General Dating Questions/uncertainty


hi Becky
i met a real great guy who is what i want in a man. when we were friends he told me he was always walking out of relationships even if they were good ones, but he was tired of doing that and will like to marry now. we were friends for three months and after we started dating- but he said he only wanted to try it for six months. what happens after the six months, i dnt know.
it is three months into the relationship now but i dont think he is into me. he calls on average once a week but he texts alot. he once refused to pick my call because he claimed he was around his family. he cancelled our weekend date yesterday with an excuse he had series of meetings to attend over the weekend and he did not call me when i texted him to call me last night while he was only watching a movie.
i am uncertain about this guy. i am thinking of ending it but at the same time curious to see if he will walk out of the relationship as he says he always does. i need your opinion Becky.


while I appreciate your rebellious  personality, always take the simple way and do not walk into a pile of fire, even if that means you aren't as courageous. Do not put yourself in situations where you will find yourself hurt. He has presented himself several times in your relationship; he has cancelled on your plans, ignored your calls without calling you back and decides to only text you rather than call. Does not show me any good signs of a potential husband or yet, a man to say the least.

Run for the hills,


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