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My best friend of almost 23 yrs was recently sentenced to prison for 2yrs. Him and his girlfriend have been together for 3yrs. Me and her have developed a strong relationship and see each other everyday
Our feelings for each other have gotten very strong and we are now dating. Is this wrong for me to do?

Hello, Scott. That's a tough question. I am sure he won't happy to find out about this. He will feel both angry and betrayed by her as well as by you. I can't imagine how you will still remain friends with him after he comes out... but if you both like each other and this experience of having your friend and her boyfriend sentenced has bonded you, I can see where you are coming from. I don't think anyone can tell you whether what you are doing is right or wrong; only you know. Just make sure that you see each other for the right reasons and not just due to being lonely and/or upset about his incarceration.



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