AboutDr. Dennis W. Neder Expertise I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between.
IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them!
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Experience I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 25,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
I really really like this guy at my school. The attraction seems mutual. Whenever he sees me, he gives me this huge smile and stares into my eyes longingly. I always see him looking over at me in class. He seems really sweet and shy. He seems to want a girlfriend.
So I googled him yesterday and found out that he has an online sex blog. And i know it's him because it has his name and picture on it. Oh my god!
So I read through the blog. It talked about how he went to bars late at night and picked up all the fattest, ugliest girls he could find and brought them home and fucked them for 15 minutes, then grabbed them by the hair and shoved them out on the street in the freezing cold.
He talked about these women in VERY derogatory terms, calling them pig face, pig girl, fat bitch, dumb fat ugly whore, etc. and him and his friends were laughing about them afterwards.
I was shocked that someone so sweet and charming and seemingly shy could have a page, so openly blasted on the internet with his name and photo like this.
Should I question him about this? Talk to him about this?
One possiblity is that he has grown out of this stage and now wants an actual dating relationship.
Or just run as fast as I can and find another guy, he's not worth the hassle?
Answer Hello Tina!
Haven't you asked me about this before - about 20 times?
Is this really the kind of guy you want to be around? Do I even need to bring this to your attention - again?
Best regards...
Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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