General Dating Questions/Boy


I like this guy and recently he did a charity run and ran 5 miles and i was there but we didn't talk, would he like it/would it be nice if I said like "Hey by the way nice job at the charity run congrats on running 5 miles!"

I want to flirt and also be nice so does that sound good? ^ or should I tell him like "I didn't get a chance to talk to you but good job.... Etc"

Thanks so much!!!

Hello Cosh!

Absolutely he would like it and absolutely you should do that! Giving a sincere compliment is the best way to break the ice with someone. Obviously, don't gush all over him, but be sincere, sweet and make eye contact with him.

Then, once you deliver the compliment, take it one more step: just ask him what he likes most about running and how long he's been doing it, if he's ever going to run a full marathon, etc.

The point here is to give you both something to talk about. It's safe and proven effective!

Best regards...

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