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| it's over | 11/7/2009 | Azure |
Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site for me. We went on ...
A: i'd respectfully disagree with the psychologist; the bottom line is, the only thing left to happen ...
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| I can't decide... | 11/7/2009 | Azure |
Q: :) I've been dating the same guy for three months. We met at a party and it was like love at first ...
A: i think at 19, and after seeing someone only 3 months, talk of marriage is foolish, and your family ...
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| What now? | 11/7/2009 | Azure |
Q: This is a rather involved question. Sorry about that. Im 27 years old and the girl I am referring ...
A: there's only 2 choices, making a more defined physical move like kissing/making out, or discussing ...
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| What now? | 11/7/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: This is a rather involved question. Sorry about that. Im 27 years old and the girl I am referring ...
A: Four years??? Andrew - four years??? What in the hell are you doing here? She knows how you feel ...
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| chance | 11/6/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I like this guy Jason at school and I was talking to a group of men at lunch when he walked by. I ...
A: Hey Tess! Sexuality is a very complicated subject. I can't tell you specifically why you have this ...
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| Not really sure whats up | 11/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 28 and the girl in question is 23. I met a girl, this weekend at the local Renessaince ...
A: happens all the time, but usually to girls by guys; only SHE knows the answer u want--once apart ...
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| Is he in to me. | 11/6/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: I have this man, of course I like or wouldn't be asking right. He calls me or text me when he's ...
A: totallyconfussed: Why would you want to be involved with a man who only calls you when he has been ...
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| chance | 11/6/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I like this guy Jason at school and I was talking to a group of men at lunch when he walked by. I ...
A: These are actually really great questions! Let me talk about the bad aspects first. Many guys use ...
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| Should I expect him to call? | 11/6/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Here is what happened. Last Saturday, I got hooked with this guy on a party. He is a long time ...
A: I'm sorry you haven't heard from him yet. Today being Friday puts this at 6 days since you've seen ...
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| chance | 11/5/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I like this guy Jason at school and I was talking to a group of men at lunch when he walked by. I ...
A: It's a generic remark made by guys that watch too much porn. Since they see all this hard fucking ...
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| meeting men | 11/5/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis, I'm 31. I would like to meet some great guys. I work on Friday and Saturday nights and most ...
A: Wow - you sure think I'm dumb! You can access THIS website but not mine? Come on here Tina, give me ...
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| Complicated urges towards an untouchable ex. | 11/5/2009 | Azure |
Q: The epic story of the break up & 2 weeks after will be condensed into a few sentences. Well we, a ...
A: i wouldn't count on the order being overturned--even if it is, why go where you're not wanted?..at ...
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| bf | 11/4/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Been with my BF for 6yrs. We’ve drifted apart and got back together thousands of time. We are two ...
A: What to do??? Answer: TALK TO HIM ALREADY!!! Tameka, you don't know what's on his mind because ...
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| Meeting his family | 11/3/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been dating/living together with my Arabian (Jordan)boyfriend and he will not bring me around ...
A: ridiculous answer on his part; it all depends on how big a deal you want to make of this; is it ...
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| the plan for the date | 11/3/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: How`re you? Two dates with this gal have gone well,I`ll be having a date with her tomorrow,actually ...
A: Siavash: I am not sure what indoor activity to recommend? Perhaps bowling, a movie or take her to a ...
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| Should I expect him to call? | 11/3/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Here is what happened. Last Saturday, I got hooked with this guy on a party. He is a long time ...
A: 1. Yes, I think he'll call. It's Thursday and he should have called you by now. 2. No, it wasn't ...
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| Boys, Boys, Boys | 11/3/2009 | Michael Talks Behavior, Culture and Relationships |
Q: I met this guys through a friend. Hes 23 I'm 19, we're both in college. We hit it off instantly. ...
A: Please read on below... "I met this guy through a friend. Hes 23 I'm 19, we're both in college. We ...
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| disappearing | 11/2/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a divorced 40 year old woman. I have been off and on dating websites for five years. My ...
A: Therein lies your first problem: dating websites. Abigail, the reality is this: when you meet ...
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| is this acceptable? | 11/2/2009 | Azure |
Q: my guy and i have been dating for about 5 months and things have been going great. we've never ...
A: the pic, by itself, not that big a deal..he had to put that arm somewhere--but the bigger deal is, ...
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| meeting men | 11/2/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis, I'm 31. I would like to meet some great guys. I work on Friday and Saturday nights and most ...
