| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Am I still gay? | 11/5/2009 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old guy who was closeted gay throughout my teenage years, but found myself very guilty ...
A: No one can really help YOU but YOU. I understand the confusion because I went/go through the same ...
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| sexual orientation | 10/31/2009 |
Q: its all started when i was too young 9 may be i knew nothing about sex but i remember that i had ...
A: I no expert in this field but based upon what you are telling me it seems that you are transgender. ...
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| Unsure relationship | 10/28/2009 |
Q: I'm Nathan from the netherlands and i happen to like an christian iraqi refugee so much. I can feel ...
A: Hey, What you are going through is normal. You are dealing with someone that hasnt come to terms ...
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| Unsure relationship | 10/28/2009 |
Q: I'm Nathan from the netherlands and i happen to like an christian iraqi refugee so much. I can feel ...
A: I did read your entire email and I think that you just have to let HIM discover him self. At this ...
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| How do I ask if they are STD/HIV free before doing it? | 10/26/2009 |
Q: The other day I had an one night stand with someone I met in the club, well I got his number and he ...
A: Well whether he has it or not doesn't really matter now because you slept with him. You should never ...
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| Coping with rejection | 10/17/2009 |
Q: I am a third year in college, and there's a guy here who is in my year who I've had very strong ...
A: Hmm soundsd like a bad mix. If this is who he is there probably isn't going to change. YOu are going ...
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| Coping with rejection | 10/17/2009 |
Q: I am a third year in college, and there's a guy here who is in my year who I've had very strong ...
A: What do you mean by soften up his heart? I thought he was treating you like a friend? Right? Maybe ...
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| Coping with rejection | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I am a third year in college, and there's a guy here who is in my year who I've had very strong ...
A: I am sorry that you had to go through that. It is very hard to predict whether someone is gay or ...
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| Long-term relationship HELP! | 4/29/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. We have a great life together and I do see myself ...
A: Well, you are going to have to decide what you want. You mentioned that the sex was really never ...
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| am getting tired of gay life | 4/29/2009 |
Q: well, due to fact that am gay, in my locaslity where i am now,its so difficult to find a gay ...
A: I don't know how it is in Nigeria but sometimes it can be difficult to find Gay people that you can ...
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| Confused by co-worker | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I am 42 and have always been attracted to guys. I have never acted on it. About a year and a half ...
A: It sounds like your friend is emotionally confused and immature. He is definitely dropping hints at ...
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| Advice | 4/2/2009 |
Q: i have been married to my wife for 1 year and 3 months already. i am a bit worried as it seems as ...
A: Well, this was a very short explanation so I am as lost as you are. I find the best method is ...
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| Gay Songs | 3/25/2009 |
Q: Are there songs that determine if you're gay or not? If so, could you tell me which ones? Would ...
A: No there are not any songs that determine if a person is gay or not. Actually there are not SUCH ...
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| do lesbians dislike men | 8/11/2007 |
Q: Unfortunately, I'm completely in love with my friend. Who is a lesbian. She knows my feelings, ...
A: No, not all lesbians hate men. It could just be her associate that he she has had with men. Plus ...
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| could it really work | 8/8/2007 |
Q: my husband of 14 years has come out and told me he is gay,he has never acted on this yet. i kinda ...
A: Oh, It doesn't work like that. He can't expect to have his cake and eat it to. That is very selfish. ...
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| threesome | 8/7/2007 |
Q: I am married but am bi-sexual nad my wife does not know. We talk very open about our past and it ...
A: When you mentioned that the both of you talk about your past life, does she know anything about you ...
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| could it really work | 8/7/2007 |
Q: my husband of 14 years has come out and told me he is gay,he has never acted on this yet. i kinda ...
A: Sorry to hear about this. You are correct in everything that you are saying. Its not fair to the ...
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| gay relationships in trouble | 8/6/2007 |
Q: my name is Daniel im 28 y/o and my other half is 51, i have a thing for older me i guess but im not ...
A: What a huge age gap...hence the problems. Well it appears you are messing with an older persnon that ...
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| my daughter | 8/6/2007 |
Q: My daughter is now 23 she is beutiful and has had boyfriends. When she was 13 she met a boy at ...
A: I'm sorry, I was just going by what you wrote. From the tone of your letter it appears that no ...
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| my daughter | 8/4/2007 |
Q: My daughter is now 23 she is beutiful and has had boyfriends. When she was 13 she met a boy at ...
A: Well maybe the reasons she didn't tell the truth because she knew you wouldn't accept it. Like most ...
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| Should I continue | 8/1/2007 |
Q: My best friend knows I am gay and wants to help me because I am not out. So he allows me to touch ...
A: I am sorry to say but this is something that I don't think you should continue because in the long ...
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| Got any advice? | 7/31/2007 |
Q: So it's been a 1 1/2 since I liked this guy, he's 17 still, I just turned legal a few days ago, and ...
A: Hey, Its ok. Well, whenever you are discussing something personal that a person is obvious not open ...
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| Got any advice? | 7/30/2007 |
Q: So it's been a 1 1/2 since I liked this guy, he's 17 still, I just turned legal a few days ago, and ...
A: I am sorry but I would like to help you but you wrote toooooooooo much for me to understand. Plus ...
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| Heterosexual and Transexxual Attraction | 7/26/2007 |
Q: Kay, I am a 54 yr. old heterosexual male, married for 22 years. Over the past few years, my sexual ...
A: Well I don't know about this type of attraction but its very common for men to be attracted to ...
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| Gay, Bi or ? | 7/22/2007 |
Q: I am 63 years old but look 49 and have the body of a 20 year old (work on weights 2 hrs a day, for 5 ...
A: SO what do you mean you are victim of incest from your mother? what exactly happened? Hey, I would ...
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| My Gay Daughter | 7/21/2007 |
Q: OH GOD,I just found out a couple of days ago my 18 year old is gay why,why,why, she is ...
A: Yes I understand Yes its easy when its a neighbor or a friend but when your own child, no one is ...
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| My Gay Daughter | 7/21/2007 |
Q: OH GOD,I just found out a couple of days ago my 18 year old is gay why,why,why, she is ...
A: Just know that being gay doesn't fit a certain type of people. They can be smart, pretty, and ...
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| Is my friend bi or curious? | 7/17/2007 |
Q: Kay. . .I am a 25 year-old bi curious male. Although I have had a few experiences with guys in the ...
A: Hey, so why can't you see your self with a guy? Is it because you don't want others to know or you ...
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| Recent Sexuality Confusion | 7/17/2007 |
Q: My name is Jonathan, I am almost 20, and I have a question regarding some recent confusion that I ...
A: YEs what you are going through is very normal. I am 28 and when my cousin told me she was getting ...
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| I Like My Best Friend. | 7/16/2007 |
Q: My Best friend is a really good person i appreciate and value his friendship alot. He is Straight ...
A: ok so what is the 8%&%? That could be your ass, your penis.... Opps, its usually not good news when ...
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| Confused relationship | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 7 years. It was a true love story we met through a mutual friend. ...
A: THey say when one drinks they speak the truth. I am just trying to figure out is it really the ...
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| Confused about a boy. | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I am 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I reecently met this guy (another 17 year ...
A: I really don't know what you are trying to ask me. So you went to a party with a guy and ended up ...
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| gay and having thoughts | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 years old and I'm gay and I'm having thoughts of telling people that in gay, i think my ...
A: You are very correct in everything that you mentioned. The best thing to do is take a deep breath ...
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| Spin the bottle? | 7/7/2007 |
Q: I've been reading all the questions on here and they all seem to fit mine, but I guess I feel the ...
A: Yes, I am glad you realize that liking a co-worker can be bad news...lol. Yes you'd be surprise who ...
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| Help with the ex.. | 7/6/2007 |
Q: This is hard to explain, but I'll try. I broke up with my ex gf awhile back, but have not completely ...
A: Ouch idenity theft is SO WRONG. I had that happened to me with my mother and my own sister and its ...
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| Head over heels | 7/3/2007 |
Q: i am 19 years old. There is this guy, Maxx. He is 18. I met him online a little over a month ago and ...
A: Well I think you done enough. You told him how you felt and thats all you can do. So just play his ...
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| help me fix my head please! | 7/1/2007 |
Q: Before I start ranting I just want to say that the question I am asking is what should I do, not am ...
A: Well just because you watch porn doesn't make you gay. Well it appears that your mind is playing ...
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| what to do??? | 6/29/2007 |
Q: its Michael again with a different story. i am confused because as i said before i have told allot ...
A: Gee, I didn't know you were so young. Listen, all of this should not be important because you are ...
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| should i change | 6/29/2007 |
Q: !! what should i do?
