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About Tedd Adams
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I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.

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I have been a volunteer facilitator for a state-sponsored gay youth support group, where we dealt with all of the issues mentioned above.

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Tulsa World, Muskogee Phoenix, Tulsa Family News, About Business Magazine, Contributor to the book "I Can't Believe You Asked That!", by Phillip J. Milano

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Associates degree, Biblical Studies, Kentucky Christian College
Bachelors of Science, John Brown University, Psychology
Masters in Organizational Management, University of Phoenix (Tulsa OK campus).

 
   

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Gay Life - avoid gay feelings


Expert: Tedd Adams - 10/8/2009

Question
i am a gay, i have been enjoying with gays now, in my childhood due to my cousin i have addicted with this, but now i feel very irritate with this life, i waana control my feelings, i wanna convert my taughts from male to female, i am trying but no use, if A gay called me to meet for sex i am allowing them, i waana get marriage  with a girl, but my feelings on a girl is not going to be romantic, please help me how to control my feelings, how to avoid this gay sex, how to convert my feelings from boy to girls, please advice me, i am an Indian, i cant go for doctor  because of some financial reasons...

thanq sir

sanjay

Answer
Hi Sanjay

I'm sorry to tell you I can give you the answer you are looking for because it is a non-existant option.
We can't change our natural feelings. They are as inherent to our personality as is the color of our eyes or which hand we write with.

If you don't like your feelings, there are only 2 options... Learn to accept them or supress them.
The first may be the most difficult at first but the second makes for a difficult lifetime.

But that choice is up to you.

I wish you the best.

Tedd

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