting like a "girl friend" would act towards you, he is acting ...
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| marriage in canada | 2/11/2008 |
Q: First of all, I would like to say that I just found this site; and I really enjoyed reading your ...
A: I should, my partner keeps telling me to get back to writing books and articles, and deep down I ...
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| I think my husband is gay | 2/6/2008 |
Q: After 5 years of a "difficult" marriage, umteenth sessions with my psychologist about why I am so ...
A: I don't know if I would say he is a victim of abuse, depending on what they did to really "coerce" ...
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| marriage in canada | 2/6/2008 |
Q: First of all, I would like to say that I just found this site; and I really enjoyed reading your ...
A: I do appreciate it. I've enjoyed working with so many different people here, it has been good for ...
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| What should i do? | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I love her and I want to marry her, but for the longest time I have been interested in men. I know I ...
A: ..thanks for writing. Joe, I don't often say this to someone, but I think I have to in your case. ...
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| My wife and I... | 1/26/2008 |
Q: Michelle. It's Bill again. I know you haven't even had time to respond to my follow up yet, but ...
A: ..when will it get easier? I don't know if "easier" is the right word. She has had a little longer ...
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| My wife... | 1/24/2008 |
Q: I am a 32 y/o man married to a 33 y/o woman. we have three children. I am absolutely and ...
A: Any time at all Bill. Please keep writing as often as you like, as you need. You are both going to ...
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| Is my husband gay? | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I married my boyfriend of two years recently. Til now, I had never had any inclination of perhaps ...
A: ..I think that until he gives you reason to believe otherwise, you take him at his word. It is ...
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| My wife... | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I am a 32 y/o man married to a 33 y/o woman. we have three children. I am absolutely and ...
A: Bill, you very clearly are a man, a person, who loves very deeply, compassionately, completely. ...
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| Ex-boyfriend is homosexual but won't leave me alone. HELP | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I will try to make this as concise and to-the-point as possible. My ex- boyfriend left me a year ...
A: This sounds like such a hard situation. It sounds like someone you genuinely care about, but to be ...
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| ahhh! | 1/7/2008 |
Q: im 15 years old, and im not sure whether or not im bisexual, or a lesbian...i think about girls and ...
A: ..this is a pretty tough one. I don't think there is anything "wrong" with you at all, except that ...
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| whats wrong with me | 1/7/2008 |
Q: ) im having a HUGE problem...i date guys, and recently ive noticed tht im more into woman and i ...
A: I don't know that it sounds like anything at all is wrong with you. For one, many, many, many ...
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| Help i just dont know. Im i gay | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I already know thre is no definitive answear but please bear with me. Im a 24 year old male and been ...
A: Oh David... David, is there any way you can get some counseling for you and your wife? What I am ...
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| is my boy friend bi or just a pervert | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 5+ years now. It all started a bout 2 years ago when I bought a ...
A: It doesn't sound to me like he is just viewing with no intention of following up if he is listing ...
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| Bible | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I am a sixteen year old girl, still living under her parents roof. My parents are both devout ...
A: ..I'm glad you wrote back. There is so much here that I don't know where to begin. There is a part ...
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| is my boy friend bi or just a pervert | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 5+ years now. It all started a bout 2 years ago when I bought a ...
A: ..I'm sorry you are going through all of this. It is pretty difficult for someone else (other than ...
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| he lost interest I didnt know why and now he says he isnt sure if he is into men? | 1/2/2008 |
Q: My ex fiance and I began having problems in August. I noticed because he didn't appear to be ...
A: Oh, Jess. I feel so bad for you...the hurt you are going through right now is palpable. It ...
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| Bible | 1/1/2008 |
Q: I am a sixteen year old girl, still living under her parents roof. My parents are both devout ...
A: ..thanks for writing to me, it sounds like you really live in a difficult situation. Maryanne, some ...
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| Is this true?! | 1/1/2008 |
Q: My question is regarding whether or not one can actually face criminal charges and be prosecuted for ...
A: no, I never mind followup questions or comments. And yes, it is EXTREMELY unjust both here and ...
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| Is this true?! | 12/31/2007 |
Q: My question is regarding whether or not one can actually face criminal charges and be prosecuted for ...
A: .. It was true for several states in the United States (you don't mention where you are from) up ...
