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me and my ex broke up yesterday, he said he was going to have to keep hanging out with the guys more and more, and he was in the army so he said that it wasn't fair to me to have to go through all the times he would have to be away and it was to stressful for him to be thinking about me when hes gone. he told me everything he told me was true and he still had strong feelings for me but he felt like it was the best thing to do, what made me upset was he couldn't tell me face to face I saw him the previous night prior to breaking up and the last thing he said to me before he left my house was " I love you, i'll see you tomorrow" and it took me intitating us breaking up for him to finally get to the point to tell me he felt we were growing apart and we had different work schedules so he didn't know how to make it work. so a couple hours after he remade his dating profile, and this morning I found that he actually viewed my profile. why would he do that? I was really close with his family to even though I never met them but right away all of them deleted me at the same time on facebook they really liked me.

Cleopatra Isis E. Integrated Master Life Coach
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Hello Samantha, hope all is well with you. Break up's really stink, and the ones that happen this way are confusing.  Its the questions of "How could he send mix signals?",And "Your asking yourself why would he do this?" Honestly, it sounds like this guy has checked out of the relationship for sometime, but was too afraid to say so. He took the cowards way out, and did it over message because he could not face you. I just feel he's not ready for a serious relationship. He is leading from a place of selfishness, and does not want responsibility. As for him being online I feel like its merely casual, and to get an ego boost, not for a new girlfriend. My advice is move forward, and give yourself a little time to heal.

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