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Hello Tedd,

I am 29 year old male from India. I got a full body massage from a man today in a massage parlor.

I was nude during the massage. I got vigorous handjob from masseur during body massage and at the end I ejaculated on his face. I am not circumcised. During ejaculation, he touched end of my penis with his tongue for 2 seconds.

He also massaged my anus crack and butt hole for a minute but without penetration of fingers.

Nothing more happened. He was completely clothed during the entire process. He accepted that he is promiscuous.

As I was afraid I checked hir hands and tongue, there were no visible cuts or wounds.

I want to ask you:
1. What are the chances from above that I will get AIDS/ HIV or any other STD?
2. What if  masseur is HIV positive since he accepted that he does it in return of money ?
3. Can you elaborate on this and some more advice or opinion?

Thanks,
Rahul.

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Hi, Rahul

From what you've described, nothing sounds like it had the potential to transmit HIV. Even if he is HIV positive, the activities you describe are highly unlikely, or even impossible, to transmit HIV.

You can have peace of mind,

Tedd

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I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.

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I have been a volunteer facilitator for a state-sponsored gay youth support group, where we dealt with all of the issues mentioned above. I have also been active in the local chapter of PFLAG.

Organizations
Human Rights Campaign Oklahomans for Equality Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)

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Tulsa World, Muskogee Phoenix, Tulsa Family News, About Business Magazine, Contributor to the book "I Can't Believe You Asked That!", by Phillip J. Milano

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Associates degree, Biblical Studies, Kentucky Christian College
Bachelors of Science, John Brown University, Psychology
Masters in Organizational Management, University of Phoenix (Tulsa OK campus).

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