| Subject | Date Asked |
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| HOCD help | 7/4/2009 |
Q: my situation is this: I don't know what is going on with me, I've always like girls and they really ...
A: The first thing I think you need to understand is that being gay is not something like a switch ...
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| Gay | 7/1/2009 |
Q: This is a serious question, but do gay men actually like anal sex? I've been told that most don't ...
A: James, As for choosing to be gay, in my opinion, that is not possible. In fact, I don't see how ...
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| Gay | 6/30/2009 |
Q: This is a serious question, but do gay men actually like anal sex? I've been told that most don't ...
A: It would be my opinion that some men do like it and some of course do not. Anal sex not only can ...
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| How can I seam less gay? Why do homosexuals think it's ok to push their lifestyle on me? | 6/19/2009 |
Q: Well... first of although I'm slightly homophobic, because I just don't understand homosexuality ...
A: Hey Tim, Thanks for your questions. Gay, straight, bi... who knows what we are or what you are. ...
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| sex | 6/11/2009 |
Q: my name is eric 17 i realise i was into guys 2months ago when a guy told me he was in love with me ...
A: First off... congratulations on coming to understand that you are gay. I hope your experience is as ...
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| Gay Stereotypes: True or Not? and my growing disappointment in our community | 6/4/2009 |
Q: Swanson (like the broth! That makes me smile), As I'm sure you are well aware this weekend, at ...
A: Hey Matthew, Oh sweetie... don't be such a drama queen! I'm just kidding about that first remark ...
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| relationship confusion | 6/3/2009 |
Q: ) ... im with my bf for about 2.5 years ... im 26 he is 45.... he is really nice and he helped me a ...
A: John, You are the one that needs to evaluate your situation. You need to decide if you are ...
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| Am I Happy? | 6/2/2009 |
Q: I am a 29yo male. Me and my partner (34) have been together for over 6 years, been living together ...
A: I got to tell you that this is likely the most difficult question I have received over the years I ...
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| I Know What I have To Do, I just Don't Know Why | 6/1/2009 |
Q: I met this really great guy. We hit it off right away. For the first time in my life, I fell in ...
A: Jake, I'm not sure I know what you are asking me but I do really understand what you are feeling ...
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| Curious about my close friend | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I am bi and realized I was so about five year ago. I've dated one or two people of the same sex. I'm ...
A: Zack, Because you are bi, you should realize how difficult it can be to understand your sexuality. ...
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| My Best Friend | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I've been best friends with a guy named Kevin for about 2 years now. I'm a junior in school so I ...
A: Hey John, Well, it does sound as though you have a little crush on Kevin even if you still believe ...
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| God, my boyfriend, and I | 4/24/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for almost half of a year, and it's been great. However, I've been ...
A: First off, congratulations on having a boyfriend for a half year. It takes some time to really know ...
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| Can you really choose? | 11/30/2008 |
Q: I'm 24 and I dated a guy for about 6 years and we were engaged for about 6 months. He cheated 2 ...
A: Well for starters, I see you do understand that we do not choose to be gay or straight. It is just ...
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| Looking atgood looking males | 11/28/2008 |
Q: I am and always have been gay. My question is whether looking at good looking guys because they are ...
A: Hey Dan, I don't know for sure but I suspect that it is quite normal to admire young men and boys ...
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| am I a lesbian? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: Ok...I am only 12 but I really need help! I think I might be a lesbian because i sometimes fantisize ...
A: At the age of 12, it is possible that you may have some idea about your sexual orientation. However, ...
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| A Relationship without Sex | 10/22/2008 |
Q: Can a relationship survive without sex? My partner & I have been together for 14 yrs. We are ...
A: I will start off by first telling you that this is not my area of expertise and you might try to ask ...
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| Am I straight? | 10/19/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I just turned 13 in the middle of September.I live in the east.I'm in the 8th ...
A: Corrina, You needs to slow down and take a breath girl. I know you are anxious to find the answers ...
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| One night | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I need some advice. On tuesday 9/30 night I went out with my best friend. We go out and drink ...
A: Hey Robby, Welcome to the world of dating and feeling your emotions at work. I guess this must be ...
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| Gay Life | 9/30/2008 |
Q: Well I just started working at Wal-Mart and there's this really cute guy that wont give me a sure ...
A: Hey Gordo, Thanks for writing. By the way, just for the record... I don't think you asked a ...
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| Opposition | 9/26/2008 |
Q: Howdy Mr. Swanson. My name is Davy and I am in charge of a Gay Straight Alliance at my college. I ...
