AboutMurphy Smith Expertise I can answer any general relationship / dating questions.
Experience I used to work as a counselor in a hospital part time for 15 years (16-32 hours a week) and my job was listening to patients who had relationship problems and giving them advice to help them cope with depression, suicidal behavior and thoughts, loss of a relationship or marriage, sexual issues and diseases, unwanted pregnancy, infidelity, abusive relationships, interracial relationships, prostitution, rape, drug addiction, alcohol addiction and abuse etc. I am very inquisitive and ask alot questions on various subjects, which has made me quite knowledgeable in general. I also have read many books on relationships and dating and if I do not know the answer to a question I will research it until I find the correct answer opposed to just pretending that I know about something that I do not. I have also had alot of friends, co-workers and even strangers tell me their problems and expect a sincere and candid answer because I am told that I appear to be a person that can be trusted and I am.
Education/Credentials High school with some college. I have worked for the government for 10 yrs and as part of my job duties I am expected and required to counsel and advice hundreds of employees.
Past/Present Clients I have counseled and advised hundreds of people in the past 25 years on numerous subjects.
At first I was his like the little sister he never had..and then I figured out that he's head over heals for me through some of our friends. But we still stayed friends, really good friends. And he said "we'll see where it'll take us" or something like that
And then..he mentioned how he cant define our relationship...there arent words for it..whether im a lil sister to him..or we're friends..or whatever. Thats its just that special
What is he trying to tell me? In terms of liking?
That he doesnt like me back and is trying to put it politely?
Or that he DOES feel something..but doesnt know what to do.....??????
Answer Danielle:
From what you told me it sounds like he is trying to politely say that he does not feel like you are more than a special friend or sister to him however to make sure why not just ask him specifically what you are to him and does he feel like it is more than as a sister or special friend because you really need to know? Also perhaps tell him how you feel about him.