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| Lesbian Relationship | 12/29/2007 |
Q: I am a 23 year old mother and I date a 26 year old woman. After my husband and I split apart I ...
A: ..I am so sorry you are going through all of this. And sure, medication can help, but she is ...
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| IS MY FIANCE GAY | 12/29/2007 |
Q: MY FIANCE AND HIS EX WIFE LIVED TOGETHER FOR 13 YEARS. HE MOVED OUT 3X TO FIND HIMSELF AND ALTHOUGH ...
A: I think I would start off by saying that gay or straight, this guy is a jerk. He is self-centered, ...
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| Gay marriage | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I am a bisexual woman in my twenties, who is currently involved in a relationship with a man. He is ...
A: You are asking about THE most common arguments made against legal recognition of same gender ...
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| Confused? | 12/8/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 years old and I've been in a state of confusion about my sexuality since I was 14 which leads ...
A: You are in that very tough transition time of figuring yourself out and that's okay. In fact, it ...
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| Women! | 11/30/2007 |
Q: Unless a person is blatant, blunt and aggressive, I find it nearly impossible to decipher if a ...
A: LOL, I love that! Making fruity friends. That's a good one. In fact, it is so good that I ...
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| My girlfriend is Bi and wants to experiment | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Hey there, my girlfriend and myself have been in a serious relationship for 3 years now (and living ...
A: ..I'm sorry you are both going through this...it is hard for both of you. What a wonderful heart ...
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| Guilt and shame | 11/19/2007 |
Q: I am a 25 year old openly bisexual woman, currently in a relationship with a man. I was raised Roman ...
A: ..I can't tell you how much I could relate, or used to relate to what you are going through. Keep ...
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| Why is it so hard to tell my mum im a lesbian? | 11/19/2007 |
Q: I am 22 yrs old and finding it really hard telling my mum im a lesbian. The worst thing is, i know ...
A: I am not surprised it is so hard. I think it is absolutely normal. Even if in your head you think ...
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| Bi-curious wife - will it affect our marriage? | 11/8/2007 |
Q: My wife and I went to a friend's house where I was asked If I would be against this girl kissing my ...
A: I know that couldn't have been an easy decision to make, and I am sincerely touched that you even ...
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| am i? | 11/6/2007 |
Q: am i bisexual? the things is,i am 17,i think i am in love with this girl,have been for about a year ...
A: well, the thing is, as a male, you are naturally stimulated by a LOT of different things, and fairly ...
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| Bi-curious wife - will it affect our marriage? | 11/6/2007 |
Q: My wife and I went to a friend's house where I was asked If I would be against this girl kissing my ...
A: .. I'm going to go with the question you ask in the subject heading...will it affect our marriage. ...
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| expressing my feelings | 11/6/2007 |
Q: I don't really know him but when i first saw him we would give each other looks and keep walking ...
A: Hmmmm....that does make it harder, doesn't it? Probably the best way would be to be in the right ...
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| am i? | 11/4/2007 |
Q: am i bisexual? the things is,i am 17,i think i am in love with this girl,have been for about a year ...
A: Well, trust me, from personal experience, our sexuality is not influenced by what we WANT to be...it ...
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| expressing my feelings | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I don't really know him but when i first saw him we would give each other looks and keep walking ...
A: this is probably one of the toughest things for a high school student that is gay. While all the ...
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| bisexual wife | 11/2/2007 |
Q: I still love my wife of 15 years, but she has reently told me she is bisexual and has felt this way ...
A: I am so sorry. This has to be so hard for you. I have a site for you to check out and see if it ...
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| bisexual wife | 11/1/2007 |
Q: I still love my wife of 15 years, but she has reently told me she is bisexual and has felt this way ...
A: lain, thanks for writing to me. You say your wife told you she is bisexual, but you don't say if ...
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| is my wife gay? | 10/28/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have 4 kids. She always said she was bi-curious, now ...
A: I am sorry you are going through this. I think your wife has several issues going, the least of ...
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| i think im a lesbian and now im in trouble | 10/24/2007 |
Q: i like girls way more than guys but i like guys also but i dont feel comfortable dating ...
A: I'm sorry it is under such painful circumstances... It isn't unusual, if you are a lesbian, to feel ...