A: I agree with you: bars, pubs, clubs, the internet, etc. aren't great places to meet great guys. On ...
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| what should I do? | 11/1/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Ok, I have a friend. I like her brother. he is amazing. blonde hair,blue eyez,sweet,funny, ,ostly ...
A: First of all, you can get your girlfriend to help you here by setting you two up. Second, if you ...
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| Discussing a Disability | 11/1/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: I'm hoping you can help me with this. I've had petit mal epilepsy since I was thirteen, and now ...
A: Jill: I have many friends who have epilepsy so I know how you feel and what you are going through. ...
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| Staying with girlfriend | 10/31/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a guy from California living in Mexico, and my girlfriend is a Mexican. We met and started ...
A: it's not that u "can't" see her--you're basically stating what u require to continue, and that ...
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| Relationship issues | 10/31/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a month. In the last week Ive been staying at his ...
A: I have no idea what happened to him. Only he knows. If you have a relationship, then you should call ...
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| Approaching a guy | 10/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My question you probably get very often lol but anyway here it goes: There is this guy I'm ...
A: Yeah, there's actually a ton of things like this. Check the e-book as it's pretty detailed. Best ...
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| problem | 10/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: What should I do?I want to go out with her. There's a girl that lives about 35 minutes away,and I ...
A: You contact her on facebook and start a little small talk like "what are you going to do with your ...
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| long-distance relationships | 10/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I was introduced to this gal by a friend of mine,in fact my friend gave my number to ...
A: Please, please don't do this to yourself. The reality is that long-distance relationships never work ...
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| being in the control of the relationships | 10/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: what does it mean to be in the control of the relationship?Generally speaking,what should guys do to ...
A: This is a short, but excellent question! I wish more men thought this way. Being "in control" of ...
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| Approaching a guy | 10/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My question you probably get very often lol but anyway here it goes: There is this guy I'm ...
A: No, don't compliment him on his looks. That's a very weak approach and after you've done it, where ...
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| Confused about her behavior | 10/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Neder. Ok. My problem involves a woman I met last summer. Here's some background info. I was 41 when ...
A: If you can pare this down into just the essence of the problem, I'm happy to try to help you. Best ...
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| Do I stand a chance? | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: I met this girl about a year and a half ago in college, and i asked her to eat lunch but we never ...
A: always a chance--only time will tell; the statement as to fixing you up with a friend makes one ...
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| Confused about her behavior. Need resolution | 10/29/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: Ok. My problem involves a woman I met last summer. Here's some background info. I was 41 when we met ...
A: Mark: I would not deal with anymore as a friend or for possible sex again that may actually never ...
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| Confused about her behavior | 10/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Neder. Ok. My problem involves a woman I met last summer. Here's some background info. I was 41 when ...
A: I'm sorry dude, I simply don't have the time to read this huge, long message! Remember: you only ...
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| Shy | 10/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I took the girl, I've been crushing on for almost 1 year, to "Where the Wild Things Are". We met at ...
A: Weird? Why? Frankly, it's a lot of fun! You might bring a frisbee or a board game with you to play, ...
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| Getting an ex back | 10/28/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: ok, I know their are lots of books out on the net claiming that you can get your ex back. Does any ...
A: Even a broken watch is right twice a day, and yes, many people DO get their ex's back - some from ...
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| Shy | 10/28/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I took the girl, I've been crushing on for almost 1 year, to "Where the Wild Things Are". We met at ...
A: This is why I tell people to avoid movies, concerts, comedy clubs, etc., on first, second and even ...
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| Awkwardness after making a move on a friend | 10/27/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: There's this girl I am interested in that I've hung out with for a few weeks. A couple days ago we ...
A: No, I don't think it went too fast but she's worried that you do. This is why she's acting distant ...
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| confused | 10/27/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: The problem is that he was living with this girl for 4 years and now she has pitched again claiming ...
A: Frankly, you only have two choices: either agree to live as the second woman or tell him to make a ...
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| Trouble etting over ex GF who dumped me | 10/27/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Sir - I have just been dumped (5 weeks ago) by what i thought was the love of my life. We met at ...
A: DO NOT send her a rose or a card or anything! You need to get entirely over this girl - not try to ...
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| fiance needs space | 10/27/2009 | Azure |
Q: My fiance (of 4 years) and I have been together almost 8 years and just moved in together one year ...
A: at this point, the relationship is over-- you don't want to be asking him for financial help; you've ...
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