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About Adriaan Pretorius
Expertise
Any questions on how to come out, handling people close to you, handling the pressures of being gay in society, going out, seeking a partner, etc. are welcome. I live in South Africa and may have a unique perspective on gay live, as gays do not live openly and have been scorned for a long time here. If you need to speak to someone, and no one wants to listen, I will try my best to be a friend when you have none.
Experience
I am a gay male who have lived the life as someone that had to hide it from everyone for a long time until coming out some years back. I know how it feels to be 'in' and 'out' and have had diverse experiences in relationships. I have had friends who hated gay life, gay bashers, friends who understood me as well has both spectrums in my family too: family that took me for who I am and family that 'disinherited' me.
Education/Credentials
I have a postgraduate degree in Science. I have worked together with homosexual and heterosexuals in my environment.
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Expert: Adriaan Pretorius
Date: 5/10/2008
Subject: gay
Question
I want to know how started this kind of sex
Answer
Hi there
My first language is also not English, but I am having a hard time understanding what you are asking.
If you meant, why are there gay people, that is a tough one. Some people just feel that they have romantic and emotional feelings towards someone, who happens to be the same gender. Some feel it's easier to love someone that is more like yourself, they have different reasons, some feel you might not get hurt that easily, others feel it's easier to please someone if you know a little more how they think (men think more alike to other men, than women, or so they say!).
If you meant, how does one have gay sex, then I suggest you look up a little porn and learn? It's not all that different from straight sex, the only difference is that there is no penetration in the standard way, penis into vagina (for obvious reasons!), but other than that, gay people pretty much do everything straight couples do!
I hope I helped a little here!
Adriaan
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