A: So you told some people at school that you might be gay or is gay but no regret it? So you have been ...
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| sex with my straight friend | 6/27/2007 |
Q: I am bi and my best friend is straight(or so he says I'm not sure at this point). I have had sex ...
A: Well, if it was me I would have to go by how he is acting because if he liked it he would have came ...
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| sex with my straight friend | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I am bi and my best friend is straight(or so he says I'm not sure at this point). I have had sex ...
A: Well no matter what you do if your friend isn't comfy he will continue to tell you what he wants ...
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| Coming out. | 6/24/2007 |
Q: My name is Jake and I am fourteen years old, for the past two years i have been aware of my ...
A: unfortunatly you are too young for me to go into great details but just know that there is no rush ...
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| I'm so confused, please help | 6/19/2007 |
Q: I'm 22 years old and I am a mess. In the beginning of the semester I met a guy; as soon as I saw ...
A: Hey, Try not to use your full name because you didn't click the "private" question. So i am sure ...
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| is he gay? | 6/18/2007 |
Q: Hey what up Kay!.Recently i have had my eye on this guy in school and i really like him, but it also ...
A: Congrats on losing some weight. I think you are quite hard on your self. Now for this situation, it ...
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| What's going on? | 6/17/2007 |
Q: My question is very similar to a question you answered a while back, but still a little different I ...
A: Yes the mind can play crazy games on with you if you allow it to. Later you start to convince your ...
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| Crush on "straight" friend | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I'm a 24 year old guy who has only just recently come out and I have a huge crush on my best friend. ...
A: Well it probally is your clouded mind making you think that he likes you too but I do know what you ...
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| In love with best friend who is also bi | 6/7/2007 |
Q: My name is EJ, and I would like some advice on how to deal with a crush. Ok....here I go, just 4 ...
A: Well its hard to give advice to someone that doesn't want to hear the truth. For starters you have ...
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| is my friend gay | 6/4/2007 |
Q: i hope you can give me a definate answer as im lost for toughts.me and my friend both male and 25 ...
A: Just know that I can't give you a definate answer because this is only your account of your friend ...
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| rough situation, what should i do? | 6/1/2007 |
Q: Hey Betty, so I am in a really confused state and I need advice and you're pretty much the only one ...
A: Betty? Sorry but my name is not betty. Well, you have to follow your heart and NOT hurt your friend. ...
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| Crush on my friend who might be bi | 6/1/2007 |
Q: My name's Matt and I'm 21 yrs. old and I have a HUGE crush on my best friend who's turning 20. We ...
A: Well, your situation wasn't that hard to figure out plus you did a great job at explaining it which ...
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| Crush on my friend who might be bi | 5/31/2007 |
Q: My name's Matt and I'm 21 yrs. old and I have a HUGE crush on my best friend who's turning 20. We ...
A: Oh gee, I only read the first paragraph and he is def. gay or bi or wants some form of attention. ...
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| I Think I'm Gay, But Not Sure | 5/29/2007 |
Q: I'm currently dealing with a huge burden inside my own eighteen-year-old head and not a single ...
A: I think you are reading too much into all of this and yes I think the fact that you haven't had a ...
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| Dating advice | 5/24/2007 |
Q: I'm a 26 year old lesbian female, and I am being approached by a 19 year old, well she's just ...
A: Ouch, she sounds quite young for you..it happens though. We always tell our selves "not me". Until ...
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| Massage | 5/23/2007 |
Q: I am not Gay, but would like to get a sensual massage by a masseuer. I am actually a happily ...
A: what do you mean by a full body massage? I'm sure there are men that peform these duties. I don't ...
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| Lesbian therapist | 5/18/2007 |
Q: I hope this is a question I can ask you, I am not a lesbian I have been married for 17 1/2 yrs. For ...
A: Yes, often times our therapist can be our best friends because they are everything we can ever ...
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| Coming out to parents => no prob with homosexuality, but with coming out to others! | 5/10/2007 |
Q: I recently came out to my parents. Happily, to my big surprise, they did not have any problems with ...
A: This is very common. Parents don't have an issue until it affects them and most of us worry about ...
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| My friend thinks the guy she loves is a gay and believes that he loved her as well. | 5/10/2007 |
Q: My friend thinks the guy she loves is a gay and believes that he loved her as well. She has no idea ...
A: Gee This situation is all mixed up..and I can't understand your last question. I don't understand ...
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| Making Friends | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if you could help me on some topics. First of all, I have some friends, but they ...
A: Well maybe its your personality. You can't force your self to talk. But if you want to really work ...
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| i was wondering.... | 5/5/2007 |
Q: also i was in a relationship w/ this girl who I'm hung up on and we were perfect together but her ...
A: Well when you are doing the project its just best not to personalize anything so that others don't ...
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| Gay dude flirting with my husband... | 5/2/2007 |
Q: firstly, this sucks so bad that i am even in this predicament. i am a newlywed and i have had my ...
A: sorry about your worries... Well, keep in mind that all straight people get offended when gay people ...
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| Gay boyfriend? | 4/30/2007 |
Q: I am in love with the most wonderful man, we have had a relationship for over 2 years.Everything is ...
A: So sorry to hear the news. I really can't offer any sound advice on this because I don't kmow his ...
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| My 20 year old son is gay and refuses to accept it | 4/29/2007 |
Q: My 20 year old son is gay and though he realizes it he refuses to accept it and now is running ...
A: I think it's important that you clear the stereotypes with you son. Just because he plays sports ...
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| My 20 year old son is gay and refuses to accept it | 4/29/2007 |
Q: My 20 year old son is gay and though he realizes it he refuses to accept it and now is running ...
A: This is a normal reaction especially when one doesn't want to accept the reality. Alot of us have ...
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| Staight woman turned on by gay men | 4/29/2007 |
Q: I'm not sure where to start so I'll just go for it...I am a 24 year-old woman in a straight ...
A: Hmmm this is a interesting topic. I want you to try to seperate your attracting for gay porn and ...
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| Advice Please | 4/27/2007 |
Q: My name is Kev and I am 35 years old. I have been in a relationship with my partner Neil for nearly ...
A: Hey Kev, Well her actions are common and she wants you to feed into them. DO NOT FEED INTO ...
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| Advice Please | 4/26/2007 |
Q: My name is Kev and I am 35 years old. I have been in a relationship with my partner Neil for nearly ...
A: Woah, 12 years and he doesn't live with you but his mother? I can't wait to read the rest of ...
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| What is my sexuality? | 4/23/2007 |
Q: my name is Bug(seriously), and I'm 18 years old. I'm never quite certain what my sexuality is. ...
A: "Bug", seriously? Well isn't that different.. Just know that by watch certain porn can't tell you ...
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| supposedly straight friend confuses me | 4/21/2007 |
Q: I am 42, and made friends with a man half my age. He knows that I am gay, and he knows that I like ...
A: WOW, This guy is doing more than signals....Gee. See this is the problem with messing with young ...
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| Coming out to my Best friend | 4/19/2007 |
Q: I recently told my Best friend that I was a lesbian,and very attracted to her.She emailed me back ...
A: You must learn to never tell anyone something like that with out knowing where they stand because as ...
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| Accepting that your gay later in life | 4/16/2007 |
Q: Going through life knowing your gay from a young age and not accepting who you are can be mind ...
A: Yeah i hear you. I think I was one of those kids that knew they were gay but not accepting it. I ...
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| need to know if my reason for being gay is normal. | 4/15/2007 |
Q: I want to be gay out of anger. Anger that I cant get descent women to notice me. Is this normal? I ...
A: Hey, Just knowthe person you sent it to answered it..lol. When you come on here you pick a person ...
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| When your girlfriend tells her parents about your relationship.. | 4/14/2007 |
Q: Okay so my names Aleshia and I'm 15 years old almost 16. I have a girlfriend whos 14 almost 15 ...
A: Just know you are entirely too young for me to give advice to. All I can say is that what you did ...
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| need to know if my reason for being gay is normal. | 4/14/2007 |
Q: I want to be gay out of anger. Anger that I cant get descent women to notice me. Is this normal? I ...
A: Mondo, So, you want to be out of anger because no decent women is recognizing you? That's a little ...
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| About my friends | 4/14/2007 |
Q: I have a friend who I've known since last July, but we really started hanging out a lot since the ...
A: Kalel, Just know that it really doesn't matter what type of activities a person is involved in they ...
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| coming out... staying in | 4/13/2007 |
Q: Kay, First off, I'm not sure this is the place, but I have a project for a sexuality in history ...
A: I would be glad to help you any way that I can. Lets just say alot of people always write me about ...
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| Should I give him another chance?? | 4/11/2007 |
Q: I've been in a 20 relationship with a guy 12 years younger than me. He's been in and out of jail 4 ...
