General Dating Questions/Dating Two Women?

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Hello Cleopatra, how’re you doing? Frankly, my initial impression of you after seeing your profile picture was "She must a very kind woman”. I am sure you will help me out. Turning to my question:
First off, I am new in the US (a graduate student) and not very familiar with dating norms in the US .On the campus, I met one girl; she gave me her face book thing; I added her as a friend and sent her a message: I gave her my phone number and asked her to call me to meet); she sent me a reply that she will get back to me for the place and the time. I REALLY FOUND THIS GIRL VERY ATTRACTIVE. However, there is another girl that I have her number, but I don't find her as attractive as the first girl.
SHOULD I CALL THE SECOND GIRL, ASK HER OUT AND DATE HER? (Of course, the first girl might find out about this; the city is very small).

I AM CONFUSED:ON ONE HAND,I DON'T KNOW WHETHER THE FIRST GIRL IS REALLY INTERESTED OR NOT;ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE FIRST GIRL IS INTERSTED AND FINDS OUT THAT I AM DATING ANOTHER GIRL ,SHE MIGHT LOSE INTEREST AND I DON'T WANT TO LOSE THE FIRST GIRL ;SHE IS A VERY SPECIAL GIRL FOR ME.

Thanks a lot

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Cleopatra in Vegas
Cleopatra in Vegas  
Hello Sia, hope you're having a great Saturday so far. Thank you-glad you found my profile helpful :-). Even though, you aren't as attracted to the first girl, you have to ask yourself and  why, is sh very special to you? Is it because of friendship? It is important to be attracted to the person you are seeing. Otherwise, you will always find yourself looking elsewhere. I would say keep the first girl as your friend, and see where it goes with the second girl. That way, nobody gets hurt-hope this helps you Sia.

 - Cleopatra Jade

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I can answer any question! As a Integrated Master Life coach I help clients overcome personal challenges with my expert advice (Dating, family, self-management, Personal development, stuck emotions, stress, relationships of all kinds, romantic, family or friendships.

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Cleopatra Jade is the name traveling and enjoying life to the fullest is my game. -From NY, now living in the fabulous Las Vegas! -Photo blogging, pictures of life and scenery are my thing, so I suppose I don't need to get a hobby! -Intuitive Counselor since 2005- Certified Master Life Coach in 2013, specializing in relationship advice. -Uber & UberEats Brand Influencer/Ambassador, getting the word out about how much of an amazing company Uber is for their outstanding ride services and UberEats food delivery. I'm a candid chick with a zany/ sarcastic sense of humor, who enjoys making people laugh and having a great time- because it's what's needed in this crazy world. In other words, I am all about humor and honesty. I appreciate genuine and people who pull no punches because it lets everyone know where they stand in your life and vice versa. It's how I approach life, business, and the way I work with my clients. I believe that you can be a professional but still be yourself and let your hair down; there's no need to be a stiff shirt, just to give the immpression of being a business person- be authentic. My quote since college: "Why is there a pill for everything else and not the "self's" you know self-awareness, self-righteous, the self-absorb and self-diluted?! Think about it; this would cure most pain in the asses." -Cleopatra

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