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Hi. I was wondering if it was against the law to receive an erotic massage by trained and licensed men.  I live in the Houston, TX area and would like to receive one.  There are a lot of websites out there that offer these services so I figured that it is legal.  What is your advice?  If it is legal, is it okay to find a masseur at one of the on-line sites?  If so, what are some of the best ones?  If not, how could I go about locating a good erotic masseur?  Thanks.  - Chris

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Hi Chris

Like all such operations, these run the gammet from fully legitimate to virtual prostitution rings. Many operate somewhere in the middle, and you can't say as a rule that any of them are illegal as a whole. It's only the activities conducted that are illegal. Anything involving genital contact is illegal, license or not.

As for how to distinguish which ones are legit or not, I couldn't begin to tell you. I've never used these and don't know much about them. I do know, though, that any urban gay newsmagazine is chock full of massage ads, usually near the back. That would likely be a good place to start.

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I can answer questions related to gay life in general, but also specifically questions about gay youth, coming out, dealing with family issues, religion and homosexuality, and workplace issues. I have also visited many of the popular gay travel destinations and can give you advice on what is worth seeing and what is not.

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I have been a volunteer facilitator for a state-sponsored gay youth support group, where we dealt with all of the issues mentioned above. I have also been active in the local chapter of PFLAG.

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Human Rights Campaign Oklahomans for Equality Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)

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Tulsa World, Muskogee Phoenix, Tulsa Family News, About Business Magazine, Contributor to the book "I Can't Believe You Asked That!", by Phillip J. Milano

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Associates degree, Biblical Studies, Kentucky Christian College
Bachelors of Science, John Brown University, Psychology
Masters in Organizational Management, University of Phoenix (Tulsa OK campus).

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