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| women in general | 7/5/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm 22 and I've never had a girl friend. I've had sex but only a single one nighter. I'm tired ...
A: "Trying" to sell you something? No. I'm "trying" to help you. How did you know you weren't wasting ...
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| can you help make decision | 7/5/2009 | Natalia |
Q: I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't ...
A: This question was sent to me, though I am a woman and you mentioned you might want a male point of ...
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| women in general | 7/5/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm 22 and I've never had a girl friend. I've had sex but only a single one nighter. I'm tired ...
A: Welcome to the dating world! "Just be yourself"? How's that working out for you? Not very well I ...
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| Should my friend move in with his girlfriend to help get himself out of debt? | 7/4/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My friend has a large amount of debt. He owns his own house which he lives in. His plan is to sell ...
A: Thoughts? Tons. What's your question? Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ...
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| Should I be worried about my boyfriend's lifestyle? | 7/4/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been seeing a guy for the last few months who has a lot of things going for him - he's very ...
A: Romantic relationships don't exist on balance sheets. Business ones do. Let's say that you met some ...
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| In my first real relationship and I am confused. | 7/3/2009 | Anisa |
Q: My name is Jessica. I am 22 years old and I am in my first real relationship. I have know the guy ...
A: Congratulations on being in your first real relationship. It can be exciting, but also scary. In ...
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| Where are they? | 7/3/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am asking the infamous question most women my age ask. Where are the men? I live in a small town ...
A: I know that sometimes it feels like dying of thirst in a dry desert, but in fact, there are men out ...
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| shocked and confused | 7/3/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I really really like this guy at my school. The attraction seems mutual. Whenever he sees me, he ...
A: Haven't you asked me about this before - about 20 times? Is this really the kind of guy you want to ...
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| bring sex back into our relationship | 7/2/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: My girlfriend of 4 years hasn't had sex with me in 2 years.I know she loves me and has never cheated ...
A: Steve: Sex is an important part of many relationships and understandably you are concerned because ...
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| Uncertain | 7/2/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I met a man a week ago today. He is really sweet and kind, late 40s and a product of a marriage ...
A: I feel trepidation too; so no, I don't think your concern is "needless". There's a bunch of red ...
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| Dating Dilemma! | 7/1/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: I have these two female friends – A and B. We all worked together. I was just friends with A before ...
A: Patrick: If you truly like "B" better than "A" then call "B" and tell her how you feel about her ...
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| sexual intimacy during reconciliation period | 7/1/2009 | Michael Talks Behavior, Culture and Relationships |
Q: my girlfriend broke up with me about 7 and a half weeks ago. Recently we have been spending time ...
A: When a girl breaks up with a guy she puts up fences in her mind and heart and even if she's open to ...
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| getting back an ex | 6/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well I was in a long distance relationship over Yahoo and it ended 5 weeks ago. Basically I screwed ...
A: Being in a long-distance relationship means that you were in no relationship at all. The ...
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| To take the risk, or run | 6/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am 27 and have been a very independent woman my whole life. I have a great job, education, my ...
A: Oh my god - another victim of the "independent woman syndrome", ("IWS") eh? Hmmm...do you think ...
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| I need some advice from a pro. | 6/29/2009 | Anisa |
Q: So, I've known this girl for about 20-21 years (I'm 21). She dated my cousin back when I was 13 and ...
A: It makes sense that you are falling for her. You are spending a lot of time with her, and the time ...
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| Is there a difference whether a relationship is settling or whether someone's losing interest? | 6/29/2009 | Nafeesah |
Q: I know that a new relationship settles after a period of time and the sparks and thrill die down a ...
A: This is why it's important that you work at your relationship because the fact that many go into ...
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| I need some advice from a pro. | 6/29/2009 | Anisa |
Q: So, I've known this girl for about 20-21 years (I'm 21). She dated my cousin back when I was 13 and ...
A: This is a lot of information to take in. Thank you for being detailed in this story, however, I have ...
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| Worried | 6/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Neder, I have a dilemma. I am currently dating someone who is an ex-addict. He had been addicted ...
A: Wow, you really have some great people in your life! This "friend" emails you and stirs the pot as ...
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| REBOUND | 6/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I met a man who was really only looking for friendship because he told me he was in"transition" he ...
A: Everyone has the capacity to love someone else. As to whether he will do this, I can't possibly say. ...
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| Just not that into me? | 6/29/2009 | Murphy Smith |
Q: I met a really great guy recently. We met at a friend's party, he took my number & asked me out the ...
A: Marche: At first he was spending alot of time with you and texting you then all of a sudden it all ...