A: Are you saying 20 yr relationship? because your first sentence skipped a word.. Wow, just from ...
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| Is this just a phase? | 3/31/2007 |
Q: Hey, Im 21 and I have always thought of myself as 100% straight. Recently i have become very lonely ...
A: What you are experiencing is very normal and quite the same i get from alot of people. I either ...
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| is my son confused | 3/29/2007 |
Q: ..this surprised me he has been with a girl a couple of times he said he only went to second base ...
A: You are welcome. Well to answer your question, some people just don't want random people to know. ...
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| I need advice | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I'm 35 years old, have been married 3 times and have 3 kids. I'm with an awesome man now and have ...
A: Well just because you are not ejoying sex doesn't mean that you are gay. there are TONS of women ...
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| coming out to the parents | 3/23/2007 |
Q: well Kay I'm 15 and i came out of the closet about a month ago to everyone but my parents. i don't ...
A: well you have to know that telling your parents would not be the best decision. I would tell you ...
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| Stuck | 3/23/2007 |
Q: I've lived in Central Florida for five years. Previously, I lived in Atlanta and in a very open ...
A: Hmmm, Gee thats difficult because I am a pretty much behind the scene type of person and most likely ...
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| I'm gay but there is this girl. | 3/22/2007 |
Q: I've been out of the closet since I was 17. By this time I was pretty comfortable wtih being gay. I ...
A: Hey Does she know about your gay tendacies? If so you breaking up with her should be no surprise ...
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| Sexual Orientation | 3/21/2007 |
Q: I am at the end of my rope. Please help me. I am horribly confused on whether I am gay or bisexual ...
A: Well the first thing is that you admit that you are gay because everything you mention points in ...
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| coming out | 3/11/2007 |
Q: Do you think it would make it any easier to tell the family members I trust the most, that I am ...
A: Hey you, Well you are in a better position than most people because they rely on their parents ...
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| coming out | 3/11/2007 |
Q: I'm a 26yr old male, have dated 3 women, and 2 guys...I know I like guys more, but somehow seem to ...
A: That seems to be a delima with alot of folks like your self including your self so don't feel alone. ...
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| My Boyfriend | 3/7/2007 |
Q: Ok I have been with my boyfriend for allmost 4 years now & through out that whole time we have had ...
A: Well yes its common with straight men to enjoy anal sex especially with a woman that they love and ...
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| i'm so mixed up and its not me | 2/26/2007 |
Q: short story side.left husband for guy,guy then lied to me about his feelings for other men.but yet ...
A: His sexual preferences has nothing to do with you. Apparently his confusion was well before you came ...
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| Old Friend. | 2/19/2007 |
Q: Okay. I went to the movies with andrew and some of my "new"friends and some of our old friends most ...
A: Hey the problem is that you are young and there is no getting aroud it. I understand that you don't ...
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| Old Friend. | 2/15/2007 |
Q: im 16 and I have this old friend his name is Andrew we lost contact about 2 years ago when i moved i ...
A: Hey Davin, Well, if you don't want to put him on the spot just don't say anything to him around ...
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| how do i deal with my boyfriend not being into me anymore? | 2/10/2007 |
Q: OK! Lately my boyfriend and i havent had much sex at all. I for some reason throw myself at him when ...
A: So what is "my turn". Are you saying he gets it off but doesn't allow you to do the same? If not ...
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| god, I'm really messed up..... | 2/9/2007 |
Q: hmm,... I'll say first off that you've been immediately extremely helpful. It's good to know I'm not ...
A: Hey, Just know no one is ever really alone...people just conceal or don't like to talk about it at ...
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| god, I'm really messed up..... | 2/9/2007 |
Q: I'm a 24 year old male that is having real problems right now. I'll try to keep it breif. I've been ...
A: From your first sentences, it appears you were all over the place with your love. Its common to try ...
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| Missing somebody | 1/31/2007 |
Q: First of all I want to tell you that I'm in a very very weird and difficult situation. Ok, there's ...
A: First off sorry for taking so long to respond I have been very busy this week. I dont find anything ...
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| Confused in my relationship | 1/20/2007 |
Q: I think i got more then one question. So probably lets start with a quick run down on where i am at. ...
A: Hey my name is Kay, you have kym above...lol. To answer your question about the 8 months ...
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| how do i know if im gay | 1/18/2007 |
Q: plz tell me
A: For most, they know at an early age. Its somehting that most can't really explain (like love) bu you ...
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| I don't know if i'm gay | 12/22/2006 |
Q: I've never fully known whether I am straight or gay. If i'm gay I don't know it yet. My whole life ...
A: what are the parts that make you think you are gay but you say that you dont get turned on by men. I ...
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| Transexuals and Gay step-son | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I'm a married male 38yrs old who likes or is attracted to crossdressers and transexuals. I've had ...
A: Before we began just know that I have no expertise in this area (transexuals)but don't mind offering ...
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| husband gay? | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 9 years and we have 2 children. He is very much into porno ...
A: Your note is very short so its going to be hard giving an detailed answer. Anal sex on him? As you ...
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| Need Advice | 12/11/2006 |
Q: how can i try to be her friend if i shouldn't say anything to her. I mean, its really difficult to ...
A: Well if someone is acting strange now without you speaking to her what makes you think it will get ...
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| sould ishouldnt i? | 12/11/2006 |
Q: well thank you so much for answering my question and it for sure makes sense as well , as i decided ...
A: Well, Yes Infatuation can last years if you aren't getting any from that person. Infatuation only ...
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| am I wrong? | 12/10/2006 |
Q: I've been dating someone for about three months. We met on the net. We really enjoy each others ...
A: Hey steven, No you have every right to feel some type of way about a guys coming to stay in his ...
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| sould ishouldnt i? | 12/9/2006 |
Q: im secretely in love with a guy who works at my office , initially , we both used to work in ...
A: In love? Do you know him? Maybe infatuation. Either way, you work with this guy and you do not want ...
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| Straight, gay or stupid | 11/20/2006 |
Q: I am 28 years old and have during the last few months started to doubt my sexuality. I have never ...
A: I am sorry it took you two years to get over your relay...that can be hard. Well for starters, stop ...
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| Sexuality confusion | 11/20/2006 |
Q: i am 40 years old and straight.i have never married but i have had many girlfriends in my life and ...
A: Well there is nothing weird about what you are telling me...You probally get turned on when you see ...
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| Can we be friends? | 11/17/2006 |
Q: sorry for the continuing follow-ups :) He has offered friendship, he said we could try friendship ...
A: Hey Andrew, Well it appears that you will have to try to let this one go. I am bit confused on the ...
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| Can we be friends? | 11/16/2006 |
Q: you at least mentioned one thing I didn't think of and that is that I am expecting things of him, ...
A: Oh..im sorry. See you never mentioned how or why you two broke up so i just assumed. HOw come you ...
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| Can we be friends? | 11/15/2006 |
Q: I am a gay male that has broken off a 4 year relationship. I am 34. I have been dealing with my ...
A: Sorry to hear about your relationship. That must have been very hard. I could not imagine going ...
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| GAY OR NOT | 11/9/2006 |
Q: Well, I found out something today. I am pregnet by that gay guy. It hurts that I have let myself to ...
A: how are you? well i really don't know what to say and I only know what you are telling me. Since you ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 11/1/2006 |
Q: This morning he said to me that it is probably a mistake thet i moved in and that things are not ...
A: see toni, i already told you what to do but you are not listening to me. I knew this would happen. ...
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| really confused | 10/31/2006 |
Q: yeah i still love my ex girlfriend but we're just friends..i do like someone new and she also has a ...
A: Ok, i see your first problem..STOP GOING AFTER PEOPLE WITH BOYFREINDS. It will never work...most of ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/30/2006 |
Q: hey kay, I sent him this message: " You are not ready for me to move in. my dog and i thank you for ...
A: Aww, you have a dog? I am so afraid of dogs but SOOO scared of them. Now how stupid is that? Anyway, ...
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| Friends and lovers | 10/29/2006 |
Q: I am a guy in his mid thirties who is in shape, friendly and outgoing but I have a hard time finding ...
A: Sorry for your troubles. It sucks but most gay guys think you are coming on to them when you are ...
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| really confused | 10/29/2006 |
Q: I'm a 16 year old bisexual female. Basically my story is that last year i dated my first girlfriend ...
A: To answer your question. No its not wrong of you to still want her if you love her. YOu can't just ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/27/2006 |
Q: But it was his idea i mean i was just about to sign the contract for my own flat and he offered me ...
A: Hey Bs means Bull Shit. Seeing that he wasn't attractive may make him feel better but it doesn't ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/26/2006 |
Q: what do you think of it? i mean I am scared that he is gonna kick me out, because he says that he is ...
