AboutDr. Dennis W. Neder Expertise I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between.
IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them!
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Experience I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 20,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
I met this handsome married guy, he has three kids. His wife and children live in another country for their job. He seems really lonely and in need of a friend. He has recently started a doctorate at my graduate school and has been talking to me quite often. So we exchanged numbers and he was really friendly.
He gets really excited when talking to people and he doesn't shut up LOL. He LOVES to talk on ...and on ...and on... and on... and on....
So he called me one night and asked if i knew the name of a good restaurant where he could order food.
The next day at school he was talking about movies and he was pressing his legs into me hard. Now we were kind of squished together in the seats so everyone was pressed up against each other and crammed in like sardines...but I mean he was a little more than the others.
yesterday he called me. and left a voicemail around 7 m or so saying "It's my son's birthday and instead of sitting home and sulking about missing him, I'm going to celebrate with some champainge. I need your recommendation for where I could go to drink champaigne and possibly we could meet up"
Ok Dennis...now I'm not sure...
is this married guy trying to get into my pants?
Or is he just really lonely and needs some friends?
Or possibly both?
In any case, is he trying to get me to fuck him? I can't tell.
thanks,
Isabella
Answer Hello Isabella!
Oh, I get it - you think I can read minds so that I know what he wants even though I've never met him or talked to him. Sorry Isabella, I never learned how to do that!
Pressing his legs into you hard and asking about a restaurant aren't specific "I want to bang you" signs, but I'll say this: it'd sure be hard to turn down sex with someone that is that close to him!
Here's the bottom line: if you want to fuck him, you won't have much trouble in doing so. His question about the restaurant and the campaign are his indirect way of asking you to join him. I'd suggest you offer to take him out to one of your favorite places and go from there.
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