General Dating Questions/Getting back together

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Hello James,
I am a female in my late 20s. Almost two weeks ago I told the guy I'd been seeing that if he didn't feel inspired to see me at least once or twice a week it would be best for me to bow out.

I was expecting to hear, "No problem," and it caught me completely off guard when he said, "No." To the best of my knowledge we were both having a great time.

From the time we met I've had a deep sense of certainty that he and I were supposed to be together. It makes me cringe when people say this; I thought he was "the one." I have given him space and I accept that we may never be together and I told him so. I have texted him four times in the past 12 days. Nonetheless, I want to do everything in my power for us to be together - in a sane and respectful way, of course.

He has told me three times that he is going to call me and hasn't followed through. I don't see signs of him wanting to get back together,  though we have both been totally amicable and respectful towards each other since the split.

What do you think?

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Well it doesn't sound like he respects you enough to call when he says he will and it seems you two have different demands as far as personal space. If he can so easily say goodbye to you without trying to find middle ground than I personally wouldn't give him too much more thought.

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First and foremost if you read ahead you'll find I have a word limit on questions I'll read. This site is for short simple questions and it should not be for writing essays. Please also note I am unfamilar with most cultures outside of United Stated, UK, and France. Please respect my rules. I don't like rejecting questions. I will be the first to admit that I don't know everything about dating, women/men, and interpersonal connections. However I have learned quite a bit vicariously from other people's experiences. Think of my advice as a second opinion. I would be happy to answer all questions related to relationships, dating, self-confidence, and self-image that I can. I have struggled with all of those things and probably know better than most how to deal with all of them.

I hope more than anything that my advice and opinions will help give people perspective in their lives, and hopefully make them feel better about themselves and their situations. I will attempt answering questions for anyone of any age group or nationality. However it would be particularly useful to know the age of all people involved. It does make a difference towards the advice I give. Also not terribly familar with arranged marriages and situations in which the family can dictate the details of the relationship.

My Rules:
1). I can't answer questions that ask if a girl or guy likes the other (very difficult to know remotely)
2). No questions that are More Than 250 Words. I understand that problems can be complex, but there is a real limit to how much I can read and fully understand. Particularly if English isn't the questioner's native language.
3). Only questions from Americans, Canadians, British, and cute French women.
4). No questions that ask the meaning behind if a person sets their FB status to single, coupled, or private or if they still have a dating profile undeleted somewhere. If you're cyber snooping you're likely the issue.

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I don't really have any specific experience in this area other than learning from other people's mistakes and a few of my own, and whatever I've learned as a psychology major.

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B.S. Psychology

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