A: Do your self a favor and dont move in with him. You guys are still going through it and i would hate ...
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| is he into me, what's the deal here? | 10/26/2006 |
Q: Yes, I forget to say, yes I am gay. As far as him wanting a reaction, well when he asked me to lick ...
A: Oh ok, now it makes more sense. From you mention it would appaer that his head isn't wrapped too ...
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| is he into me, what's the deal here? | 10/25/2006 |
Q: I met this guy in a local bar. He is 30 I am 34. He came over to me, starts talking, tells me I am ...
A: He's is after you but sleeps with women? I think he is defanitely confused...but not that confused ...
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| is my husband only fooling himself? and me | 10/25/2006 |
Q: my husband was gay before we met and while we were friends until we became more than friends. we do ...
A: You didnt offer much backgroud. But I think once a person is gay, they normally dont go back. Yes, ...
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| difficulty | 10/24/2006 |
Q: So, what would ever be an appropriate time to bring something like that up? She can say some ...
A: everyone has different ways of doing things. You guys will just have to get into a general ...
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| Please rescind because my post will not be helpful. | 10/23/2006 |
Q: Please rescind my previous question if it is posted. I didn't find it helpful. I don't think I ...
A: well you only sent the email to me so I am the only one tha reads it...depending on if you checked ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/23/2006 |
Q: well, think he is scared that we can't have sex anymore and that it won't work. I think i will ...
A: Toni You are very welcome. Just try to allow him to do his own thing. I noticed that when someone ...
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| difficulty | 10/23/2006 |
Q: How can you tell if a girl is gay or at least into being that way with a girl at all? I kind of like ...
A: Everyone has their different way of telling if someone gay or not. I cant tell you because everyone ...
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| coming out | 10/22/2006 |
Q: I having a great bit of trouble finding counseling. I am a married, thirty-four year old woman, with ...
A: Coming out is nothing that you have to do yet something voluntary and SHOULD NOT be done unless one ...
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| Gay-dar | 10/22/2006 |
Q: Hey, Ok.. so i'm 15 years old and i do question my sexuality. I am pretty sure i am gay but i know ...
A: because of your age there is not much that I can say to you. Its hard being 15 and thinking you are ...
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| is he? | 10/21/2006 |
Q: my friend says he has slept with 30-35 women, i know some of the women his slept with, he has a low ...
A: So you have this friends that basically appears gay and you want to know that you can make a move? ...
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| gay sister in law | 10/20/2006 |
Q: Is it possible for my sister in law to be hanging around a gay female and not be gay her self. I ...
A: Yes, it is possible to hang out with someone that is gay and NOT be gay. Are you serious? That would ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/20/2006 |
Q: you know i called him and told him that all he wants is to fuck around. he is scared to face our ...
A: It may have been the right thing or wrong thing..who knows just don't do it again. Don't fall into ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/20/2006 |
Q: well yesterday he found out who the guy was i slept with and of course he was very upset, because ...
A: At this point, there is nothing you can do as you already apologized. I really think now is the time ...
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| My husband.....my wife | 10/19/2006 |
Q: The reason that I stay is simple....she is my best friend and I love her. Nothing has changed from ...
A: Its totally understandable why you stayed, I just wanted to make sure you understood and was secure. ...
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| Curious if it just happens to me | 10/18/2006 |
Q: for some reason when i look at Transexual videos i get really turned on. Also looking at other mens ...
A: you might want to pass this on to others to get different answer as everyone here will tell you ...
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| My husband.....my wife | 10/18/2006 |
Q: It's hard to find someone to talk to this about. My husband of almost 30 years told me 5 years ago ...
A: I am so sorry and commend you for sticking around. Actually, this happens alot to families and I ...
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| need some help | 10/18/2006 |
Q: I have just sort of found this website and thought of penning this thing which is been hitting me ...
A: Just know who you pick is the ONLY person that gets your question. So if you want different ...
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| The guy I liked came out to me | 10/18/2006 |
Q: I'm a sophmore in college and I met Joseph last semester. I was attracted to him when I met him. I ...
A: doesn't that feel good to get attracted in the beginning. Yeah, alot of gay guys find great friends ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/17/2006 |
Q: I think he is trying , but he needs his time . I always do the mistake to want to rush everything. ...
A: I am glad to see you two getting along..Yes it is a sign. Just hold tight. I noticed that when you ...
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| sexual fantasies | 10/17/2006 |
Q: I'm a straight male, but there's something I'm really curious about. This may sound like a very ...
A: I get alot of questions...none strange. Ok as i read this its beginning to become a strang question ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/16/2006 |
Q: can you like tell me in which stage of his hurt he is(he said that he is less angry towards me ) ...
A: Hey Toni, Him allowing you back into his life is a positive thing and it also means that slowly but ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/15/2006 |
Q: well we are hanging out more often now. we went to the market yesterday, had little lunch, talked ...
A: Hey, Well now he is spending more time with you and thats cool. Just go with his flow. He proally ...
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| Help... | 10/14/2006 |
Q: A little bit about me right now. I am married and have 2 children. I love my wife, just don't know ...
A: Ah, loving and being inlove...those are hard things. Woah, So, you gave him a blowjob just like ...
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| love and lust | 10/14/2006 |
Q: But how do you know when it's love or lust? And don't give me that line from the Matrix, "you'll ...
A: Love and lust. You know the difference right? Love is sincere. Lust is more like instantly falling ...
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| GAY OR NOT | 10/12/2006 |
Q: Okay, let me start from the beginning my freshman year of high school I was in class on the first ...
A: good job taking up for your friend...that was nice of you. Well, I think once a person is gay they ...
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| love and lust | 10/12/2006 |
Q: I'm 30 and have only ever had one long term boyfriend. I came out in LA and now I live in Tokyo ...
A: Hey, I would say this is LUST all the way. Well it appears that you really enjoy him and there is ...
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| Anal Sex -Male | 10/10/2006 |
Q: Recently I read about the so-called "A-spot" in the male anus. After reading about the potential ...
A: picking a penis really comes down to preference. Its up to the individual. If you are not bothered ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/10/2006 |
Q: Look just yesterday we had tea together and then he drove with me to some shops and it was like ...
A: I see that you are not taking any of my advice. Its really hard to tell what a person is going to ...
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| relationship | 10/10/2006 |
Q: i have been in my relationship for 3 years and 6 months. we have had a wonderful relationship for ...
A: So why are you getting up set when she doesn't have anything to say on the phone? Everyone has ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/8/2006 |
Q: This morning at 2am he send me a text on my phone that I have caused him so much pain and that it's ...
A: My take is that he is telling you not to waist your time because he is finished as in, its over so ...
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| I cheated on my partner | 10/7/2006 |
Q: my partner(33 LEO)and I (30 LEO) have been together now for 5 years. In the meanwhile we have ...
A: Well, You have to understand that you did something wrong and there is no way to figure this one ...
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| Does he feel the same way? | 10/7/2006 |
Q: I recently stopped trying to supress feelings I had for one of my closer friends. We’ve known each ...
A: Well considering that he plays alot, anything you do would not be wrong, so i say go right ahead. ...
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| sexuality? | 10/5/2006 |
Q: Firstly I feel a real betrayal for writing this. I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months ...
A: Betrayal is such a harsh word. No 20 is not quite late. You cant base your intimate life on your ...
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| Keeping on or breaking up | 10/4/2006 |
Q: I am 34, have been in a very good relationship for 3 (going onto 4) years with a partner that is now ...
A: I think i am a bit confused with what is going on. so you are saying that you are 34 and he is ...
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| gaylife | 9/30/2006 |
Q: respected sir, i want this society to accept my marraige.i'm having an idea to marry a lesbian.so ...
A: I am a woman. I think you are mistaken beacause you said sir. Where are you from? Are you still in ...
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| gaylife | 9/28/2006 |
Q: Respected sir, i'm here to ask u a question that i'm a gay.so there is no erection when i was with a ...
A: Yes gay men can produce babies with women. being gay doesn't stop the sperm from flowing. Yes there ...
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| Help? | 9/24/2006 |
Q: Hey. I am 15 years old and for as long as I can remember I have always liked girls. Even since ...
A: Well this is rather difficult because of your age. You have to understand that I can only go so far ...
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| My girlfriend won't believe I'm a lesbian | 9/24/2006 |
Q: I'm 27 years old and in my first lesbian relationship. We've been dating 6 months and I've never ...
A: Glad to see you are enjoying your new relationship. How come you guys are moving in together so ...
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| My and My Friend's Feelings | 9/22/2006 |
Q: Hey Kay I have a bit of a problem. I have a friend who I have known for quite someime and I think he ...
