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Hey I have been with my partner for almost 4 years and I just feel that things are just not hitting the same as they used to be - I think that maybe adding another person to the mix could help - do you have any suggestions?

Is this a good idea or am I just dreaming about nothing??

Thanks

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Hi Tom,

I'm not a big advocate of bringing a third party into a relationship unless it is a very casual and non-committed one. My feeling is if you love the one your with that should feed your heart and soul enough.

If your relationship is not as serious and more casual then I would say go for it as long as you are both equally in agreement it is something you both want to do.

Talk to your partner and ask him his honest feelings on the idea and see where it goes from there.

I wish you much happiness,
Gary  

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Gary

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I can answer questions about coming out as well as dealing with the death of a partner or spouse. I am very compassionate and caring and will often rely on my own life experiences of coming out and loss of a loved one to help others. Losing someone you love is never easy and being in a gay relationship can often add to that feeling of isolation and loneliness.

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I have worked closely with Mass Equality to fight for the right for people of all genders and lifestyles to get married. I have also participated in many LGBT Grief Support Groups.

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Gay Men's Bereavement Group

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BA- English-Sociology-Psychology I year - New England School of Law

Awards and Honors
National Honor Award for Bereavement and Grief

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