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About Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com

Experience
I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 25,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.

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SubjectDate AskedExpert

building attraction continued11/20/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Hey dear Dr. how`re you? I`ve had 2 successful dates with this new girl.I did my best to share ...
  A: Don't try to be too formulaic with dating. Try to go after "every Friday night" or "twice every ...
Starting a new relationship11/20/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dennis W. Neder, This is Sai. I am 22 years old male Doing my engineering studies. I'd ...
  A: I agree that you missed those years. The good news is that it's never too late to start. I didn't ...
meeting older men11/20/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm 30, but for some reason I keep getting 19-21 year old boys hitting on me. I would like to meet ...
  A: What's your real question here: how to meet older guys or how to prevent younger guys from hitting ...
follow up11/20/2009Michael Talks Behavior, Culture and Relationships
  Q: --------------------------------------------- Hi, I liked this guy Jeff and he seemed really ...
  A: Sorry for the typos. I think I should start doing some proofreading, don't you? I've corrected ...
Too much too soon?11/20/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I've only known him for two weeks, and we've recently gone on a few dinner dates and one group ...
  A: You think the nice gesture of making him a pie is too much, too soon? Karolyn, we're coming into the ...
Online Dating11/19/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm on a highly reputable dating site. I was matched with an AMAZING guy who is about 800 miles ...
  A: You're asking the wrong questions here entirely. What you should be asking is "How can I even HAVE a ...
My ex11/17/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: When i was dating my now ex boyfriend and cheated on him with my now boyfriend. Is it ok to be ...
  A: It is neither good nor bad. The quality of the relationship is based on what you make of it. If your ...
Love on Wallstreet11/17/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm 23. Single. Never married. Live alone. Get paid well. Have a cat. Clean my kitchen regularly. ...
  A: I'm glad you're happy with the answers. I can only make 4 people happy a day and it just happened to ...
can we be together again?11/16/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
  A: Wow - you sure have a lot of pop-psychology behind your rationalizations here! You say you've grown ...
simple..11/16/2009Azure
  Q: I am 28 yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. Lately, I don't were the relationship ...
  A: it you're gonna worry about "tension", or "hurt feelings", nothing will change; people are ...
Starting Over11/16/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I have started dating again after a couple of devastating relationships. I don't want to elaborate. ...
  A: Here's the problem: you're leaving everything (including your own trust) in these guy's hands rather ...
Love on Wallstreet11/16/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm 23. Single. Never married. Live alone. Get paid well. Have a cat. Clean my kitchen regularly. ...
  A: Wait a minute - wait a minute. You have a cat???? ;) I had to laugh at your equating dating ...
building attraction11/15/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Hey dear Dr. how`re you? I`ve had 2 successful dates with this new girl.I did my best to share ...
  A: The first thing I'd recommend is this: healthy relationships are built on equal investments from ...
What is going on?11/15/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I met a man 4 mnths ago but just recently started seeing him again after I broke things off with him ...
  A: I hear what you're saying. The problem is that he already knows you're willing to break up when ...
getting an ex back11/15/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Neder I've asked for your advice a dozen of times and every single one helped me far more then you ...
  A: I'm happy I've helped you so far, but maybe it's time to get ALL the information you need in one ...
What is going on?11/15/2009Murphy Smith
  Q: I met a man 4 mnths ago but just recently started seeing him again after I broke things off with him ...
  A: Patricia: You were totally right to leave him before because you thought that he was using you for ...
What is going on?11/15/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I met a man 4 mnths ago but just recently started seeing him again after I broke things off with him ...
  A: Oh Patricia. Really? This is the type of relationship you want? You seem to think that it's all his ...
Declining a date11/14/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I get the sense that a friend of some friends of mine might ask me out. I only met him once, but I ...
  A: Denigrating someone's lifestyle choices isn't a very good idea. He smokes for whatever reason he ...
plan witht he ex girlfriend11/14/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: 1. what are the some of the easiest and best excuses to use when a ex girlfriend ask if you want to ...
  A: Hey Chris! Well now! Aren't you just full of questions today??? Simply saying "no" is a rejection; ...