A: Anon, Well, this is simple. YOu both like each other so what is the problem? Of course I know you ...
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| does he love me? | 9/20/2006 |
Q: i really have no idea on how to begin my question.. and i'm aware that this will be lenghty. i have ...
A: Yes when a person mentions that they are not ready for a relationship, it usually means that they ...
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| Will this pass? | 9/19/2006 |
Q: I'm a 24 year old male who is in a very confused phase in his life. I don't know if I'm more ...
A: Hey Mike, sorry that you are having this trouble. Its hard to maintain a erection when you are ...
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| can a gay guy stil have feling for girl | 9/15/2006 |
Q: im shayne im 15 and im gay. recently my boyfriend named joseph emailed me telling me that he is not ...
A: Well considering that you guys are extremely young anything goes. You will have to expect that he ...
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| help a friend come out? | 9/15/2006 |
Q: Kay - thank you for being part of this wonderful website. I used to be an expert for ESL Grammar ...
A: "used to be expert". Ok, so you are a girl right? Well, its really hard to tell if someone is gay or ...
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| one follow-up | 9/8/2006 |
Q: Kay, Hey, I really appreciate you not being judgmental. Have to say, all this has caught me by ...
A: Hey Jay Nope...not judgemental. I can honestly see a person walking with 6 legs and would stare as ...
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| how can i make my boyfriend last longer than 5 mins? | 9/7/2006 |
Q: I cant seem to make my boyfriend last longer, some times he will last 10-12 mins but some times he ...
A: Well, people have different techniques. YOu will have to try them to see if they work. some use a ...
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| Bi-sexual? | 9/7/2006 |
Q: Okay, here it goes... I am a 26 year old man, I always thought I was gay and pretended to like girls ...
A: I think your feelings are curiosity. ANything else would be crazy. because you have been in a gay ...
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| Can you tell me (delicately) if I'm an idiot? | 9/4/2006 |
Q: I’m really confused about my situation, so please bear with me as I try to provide as much relevant ...
A: YOU IDIOT (HEY YOU TOLD ME TO SAY IT) JUST PLAYING :) you are no idiot. Ok so you are dating this ...
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| Could he be gay? | 9/4/2006 |
Q: I have been dating my best friend for over two years now. We are both monogamous and are very much ...
A: So you are dating your best friend? thats cool. I didn't know people dated their ...
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| Why won't they believe me? | 8/12/2006 |
Q: No, don't worry, your services have been most helpful, thankyou for putting a few thhings in ...
A: OK, well im always here. glad to have helped. Just stay calm and worry about progressing your self ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 8/11/2006 |
Q: I live on the in a high crime area. Some time ago, I had a burglary. The guys in their effort to ...
A: I am very sorry for the recent activities. However I must admit that I am not the best person to ...
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| Why won't they believe me? | 8/9/2006 |
Q: Is it the contnet you cant answer or you literally cat see the question?No no, the abuse was years ...
A: Im sorry but you should delete the old stuff (atleast some of it) and maybe let me see your ...
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| how to cope with a friend or family member bing gay | 8/3/2006 |
Q: My son and his wife have been married almost 3 yr. She said that she had fought the feeling of ...
A: Well it seems pretty simple. If your son is willing to accept the fact that his wife wants to be ...
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| Doomed to be Single? | 8/2/2006 |
Q: I agree that an online dating service might be a great idea. I just want to ask you one thing. Could ...
A: Hey sorry, i have this stupid laptop that press "enter" very fast and it clicked on the wrong thing. ...
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| Why won't they believe me? | 8/1/2006 |
Q: I think your right just to leave it as it is for now, but one thing I'm still concerned about is ...
A: Hey if you feel like your friends will ignore you and reject you, they are not true friends. You may ...
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| Strange, whats goin on with me? | 8/1/2006 |
Q: Answer - Hey John, Well I don't think it matters when you get a girl. Like if you get one today, I ...
A: Hey, Well yes its normal for anything to go on. I dont know why people think that one has to have ...
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| Strange, whats goin on with me? | 8/1/2006 |
Q: ! I think i should have worded my email better. What I meant when I said "Do i need a girl before I ...
A: Hey John, Well I don't think it matters when you get a girl. Like if you get one today, I don't ...
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| Why won't they believe me? | 8/1/2006 |
Q: Ok, I'm bisexual and have some very close friends who I am open with about the matter, but the thing ...
A: No you didnt sound big headed at at. Being gay or bi or whatever is just as popular as drinking ...
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| Strange, whats goin on with me? | 7/31/2006 |
Q: Well my situation is rather complicated. Im am 20 years old. To be honest im a bit of a hermit. I ...
A: Hey you sound alot like me..and i like staying at home and not being bothered. Ok, so i read on and ...
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| Gay son/Adult videos | 7/30/2006 |
Q: My son is 19 years old, he has been very active in the gal and laesbian community for the past 5 ...
A: Hey Don, I hope you know that you asked me some serious questions. Well for starters its nice to ...
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| Doomed to be Single? | 7/30/2006 |
Q: I am a 25 year old single gay man living in Charlotte, NC. Lately, I have been feeling very jaded ...
A: How are you? awww you are from Charlotte NC. My gf and I really would like to move there. We visited ...
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| It's me again! | 7/20/2006 |
Q: -Hope that you are well, this is Kath again. Before I asked you two things: what was the difference ...
A: Yes, all is well (i guess) and you are welcomed as I sent a "you welcome note". Well, I wouldn't ...
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| gay | 7/16/2006 |
Q: i have aHow can a male become gay? Is it something genetical or just psychologic? Can a straight guy ...
A: There are people that will give you a different answer every time to that question. I guess it all ...
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| my | 7/16/2006 |
Q: I appreciate that! I sometimes am greatful for who i am,aspecially when my friends say that i ...
A: Hey Pascal. you are so welcome...i enjoy helping people anyway that i can. Yes you are right that ...
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| bisexual | 7/16/2006 |
Q: Can you help me ?I just turned 40 ,I know that I'm bisexual,I had a good bisexual night about 15 ...
A: So you know you are bisexual but it happened 15 yrs ago. How come nothing sooner? Well its one ...
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| my | 7/15/2006 |
Q: i'm from belgium, so i'm really sorry if my english is not perfect. I would like to have some ...
A: Greetings Pascal, WOw, you are 20, and accomplised that much..thats great. Two reationships since ...
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| screwed? | 7/14/2006 |
Q: I'm 19 and have been out of the closet for 3 years. I have NEVER been in a relationship and the ...
A: I have never heard of anything like but im sure its common. When i was college i was always attraced ...
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| confused | 7/14/2006 |
Q: a few months ago i meet a realy great guy, he's smart,caring, kind and loving. we talk ...
A: to answer you question. I think once a person is gay that cant give that up. they can suppress it ...
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| Dealing With Family | 7/14/2006 |
Q: Aww thanx so much! It makes me feel alil more at ease to know just to come out when i feel its ...
A: Well you can simply tell your brothers that you don't wish to go. You can tell them why but that ...
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| How can I move on? | 7/14/2006 |
Q: I had been having a casual affair with a friend of mine (who was, at the time, in a full time ...
A: Im sure your probally heard this but you really need to move on. For starters, I think anyone that ...
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| I THINK MY FREIND IS A LESBIAN | 7/13/2006 |
Q: I THINK MY BEST FRIEND EVER IS A LESBIAN AND SHE IS HIDING IT FROM ME. I THINK I SAW HER KISSING AN ...
A: Considering that you already asked her there is not more you can do...lol. I think next time you ...
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| my bisexual,closeted girlfriend | 7/13/2006 |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been together for close to 9 months now. i am a lesbian and have been out ...
A: Yeah, its hard being with a bisexual or one that still identifies as one even after being with you ...
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| Dealing With Family | 7/12/2006 |
Q: Ok...so im 18 and gay! hooray! im not embarrassed to be gay b/c its just the way i am. but ok im not ...
A: Hey Bruce how are you? I will tell you like i tell other teens with the same question, is that you ...
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| my friend | 7/10/2006 |
Q: Heya, im 18, im bi(i think) im into guys physically but into girls emotinally/relationshiply(if its ...
A: I think your friend would also allow another guy to give him top because he wouldn't have asked a ...
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| i am gay i think | 7/8/2006 |
Q: i am 12 and i think i am gay, i have had oral sex with the boy next door to me and he is 13. i ...
A: I think that you are too young to be doing anything sexual with anyone. I dont have a problem with ...
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| How do I know I love him? | 7/6/2006 |
Q: I am 22 and I have been in a relationship with my 41 year old boyfriend for 3 ½ years. Everyone ...
