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Hello. I have a question on how I can keep this relationship on-track. So I've been seeing this girl for a few months. She's 27 and I'm 34. Next week she goes back to school two days a week on top of her part time job. Currently, we see each other 3-4 times a week and she stays over at my place about 2-3 times a week. We enjoy our time together, but, both of us are worried that after she starts school next week, we will rarely see each other. She says she will put in the effort to see each other no matter how busy she gets. But I have my reservations. I know she will be busy, and I know she has her priorities to deal with and I want her to focus on school. What will it take to keep us on-track? Can a relationship survive not seeing each other often?

Thanks for reading, Jared C.

Hi, Jared. Good question. If you really like each other and enjoy each other's company, I wouldn't worry too much. And not spending enough time together is better than spending too much time together and getting sick of each other.   
Many people go to school and work and manage to do all the other things they like at the same time, including having a relationship. It's not easy, but... that's life.
I would just let the time show if this works out and not worry about it too much now.



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