AboutAdriaan Pretorius Expertise Any questions on how to come out, handling people close to you, handling the pressures of being gay in society, going out, seeking a partner, etc. are welcome. I live in South Africa and may have a unique perspective on gay live, as gays do not live openly and have been scorned for a long time here. If you need to speak to someone, and no one wants to listen, I will try my best to be a friend when you have none.
Experience I am a gay male who have lived the life as someone that had to hide it from everyone for a long time until coming out some years back. I know how it feels to be 'in' and 'out' and have had diverse experiences in relationships. I have had friends who hated gay life, gay bashers, friends who understood me.
Education/Credentials I have a postgraduate degree in Science. I have worked together with and currently work with homosexual and heterosexuals in my environment.
Question Hi there.
Do you know id Johannesburg has any gloryholes. Ive seen them on the internet, but dont know of they exist here. Im probably being silly, and probably wont go, but im considering it. Let me know. Thanks
Answer Hi Jason
You will find gloryholes in public restrooms in malls and petrol stations, but you must consider the consequences. It is the easiest way to pick up diseased (imagine how many toungues, butts and dicks have gone through that hole before yours!). Also, it is illegal and you can be fined for being caught.
Why don't you consider safer avenues for sex, like online chatrooms, mobile phone chatrooms or websites? You can first see who you are dealing with and can do things in a cleaner environment.
Visit http://www.squirt.org if you want to see where you can find gloryholes across the globe, if you still want to go.
