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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 25,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.

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Doctor of Philosophy

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General Dating Questions - Should I expect him to call?

Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/3/2009

Question
Hello! Here is what happened. Last Saturday, I got hooked with this guy on a party. He is a long time friend with my cousins and brother. At the party we talked and flirted, and at the end we went together and, you guessed it, we had sex...to be honest, it wasn´t as great as I imagined, but it was good. He asked my cell and said he would call.
On Monday, I text him (I mean, he is no stranger!!) saying it was a very nice night, and if he would think we should get to know each other better.
I haven't heard from him anymore...
Sorry for the long story...but I want your opinion:
1. do you think he will call sometime?
2. Was it wrong to text him afterwards?
3. What should I do next time I ran into him at another party?

Thanks!!!

Answer
Hello Rosie!

1. Yes, I think he'll call. It's Thursday and he should have called you by now.
2. No, it wasn't wrong to contact him, although texting is always a bad idea early on in any relationship!
3. Be happy to see him! If he hasn't/doesn't call you again, it's he that will feel awkward and guilty!

Best regards...

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