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| am i bisexual | 10/19/2007 |
Q: am i gay or bisexual? i am 20 years old i cant get these thoughts out of my head about what it would ...
A: it sounds like you are having a hard time, and I'm sorry about that. Let me start by saying that I ...
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| Friend might not be straight | 10/5/2007 |
Q: I am a 26 year old gay man and live with my 22 year old best friend. We are really close and he is ...
A: It wasn't long and rambling at all, it was helpful to have the information and background. It IS ...
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| Sexuallity?? | 10/5/2007 |
Q: i am a 16 year old male and i am a late bloomer very late. bout 5 years ago i had thoughts telling ...
A: ..this stuff can be VERY confusing, whether you are 16 or 60. The good news, J, is that you ...
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| Am I Gay? | 10/2/2007 |
Q: Ok, i know its a thing about you have to know yourself but Im confused!Up until now,I have thought ...
A: the first thing I would tell you is that you don't have to "decide" if you are gay or straight at ...
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| My Fiancee and her exs name | 9/28/2007 |
Q: Recently I just got my fiancee back we had broken up because I guess I was being an asshole. Now ...
A: I think you have a very legitimate concern, Angel. A legitimate feeling. Her "why the hell" ...
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| My Fiancee and her exs name | 9/28/2007 |
Q: Recently I just got my fiancee back we had broken up because I guess I was being an asshole. Now ...
A: I would say that both of you need to take a very serious look at your relationship and how you ...
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| Massage | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if it was against the law to receive an erotic massage by trained and licensed men. ...
A: this one is definitely outside my knowledge or expertise, and I do NOT want to give you advice that ...
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| My Fiancee and her exs name | 9/28/2007 |
Q: Recently I just got my fiancee back we had broken up because I guess I was being an asshole. Now ...
A: .. That is a tough one. I can understand your feelings, I think in a lot of ways I would feel the ...
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| 26 and straight... I think | 9/21/2007 |
Q: I guess my problem is for the job of a regular councilor, but for the last 5 years I have been ...
A: first of all yes, I agree with you that it would be good for you to talk to a counselor. Mainly to ...
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| dealing with ex | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I need to know how to handle a situation about my partner's ex. This is a woman she was with over 25 ...
A: all of this really helps to paint a picture. You kind of put your finger on it when you said that ...
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| dealing with ex | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I need to know how to handle a situation about my partner's ex. This is a woman she was with over 25 ...
A: and I am glad it helped...and the additional information actually makes all the more sense to me ...
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| dealing with ex | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I need to know how to handle a situation about my partner's ex. This is a woman she was with over 25 ...
A: I am going to hazard a guess...does this ex have a "religious" background? Whether or not she is ...
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| My husband is gay, and in denial | 9/13/2007 |
Q: About 2 years ago, I found a text message on my husbands phone, about a meeting he was going to have ...
A: ..wow. I read your letter and knew that if it hit me in the gut like it did, I can only imagine ...
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| confused | 9/13/2007 |
Q: ever since i was little ive had crushes on girls (never guys) Now Im 18 and i am still in high ...
A: First off, let's take some pressure off. At 18 you really do not have to have all of this "figured ...
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| Break up after 4 1/2 yrs | 8/22/2007 |
Q: I met my ex online 4 1/2 years ago.....and feel so deeply for her that I moved from TN to NY to be ...
A: ..my heart just twisted and ached as I read through your letter. I often wonder why some people go ...
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| my husband is addicted to porn.... | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I beleive that my husband is bi-sexual due to his large collection of transexual porn. He has been ...
A: I think you should follow your own gut on this. It sounds like you have him pretty well figured ...
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| Should I tell my fiance that I have had homosexual experiences in the past? | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I'm 26 years old and am engaged to be married to the woman I love more than anything in the world. ...
A: Given the extra information, maybe the thing to do is be open to telling her. Jay it sounds to me ...
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| Should I tell my fiance that I have had homosexual experiences in the past? | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I'm 26 years old and am engaged to be married to the woman I love more than anything in the world. ...
A: Jay, I have reread your letter a couple of times to really absorb and think through what you are ...
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| response to your response... | 7/1/2007 |
Q: Actually, your letter helped more than you realize. You said a lot of things that haven't been ...
A: And I have to tell you, I think you are 100% on track. My partner once told me in the beginning of ...