A: So you are in a relay with someone thats old enough to be your father? how did that happen? You ...
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| transexuals | 7/4/2006 |
Q: i have a brother who iz 14 yrz old im his sister who is 21...and iv alwayz been really protective of ...
A: Hey sindy, how old are you? Well either case, gay or not gay he has not business downloading ...
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| Fallen in love with best friend | 7/3/2006 |
Q: For the past 18 years I have presumed I was straight. I have been in a relationship with a man for ...
A: You dont know how many females have this same situation going on. WOW...i love you and you love me ...
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| caring for a possibly gay nephew | 7/2/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - long story short: our nephew will be returning this fall to finish at an ...
A: .. also...its ok if you do not want to answer. As you must already know i get alot of emails ...
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| caring for a possibly gay nephew | 7/2/2006 |
Q: long story short: our nephew will be returning this fall to finish at an all boy hs that he claims ...
A: Well to be honest i dont know if i am right with telling you about the stepping in or not because i ...
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| caring for a possibly gay nephew | 7/2/2006 |
Q: long story short: our nephew will be returning this fall to finish at an all boy hs that he claims ...
A: When you asked should you step in, what do you mean? What kind of help are you trying to offer. And ...
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| Confused by straight guy | 6/29/2006 |
Q: heya, my name is Dean I live in Devon, England, I'm 27 and i work in a factory. This guy started ...
A: I really cant tell you if this guy likes you. Its hard when a person is married with kids. The fact ...
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| Is my friend hiiting on me? | 6/29/2006 |
Q: I have a friend that I have only know about three months. We instantly bacame great friends. He ...
A: Hey, yeah the "baby i understand" would have gotten me too. Usually females will say something like ...
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| Couple of difficulties | 6/25/2006 |
Q: My name is Ash, i am 21 years old and i am deaf. I am proud to say that i am gay and everybody knows ...
A: Im glad that you are proud that you are gay as it is easy to be comfy with your self. Can i ...
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| am i gay | 6/21/2006 |
Q: k dude im not sure if im gay or not i really find girls much more attractive but somtimes th thought ...
A: Yes alot of people struggle with their sexuality and it will continue until you become real with ...
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| scared to talk | 6/21/2006 |
Q: I think I'm gay but I have never been with another guy. ALL my friends and ALL my family will NOT ...
A: Its hard trying to come out with your sexuality and i am sorry that you are having difficulty. Some ...
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| Too in Love with a crush... | 6/11/2006 |
Q: I have this huge crush on a boy named Brandon D who is in rade 12. Im privately gay and my family is ...
A: Hey chuck, Now this guy brandon, is he one of the ones that would bully on you if they knew that ...
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| Is my Boyfriend of two years with me for the wrong reasons? | 6/11/2006 |
Q: This is how it all started, He came to this country about 7 yrs ago from haiti. With no paper ...
A: Hey, when i read the first sentence, i knew there was trouble. Interestly, I was in the same ...
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| Is my Boyfriend of two years with me for the wrong reasons? | 6/10/2006 |
Q: Ive been dating someone for close to two years now, and naturally when you begin a relationship ...
A: Hey Marcus, So the friend that called him a negro, was he white? and are you white? Just wondering. ...
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| Gay Sibling | 6/10/2006 |
Q: I have just found out that my younger brother is gay. He has already told a couple of close friends, ...
A: How old is your brother? In any even i think its important that he does this when he is ready. ...
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| My gay friend | 6/10/2006 |
Q: I'm in search of some advice please. I have a gay friend who we will call Jay. First of all let me ...
A: so let me get this friend your current boyfriend's ex is dating your good friend (hope i got that ...
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| Queer fundraising | 6/7/2006 |
Q: We are a near-retirement couple (23 years) who have moved to Fountain City (KNoxville, TN) from ...
A: HEY YOU SENT ME DUPLICATES>>>>> FUNDRAISING ANSWER: Hi Ken, LoL. YOu are so asking the wrong ...
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| Queer fundraising | 6/7/2006 |
Q: We are a near-retirement couple (23 years) who have moved to Fountain City (KNoxville, TN) from ...
A: LoL. YOu are so asking the wrong person...and i feel very stupid saying that. Are there other ...
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| Queer fundraising | 6/7/2006 |
Q: We are a near-retirement couple (23 years) who have moved to Fountain City (KNoxville, TN) from ...
A: LoL. YOu are so asking the wrong person...and i feel very stupid saying that. Are there other ...
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| Queer fundraising | 6/7/2006 |
Q: We are a near-retirement couple (23 years) who have moved to Fountain City (KNoxville, TN) from ...
A: LoL. YOu are so asking the wrong person...and i feel very stupid saying that. Are there other ...
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| Queer fundraising | 6/7/2006 |
Q: We are a near-retirement couple (23 years) who have moved to Fountain City (KNoxville, TN) from ...
A: LoL. YOu are so asking the wrong person...and i feel very stupid saying that. Are there other ...
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| Relationship w/ Boyfriend who's Closeted | 6/7/2006 |
Q: Good Afternoon. I have been dating my boyfriend for 19 months now. We are both 28 years old; I am in ...
A: Hey james, What are you going for with your masters? Ouch, one is out and one is not...that must be ...
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| Dont understand why I did it. | 6/7/2006 |
Q: ok when i was 12-13 me and my cousin would play truth or dare. Most where dare and we would show ...
A: He, that will be tough one for me to answer because i dont know how bad it is affecting you. I can ...
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| i need help | 6/7/2006 |
Q: wel im 17 and im a drop out from high school becuase of me having a child do to something really ...
A: well first i suggest you go back to school, some how some way. Well if you know that your family ...
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| one issue with my boyfriend | 6/7/2006 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and I do love him, but there are some things that worry ...
A: Amanda, gee this is going to be a tough one because he can fit on either side of the fence. Of ...
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| i need help | 6/6/2006 |
Q: my mother has always hated bi's,lesbians, and gays and she always told me and my brother if we were ...
A: how old are you? I need to know so that i can give you right answer. My answer can be different ...
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| Starting out | 6/6/2006 |
Q: I recently ended a 3-year relationship with my partner. We still talk and everything seems to be ...
A: Hey john, Sorry about your relay. Hey, which this current guy i think that you should allow nature ...
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| Hooked up with a Straight Friend | 6/5/2006 |
Q: Well, the night started out with he and I going bar hopping. Anyway we made it back to his place ...
A: Hey, so he didn't know that you were gay before hand? i ask because you mentioned that he asked you ...
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| Hooked up with a Straight Friend | 6/4/2006 |
Q: Okay this past week I went out with a friend of mine who is straight and has a girlfriend. He was ...
A: WOW, what a night... Who iniated the head giving? Like did he ask or did you just come out offer? ...
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| insecurities with another guy | 6/4/2006 |
Q: im 16 male from Texas. im out of school. there's this guy in school that i like. he Is gay because ...
A: People should like you for who you are and not by your skin color. Your insecurities is something ...
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| How can I find love? | 6/4/2006 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old guy who is gay (of course) but mostly closeted. Only my parents and some close ...
A: Yeah, i was very much like you. When i realized that i was gay...lesbian that is, I didn't want ...
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| Sexually Frustrated. | 6/3/2006 |
Q: Okay I asked a question but I think it was a little vague. I am 23 years old and my girlfriend is ...
A: Well you are not gay because you are having a bad sex phase. You are just sexually frustrated. Why ...
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| Frustrated or unsure? | 6/1/2006 |
Q: We have tried to have sex on a few occasions now but we are unable to because it causes too much ...
A: Off late? I dont get it...the sentence wasn't fully written. I cant tell if you meant you get off ...
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| Teen thinking he is gay | 5/31/2006 |
Q: My best freind has a 15 year old son who has confided in me that he thinks he is gay and is asking ...
A: thats a tough one. Which ever on you choose it will not be easy, thats for sure. Since you already ...
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| friennd or more? | 5/30/2006 |
Q: I met this guy on one of the online gay meetng sites. he is at my age and we go to the same ...
A: Well if you two are friends it probally would be strange to have sex but if you guys are trying to ...
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| scared for a second chance!! | 5/27/2006 |
Q: WHEN I WAS A SOPHOMORE IN HIGH SCHOOL, I NOTICED ANOTHER GUY SMILING AT ME AND BEING COOL TO ME....I ...
A: So since this was four years ago, it is safe to say that you are out of school now right? Well, for ...
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| About gay HIV | 5/25/2006 |
Q: Can you tell when a man is gay? Do he act diffent from the way he used to? Can gay man get an HIV ...
A: Well there is no true way of knowing if someone is gay unless they tell you. Of course people can ...
