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General Dating Questions/Is 6 months too long to get in touch with an ex-girlfriend?


I'm almost an adult and I'm going to see my girlfriend in 6 months time (i can't before, because it'll be too bothersome for her if i see her. It might come off as stalkerish/desperate too if i see her too soon).

After that time, will she ever give me a chance to ask her out on a date, so i can have a chance of winning her back? Or will it be so long that she'll think there's no point, and she'll want to move on?

Which one? Thanks


Hi Yuuichi,

I can't say whether you will or will not win her back and I can't tell you whether or not to take that chance. It's important to know that time isn't a factor in winning someone back (although she will want to know why you didn't contact her sooner and why it took six months), it depends on how you do it. It's important to let the other person know how you feel and why you want them back (why do you feel you want her back in your life?).

If you don't try, you won't know.

All the best.


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