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| Does he still love me? | 6/29/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: We dated for about 3 years. This is how the break-up went: He got weird for about a week, I knew it ...
A: I'm afraid I can't tell you if he still loves you - or ever loved you. What I can tell you is that ...
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| REBOUND | 6/28/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I met a man who was really only looking for friendship because he told me he was in"transition" he ...
A: Your dad is right: actions, NOT words! This is a mistake so many people make. However, one key ...
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| How to get her | 6/27/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So here's the thing, there's this girl that I've known ever since I was about 14. I never really ...
A: First of all, there's ALWAYS "this other guy". Every girl you're going to meet is going to tell you ...
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| My ex girlfriend contacted me, what should I do? | 6/26/2009 | Azure |
Q: Question Hi, My girlfriend of 6 months dumped me just before Christmas. She said she needed ...
A: hopefully there's more to discuss than the weather...look, you can choose to not communicate if you ...
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| My ex girlfriend contacted me, what should I do? | 6/26/2009 | Azure |
Q: Question Hi, My girlfriend of 6 months dumped me just before Christmas. She said she needed ...
A: i suggest softening your approach, remove the pressure you're putting on her, stop requiring a ...
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| " He cant commit" What is wrong? | 6/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been seeing/ dating this guy (we'll call him J) for a year and a half on and off. I left my job ...
A: After a year and a half you're wondering if you should still wait? Come on here Brittney, do I ...
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| clashes | 6/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: What do you do when people pick stupid clashes with you like this? ...
A: Why would you want to work with the unbathed? Is this a farm you work on? Unfortunately, you DO ...
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| is she self serving | 6/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been dating a woman for just over a year and a half when ever she comes to my place i offer ...
A: Poor memory is when she doesn't remember HER birthday. Forgetting yours - the person she's supposed ...
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| Being too nice | 6/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have read about how being too nice is not good for a man in the relationship because it makes him ...
A: I totally hear you. In fact, we practice being nice our entire lives. It starts with our mom's ...
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| is she self serving | 6/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been dating a woman for just over a year and a half when ever she comes to my place i offer ...
A: What the hell Mike??? YES, YES, YES this woman is self-serving! In fact, she's one selfish, ...
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| couple of q's | 6/25/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: 1. is it a deal breaker if i just met a girl who i am attracted to and interested in, but DO NOT ...
A: 1. Since I don't know this girl, I can't say what's a deal breaker for her. If all you want is sex, ...
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| My ex girlfriend contacted me, what should I do? | 6/25/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My girlfriend of 6 months dumped me just before Christmas. She said she needed space and wasn't ...
A: Yeah - she needed space - to start seeing the other guy! What a gem she is! I'm very proud of you ...
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| confused | 6/25/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm a straight woman, I'm 30 years old. I'm crazy about men. I notice that when I see insanely hot, ...
A: Yes, human sexuality IS complicated! You must REALLY love going to the beach! ;) First, don't ...
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| clashes | 6/25/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: What do you do when people pick stupid clashes with you like this? ...
A: I change the channel. Let me ask you something: why are you asking? Are you looking for a lesson in ...
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| Too old to change? | 6/24/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dr. Neder, I am 35 years old and I've always been shy with girls, although despite that, somehow ...
A: You've got what I call "the stank". This is when you have a situation where you are actively looking ...
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| teenagers and emotions | 6/24/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Am 20 and am being shown some concern by a girl of 17 since i started visiting their home. My ...
A: She's trying to tell you she's interested in you. Do you feel the same way? If so, what are you ...
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| Understanding his realtionship with his ex/ | 6/24/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was married for 20+ years to a man who cheated on me several times.I believed him over and over ...
A: wake up call---your insecurities are enabling you to hang on to a dream; this guy has essentially ...
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| A little lost and lacking in experience | 6/23/2009 | Azure |
Q: I think my question is kind of complex or just plain long (sorry). I'm a 22 year old woman and I ...
A: no need to apologize to yourself for being using discretion; you're essentially dating, and need to ...
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| Girlfriend cant communicate and is not on same wavelength in the bedroom | 6/23/2009 | Azure |
Q: I (22) desperately need your help! I have been seeing someone for the past 14 months and have ...
A: never try to teach a pig to sing---it wastes your time and annoys the pig; in other words, she's not ...
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| I did it again!!!! | 6/23/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been dating an amazing girl for almost ten months. I screwed up a couple of times but we ...
A: So what - are you going to lie to her yet AGAIN? That's what'll be if you tell her it'll never ...
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