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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Questions | 2/10/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Some questions. 1. Why do girls generally start their period (menstrual cycle - sign of puberty) at ... A: 1. Girls don't "generally" start their periods at 12 years old. That's an AVERAGE with just as many ... | ||
| Bad first date / mixed signals? | 2/6/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder! For starters, let me say, I bought one of your books awhile back and I loved it. It was a ... A: Congratulations on your success! I'm very proud of you. Information that doesn't help you change ... | ||
| casual relationship | 2/6/2012 | James |
| Q: I am having a casual thing with someone with whom i get on very well and thats precisely the ... A: I believe that if he truly does like and respect you that yes, he will understand your point of ... | ||
| casual relationship | 2/6/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: I am having a casual thing with someone with whom i get on very well and thats precisely the ... A: ultimatums sometimes yield ultimate answers to them, so I would be careful, would it be better to ... | ||
| Is there still hope? | 2/5/2012 | Chris Chandra |
| Q: My girlfriend broke up with me in September due to a matter of trust, we were together for nearly 7 ... A: Ahh yes, it's the typical girl coming back to guy because things aren't going well on her end ... | ||
| question | 2/4/2012 | Azure |
| Q: since you are a guy i am going to ask you. I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. ... A: only HE really knows what his feelings are--he could easily have a girl he sees on weekends, or he ... | ||
| question | 2/4/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: since you are a guy i am going to ask you. I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. ... A: sounds a little "Flighty"to me, he may not mean to be or he may have too many irons in the fire, ... | ||
| question | 2/4/2012 | Joe Burgett |
| Q: since you are a guy i am going to ask you. I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. ... A: If he's taking things slow, he's really not good at it. Sleeping with someone already is def not ... | ||
| My Friend | 2/4/2012 | Joe Burgett |
| Q: So there is this guy, I have known him since year two, and were both now in our second year of ... A: Well first, I'd check blood work out to see if you may of caught any possible STD or are pregnant. ... | ||
| Embarrassing parents! | 2/4/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: When I'm at home with my parents, they act nice and normal. However, when I take my parents to any ... A: While your parents don't seem racist, they certainly seem quick to label; but that's not a problem ... | ||
| Marriage & Dating 2012 | 2/4/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, How has marriage changed since the days you were a kid? How do you feel marriage in 2012 is ... A: Are you asking me to do a homework assignment for you or something?? In WHAT way has marriage ... | ||
| What should I do? | 2/3/2012 | Azure |
| Q: this is Jordan again, I'm sorry for the poor rating because you were right and I was just frustrated ... A: no need to put a time limit on it, because as the confident guy you want to be, you don't "wait" for ... | ||
| How to attract my girl | 2/3/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am from India and the below quoted incident is currently happening in India, so pls factor this. ... A: Hey! Well, it'd sure be over for me! I wouldn't put up with something so disrespectful and rude. ... | ||
| Is this a rebound | 2/2/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: My question is farely long but I will try to make it as brief as possible. I met a girl back in ... A: this indeed sounds like a rebound but more importantly the fact of cheating is of greater concern. ... | ||
| Getting an Ex-girlfriend back. | 2/2/2012 | Chris Chandra |
| Q: What is the best way to get my ex-girfriend back..? We've been going out for about 4 months, then we ... A: You question is too short and vague. It doesn't tell me anything about why you broke up, what the ... | ||
| update | 2/1/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: Nicolette again. I have an update for you and would like to know what you think. I hope I'm not ... A: and no you are not a bother, I am here to help if I can. I think that art can do wonders in lifting ... | ||
| Confused | 2/1/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a 28 year old woman who is a bit confused by a man's actions. I have a good head on my ... A: You're asking every expert here??? Do you have any idea how incredibly rude and inconsiderate that ... | ||
| Bully Boss | 2/1/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: How does one deal with a situation where a boss is nasty and mean? (Assuming you are a good, honest ... A: Generally, I'd agree that it'd be best just to leave. However, with today's job market, I'd be very ... | ||
| email address or cell phone number | 1/30/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I began communicating with a woman from an online dating site and after exchanging a couple of ... A: Didn't I already answer that question before? Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder ... | ||
| Could you help me out in my confusing relationship please? | 1/30/2012 | Joe Burgett |
| Q: I'm 17 and in a long distance relationship with a wonderful girl for a year and a half. She's going ... A: yes, the distance is a killer thing for you two. Not seeing someone for 2 years in person can really ... | ||
