Aboutlucy Expertise I can answer any questions on relationships,age differences in relationships, sex, coming out ect. I can also give advice to parents who's son or daughter is gay as my son is gay so i have experience in that area.
Experience My son is gay and i have supported through many issues such as when he came out to family members and i have had to deal with him seeing an older man and i also have many gay friends.
Education/Credentials A levels - English, Art and History
Question hi ,
i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love with one of my friends. ever since i first met him i have had a crush on him and i was wondering if he was gay. he has a "girlfriend" but he wasnt the one that went on the look for her, she thought that HE was hot and that's y they hooked up. i have he always smiles whenever he is next to me and when ever he sees me he always speaks in english to me because i moved from new york to latin america and i know how to speak fluent spanish. and i always joke around him and so far i have kissed him on the cheek like 3-4 times and he doesnt seem to mind or react weird, whereas some other friends whom i have done it to all say , WOW U"RE GAY, and i play it off like if it was a joke. so what do u think?
Answer Hi Tobi
He could be gay or then again he might just see you as a good friend. But the kissing thing makes it seem likely as from what you've said he seems to like it.
I think the best thing to do is ask him. Make sure your alone and say to him are you gay? say it seriously and make sure he knows your there for him if he is, as it seems at the moment if he is gay he's having trouble coming out hence the fact he's got a girlfriend. If he says no and it seems like he is telling the truth then to save your embarrassment make out that it was a joke.
If he says he is gay then let him know how you feel and see what he says.
