Expert: Tedd Adams - 6/11/2009

Question
Hi it is ben again, thank you for the the reply on flirting. So I am going back to
my sleep away camp this summer. So i really want a summer fling with some
guy. There are two things i am confused about. 1. is how can i have potential
guys know im gay without having to tell absolutely everyone individually. and 2.
with kissing. What would be the easiest way to get to a kiss? Thank you.

Answer
Hey Ben

At a place with such a limited population like a summer camp, it may be difficult to find potential love interests. But it's also possibly a good place to find out more about a person than  you would under other circumstances, which helps you find out if they are gay or not. It may be a stereotype, but it may also have some validity... if another guy has no interest in sports, he may be gay. Also, if there's someone in particular that you like, watch his eyes. We all stare at others who we find attractive. If you can catch some guy staring at another guy, good chance he's gay.

Now as far as how you go about getting a kiss... well, finding the right guy comes first. If you meet someone who's interested in you in return, the kiss won't be an issue.

Good luck!

Tedd