love, caring, lust, jealous11/14/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: 1. what questions do i ask myself if i want to marry my girlfriend? (my friends always say ask ...
  A: 1. "What in the hell am I thinking?" is the first one to ask. Chris, why marriage? I'm not against ...
Why would she lead me on?11/14/2009Murphy Smith
  Q: My teachers assisstant? I have this TA in my history class at college that I am very attracted to. ...
  A: Jason: I do not know why she would lead you on but since she is married you need to leave her alone ...
feelings for ex girlfriend11/14/2009Azure
  Q: What should i do about my feelings for my ex girlfriend? we broke a couple of years now and we both ...
  A: the "difference" makes no difference; it's not surprising to consider past loves special, hold fond ...
Confused11/14/2009Azure
  Q: I met a guy online 8 months ago. We corresponded via email, then phone & skype several times a ...
  A: ok, here's the reality--the most this can ever be is a friendship--one of the many problems with ...
feelings for ex girlfriend11/13/2009Azure
  Q: What should i do about my feelings for my ex girlfriend? we broke a couple of years now and we both ...
  A: first, lower expectations to zero; next, resist all impulses to express heavy emotions-i'd suggest a ...
feelings for ex girlfriend11/13/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: What should i do about my feelings for my ex girlfriend? we broke a couple of years now and we both ...
  A: OF COURSE you still have feelings for your ex! That's something of a gift from Mother Nature! After ...
HELP!11/12/2009Murphy Smith
  Q: Hey Murphy Smith, College started up again, and I began talking to this guy for about 2 months. ...
  A: Tara: Thousands if not millions of guys would talk to a woman for months just for sex because to ...
Help!11/12/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I don't like any of my boyfriend's friends but I love my boyfriend, is that healthy or not? Also, ...
  A: When a woman tells me that her boyfriend doesn't tell her the truth or hides things from her, my ...
Help..11/12/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Alright so my gf and I have have been dating for a year and a half. We have no problems except for ...
  A: You like to give "...once and a while..."??? No wonder she doesn't want to have sex with you! ...
HELP!11/12/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Dr. Neder, College started up again, and I began talking to this guy for about 2 months. During this ...
  A: Ah yes. The old "Window of Opportunity" ("WOO"). Let me explain what happened: We all want to think ...
confused11/11/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: The problem is that he was living with this girl for 4 years and now she has pitched again claiming ...
  A: No, it's not wrong to feel that way, but it is wrong to try to punish him for not doing what you ...
Am I wasting my time?11/10/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Me and my bf have been together for 1 1/2 years and we are both 23. I am currently in grad school ...
  A: Let's be clear on what you mean here: when you say "...the effort a long-distance relationship ...
Is it really over?11/9/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Haven't talked to a guy I had been seeing in about 2 weeks. He's been avoiding my calls or responds ...
  A: Because he controls everything and he doesn't want things to be over. The reality of relationships ...
Chase versus Commitment11/9/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: I'm dating this wonderful girl, but we've been going through issues in regards to the "chase" ...
  A: Yes, I know exactly how you feel. Frankly, this is a dangerous, ridiculous game! If you get too ...
Need help recovering from a breakup11/9/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Neder, I would be very grateful if you can read my story and give me some advice. I'll try to keep ...
  A: You're making decisions about yourself for girls you haven't even met yet! These girls aren't going ...
Sex11/8/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: Me and my girlfriend have had sex a few times. Sometimes it feels like it is take take with her. She ...
  A: I'm assuming that you're male. Heterosexual relationships differ from homosexual ones in this case. ...
am i a jealous boyfriend?what can i do?11/8/2009Dr. Dennis W. Neder
  Q: everytime my girlfriend says a guy is hot or attractive, even a celeberty i start to ahte the person ...
  A: "Too jealous"? No, I don't think you're too jealous, but there's a balance here. There's a very big ...
question11/8/2009Michael Talks Behavior, Culture and Relationships
  Q: I liked this guy Jeff and he seemed really interested in me but he never asked me out. I'm the nice, ...
  A: Sounds like you made an impression on Jeff, one that has been lasting. From what his friends are ...
it's over11/7/2009Azure
  Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site for me. We went on ...
  A: i'd respectfully disagree with the psychologist; the bottom line is, the only thing left to happen ...
I can't decide...11/7/2009Azure
  Q: :) I've been dating the same guy for three months. We met at a party and it was like love at first ...
  A: i think at 19, and after seeing someone only 3 months, talk of marriage is foolish, and your family ...
What now?11/7/2009Azure
  Q: This is a rather involved question. Sorry about that. Im 27 years old and the girl I am referring ...
  A: there's only 2 choices, making a more defined physical move like kissing/making out, or discussing ...

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