AboutTedd Adams Expertise I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.
Experience I have been a volunteer facilitator for a state-sponsored gay youth support group, where we dealt with all of the issues mentioned above.
Publications Tulsa World, Muskogee Phoenix, Tulsa Family News, About Business Magazine, Contributor to the book "I Can't Believe You Asked That!", by Phillip J. Milano
Education/Credentials Associates degree, Biblical Studies, Kentucky Christian College
Bachelors of Science, John Brown University, Psychology
Masters in Organizational Management, University of Phoenix (Tulsa OK campus).
Question hi ,
i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love with one of my friends. ever since i first met him i have had a crush on him and i was wondering if he was gay. he has a "girlfriend" but he wasnt the one that went on the look for her, she thought that HE was hot and that's y they hooked up. i have he always smiles whenever he is next to me and when ever he sees me he always speaks in english to me because i moved from new york to latin america and i know how to speak fluent spanish. and i always joke around him and so far i have kissed him on the cheek like 3-4 times and he doesnt seem to mind or react weird, whereas some other friends whom i have done it to all say , WOW U"RE GAY, and i play it off like if it was a joke. so what do u think?
Answer Well tobi
That's not much to go on, but I'd say the fact that he doesn't mind (or even welcomes) the kisses on the cheek is a big sign that he may be interested in more. See how far he's willing to let things go! Keep escalating it and find his limit... if he has one.