A: Davy, I understand your organizational rules and suspect they are for the best. I also applaud your ...
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| Opposition | 9/25/2008 |
Q: Howdy Mr. Swanson. My name is Davy and I am in charge of a Gay Straight Alliance at my college. I ...
A: Yeah... interesting to say the least. I certainly believe that being a gay Christian is not only ...
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| A Complicated Relationship. | 9/19/2008 |
Q: We met on Sept. 2006, we dated for a a month or two, nothing really serious. He decided that it ...
A: Manny, Thanks for all the detail. I must say that it sounds to me as though you are looking for ...
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| getting out the gayday | 9/16/2008 |
Q: okay, so i live in Utah 20 years old, and i go to school at a college in the most conservative ...
A: I remember when I had the same question. I was just starting to deal with coming out and I had all ...
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| anal sex | 9/7/2008 |
Q: o gay guy ...me n my bf r thinkin bout havin anal sex..how do we go about?...i know its not as easy ...
A: I need to start by saying that this question is not in my area of expertise. I would suggest that ...
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| closet | 9/5/2008 |
Q: Im sure you hear a lot of the situations like mine.I knew at a early age of my gay tendency and also ...
A: Well, yes.... this is not unlike what lots of other gay guys go through. We gays seem to have a ...
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| Confused at Work | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I just started working for a major corporation. I am a 23 year old male and fairly new to "the ...
A: Well... bottom line, he might like you or you may be right in thinking he is a little crazy. I ...
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| gay cathlics | 8/28/2008 |
Q: I am gay and cathlic. But my parents raised me that it is against the religon. And I was told that ...
A: It would be difficult for me to tell if your friend has a crush on you. You are in a much better ...
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| gay cathlics | 8/27/2008 |
Q: I am gay and cathlic. But my parents raised me that it is against the religon. And I was told that ...
A: Hey Josh, The struggle to accept yourself as gay and to come to an understanding about being a gay ...
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| What to do when you are trapped in the closet at home. | 8/3/2008 |
Q: I just turned 18 and am going into my senior year of high school and I have known for the majority ...
A: Hey Preston, Welcome to the same delema that so many gays your age have found themselves in. First ...
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| Should I and what is he doin | 7/15/2008 |
Q: For example everytime Im at his house he always follows me around wit his eyes and when our eyes ...
A: James, As I said in my previous reply, I really think it is time that you and your friend just ...
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| Should I and what is he doin | 7/14/2008 |
Q: For example everytime Im at his house he always follows me around wit his eyes and when our eyes ...
A: Well, from what you have told me, he is either gay of curious, or at least he likes you a lot. I ...
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| .... the fuck???????/ | 7/6/2008 |
Q: i was just wondering, see i'm a boy and have recently "DISCOVERED" my orientation, and i am in love ...
A: Like you, your friend may still be struggling with his sexuality like you have been in the past. ...
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| Attaction | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I have asked you a question before, and fianlly after having accepted who I am. I started to ...
A: First, your question about who is attracted to whom and how you should act is easy. Trust me, there ...
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| I lost a friend | 6/2/2008 |
Q: He was my best friend since I was eight and he was nine and a half. I remember that we had a ...
A: Lilian, After thinking about you situation, I have to say that I really do not understand why your ...
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| confused about new experiences with older man | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I agree I am very forunate to have found him. While it is very new, different and confusing I'm ...
A: Hey Kyle, I guess you are looking for someone to say that your relationship is perfectly normal and ...
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| confused about new experiences with older man | 5/31/2008 |
Q: I want to thank you for taking the time to read/reply to this as I'm sure you have plenty of ...
A: From what you have told me, I would say you are very fortunate to have found a way to explore your ...
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| Gay | 5/29/2008 |
Q: My Brother he is 14... I think he is gay. he has only had one girl friend and it didn't go that ...
A: I'm not sure what your question is but let me say a few things. First off, at 14, it is quite ...
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| I think my son may be gay | 5/26/2008 |
Q: he is soon to be 18yrs old. i have found evidence (diary in his room)saying that his friend Jack ...
A: Obviously, I can not tell if your son is gay. You are in a much better position to make that ...
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| could i be gay ? | 5/25/2008 |
Q: ever since my last birthday ive been noticeing that girls that i look at are really hot and i feel ...
A: In a case like this, you are always in a better position to know if you are gay that I am. Keep in ...
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| DAMN!!!!!!!!!! | 5/8/2008 |
Q: ok so i have been obsessed with this one guy since i moved here and i always thought that he might ...
A: Tobi, I can imagine your frustration and confusion about what to do. However, you also realize that ...