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| i might be gay | 5/22/2006 |
Q: okay so i am trying to figure this out, i have been fooling around with guy's since i was 10 years ...
A: Hey Jack I wanna say that YES you are gay but who am I? I really don't know you so for me to say ...
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| Confused | 5/22/2006 |
Q: She gets it from her dad she wont tell asny1 ive tried trust me, but im stil trying i think she ...
A: Well, if telling her moms is something that you would like to do, go head. just know that she may be ...
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| Confused | 5/21/2006 |
Q: Im confused about what to do about my best friend who gets child abused and wont go talk to any1 and ...
A: Hell Amy, Ouch, Child abused by who? Whoever, please convince her to tell a grown up. I was abused ...
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| being bi/gay | 5/14/2006 |
Q: Hey, i am really attracted to guys and i want to get into adult gay porn or do gay modelling, do you ...
A: Hey Mark Sorry but I cant offer much information about adult porn. It is the biggest money making ...
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| Girl at work...... | 5/13/2006 |
Q: im a bisexual girl my gaydar picked up on the girl i sit opposite at work and i'd quite like to ask ...
A: Ok, those that told you that she likes you, are they saying because she told them that or is just ...
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| He and his body language | 5/13/2006 |
Q: There is this guy where I met a year ago, but is not close to him until a few months ago. I'm 19, he ...
A: Hey Jack, see you wrote a long one. I will answer your question as i read it to ensure that i don't ...
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| Coming out to family | 5/12/2006 |
Q: I need to ask what is the best way to come out to my famliy. There is only two people in my family ...
A: Unfortunately the bad thing about coming out when you still live at home with parents is that they ...
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| sexual shyness, a prositute, and a new found interest in transexuals | 5/11/2006 |
Q: hmmm, i hadn't considered that that i might like the idea of men becoming women. i do think it's ...
A: well i think you have a problem. I do think you need to explore what it is that you like. You cant ...
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| sexual shyness, a prositute, and a new found interest in transexuals | 5/11/2006 |
Q: kamilha, (sorry if this is a little complicated...) i'm a 21 year old male college junior in ...
A: Wow, your dad paid a prostitue to sleep with you? Thats sounds harsh. OK, so what led you to use the ...
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| Jealousy and Insecurity | 4/20/2006 |
Q: Ok,I need your help!!! I'm a 32 year old caucasian male. In my previouse relationship of 8 years ...
A: So much for the guy with the kid. So who has him? It appears that your new guy is a little ...
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| Lost Boyfriend and Best Friend | 4/20/2006 |
Q: I am a 32 year old gay male. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me just before the holidays ...
A: 5 months later and you are still hanging on? Gee, sorry to hear that. You must have really loved ...
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| bi-sexual or?????? | 4/7/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question -Hello Kamilah, My name is Johnny. I am 45. I am having problems with ...
A: Hey I think everyone has different views on women at bars. I do get your point but that is not ...
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| bi-sexual or?????? | 4/7/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question - Hello Kamilah, My name is Johnny. I am 45. I am having problems with ...
A: Hey Johnny how are you? Of course we can continue. I am always here. I can't write back until you ...
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| bi-sexual or?????? | 4/6/2006 |
Q: My name is Johnny. I am 45. I am having problems with sexuality issues. I don't know if I am bi or ...
A: what is sex without anal?..lol. Ok...it appears that you have to say and almost appears that you ...
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| bi-sexual or?????? | 4/5/2006 |
Q: My name is Johnny. I am 45. I am having problems with sexuality issues. I don't know if I am bi or ...
A: hey johnny how are you. Well to answer your question, I think you are bisexual or even gay. You ...
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| Partner cheating with guy from 3some | 3/26/2006 |
Q: I have been with my partner for 3 years now. The sex was great at first and after 8 months we moved ...
A: From everything that you are telling me, it appears that your relationship is already over. It was ...
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| need to know | 2/26/2006 |
Q: i m confuse very much wish you help i m naturally excited with womens sexuality (i m a male) so i ...
A: there can be many explanations for what you are going through. As i said alot of people go through ...
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| Hi can you help me pls | 2/26/2006 |
Q: I have a question if you dont mind, it would relay help me. you see i have this gay male friend whom ...
A: Well yes if he values you as a friend, he can love you. I also think a gay man can love a ...
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| need to know | 2/25/2006 |
Q: i m confuse very much wish you help i m naturally excited with womens sexuality (i m a male) so i ...
A: I would say that it is normal. We all go throught those stages. I think its a matter of how long ...
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| question | 2/21/2006 |
Q: i'm from an islamic country that here most of people consider gays and lesbians as sick people,they ...
A: of course everyone has their opininon, especially different cultures. It would be very expectant of ...
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| I've lost my best friend... | 2/7/2006 |
Q: I'm gay and I'm in love with someone who used to be my best friend before. We are currently on the ...
A: I think you totaled things by telling him that you were in love with him. You haven't mentioned if ...
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| Your advice | 1/18/2006 |
Q: It is very well known that there is a strong correlation between a homosexual orientation and AIDS. ...
A: .. How are you? Being a lesbian, i guess this advice i am about to give she go to me too. Anyway, ...
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| Confused | 1/17/2006 |
Q: I move recently to nyc and english is not my first language. I am a bit rusty in english. There was ...
A: There are alot of C words that could have been used. Off the top of my head i would say Cunt (that ...
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| what should I do? | 1/10/2006 |
Q: I have been involved with the same man for six years. He has been very good to me for the most ...
A: how are you dwight? Well its good to know that you are not financial dependent on him. Well as ...
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| what should I do? | 1/10/2006 |
Q: I have been involved with the same man for six years. He has been very good to me for the most ...
A: I understand your pain. I mean ee...you have so much going on. I applaud you for dealing with all fo ...
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| Straight, Gay, or Bisexual? | 12/29/2005 |
Q: Theres a guy I have been talking to on and off for almost 2 years. When I first met him he was ...
A: wow, to be honest I cant tell you if he is gay or bisexual. I dont think anyone can tell you that. ...
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| am i gay or bi? | 12/19/2005 |
Q: i am a 56 yrear old married man. My wife and i have been married 32 years.During this time and even ...
A: I would sat that there is a strong possibility that you may be gay. I say this because you had ...
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| Anal sex? + | 10/18/2005 |
Q: Hey Kamilah! What's up? I want to ask you anything you can tell me about anal sex... does it ...
A: Anal sex... I dont know much. I tried to do it to my gf but she is not trying to hear it. Its ...
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| My best friend and her attidude towards me | 10/3/2005 |
Q: My best friend Emily and I have considered each other our under cover lovers for about 8 months now. ...
A: It hard to be someones' lover and their best friend. Its almost impossible which iswhy you guys are ...
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| Project | 9/16/2005 |
Q: My name is Alix. I go to Lee's Summit West High School in Missouri. We are doing a research project ...
A: I would be greatful to answer any questions that you may have. I am not a adolescent (26) but I do ...
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| Getting back with an ex | 9/15/2005 |
Q: how are you? My name is Mike, I'm 19 years and I'm going to college. Well my question is ...
A: how are you? 3 hours away is not far at all. Atleast its not states away. It would not be hard to ...
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| frottage/vanilla /BDSM ???? | 9/13/2005 |
Q: ),im an open gay man age 44 very broadminded too but when looking through personals/ads what exactly ...
A: How are you? On one web site BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism. I also ...
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| Feminine Mannerisms | 8/14/2005 |
Q: I am married & straight and a mother but I would like some information from you. Does a man who has ...
A: I will have to say no to that because there are many men that have feminine qualities and are ...
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| Confessions | 8/12/2005 |
Q: I've come to a stage wher i understand abt livin in a gay life and being comfortable with it but ...
A: Ehen you say that you dont hide from your parents...what do you exactly mean? Are you saying you ...
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| I dont understand | 6/29/2005 |
Q: I do not understand the gay lifestyle. I am trying very hard to. I am very interested in a man that ...
A: I would like to say that if he is gay there is nothing thaty you can do but now days anything is ...
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| Is the guy I was seeing possibly gay? | 6/16/2005 |
Q: I was seeing someone for about 2 months. When I started to see him, he mentioned he had intimacy ...
A: him being a scientist has nothing to do with him being non-religious...of course since he has ...
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| Anal | 6/2/2005 |
Q: I was wondering if you knew anything about the risks and consequences of Anal sex, Dan and i have ...
A: Well personally I would not have any idea. I dont do anal sex. But to each its own. Some like it and ...
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| Gay's and God | 5/23/2005 |
Q: I don't have a question, but rather I would just like to put the word out that God loves everyone. I ...
A: ITS NICE TO KNOW THAT YOU THINK THAT WAY. THINGS HAVE GOTTEN BETTER BUT THEIR ARE STILL SOME ...
