Expert: Tedd Adams - 10/8/2009

Question
i am a gay, i have been enjoying with gays now, in my childhood due to my cousin i have addicted with this, but now i feel very irritate with this life, i waana control my feelings, i wanna convert my taughts from male to female, i am trying but no use, if A gay called me to meet for sex i am allowing them, i waana get marriage  with a girl, but my feelings on a girl is not going to be romantic, please help me how to control my feelings, how to avoid this gay sex, how to convert my feelings from boy to girls, please advice me, i am an Indian, i cant go for doctor  because of some financial reasons...

thanq sir

sanjay

Answer
Hi Sanjay

I'm sorry to tell you I can give you the answer you are looking for because it is a non-existant option.
We can't change our natural feelings. They are as inherent to our personality as is the color of our eyes or which hand we write with.

If you don't like your feelings, there are only 2 options... Learn to accept them or supress them.
The first may be the most difficult at first but the second makes for a difficult lifetime.

But that choice is up to you.

I wish you the best.

Tedd