AboutGary Expertise I can answer questions about coming out as well as dealing with family members who are (and are not) supportive. I can also answer questions about gay marriage.
Experience I have worked closely with Mass Equality to fight for the right for people of all genders and lifestyles to get married.
Education/Credentials BA- English-Sociology-Psychology
I year - New England School of Law
Question my friend is a gay. he is in love with a girl and intrested to lead a normal life with family. but he is not sexually interested with his lover. he is tempted wen he sees guys. he has spoken to his lover about his problem. can he have sex with his lady love, can they both lead a happy marriage life.
Answer Priya,
He may marry her but he will never be truly happy or complete with a woman if he is gay and attracted to men. This could lead to problems for them in the future.
It is also not fair to his lady love because she is not truly getting 100% of him. His sexual desires will never be completely for her.
Please talk to your friend and ask him what he really wants for his future and if possibly he could be just friends with this lady and love her in that capacity. I think he will be happier following his heart and being with a man if that is who he is sexually attracted to. Also, his lady friend should be allowed to find someone that can truly love her completely.
