Question Since I've been living in Oklahoma all of my adult life so far I've never been to any gay clubs whatsoever and, as far as I know, I'm only aware of big cities on either coast of the U.S. that would obviously have gay clubs such as San Francisco and New York City just to name a couple of cities and, to the best of my knowledge, I don't think Oklahoma City has any gay clubs at all, and I'm 100 percent sure that the place I live in Oklahoma, the city of Norman, has absolutely no resources at all for LGBT people. Anyways, I was wondering whether or not if its true if gay guys are allowed to have sex with each other in gay clubs in big cities where there's large LGBT communities?
Answer Hi David
You may be right about Norman. I've never been there, so I have no first hand knowledge. But I'm hard pressed to see how you could MISS the gay bars in OKC. There are so many and they are very well known! The Boom is a great drag/show bar. The Copa, although arguably much less gay than it used to be, is a big dance club. There are also numerous other smaller neighborhood and niche bars, mostly centered around NW 39th Street. As to your second question, I don't know of any place where it's LEGAL to have sex in a public place. I doubt it. That said, I'm sure there are some establishments that are purposely lax in enforcement of such laws.
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