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| i think my boyfriend is either gay or bi. | 6/30/2007 |
Q: Ok ill start from the beginning, i met lewis in march 05 when i was 18, im now 20. he was also 18. ...
A: ...wow...you have really been through the ringer. Tara, I would love to tell you that you can get ...
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| Is my boyfriend gay? | 6/16/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years.He is very nice and we have a great ...
A: ..thanks for writing to me. I think it is a good thing to be cautious, and it sounds like you are ...
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| i hate lying | 6/12/2007 |
Q: but im not sure if i should come out to everybody and also i don't know that everybody would except ...
A: One thing you need to know is that as soon as you tell one person, be prepared for the likely ...
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| i hate lying | 6/12/2007 |
Q: but im not sure if i should come out to everybody and also i don't know that everybody would except ...
A: ..thanks for writing... Coming out is so different for everyone...if, when, how...it depends on ...
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| Is my fiance gay? | 6/4/2007 |
Q: I really need help! My fiance and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. In the past 6 months we've ...
A: this is a pretty tough one...and it sounds like you have some deep thinking and a lot of talking to ...
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| my christian girlfriend | 6/4/2007 |
Q: I am writing this in hopes that you could maybe point me in some sort of direction because right now ...
A: I can't tell you how familiar your story sounds, and how much I understand the ache that both of you ...
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| Societal stigmas | 5/16/2007 |
Q: Im sory this question is not directly related to your area of expertise... but... I was wishing to ...
A: I'm not sure who you were aiming this question for, but I thought I would just throw out my personal ...
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| In love with my Ex's girlfriend who loves me back | 5/13/2007 |
Q: Okay, I went out with this guy for a year or so. We had a very serious relationship. I traveled ...
A: ..I am kind of partial to that name, it was the screen name my partner went by for years. This is ...
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| daughter's acceptance | 4/17/2007 |
Q: I have just entered my first relationship with a woman and my daughter is not accepting or handling ...
A: Well, Wendy, let's start by tying on the hiking boots...because just being honest and realistic, you ...
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| Lesbian/Bi | 4/12/2007 |
Q: I am in my second marriage to a man but have had monogomous long term relationships with both sexes. ...
A: and I'm sorry you are going through this. It is very painful, I know, and unfortunately the answers ...
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| what's wrong | 4/11/2007 |
Q: Like a lot of people I began to come to the realization of my sexual orientation in my late teens. ...
A: ..I'm hoping that some of what I am going to say is going to put your mind to rest at least on this ...
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| should i even think about this? | 3/9/2007 |
Q: Hey Michelle, so I've been doing good with my breakup 9 (meaning not stressing or calling her. She ...
A: I think that a lot of people only know what they want to know, and also that there are people that ...
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| gay or bi? | 2/27/2007 |
Q: I am just after some advice and opinions from people who know a bit more than me! lol. I know ...
A: ..thanks for writing. Getting other perspectives is always good, no matter what the question. I ...
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| hi | 2/22/2007 |
Q: I really want to tell you something today. It's something very embarrassing that happened to me. ...
A: Prashanth, I hope you are doing well...in everything else...sorry to hear about this new problem. ...
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| Tough living situation | 2/19/2007 |
Q: I've been friends with this girl for about a year and 4 months now and we have always been really ...
A: .. The situation you describe is so painfully familiar. I wish I could find something to say that ...
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| ex-girlfriend | 2/13/2007 |
Q: Michele thank you for writing back and you have wrote what i have been feeling. now here is ...
A: See, Josie, you didn't need me at all! You have this girl so figured out, it probably surprised ...
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| SHE STILL HAS A BOYFRIEND | 2/13/2007 |
Q: ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND WHEN I MET HER SHE HAD A BOY FRIEND ( WE WERE ...
A: .. This is a pretty tough spot, I think, because it makes you kind of the "bad" person in a ...
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| ex-girlfriend | 2/9/2007 |
Q: i haven't seen my ex- girlfriend for about 5 years now she is back in my life with now twins [boys] ...
A: I don't even know where to begin...you have so many things going on in all of this that my heart ...
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| EVERYTHING | 2/6/2007 |
Q: I am a 33 yr old mother of 2 children. I just ended an 11 yr abusive opposite sex relationship less ...
