About Natalia Expertise I can answer most questions on relationships, including those involving problems in relationships, sex questions, and emotional aspects of a relationship.
Experience I've been in several relationships, which have all been varied. I have consequently been through many situations and learnt from them. I have also seen, helped and learnt from my friend's relationships. My friends often ask for advice on practically anything, so try me, I'll almost certainly have something to say! Anything you want to ask or get advice on, I'll try my best to help with. But I also think it's important that I be honest. You need an answer that will help you, not solely to make you feel better.
Question I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he
was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same
sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now
he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll
never catch I'll be 33 years of age by the time catch him
and I don't feel I can.
I got rejected and I lost 2 years as well, as well as
grades. Now it's too late, he is away ahead of me and he's
the same as me. I feel intimated by him that was 4 years
ago.
He also has a new girlfriend and new car and he really
doesn't care at all. He lives in that he is also thick
skinned he didn't care about my feelings at all.
Now what do I do? I lost out grades by 4 1/2 years ahead and
still feel the affects of rejection because he hurt me. I
don't know if I can cope with it. Hes up himself as well.
He is a city guy and I am from the country life style I
suppose that makes no difference does it.
can some one help me. I feel that people like him will
always and forever have it good and I'll always get nothing
but pain.
should i go back to sport or not becasue he is away ahead of
me becasue i let him get the better of me.was that right to
do let him get better of me??????????????????????
any male option would be nice i really guy point of view on
this.
i feel so intimate by him becasue i was doing tkd becasue he
was rotten to me i still affects that why i left tkd for 2
1/2 and now i am to far behing he is away ahead of me he
same as me.
i don,y know what to do?go back or stay away.
1st dan 1 1/2 yaer
2nd dan 2 yaers
3 dan 3 yaers
and he is already on the 2nd year of the 3rd dan i am still
learning pattern 1 of the 1st dan because of him.
was i right to let this low life get the better of me or
not.
what do i,ll be 33 years old when i get 3rd dan.he was 29
years old last year and got the 3rd dan that is so unfair .
what do i do can you help me.
will guy that ever get come up ins or is that just saying.
i suffred becasue of him life improves for him and gets
worse for me
Answer Hi Jane,
This question was sent to me, though I am a woman and you mentioned you might want a male point of view?
Anyway Jane you will only get ahead in life if you stop comparing yourself to others, you're letting this guy define who you are, stop thinking about him and think about yourself! Forget him, he does not have it so good, people who treat others badly like he does, tend to get what's coming to them, normally they will have less friends or a poor reputation.
Ignore him and do what you want to do, so what if he is ahead of you, is this a competition between you and him or are you doing tkd for yourself? I hope it is not a competition for you otherwise your reasons are all wrong for doing it.
In life we win some and we lose some, not everyone we like will like us back, nor will everyone who likes us we will like back. We just have to learn to accept when someone doesn't feel the same and move on. It's not easy, but we do it for ourselves because we don't want these people to control our lives. TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. He's not the one stopping you getting ahead, your mind is. Don't worry that's pretty normal but you should still try and be strong and not let others control your life. Try to stop thinking about him altogether, block your thoughts on him, too much time has passed now, like you said you are wasting time... but you don't need to be.
I hope I have helped and feel free to follow up if you need any more advice.
yours
Natalia
