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About Tedd Adams
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Expertise
I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.

Experience
I have been a volunteer facilitator for a state-sponsored gay youth support group, where we dealt with all of the issues mentioned above.

Publications
Tulsa World, Muskogee Phoenix, Tulsa Family News, About Business Magazine, Contributor to the book "I Can't Believe You Asked That!", by Phillip J. Milano

Education/Credentials
Associates degree, Biblical Studies, Kentucky Christian College
Bachelors of Science, John Brown University, Psychology
Masters in Organizational Management, University of Phoenix (Tulsa OK campus).

   

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Lonely7/20/2008Kade Williams
  Q: I am a 20 yr old gay male. I currently attend a small college in Minnesota, USA, surrounded by a ...
  A: I have a solution for you, if you have any friends who are gay males and are single you could ask ...
Lonely7/20/2008Adriaan Pretorius
  Q: I am a 20 yr old gay male. I currently attend a small college in Minnesota, USA, surrounded by a ...
  A: You have to know one thing first of all... It's never easy for anyone, straight or gay, young or ...
Lonely7/20/2008lucy
  Q: I am a 20 yr old gay male. I currently attend a small college in Minnesota, USA, surrounded by a ...
  A: I understand your frustration and I feel for you. If you go to clubs all you are likely to find is ...
break ups7/20/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: i was with my ex for 4 1/2 yrs.the last 6 months were rocky.lots of arguments .no emotional ...
  A: Sharon It's always hard to end a relationship of any type when there is no closure. It feels like ...
Relationship Advice7/16/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 years, we have a good relationship and don't really ...
  A: I'm glad o see that you accept responsibility for how serious a breach of privacy you've committed ...
Determining Sexuality7/16/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: ive been struggling with this for years now. I think i might be gay, thats the only type of ...
  A: If you've read any of my previous postings, you'll see that this is not at all uncommon. It's why I ...
confused7/15/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: a fag alot and vagina, pussy, bitch, queer, and it makes me question myself. I have alot of social ...
  A: William You said it yourself, you have a big problem with social anxiety. That's your problem here, ...
Relationship Advice7/15/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 years, we have a good relationship and don't really ...
  A: Hey Tim I feel for you, and I understand the situation. It's always stressful when someone you love ...
Should I and what is he doin7/15/2008Jim Swanson
  Q: For example everytime Im at his house he always follows me around wit his eyes and when our eyes ...
  A: James, As I said in my previous reply, I really think it is time that you and your friend just ...
Should I and what is he doin7/14/2008Jim Swanson
  Q: For example everytime Im at his house he always follows me around wit his eyes and when our eyes ...
  A: Well, from what you have told me, he is either gay of curious, or at least he likes you a lot. I ...
Why Is my Gay Friend's boyfriend Acting so Weird with Me?7/14/2008Adriaan Pretorius
  Q: my best male friend who is gay (I'm straight female) has been going out with his boyfriend for a ...
  A: I must first off tell you, that you should not put too much of an emphasis on what he says or does ...
Please Help!7/13/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: I'm a gay man aged 22.And i'm caught up in a situation that i don't know how to solve.The following ...
  A: Abee You've gotten yourself into a situation where he has every motive NOT to renew his visa. As ...
worried.7/12/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Recently, my boyfriend and I had his foster brother spend a couple days with us. My boyfriend has ...
  A: Jan, It's great that you are so concerned for him, and I'm glad to hear that his family would be ...
My nephew7/11/2008lucy
  Q: My nephew is gay and is having a hard time with relationships. After a break-up he blames his mother ...
  A: After a breakup people react in different ways. It seems as though he is very upset and is looking ...
I Think I Like my straight friend7/9/2008Kade Williams
  Q: ok So I have some problems. Me and my bestfriend have a great relationship. Theirs one problem, he ...
  A: I suggest that you do not look into it as a flirt, but more of him just trusting you and being his ...
question7/6/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: How are you? My names Alec and I'm 15.I am pretty sure that i am gay but I'm having problems ...
  A: It sounds to me like you're expecting your body to tell you what your sexual orientation is rather ...
hey7/6/2008Kade Williams
  Q: So hi my name is alec and i'm 15.I'm preaty sure im gay and i am out to almost everyone. Everyone in ...
  A: I suggest that every person that says you are just trying to be like your brother, tell them that ...
......... the fuck?7/6/2008Adriaan Pretorius
  Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
  A: Well, thereare lots of ways to find out if he is gay, and it sometimes depend on how old you guys ...
.... the fuck???????/7/6/2008Jim Swanson
  Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
