AboutAdriaan Pretorius Expertise Any questions on how to come out, handling people close to you, handling the pressures of being gay in society, going out, seeking a partner, etc. are welcome. I live in South Africa and may have a unique perspective on gay live, as gays do not live openly and have been scorned for a long time here. If you need to speak to someone, and no one wants to listen, I will try my best to be a friend when you have none.
Experience I am a gay male who have lived the life as someone that had to hide it from everyone for a long time until coming out some years back. I know how it feels to be 'in' and 'out' and have had diverse experiences in relationships. I have had friends who hated gay life, gay bashers, friends who understood me.
Education/Credentials I have a postgraduate degree in Science. I have worked together with and currently work with homosexual and heterosexuals in my environment.
Question So i am 15 and gay, i was just wondering what are some signs that a guy would
accept a kiss from me and reject me. I haven't ever kissed a guy but i really want
to. I have kissed girls but they didn't feel special.
Answer Hey Rod
Well, first off, you might want to make sure the guy is gay? Hehe! After that, setting the mood usually helps. There is not surefire way of knowing, I'm afraid. You don't go around just kissing guys, hehe, you must be somewhere special and there should be a reason for kissing, like after a date, or if you're saying goodbye after a movie or something like that. How about saying goodbye after school?
But as I said, it will only work if you know he is also gay, otherwise you might get more than a kiss, probably his fist in your face!