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| DOES HE LIKE ME????? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: i was writing thanks to this really annoying problem that i am going through. As of 07 I came to ...
A: Hey Toby, First off... congratulations on 'coming to terms with being bi". That is a major ...
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| Am I Gay? | 3/24/2008 |
Q: It's very weird. Only a week ago, I was able to masturbate to women, and i enjoyed it. I always ...
A: Well..... it sounds to me as though you are starting to face some feelings you may have been ...
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| Family Problems | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I just came out and my family, which belong to AoG, are giving me a lot of trouble. My parents ...
A: I am so sorry to hear that your family is treating you this way. Please know that there are many ...
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| Guy trouble... | 2/20/2008 |
Q: My name is Carl, i am male, i live in the UK, i am 16 and came out about three or four months ago. ...
A: One thing to remember is that sexuality and sexual desires can change some and they do tend to ...
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| how do i approach him | 2/16/2008 |
Q: ok there is this guy and he is kinda straight but not really he hangs out with alot of other guys ...
A: Hey Lamounte Well, it is very difficult for me to tell from here but you know... like you said, ...
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| Am I Gay | 2/13/2008 |
Q: I have a problem and I havent been able to find the answer. I imagine having sex with guys all the ...
A: The first thing that I thought as I read your question was that you sound exactly like me when I was ...
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| Gay or not | 2/5/2008 |
Q: Hey jim, i am in 9 ninth grade and i think i might be gay. But i am not sure i only get hard when i ...
A: .. I don't think it is unusual to be confused about your sexuality when in the ninth grade. I guess ...
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| Open relationships | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I am with this guy now for only officially a month...dating a month or two before we labeled ...
A: Hey Bry, Well... it sounds to me as though you need to decide what YOU want out of a relationship. ...
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| being gay | 1/9/2008 |
Q: my name is Chance i am 18 years old and have an issue on my hands...I grew up in church and have ...
A: First off, I want you to understand that you are talking to someone here that considered himself ...
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| Seeking data | 12/23/2007 |
Q: I am the coordinator of the Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance. We have a large section on ...
A: I sounds to me like your work is much needed as I too have heard those stories. I also believe it is ...
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| Boys | 12/5/2007 |
Q: Well some times you see i really like him and i know he does too and i was wondering if therewas a ...
A: From your question, I am not sure about a lot of things. However, I can tell you that at 15, you ...
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| my friend | 11/26/2007 |
Q: today at lunch my best guy friend told me and three of my friends that he was gay. He made us ...
A: The first thing you need to realize is that your friend thinks a great deal of you and you should ...
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| i think my son is gay | 11/3/2007 |
Q: my son is 17 and 2 weeks ago when i saw him on a gay website,he came to me and told me that he is ...
A: I think you are very fortunate to have a son that trusts you enough to be able to come to you and ...
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| bisexual | 11/2/2007 |
Q: how does God feel about me being bisexual? will i go to Hell? i am a catholic so am i going to be ...
A: You have asked a lot of questions and I will try to answer them as best I can, I will not presume ...
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| RE: Overcoming my exasperation | 10/30/2007 |
Q: My name is Daniel and I am in my early 30's. I am a Christian who just happens to be...gay. I love ...
A: I want to start by telling you that it is so good to hear from you and I only hope I can live up to ...
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| hey | 10/19/2007 |
Q: i am gay and there is this kid and i think that he is gay also and i really like him but i don't ...
A: Jesse, I have two suggestions for you. First, think back to that one time when you went out with ...
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| hey | 10/17/2007 |
Q: i am gay and there is this kid and i think that he is gay also and i really like him but i don't ...
A: I would really need to know a lot more about your situation and that of your 'friend' before I could ...
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| hey | 10/16/2007 |
Q: i am gay and there is this kid and i think that he is gay also and i really like him but i don't ...
A: the gay guy, Well.... I suspect that your "gaydar" is working very well and that this "friend" of ...
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| Is He Gay/Bi? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: (Copied&Pasted) This is kind of just checking. Because one opinion is exactly that.one opinion. So ...
A: Hummm... signs??? Well, all I can say is that there is only one sign I know of that might be ...
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| Is He Gay/Bi? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: (Copied&Pasted) This is kind of just checking. Because one opinion is exactly that.one opinion. So ...
A: Well... this is the age old question isn't it? There are a few things involved here. First let me ...
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| Massage | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if it was against the law to receive an erotic massage by trained and licensed men. ...
A: I am not able to give you legal advise on gay massage but I would suggest that you check out your ...
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