| not really sure what to do here? | 1/30/2012 | James |
| Q: ok so i met a girl about 2 weeks ago. well not met but a close friend of mine told her about me and ... A: Non-sense. You question is one of the short and sweet ones I prefer. I think I would ask her first. ... | ||
| How to attract the girl I like | 1/30/2012 | Joe Burgett |
| Q: I want to ask a basic question. Why is that women do not express their mind openly like men. If a ... A: Well all cultures are different. In some, the woman is the one in charge and approaches the man. ... | ||
| Keeping a relationship | 1/30/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Mu issue is somehow sophisticated, whenever i go into a relationship it starts that i love ... A: I actually hear stories like yours pretty often. I've found that it almost always comes down to ... | ||
| Keeping a relationship | 1/30/2012 | Behavior, Conflict and Relationships |
| Q: Mu issue is somehow sophisticated, whenever i go into a relationship it starts that i love ... A: I believe you are not seeing what you want to see from a girl, subconsciously, so your senses are ... | ||
| Keeping a relationship | 1/30/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: Mu issue is somehow sophisticated, whenever i go into a relationship it starts that i love ... A: the first thing I will say is, if you are prepared for a life of loneliness and solitude, by all ... | ||
| Women's sexuality, violence, and control | 1/29/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Why is it, that throughout the world, women's sexuality is always tried to be controlled? Women are ... A: This is a great question and I'm happy to explore it here. First of all, a little perspective is ... | ||
| email address or cell phone number | 1/29/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I began communicating with a woman from an online dating site and after exchanging a couple of ... A: Unfortunately, this is a ruse. It's time to move on and forget this girl. Here's why: First, digits ... | ||
| Kiss? | 1/29/2012 | James |
| Q: I'm 14 and I just got my first girlfriend. I was wondering how to tell if she wants me to kiss her? ... A: I wish I knew what to tell you. I am 31 and still don't know when is the best time. With age women ... | ||
| How to attract my girl | 1/29/2012 | Chris Chandra |
| Q: I want to ask a basic question. Why is that women do not express their mind openly like men. If a ... A: How's it going Ram? "Why is that women do not express their mind openly like men. If a man likes a ... | ||
| Spending time together.. | 1/27/2012 | Azure |
| Q: I am in my Late teens going onto my early twenty's. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 ... A: he's gotten WAY TOO comfortable with you, and no doubt is taking you for granted; INFORM him of what ... | ||
| Follow-up to follow up | 1/26/2012 | Behavior, Conflict and Relationships |
| Q: Update: Saw her last night. Had a bite to eat. She was very affectionate. We talked about how ... A: Good morning, Mark I find it fascinating that the women most attracted to you are those ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | Azure |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: meeting on dating sites is extremely popular nowadays, so i'm not sure why you're so uptight about ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | Joe Burgett |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: Well Jenna, online dating can actually be dangerous for girls. This is why I tell girls it's best to ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | Doris |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: Be careful with meeting guys online, most guys who are searching for girls online at the age of 22 ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: You shouldn't be embarrassed about online dating. It's one of the most difficult ways there are to ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | Robert Lee |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: you strike me as a a very reasonable person so I am sure you won't take this wrong, "you are way ... | ||
| Embarrassed about online dating? | 1/26/2012 | James |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and recently, I made an account on Okcupid because I'm bi and I was having ... A: Online dating is not at everyone's comfort level. I personally use Okcupid and pof.com. I do respect ... | ||
| Follow-up to follow up | 1/26/2012 | Behavior, Conflict and Relationships |
| Q: Update: Saw her last night. Had a bite to eat. She was very affectionate. We talked about how ... A: She has a strong attraction to you and it's even more emotional than physical. For her to be ... | ||
| Hungarian arranged marriage | 1/25/2012 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have a best friend who is 35 and never married. I am 34. She has had several long term loving ... A: Are you asking me for advice for your friend or for you? I don't do "pass-throughs" with friends ... | ||
| Hungarian arranged marriage | 1/25/2012 | Doris |
| Q: I have a best friend who is 35 and never married. I am 34. She has had several long term loving ... A: She is 35, she can make her own decisions. Being married to someone you dont love is far worse off ... | ||
General Dating Questions
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
Experience
I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
Education/Credentials
Doctor of Philosophy
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