General Dating Questions/Boys


So I used to have a big crush in this guy that went to my middle school ad he knew about it but didn't like me back and didn't like to talk to me and basically avoided me the last year of middle school. But now tht we go to different schools he followed me on social media an texts me and wants to hang out and stuff. We had a class reunion thing and we talked some.

What's going on??  What did I do to make him so interested??

Hello Kelly!

Oh, I get it. You think I can see into the past. Hmmm...ok then, let me check my crystal ball...

Kelly, really? I have absolutely no idea what "you did". Maybe it wasn't you at all. Maybe he just grew up a little bit.

What does any of that matter? GO TALK TO HIM ALREADY!!!!

Best regards...

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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: You can email me directly at:


I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.

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