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General Dating Questions - Not really sure whats up

Expert: Azure - 11/6/2009

Question
I'm 28 and the girl in question is 23.
  I met a girl, this weekend at the local Renessaince Festival. She was a working there and whenver I went to her booth she seemed quite interested. At this fair they have what are known as "Kiss Cards" which when passed out are required to get a kiss. I dared to give her one and she returned the favor by kissing me and passing it back to kiss me again. Then she told me to meet her later.

I met her later that day and I escorted her around. We had a pretty good time and wound up making out a good portion of the night. She also told me many things such as she came from an abusive household and at one point had to be a stripper to make money. I thought these a bit personal to hear on a first outing, but things like this happen to me all the time, as women say they feel they can trust me. She now currently works construction.
   As the night went on we had a great time, she seemed quite taken by me. We ended the night on a good note with no sex. This girl seems fairly strong of spirit and definately fiesty...
  I met her the next day and she was still quite interested, she continually offered to by me or my friends food or drink. She gave me a free ticket to come back to see her, even gave me gas money to come back. She told me that I had made her weekend incredible and made me promise to call her.
   I've called her twice now, once I left a message and received no call back. Once, she answered, told me she was driving and would call back and never did.

  I'm not going to call again. I'm just confused...as I don't understand how she could seem so enamored and interested in me and do and say all those things and then not call me back.

Answer
happens all the time, but usually to girls by guys; only SHE knows the answer u want--once apart from the moment, people have 2d thoughts, return to their personal lives--who knows, perhaps another guy is involved--in any case, you have a good momory...leave it at that without further thought...

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