AboutDr. Dennis W. Neder Expertise I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between.
IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them!
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Experience I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 20,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
A while back I wrote you about a man whom I really liked a lot, but he had a girlfriend back home long distance.
Now he is dating another (very hideously ugly) woman here. I guess he is in an open relatoinship with the girl back home.
Oh man! I missed my chance! and the ugly girl stole him from right under my nose. shit!
I see him still checking me out constantly...when i walk by he gazes at me very passionately...
so he is still attracted to me...
Hmmm. So now do you think I should forget it? or pursue this man or what. god im still so attracted to him. and hes still attracted to me. but she snagged him.
he is already juggling two women.
so should I stay away then?
Answer Hello Leslie!
No. You shouldn't have stayed away before (and should have followed my advice) and you shouldn't stay away now. It's not your job to be the world's moralist. You don't get to decide for anyone else whom they are going to date. If you think you're a better choice for him than this girl or even his girlfriend back home, then get to it already!
Stop sitting on the sidelines and get into the game. You're going to wind up watching guy after guy walk away with other girls while you just sit there with your thumb up your ass.
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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