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What should I do?I want to go out with her.
There's a girl that lives about 35 minutes away,and I like her.She's my cousin's wife's sister.She's 16 and I'm 15 1/2.I have her as a friend on facebook.
Hello Alex!
You contact her on facebook and start a little small talk like "what are you going to do with your weekend?" and "how's school?", etc. Keep it short.
Next, you say, "We should get together and do something fun sometime. Give me your number and I'll call you later."
When you call her, be specific on what you want to do. DO NOT say, "So, what do YOU want to do?" This is YOUR date and thus, it's your responsibility to set it up properly.
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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
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