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| Sexuality? | 5/11/2005 |
Q: As for the relationship I was in for 3 yrs, we both were Indian and were introduced by our parents ...
A: Like i said you feeling bad is going to be expected and is very normal. I suggest you get counseling ...
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| Sexuality? | 5/10/2005 |
Q: I am writing to talk to you and get your advice and opinion on few things. I haven't shared this ...
A: Well I am here and i defanitely dont judge. I think gay people have to room to be judgemental. We ...
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| bi | 5/9/2005 |
Q: i am bi and i like this gay women but she's so much older than i am and she shows feelings towards ...
A: people are usually bi when they cannot decide on both sexes. However if this is your first time i ...
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| does he like me | 4/11/2005 |
Q: I'm 15 and am not sure yet if I'm gay or not. There is a guy at my high school that I really like ...
A: Well the only good way to explain how you feel is to actuall tell him. you being 15...you are young ...
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| relationship | 4/3/2005 |
Q: I am a 36 year old man, and I just "became" gay a few years ago. I live in a small redneck town in ...
A: What do you mean you just became gay. I am sure there is an explanation . Now you mentioned your ...
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| Boyfriend lied about past... | 3/28/2005 |
Q: I met this wonderful man, Mike online about 8 months ago. We approached the relationship very ...
A: How are you? Well first thing is first. You have every right to feel any way you want to feel ...
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| Hey, now what do we do? | 3/6/2005 |
Q: Hay Kamilah, More joys of online dating! I was reading another story on here that you assisted ...
A: HEY Ok...now it all makes sense. Yes that would bother the shit out of me. Especially if i like you ...
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| Hey, now what do we do? | 3/5/2005 |
Q: Hay Kamilah, More joys of online dating! I was reading another story on here that you assisted ...
A: I am really sorry that your relay didnt work out. Its funny that u mentioned the fag routine. I ...
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| Vague Flirtations or Nothing? | 2/24/2005 |
Q: I am choosing to ask you this question because I like the fact you give lengthy answers and you have ...
A: i know the feeling. Its tricky. You will have to be careful and finding out. Just keep befiending ...
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| transgender | 2/23/2005 |
Q: I have been crossdressing my whole life and have been fortunate to meet a few woman who were ...
A: How are you Unfortunately i cant say much on this subject because i dont know much about it. ...
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| My partner cheated | 2/22/2005 |
Q: I am a gay male 38 years old. I am seeing a much younger guy who is 26. I used to have a cut off age ...
A: YOu are 36 and he is 26..which is also my age. There is a big age gap and depending on his maturity ...
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| how can you tell if a girl is a lesbian | 2/1/2005 |
Q: is their sings of a girl being a lesbian?
A: I dont quite understand your question. Everyone view people differently than the next. You may thing ...
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| am i gay? | 1/12/2005 |
Q: I am married 31 years and have a tough time getting hard and cumming with my wife.I also see a man i ...
A: Harry How long have you been having trouble getting hard with your wife? Regardless of the answer, ...
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| GAY | 12/18/2004 |
Q: Can u pleas tell me wat does GAY mean...Can a gay marry n have children...does he have successful ...
A: What does gay mean? Well being gay means that you are attracted to the same sex. FOr men its when ...
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| I'M A GAY.CAN I MARRY A WOMAN | 11/16/2004 |
Q: Respected sir, i'm a gay from india.but now in my house they r planning for a marraige with a ...
A: I am not sure if i fully understand you. Are you saying that you are a gay man from india and your ...
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| Depression | 11/1/2004 |
Q: my best friend, whom i am in love with, just this last friday moved in with this guy that we have ...
A: well u can either believe him and trust him...or you can do the opposite. Either way...you will have ...
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| Gay issue | 10/6/2004 |
Q: Respected Madam Thanks for your reply. Ok u can say i find an adult gay for me. And he is 24 can u ...
A: I really dont understand your language. Its defanitely not the english language. Uh, before you ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 10/3/2004 |
Q: We are on the same page when we say we keep personal things personal. Nothing worse than when ...
A: Hey simon, thank goodness you erased some of our emails because i was beginning to get confused ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 10/3/2004 |
Q: Kamilah Yeah I am not sure the signs were there in my case when I was young. OK, I didnt like ...
A: As far as experimenting. I would not consider it that. You should find a female that you are ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 10/2/2004 |
Q: interesting name-is it Indian? Wow, gosh it is amazing what you have said. But are you sure. ...
A: Well i would not say before the age of 6. However I have a twin sister. Her name is jamilah. She ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 10/1/2004 |
Q: Me feminine. No. I am not really feminine or macho, I think that is one reason women find me ...
A: Do you think that if you messed with a female you would have a better attitude about the sexual ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 9/30/2004 |
Q: Kamilah many thanks again. It is great to be talking about these issues. I dunno what it is I just ...
A: Hey Simon. Since you are gay, allow me to ask you this. Are the type is feminine or the type that ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 9/29/2004 |
Q: Kamilah, thanks so much for your reply-I have already read it over a few times-and no doubt will ...
A: Well i am glad that you can get something out of our convos. Well you mentioned something about not ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 9/29/2004 |
Q: Why do you sleep with gay men? Why do you feel nasty after the fact? Have you slept with women ...
A: Hey Simon How are you. PH.D very good. You need to be giving me some advice. First off, I dont know ...
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| me,, | 9/29/2004 |
Q: .. Hope u alright!!! I am Will, I am 23 and I am a Syrian guy who has been living in the UK as a ...
A: Well yes, You have direct complaints. complaints are different from issues. I felt like you were not ...
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| Confusion about sexuality | 9/28/2004 |
Q: Sent in this question to one of your contributors, and got an unlikely reply: Hi Adam Read one ...
A: Hey Simon, I dont know who would tell you that. I get many questions like that. So, i am sorry that ...
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| me,, | 9/28/2004 |
Q: .. Hope u alright!!! I am Will, I am 23 and I am a Syrian guy who has been living in the UK as a ...
A: WIll, you confused me just a little bit in your email. What are your direct issues? For starters. ...
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| Bisexual and gays | 9/28/2004 |
Q: Id unno whther this is weird but if i'm a gay. How's a life of a gay? Was it like any men and women ...
A: Well, unfortunately..lol its pretty much the same if you are in a monogamist relay. We do the same ...
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| slang | 9/21/2004 |
Q: I heard a old man make an apparent anti-gay crack by calling a woman "A real crossway breazer". Can ...
A: I never heard of that either...crossway breazer can mean a cross way dresser...refering to a man. ...
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| Bisexual and gays | 9/18/2004 |
Q: I love to have sex with guys the past two years, ti's like everyday we have sex. But gradually i ...
A: Well Alex if you are only sleeping with guys you are defanitely gay. However if you find your self ...
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| Bisexual and gays | 9/17/2004 |
Q: How do I know whther i'm a gay or not? If i like to have sex with a guy but love dating or goin out ...
A: well you know if you are gay or not by sleeping with me. You have to have slept wiht a man atleast 3 ...
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| Kamilah:
I am gay.I've... | 9/15/2004 |
Q: Kamilah: I am gay.I've been trying to find my long-live partner for 5 years. Unfortunately,i am ...
A: Wow, Hi Hugh, Unfortunate no book or any person in their right mind can direct you in the right ...
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| support group for gat scientologist | 6/29/2004 |
Q: is there a support group for gay scientologist in the seattle area?i've always had trouble being gay ...
A: i dont really understand the nature of your question. Are you asking me are there support groups for ...
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| Asian Gay | 5/24/2004 |
Q: im Paul from Philippines i just want to ask you what bisexual or gay guys in america expect from ...
A: Well there is not specifics. People usually date whatever race that attracts them. Of course people ...
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| Confused | 2/6/2004 |
Q: Im a 19 year old GAY male. Ive been seeing BEN now for 3 weeks & 3 days. I have been cheated on in ...
A: I first thing first you are entirely too young to be going through this. I am so sorry that people ...
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| My Sexuality and Other Issues | 2/6/2004 |
Q: I deeply appreciate your advice. I do not feel I can overcome my desire to be with other men. I am ...
A: Yes, if you want to seek prof. help, I would say go on head. If it helps. It all depends on the ...
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| bi-sexual friend?? | 10/25/2003 |
Q: I would like your opinion of the following please. :) I work with a lady whom I really don't know ...
A: How are you. I wrote you last on Oct. 25. I am checking almost a month later to see how things are ...
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| parents accepting | 9/24/2003 |
Q: My friend recently came out of the closet and told her mum! Her mums fuious as you can imagine coz ...
A: Yes, there is. i dont know where you are from but all you have to do is use your search engine and ...
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