AboutJim Swanson Expertise I have often helped gays in their challenge to understand what it means to come out and how best to start down that road. I have and also helped gays to reconcile the often difficult struggle of being gay and being a Christian. I now understand one of God's truths more clearly: Our pain is not wasted when we can reach around and comfort another coming along behind us on the same path.
Experience I too had to deal with these issues when I finally accepted who I was and started down my own path to come out. It is difficult to imagine now how much I have changed and how much I have learned as I traveled this most curious journey. For many years, I have hosted a website to address this issue and to help others.
Question This is a serious question, but do gay men actually like anal sex? I've been told that most don't even like it, but society kind of gives the image that that is the only way two men can make love.
Answer Hi James,
It would be my opinion that some men do like it and some of course do not. Anal sex not only can give an orgasm to the giver but it also brings pleasure to the receiver. Anal sex also gives a feeling of intimacy and closeness between to two at the same time. However, there are many other ways for gays to receive and give sexual pleasure and I can't imagine why anyone would choose to have anal sex if they didn't enjoy it.