A: I wasn't sure if you still wanted to talk about this...because of your second email...but I am sure ...
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| Age gap a problem? | 1/19/2007 |
Q: I'm 18, but still in the closet. I just have a question regarding age gaps. In school I'm what is ...
A: .. First, have a seat and hang on tight, because you may not like the answer I have for you. RUN, ...
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| What to do or say | 12/5/2006 |
Q: Well I'm not sure if I want to lose her. I rather hold to what I have cause the sex stage has ...
A: Believe me, Selena, I understand about wanting to hold onto what you have, and all of the feelings ...
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| What to do or say | 12/4/2006 |
Q: I'm 15 and I'm a sophomore in high school and she is 19 and a junior-senior in high school. We both ...
A: Well, here is where I have to admit to the mom in me coming out, so bear with me and understand that ...
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| What to do or say | 12/3/2006 |
Q: I'm bisexual and I haven't told my mom yet but because she is against all of the gay community ...
A: Let's start with you first, if that's okay. You don't tell me your age, but you indicate that you ...
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| follow up | 11/14/2006 |
Q: MIchelle, Thanks for the info...I will definately explore the website for the paperwork you ...
A: Diane, picture me on my desk doing a happy dance! That is SOOOO cool! You are amazing! I'm ...
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| follow up | 11/10/2006 |
Q: Just wanted you to know that I went in today, armed with my marriage license and a copy of the NM ...
A: WOW! GOOD FOR YOU! This is great! Okay, I would next contact the NCLR. They take cases and work ...
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| recognizing marriage in NM | 11/6/2006 |
Q: Last summer, My girlfriend (then, now wife) traveled to Canada and got married. Our marriage ...
A: First of all, I was born in New Mexico and my partner's name is Diane...so this is kismet I guess. ...
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| friends? or more? | 11/6/2006 |
Q: i like this girl in my 2nd hour class and i really wanna become her friend but the thing is that we ...
A: ..it isn't unusual to be drawn to someone like that, and you seem to be young enough yet that you ...
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| My boyfriend thinks he might be gay | 11/4/2006 |
Q: I've got a bit of a problem and I would really appreciate it if you could give me some advise. ...
A: first and foremost, I am ALWAYS happy to give someone the chance to connect with another soul (mine) ...
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| i need help | 10/24/2006 |
Q: i am in a relationship with a girl but i often find myself perving on guys
A: I hope I can help you. First of all, how old are you? You say you are "young" and I would take ...
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| is my partner gay | 10/22/2006 |
Q: i have been with my partner for 8 years and we have 2 children. when we started going out people ...
A: ..I am sorry you are going through all of this... I guess I would start off here by saying that ...
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| me and my girlfriend relationship | 10/18/2006 |
Q: well me and my lady have the same issues with our family they wont accept us for who we are and if ...
A: ..it is a tough question, isn't it? No easy answers, I'm afraid. I have found that for me, for my ...
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| being torn apart | 9/20/2006 |
Q: i need help im a 22 year old female and im openly gay not long ago i meet a chick that playes in the ...
A: .. Boy, I can see why you are torn apart. I think you definitely have the right red flags going ...
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| marriage | 9/7/2006 |
Q: I've been married for almost 7 years and have 2 children. my husband and I have had a bad situation ...
A: .. I am so so sorry you are going through this. It is so hard. First of all, know this...even IF ...
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| Bi | 9/6/2006 |
Q: I know that alot of people talk about being straight but etc. and alot of feedback is given that oh ...
A: What an interesting question! Well James...I believe, as most scientists and behavioral ...
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| Am I bi? | 9/3/2006 |
Q: I am 23 now. When I was 13, in an all girls boarding school, I messed around with this one girl ...
A: ..I didn't realize that they were doing the question pools until yesterday, but I am sure someone ...
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| Relationship | 8/23/2006 |
Q: I really don't know what my questions are, all I know is that I met a man that I love very deeply. ...
A: Believe it or not, I have found that one of the keys to a very solid relationship is to first ...
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| My boyfriend might be bisexual | 8/3/2006 |
Q: Michelle, I have to thank you for your tremendously helpful response. I definitely need some more ...
A: I'm so glad that my letter helped in some ways. I think no matter what you decide to do, it's going ...
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