General Dating Questions/unwanted guest


Hello, this is more of a friendship question. I have a really good female friend whom I have known for a couple years and trust.  I own a home and I have her the code to my garage door.  There is a door inside my garage that leads to the inside of my house.

Anyway, I have noticed that a few things such as papers, books etc have been out of place (just slightly) and it seems that my computer has been used because when I come home from work some of the info that I had up on the screen is gone. I have also noticed that a couple of my t-shirts that I have laid out are missing as well.  

I am thinking that she has been entering my home when I am away at work.   Also, I have spoken to a neighbor of mine and she said that she has seen a female using the garage door code and going inside when I am at work.  I have shut all my doors upstairs to see if when I come home they are opened and they are all still closed when I get home.

What do you think and what would you do?  Thank you for your input!  Mike

Hello Michael!

Change the code on the garage door! It's not difficult to do and will solve this problem.

Just like the old saying, "Great walls make great neighbors"; great door locks make great friends.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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