  A: Like you, your friend may still be struggling with his sexuality like you have been in the past. ...
WHAT THE FUUUUUUUCCCCCKKKK7/6/2008Kade Williams
  Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
  A: I feel that he likes you and he is in the closet. I suggest that you ask him in a joking way then ...
WTF#$%&***7/6/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
  A: Well tobi That's not much to go on, but I'd say the fact that he doesn't mind (or even welcomes) ...
WTF!!!!!!!!!!7/6/2008lucy
  Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
  A: He could be gay or then again he might just see you as a good friend. But the kissing thing makes it ...
I Think I Like my straight friend7/5/2008Kade Williams
  Q: ok So I have some problems. Me and my bestfriend have a great relationship. Theirs one problem, he ...
  A: It seems like the best thing to do at the moment, just don't push him too far otherwise the ...
I Think I Like my straight friend7/5/2008Kade Williams
  Q: ok So I have some problems. Me and my bestfriend have a great relationship. Theirs one problem, he ...
  A: I think that he may just being friendly and that he feels comfortable around you saying these ...
Lover of 14 years cheating7/3/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: This is very hard for me to even ask for advice on. I just need someone to open up to and find out ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about the sorry state of your relationship, and how this is hurting you so much. ...
Please help me7/1/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Well I dont know how or where to start, but im a gay 18 yr old male who has never been successful ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your depression and discouragement. The good news is, it doesn't have to be ...
Attaction6/30/2008Jim Swanson
  Q: I have asked you a question before, and fianlly after having accepted who I am. I started to ...
  A: First, your question about who is attracted to whom and how you should act is easy. Trust me, there ...
normality6/30/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: I am not sure if normality is a word but I thought it sounded deep. I have known I was gay for ...
  A: I'm glad to hear that you're mostly accepting of who you are, and even more so that your family is ...
partner's past lovers creating problems in current relationship6/29/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Having been in several relationships, some long (3 or more years), I have come upon an issue in my ...
  A: Since your questions all seek support for your position, rather than seeking advice as to how you ...
how to get with him?6/24/2008Gary
  Q: i have this friend that im really attracted to. i believe that hes straight but im sure every ...
  A: Aeron, You said he does not know you are gay so maybe he is also gay and you don't know it. Why ...
Is the guy I like gay?6/23/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: I am 20 years old and gay. I started work at my current job a year ago (a thirty-five mile drive). ...
  A: First of all, I agree with you completely that it would be a bad idea to tell this guy how you feel ...
A BOY6/21/2008Kade Williams
  Q: Im sixteen, and no offense but i live in a day of age were really close friends act i guess "gay" ...
  A: This sort of thing has happened to me as well as nearly every gay person. I suggest that you ask ...
Potentially Unsafe Sex6/19/2008Gary
  Q: I have an ethical dilemma. If I find out that a very good friend’s partner may be having ...
  A: John, I will assume here that your friend does not know his partner is even having sex outside of ...
Bearer of bad news6/19/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile, and i already know that I want to spend the rest ...
  A: I'm a little confused. Perhaps you can clarify for me. I'm guessing from your name that you're a ...
is he or isn't he?6/19/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: So I work at this Gym, it's a pretty famous franchise and very busy all the time. One of the people ...
  A: I apologize for the delay in responding, but I have just been pondering how to answer this. All the ...
Friend6/19/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: I would say that some of my friends know just because of the way i have acted and not because i have ...
  A: Hey Guy While I certainly feel bad for you in this situation, because we've all been there, there's ...
Some advice on how to handle my best friend...6/18/2008Kade Williams
  Q: Hey Kade, Thanks for taking the time to read this. My issue deals with me and my best friend. I ...
  A: It seems that he may very well be bi-sexual but also a very good chance that he just merely enjoys ...
Past interest is interested again6/15/2008Kade Williams
  Q: My question is a bit complicated. Back in 2005, I was hanging out with this guy, and we were both ...
  A: It seems that there are two ways of doing this, you could wait for him but you could be waiting for ...
Am I gay or bi?6/15/2008Tedd Adams
  Q: Hey. I am 19 years old, and i'm not sure what gender I am attracted to. I am very confused. ...
  A: So why do you feel the need to supress those feelings. They are instinctual and natural, so why not ...
Sexual fantasy6/13/2008Kade Williams
  Q: This is not regarding being gay. I am pretty much straight. But I have a little erotic experience. I ...
  A: It seems that you could just be wanting something else in your sex life, something different. It ...

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